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Enough with the sugar daddies
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Keep seeing young single women post on here they are after a sugar daddy. Aka they are looking for an older man to give them cash in exchange for their time and most likely sex.
This is a swingers site not an escort site. Are we able to report people who say they are after a sugar daddy? |
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over a year ago
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"Why not just ignore them and carry on on your merry way and leave them to it?  "
If everyone could just mind their own business and leave other to it, this place would be a whole lot better. What ever happened to live and let live?  |
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over a year ago
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"Keep seeing young single women post on here they are after a sugar daddy. Aka they are looking for an older man to give them cash in exchange for their time and most likely sex.
This is a swingers site not an escort site. Are we able to report people who say they are after a sugar daddy? "
It takes all kinds.
We all have our kinks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why not just ignore them and carry on on your merry way and leave them to it?
If everyone could just mind their own business and leave other to it, this place would be a whole lot better. What ever happened to live and let live? "
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"Keep seeing young single women post on here they are after a sugar daddy. Aka they are looking for an older man to give them cash in exchange for their time and most likely sex.
This is a swingers site not an escort site. Are we able to report people who say they are after a sugar daddy? "
If you want to report you can op, assuming you are sure they are an escort  |
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"Keep seeing young single women post on here they are after a sugar daddy. Aka they are looking for an older man to give them cash in exchange for their time and most likely sex.
This is a swingers site not an escort site. Are we able to report people who say they are after a sugar daddy?
It takes all kinds.
We all have our kinks."
That's a point..... I never thought of it being a kink for both parties. Prostitution fantasies can go both ways. So yeah live and let live. But outright prostitution on here would be a big no no |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Would quite to be one, if both parties are consensual what's the problem? And the escort view point, isn't marriage basically the same, think about.
Anyway problem I've found is that young ladies who are supposed to be looking for one also have profile preferences for young men so us older gents can't message them! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Then why not just go on a site like adult work?
And how is a marriage anything like escorting :s"
Being slightly tongue in check but, when you buy your partner an expensive gift for anniversary/birthday etc in the back of your mind isn't that little man of desire praying and hoping stockings & sex will be forthcoming closely followed by the other coming of course  |
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"Then why not just go on a site like adult work?
And how is a marriage anything like escorting :s
Being slightly tongue in check but, when you buy your partner an expensive gift for anniversary/birthday etc in the back of your mind isn't that little man of desire praying and hoping stockings & sex will be forthcoming closely followed by the other coming of course "
Nope. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Then why not just go on a site like adult work?
And how is a marriage anything like escorting :s
Being slightly tongue in check but, when you buy your partner an expensive gift for anniversary/birthday etc in the back of your mind isn't that little man of desire praying and hoping stockings & sex will be forthcoming closely followed by the other coming of course "
Single? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Keep seeing young single women post on here they are after a sugar daddy. Aka they are looking for an older man to give them cash in exchange for their time and most likely sex.
This is a swingers site not an escort site. Are we able to report people who say they are after a sugar daddy? "
Have to say I haven't seen to many of these threads.. I must be looking in the wrong place lol
But if you feel that they are somehow breaking site rules by asking for money then you should report them to admin |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would quite to be one, if both parties are consensual what's the problem? "
The name on the door say 'fab swingers', it's for swingers... there are other sites if that's what you want |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
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Some enjoy this as their thing, their kink, their turn on. I'd doesn't mean they are all escorts?!
There may well be some in there but unless you know for sure it's not fair to report them!
You wouldn't report a CD who claimed they like expensive stockings in the hope someone will buy them some as a gift!?  |
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"Then why not just go on a site like adult work?
And how is a marriage anything like escorting :s"
Then you need to get rid of single people like myself,people who cheat because there's better sites for that etc etc |
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"Then why not just go on a site like adult work?
And how is a marriage anything like escorting :s
Being slightly tongue in check but, when you buy your partner an expensive gift for anniversary/birthday etc in the back of your mind isn't that little man of desire praying and hoping stockings & sex will be forthcoming closely followed by the other coming of course "
So if I buy my husband an expensive gift I'm hoping he'll wear stockings for sex...I think not. This is 2016 not 1916 |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
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This is a swingers site not an escort site. Are we able to report people who say they are after a sugar daddy? "
Yes
Its against site rules so Admin ask that you report any profiles/messages where you see this please.
And also anyone offering gifts and money because that is not allowed either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Then why not just go on a site like adult work?
And how is a marriage anything like escorting :s
Being slightly tongue in check but, when you buy your partner an expensive gift for anniversary/birthday etc in the back of your mind isn't that little man of desire praying and hoping stockings & sex will be forthcoming closely followed by the other coming of course
Single? "
No, you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fair play to them if they can find someone dopey enough to hand over cash or gifts in exchange for sex whilst knowing the person doesn't give a shit about them they just want their purse.
If I was able to bring myself to sleep with someone I wasn't attracted to I could've had a number of these fools. I don't care about the size of a guys bank balance, just his penis.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Would quite to be one, if both parties are consensual what's the problem?
The name on the door say 'fab swingers', it's for swingers... there are other sites if that's what you want"
Having read quite a few profile it seems to me that most women, especially those who contribute to these threads don't meet people at all let along swing! |
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"Would quite to be one, if both parties are consensual what's the problem?
The name on the door say 'fab swingers', it's for swingers... there are other sites if that's what you want
Having read quite a few profile it seems to me that most women, especially those who contribute to these threads don't meet people at all let along swing!"
