Yea, I've recognized people and there are people on here that know me in "real life" there's never been an issue, we are all on here so why would there be lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've found people that I know on here, but

I've always found that it's none of my business

to be calling people out on their lifestyle

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Has your secret ever been exposed by sending a face pic or meeting someone and realising you know each other, or are friends?"

Happens all the time... The worst is when I'm public with my wife and kids. These swinging people always give me dirty looks..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We got recognized once, but he sucked my bfs cock so he won't be telling anyone x

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By *ecretBadgerMan over a year ago

Redruth

Bumped into a ladie i say hello to and chat with at a naturist beach. She was turning up late to a party that i was leaving. I was like a deer in headlights but worked out well as git invited over the next time we spoke.

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By *iguy39Man over a year ago

manchester

Yes, has happened to me. Very awkward!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I find it a turn ion if someone did where I live x

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By *isa 59Woman over a year ago

Newcastle

Not that I'm aware of but I did recognise a work colleague who sent me a face pic with his first message. I said thanks but no thanks, blocked him and left it at that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not that I know of, but I've reconised a fair few, have just blocked.

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By *retty womanWoman over a year ago

Near Bournemouth

Not yet, but the hubby and I have seen a few couples that we know are on here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

its happened to me a couple of times, but at the end of the day if they have seen me on here then i have seen them too.

this is a lifestyle choice and its only a problem if someone is being deceived.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes I have there's 2 wife's that use my pub with there husbands , and there on her as cheating wife's and it worked in my favour as I have played with both now

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman over a year ago

Lyndhurst

yes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Before I had my face pics public I had an ongoing chat which lasted several days, some of which was very naughty and included swapping naughty pics till the day came to swap face pics and it was a family member

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By *ecretBadgerMan over a year ago

Redruth

"Before I had my face pics public I had an ongoing chat which lasted several days, some of which was very naughty and included swapping naughty pics till the day came to swap face pics and it was a family member

Hah oh dear, how awkward!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I messaged this female yesterday but never got a reply back. Done a bit shopping and she was in the same shop she saw me and she didn't know where to put her face. The look was priceless lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Two different times at a club....one was fine , but the second one I wish I had not !

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By *uncan LynnCouple over a year ago

Kilmarnock

Twice , once at a club , my married boss with somebody else , we played . Other was through fab , my husband chatting and arranging with the wife , met them in. Nice quiet bar , it was our sons rugby coach , bit of a laugh to cover embarrassment.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hah oh dear, how awkward! "
very!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A guy sent me a message with face pics and we knew him, quite well! I even know his girlfriend... Not a couples account :/ I wouldn't mention anything but I did have to block him!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

could,nt care less

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By *anillanomoreCouple over a year ago

Chichester

I recognised someone from work. He is the spitting image of sloth from The Goonies. Blocked!

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By *teve409Man over a year ago

sheffield

I recognised a lady on here who lived just down the road. We have been meeting up ever since.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS over a year ago

Horsham

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By *ust RachelTV/TS over a year ago

Horsham

I don't mind being recognised, as it is quite hard to do.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

not that i know of

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've recognised 3 people but don't think anyone had recognised me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I had someone message me recently as they recognised my check shirt

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I recognised someone from work. He is the spitting image of sloth from The Goonies. Blocked!"
hahahaha hey you guys ????

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By *issnwtyWoman over a year ago

manchester

Yes I was shocked when my bfs mate messaged me on Facebook 2 say he had seen my profile!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've had a few local meets and bump into them quite regularly, we'll chat and pass the time of day and everything is normal but I've also had unwanted local attention which led me to block everyone (except for those I've met) in my area... plus a few more.

And do you know what? It's cut the junk mail right down, I wish I'd realised ages ago!

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By *anky_PankyWoman over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

I get spotted in clubs (put the pink is something of a giveaway!) I generally have no idea who they are unless they are a regular forumite

I was spotted by the guy who lives a couple doors down from me - panicked at the time, but he has since been used and abused on occasion!

