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By *aeBabe OP Woman
over a year ago
London |
You know what's terrible?
Is not having sex for a long time and saving that energy for a party, then getting to that party and when you finally do click with someone (in my case, 3 hot guys), but then the party ends before you can play and you're left with all that fustration.
Will a wank cut it??  |
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By *aeBabe OP Woman
over a year ago
London |
"The lesson here is don't wait for 3 guys find 1 and enjoy!!"
I had sex with one guy and a girl separately tonight, but I'm like a durecell bunny.
Got rejected a lot tonight too, which was unpleasant |
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By *aeBabe OP Woman
over a year ago
London |
"Good to know atleast you had some fun tonight. Which guys in their right mind would reject you? Surely they must be out of their minds!"
Most of the guys who wanted the supermodel looking girls basically (which there were a lot of). Someone actually tried to give me their ticket to the cloakroom because they thought I worked there.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is a great wrong indeed ! A beautiful lady like you should never be denied pleasure! By no man! If I was there I would have come running to you like your knight in shining armour and made you feel like a beautiful desirable princess! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think i need to move to these places because where i am the girls have thier pick of many and guys a little larger like myself have to work very hard to even get a hello and even then it feels forced i dont get it and probably never will |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sat in my van now i feel the same way as karma i would drive to london just for the satisfaction of putting a smile back on a pretty girls face by giving her all she desires  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mae, this is the second party that you've been to that's resulted in you getting knock backs all night and you taking to the forums. Maybe these parties aren't good for your self esteem? Maybe you should look elsewhere |
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"The lesson here is don't wait for 3 guys find 1 and enjoy!!
I had sex with one guy and a girl separately tonight, but I'm like a durecell bunny.
Got rejected a lot tonight too, which was unpleasant "
You got rejected? Cant see why unless your good at photoshopping |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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so you had some fun - pissed off at being rejected but connected with 3 hot guys - keep in touch with them and meet up - doesnt mean cos you didnt play at the party that you cant have fun in the future - you come accross very negative |
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By *aeBabe OP Woman
over a year ago
London |
"The lesson here is don't wait for 3 guys find 1 and enjoy!!
I had sex with one guy and a girl separately tonight, but I'm like a durecell bunny.
Got rejected a lot tonight too, which was unpleasant
You got rejected? Cant see why unless your good at photoshopping"
I do alright for one on one meets where I usually meet for a social 1st.
But I think last night I wasn't anyone's cup of tea as they had the bar fully stocked if that makes sense. 
Just the guys had better choices, the girls were all so hot... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is this not all relative....if your in a room full of supermodels (males,females, couples) then anyone not quite in their league would feel exactly the same |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mae, this is the second party that you've been to that's resulted in you getting knock backs all night and you taking to the forums. Maybe these parties aren't good for your self esteem? Maybe you should look elsewhere "
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By *aeBabe OP Woman
over a year ago
London |
"so you had some fun - pissed off at being rejected but connected with 3 hot guys - keep in touch with them and meet up - doesnt mean cos you didnt play at the party that you cant have fun in the future - you come accross very negative "
Sorry that I seem that way...
It's just this sexual fustration.
I had arranged for drinks before the party and that was really good, about 20 people came to that and I talked to a lot of people at the party, I do enjoy the socialising, but it's this pent up energy as I've been so busy with work and my studies, that I thought last night would have been a great night to let my hair down x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is this not all relative....if your in a room full of supermodels (males,females, couples) then anyone not quite in their league would feel exactly the same "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We swing to have fun , and it inevitably also helps us to feel good too .
This party clearly wasn't the case for you Mae , so hopefully a lesson learned ?
Were you aware beforehand of the type of people attending ?
We all have our place in this lifestyle , and we have turned down invites to kk parties as we feel out of our depth in that environment .
I hope this hasn't left you feeling too low , you're way too good to allow that to happen .
Onward and upward
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By *aeBabe OP Woman
over a year ago
London |
"We swing to have fun , and it inevitably also helps us to feel good too .
This party clearly wasn't the case for you Mae , so hopefully a lesson learned ?
Were you aware beforehand of the type of people attending ?
We all have our place in this lifestyle , and we have turned down invites to kk parties as we feel out of our depth in that environment .
I hope this hasn't left you feeling too low , you're way too good to allow that to happen .