I've also had messages on here saying people have seen me in x,y&z, and sometimes its me and sometimes its a lookalike wish-it-were-Hanky! lmao

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By *rettyLittleThingWoman over a year ago

Swansea

Nope not been recognised but I've seen one or two people I know

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Once had a very hot and steamy club session with a single woman off here. It was a crazy night that will live long in the memory. However, the look on her face when I bumped into her a few days later in tesco was a picture. She'd forgot to tell me about her husband. We just excnahed glances I gave her a wink and we went our separate ways.

She left a few months later n we never did have another meeting!

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By *xxxMan over a year ago

Bedford & Chester

As you wish

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By *inkySlinkyCouple over a year ago

Leeds

I once went to a house for a couple's meet. Suprised to see she was a mum from my kids school who I know well. I played with her. When I see her on the school run now we just say hello.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes on here and a few other sites .

Seen people we know, friends associates from the past including a past friend who has us both on FB.

Not one have actually said hi guys we know you fancy getting together even one couple who we know watched us in the directing room and chatted to us at a local barbecue.

We respect people want to keep separate and it's possibly their guilty secret pleasure but we do find it a massive turn on .

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By *lirty_dirtyCouple over a year ago

Lingfield

Years ago, as a bi single guy on another site i was recognised at a party by the male half of a couple. I was so embarressed as was in a position at work that it really wouldn't be good if it got out and he seemed the type of twat that would love juicey gossip like that.

He got fairly pissed through the night so i took my chance, followed him into the loos and sucked him off... he kept quiet after that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We've a few friends use fab, it's all cool though

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A couple on another site said they recognised me but they didn't know where from. It was a bit freaky, they wanted a female for a third person in their marriage, to take on day trips with them and sleep in their bed. I said no thanks but they kept pursuing it,and the man said he was going to say hi to me if he saw me anywhere. X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We would really like for someone to message us from fab that actually knows us, we find it a huge turn on. Depending on who it was we would most probably be up for playing as well

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We do wonder if anyone has ever recognised us.

Hopefully not

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple over a year ago

Halifax

I once bumped into someone at the train station totally randomly,totally indiscrete and wanted a snog .He never got any further

miss.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes it's funny you don't no what to expect but smile we are. Here for the same thing ????????

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

True massive turn on

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By *UFC9Man over a year ago

Whitley Bay & Tamworth

Not as yet but I would think it is only a matter of time!

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By *uxom redCouple over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Yes but I can't say who or what they do as it wouldn't be fair on them

Dicks been recognised at work and ppl have asked him about club visits.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I always sign a autograph

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yeah found my ex here... That was fun haha still mates, even gave me a good verification lol

And found a girl I went to school with on here, confronted here and watched her on cam a couple times here lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I when to a swingers club a few years ago and the first person I bumped inot was a guy who had turned me down for a teaching job the previous month. gutted

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A family member made a joke about me being a swinger

I've just recognised you. I'd know that bum anywhere. Welcome back stranger

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By *illycarrolCouple over a year ago

n/cle on tyne

YEH QUITE A FEW TIMES LOL

NOT TOO BOTHERED

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By *oiluvfunMan over a year ago

Penrith

No-one has ever mentioned recognizing me, but possibly when I've sent a face pic and the person hasn't replied, that may be the reason?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I was in a pub n a girl kept looking at me n smiling...I recognised her from a long time ago as my ex husband had cheated on me with her...but was a very long time ago so thought she just wasn't sure how she knew me, so I smiled back...she just walked up to me n said Ariel to me...told me she had messaged me...and walked away...I hadn't been on fab for long so was a bit dumbstruck....still don't think she realised who I was tho lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Recently contacted someone i know quite well but wont tell him who i am ......... yet

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By *ea_CoffeeCouple over a year ago

Near Kettering

Within an hour of taking the plunge and signing up to this web site we got a friend request from a well respected member in our local area.

Upon accepting the friend request we very shocked to discover it was actually one of our close neihbours lol.

Not a great start but we still chat and he is a good neighbour, I thought the decent thing to do would be to pop round and let him know who we were, clear the air and be on equal footing.