Onward and upward
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Thank you x
I had actually enjoyed myself at the last party they had, even having a mini gangbang. Just last night the party ended as I was just about to see to 3 fellas. I'm sure everyone has had that same sort of feeling of " omg this is going to be awesome... wait, what? Party's over?" |
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By *ty31Man
over a year ago
NW London |
Don't get down about it. You obviously enjoy attending these parties for the social side so look on the positives, you had a good time, met some cool people and you did get positive attention from at least five people.
Even as a single lady you can't expect to play with whomever you so choose all the time. Most ppl have a type or preference and nobody is going to match everybody else's all the time.
Please don't compare Yourself to others as you're pretty fantastic as you already are.
You're obviously a very attractive and outgoing young lady who everyone loves to have at an event. Accept that you had a fun night and that sometimes things don't always work out totally to plan, you just have to go with it and make the most of things.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mae, this is the second party that you've been to that's resulted in you getting knock backs all night and you taking to the forums. Maybe these parties aren't good for your self esteem? Maybe you should look elsewhere "
I hate to say but i agree with this. I'd love to know what parties you are going to as they sound truly awful. I've never been to one where people are so judgemental about looks. |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
Cambridge |
Im going to say it happens to everyone Mae. Hopefully you have a way of connecting with these three guys in the future, maybe you can organise a little 4some with them 
Everyone gets rejected, everyone, no exceptions. One person’s “their so hot I’ll cut my arm off to play with them” is another person’s “thanks, but no thanks”. It can be frustrating as hell, but thats just the way it is. |
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"The lesson here is don't wait for 3 guys find 1 and enjoy!!
I had sex with one guy and a girl separately tonight, but I'm like a durecell bunny.
Got rejected a lot tonight too, which was unpleasant "
I really can't understand you being rejected _aebabe 
What are these people thinking x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The lesson here is don't wait for 3 guys find 1 and enjoy!!
I had sex with one guy and a girl separately tonight, but I'm like a durecell bunny.
Got rejected a lot tonight too, which was unpleasant "
You got rejected ! Holy shite . Im giving up . I have no chance lol |
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Hi Mae
Hard to believe anybody would or could reject you.
You are indeed stunning with a perfect figure,a pretty face and an amazing outlook.
Your too good for me,but if you ever fancy a Cuck it would be an honour and a pleasure if you were to play with my mind, play with one or three guys and to make me feel my own manhood literally aching for your attention.
Would love you to make me feel jealous and frustrated.
Wishing you better luck next time |
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By *aeBabe OP Woman
over a year ago
London |
"Im going to say it happens to everyone Mae. Hopefully you have a way of connecting with these three guys in the future, maybe you can organise a little 4some with them
Everyone gets rejected, everyone, no exceptions. One person’s “their so hot I’ll cut my arm off to play with them” is another person’s “thanks, but no thanks”. It can be frustrating as hell, but thats just the way it is."
That's true and I understand that. Think my fustration is mostly due to the fact I was excited to play with 3 hotties and then the party ending before we get to have fun. Just wished we had an hour more 
Always next time. And yes, I have a way of contacting them, thankfully  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mae , your a good looking women don't sell your self cheaply , your pics look good and you look every bit better than any 'super model' or wall flowers
Take care Tom"
Nice to meet you Sir Tom  |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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Sounds like the party ended a bit early to me. I don't usually start playing before midnight as I want to chat and socialise beforehand.
PS You're not the only one who strikes out at parties. About 90% of the single blokes there will have done so too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mae, this is the second party that you've been to that's resulted in you getting knock backs all night and you taking to the forums. Maybe these parties aren't good for your self esteem? Maybe you should look elsewhere
I hate to say but i agree with this. I'd love to know what parties you are going to as they sound truly awful. I've never been to one where people are so judgemental about looks."
Why do you hate to say that you agree?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Mae, this is the second party that you've been to that's resulted in you getting knock backs all night and you taking to the forums. Maybe these parties aren't good for your self esteem? Maybe you should look elsewhere
I hate to say but i agree with this. I'd love to know what parties you are going to as they sound truly awful. I've never been to one where people are so judgemental about looks.
Why do you hate to say that you agree? "
Because I'm often accused of being bitchy if i dare to say something somebody may not want to hear |
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