In hindsight maybe the better idea would have been to block and stay quiet but we still say hi when we see each other although it did provoke a slight set back for us as it unerved the wife.

profiles back now though

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Been blocked for no reason a few times so maybe.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Got spotted by an ex work colleague a while ago. We did not remain friends on here for long after that. Especially as he was married and playing away from home

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By *anky_PankyWoman over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

"I get spotted in clubs (put the pink is something of a giveaway!) I generally have no idea who they are unless they are a regular forumite

I was spotted by the guy who lives a couple doors down from me - panicked at the time, but he has since been used and abused on occasion!

I've also had messages on here saying people have seen me in x,y&z, and sometimes its me and sometimes its a lookalike wish-it-were-Hanky! lmao

Well bizarrely since I popped the above on a matter of a coupla hours ago, I have just found my neighbour from the other side a house or two down!!

Well, he found me

Luckily he is rather tasty too

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By *ennyboy121Man over a year ago

Manchester

Sent pics and received some local female, she was cool with it all.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Contacted by someone claiming to know me but didnt have pics herself and wouldn't tell me how.

I don't see an issue with it personally, if I saw someone I recognised on here Id say hello.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Happened to us bumped into a girl and her hubby in a swingers club who worked next door to the wife . All had a good laugh about it and now we're good mates

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes....a few times. But as I'm open with my friends and also at work it doesn't bother me at all!

There's a wall in out office where we all but our handprints on with our names underneath. Then colleagues decided on a hashtag to go underneath....they chose #swingerman for me!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes I got recognized on another site by a local couple, I didn't know them personally they had just seen me around. They were a nuisance, they kept pestering me to be the third person in their marriage xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just remembered I got recognised on another site by a couple, got a message one day saying that I have a nice motorbike and started describing it and I hadn't even put anything on that page about me liking bikes. Fucking blocked straight away, freaked me the fuck out.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We've met a few people we know at our local club.

Seen an ex boss at a social and have a neighbour who recognised us from our pics even though there are no face pics on our profile.

Never been any issues as we're all here for the same reason

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No not yet but I have recognised people from the people near you search.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I recognised someone from school recently which led to an interesting chat

I've also bumped into someone in sainsburys when I've been shopping

It's all good though we are all adults here!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not yet

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Has your secret ever been exposed by sending a face pic or meeting someone and realising you know each other, or are friends?"

Not here but another site, yes.

It was hilarious and we ended up having amazing sex.

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

Someone from school message me when I first join here didn't reply just blocked maybe if I had fancied him back in the day I might have taken a different path lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've noticed a few people on here, the first was a woman I used to go to school with and I'm friends on Facebook with.

I've also noticed a couple of people in Tesco!!!

I've never said anything as its their business what they do.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ive noticed a couple of profiles that have blocked me...but ive never spoke to them before...interesting lol"

This has happened to me a few times too. The assumption is they must know me.

I do know one person on here and she knows me. We don't have a problem with it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yep bumped into a few, never been an issue

always say hello. And leave them to it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not yet! We did have one guy send us a face pic and he works with Mr but luckily we hadn't sent him a face pic of us! Of course we told nobody he was on here, just a Shame as I really wanted to meet him lol (Fem)

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By *ottie_84Woman over a year ago

Nottingham

Yup had friends of a friend recognise me on here luckily they were cool about it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Has your secret ever been exposed by sending a face pic or meeting someone and realising you know each other, or are friends?"

No but someone recognised me and started outing me around my area.

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By *utdoor29Man over a year ago

paisley

My worst nightmare lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Kind of a turn on I think. I think is exciting to get message from someone you know.

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By *aughty_amazonWoman over a year ago

BRISTOL

My Ex bro in law sent me face pic, I deleted and blocked

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By *eakcoupleCouple over a year ago

peak district

We once had a message from a couple we have met socially, but not close friends, saying they'd seen our profile and hadn't realised we were swingers. We hadn't realised they were either! They were a bit embarrassed about contacting us in case we were upset at being 'found' but we weren't at all. We agreed to keep our relationship social only and became Fab friends. It was interesting to see them in their private photos, fucking with other couples,

just shows you never know who swings, probably a lot more than you think.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I was talking to a woman on a web site about meeting up for about 3 weeks so we sorted out a date she sent me a face pic and it was a woman from work she has a husband and 2 kidds so I just made up some storey about not meeting

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've seen a couple I know in my personal life through swinging, they reacted quite badly really

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've recognised someone that I work with and also a couple of neighbours but they don't know I know but it's none of my business really

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes, we have seen a good few people on here 2 know we are on here. Makes a good conversation if they mention it, but not too fussed all on for the same reasons

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By *arksidesubCouple over a year ago

not far from you..

Not yet No.Not that I'm aware of anyway!.

Although I've seen a few who I recognise from here who I know.

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By *andyfloss7Couple over a year ago

plymouth

we have had a backlash the guy in question threatened to tell our daughters bit hairy for awhile

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By *ethnmelvCouple over a year ago

Cardiff

recognised a guy i had worked with on another site. just blocked him and moved on - shame really, he was quite fit and had a good sized cock

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Had my ex message me a few weeks after we broke up not knowing it was me. Daft sod sent his face pic in his first message. Instantly deleted the message and had a laugh about it with my friends who know I'm on here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes, I know a few people on here in 'real life'. One guy messaged me a while ago and sent me his photo with the message. As it was an old photo, and not a particularly good one, I didn't recognise him. Silly me, sent him a clear and new face pic and he wrote back 'I know you'. We have met in public since and have not met to play. (He is also a smoker, but says on his profile that he is a non-smoker, so it isn't going to happen)!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

It's more of a problem when someone lies and you then discover they're not an unknown and start harassing you or track you down at home.

Out at clubs I'm fine and just get on with it - we all want fun and have our niches and tastes. No shame!

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By *esiderataWoman over a year ago

St Helier

Yep - i recognised a pic a guy sent asking to play. I laughed and fessed up. Never played but smile when he comes in my office and i ask if he is having a fab day

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Kinda happened too me not a family member though

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Somebody came into my work once after I had taken part in face pic Friday when I was a new member. He walked right up to me and said 'Hi, I'm from THAT website' I was just a bit

holy moly!!!!

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By *not69Man over a year ago

Burnley

In the first couple of weeks I was on here I sent a face pic to a lady. Turns out she was married and her hubby didn't know she was on here and they both know me. She told me things that only people who knew me quite well would know. Never did find out who she was.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ive been recognised a few times .

Im a single guy and proud to be a swinger .

U shouldn't do something if your ashamed to admit it

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By *not69Man over a year ago

Burnley

"Ive been recognised a few times .

Im a single guy and proud to be a swinger .

U shouldn't do something if your ashamed to admit it"

To as lot of people it's not about shame, some people in certain jobs could lose them if it can't out that they were swingers. It shouldn't matter what a person does in private away from their work but some employers are prudes

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By *appyjack890Man over a year ago

North loncolnshire

Im not sure if i have been recognised or not but im good freinds with a couple who i know for definate, have been recognised at least twice

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

not yet - that i knowof

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes, and at work a man said I recognise you from somewhere.... I came home to a message on here saying I look good in uniform lol.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We had a guy claim he'd played with us before in a club but it was soon very clear he'd just read our profile

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"recognised a guy i had worked with on another site. just blocked him and moved on - shame really, he was quite fit and had a good sized cock

What I don't understand is why you would do that....contact him and fuck him...where is the problem?

A mix of responses on here...from the sensible (no problem) to the absolute paranoid....we are all consenting adults. The only problem I could possibly see is if you have a partner who doesn't know...

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By *ffanotdykeCouple over a year ago

Telford

See our other thread about public photos. We accept that recognition can be a positive thing with certain people but in the main we have found that most of the general public are two faced and this can have a negative influence on our public life.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"See our other thread about public photos. We accept that recognition can be a positive thing with certain people but in the main we have found that most of the general public are two faced and this can have a negative influence on our public life."

Most of the general public are not on here....other swingers are...hence no problem.

My vanilla friends and work colleagues have no issues with it either...

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