Fair point but thats why there's a thread every week about what real swingers are. |
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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago
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"Would quite to be one, if both parties are consensual what's the problem?
The name on the door say 'fab swingers', it's for swingers... there are other sites if that's what you want"
I'm not a swinger and don't swing. I use this site to successfully find what I look for and will continue to do so. There are a fair few people that seem to do the same.
RE Sugar Daddies... Each to their own. It's pretty much the same to me as someone expecting to be wined and dined on a social/date before playing. Some people are happy to spoil, some are happy to be spoiled. |
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"Would quite to be one, if both parties are consensual what's the problem?
The name on the door say 'fab swingers', it's for swingers... there are other sites if that's what you want
I'm not a swinger and don't swing. I use this site to successfully find what I look for and will continue to do so. There are a fair few people that seem to do the same.
RE Sugar Daddies... Each to their own. It's pretty much the same to me as someone expecting to be wined and dined on a social/date before playing. Some people are happy to spoil, some are happy to be spoiled. "
Guess they should change the name on the door then. |
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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago
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"Would quite to be one, if both parties are consensual what's the problem?
The name on the door say 'fab swingers', it's for swingers... there are other sites if that's what you want
I'm not a swinger and don't swing. I use this site to successfully find what I look for and will continue to do so. There are a fair few people that seem to do the same.
RE Sugar Daddies... Each to their own. It's pretty much the same to me as someone expecting to be wined and dined on a social/date before playing. Some people are happy to spoil, some are happy to be spoiled.
Guess they should change the name on the door then."
Swinging is an alternative lifestyle. Don't see why people seem to feel they need to place restrictions on what kind of pleasure people are seeking. A hedonist mish mash of people seeking a variety of arrangements is much more fun. Next you'll be saying that all the single males and single females shouldn't be allowed to use the site because swinging should be couples swapping. |
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Guess they should change the name on the door then."
I go to my local garden centre all the time.
I don't like gardening but the coffee shop is nice.
I'm of to my local swimming pool and leisure centre soon.
I don't swim and it's not leisurely but I use the gym.
We are going to a sauna later.
We won't spend one single minute in a steam room though.
FabSwingers is a name fgs, how specific do you need your grouping to be!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Guess they should change the name on the door then.
I go to my local garden centre all the time.
I don't like gardening but the coffee shop is nice.
I'm of to my local swimming pool and leisure centre soon.
I don't swim and it's not leisurely but I use the gym.
We are going to a sauna later.
We won't spend one single minute in a steam room though.
FabSwingers is a name fgs, how specific do you need your grouping to be!!!!"
About as specific as anyone who enjoys unpaid sex sessions involving more than two people... |
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About as specific as anyone who enjoys unpaid sex sessions involving more than two people... "
Just as well your not running the site then. It would have closed years ago.
You've described maybe one tenth of the members in your specification and completely missed the point of my examples.
If a business wants to to thrive these days, it needs to diversify and this "swinging site" is no exception.
I'm not suggesting that prostitutes be allowed to use it to make business connections (they should not) but nor should the membership be dictated by your idea of what is acceptable and not one inch more.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not seen this before. They are probably just fakes anyway
You don't check out the most fabbed pictures often then"
Oi!! I'm up there and ain't no escort |
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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago
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About as specific as anyone who enjoys unpaid sex sessions involving more than two people...
Just as well your not running the site then. It would have closed years ago.
You've described maybe one tenth of the members in your specification and completely missed the point of my examples.
If a business wants to to thrive these days, it needs to diversify and this "swinging site" is no exception.
I'm not suggesting that prostitutes be allowed to use it to make business connections (they should not) but nor should the membership be dictated by your idea of what is acceptable and not one inch more.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are men foolish enough to spend their money to be in the company of a young woman. The site doesn't allow any kind of advertising for anything in exchange for money or gifts,so report them. They could say looking for a solvent older man and skirt around the rules. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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About as specific as anyone who enjoys unpaid sex sessions involving more than two people...
Just as well your not running the site then. It would have closed years ago.
You've described maybe one tenth of the members in your specification and completely missed the point of my examples.
If a business wants to to thrive these days, it needs to diversify and this "swinging site" is no exception.
I'm not suggesting that prostitutes be allowed to use it to make business connections (they should not) but nor should the membership be dictated by your idea of what is acceptable and not one inch more.
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If it's being run as a pure business then why not go the whole way and compete with AW / AFF then? It's only the name I'm commenting on, the owners can run it however they like. I'm just saying that if 90% of the members don't match the title then might be time for rebranding is all. There's already a fab guys so it's not such a crazy idea. |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"Why not just ignore them and carry on on your merry way and leave them to it?
If everyone could just mind their own business and leave other to it, this place would be a whole lot better. What ever happened to live and let live? "
The point of a forum is that it gives everyone the opportunity to express their opinions on whatever subject they wish. Perhaps you would prefer Fab without a Forum then everyone including you can "mind their own business" and not have the chance to comment on others views and activities. I doubt if this place would be a whole lot better if the Forum was stopped
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Would quite to be one, if both parties are consensual what's the problem?
The name on the door say 'fab swingers', it's for swingers... there are other sites if that's what you want
Having read quite a few profile it seems to me that most women, especially those who contribute to these threads don't meet people at all let along swing!"
I don't class myself as a swinger...however I do meet for sex as well as socials which is more akin to the swinging lifestyle than it would be on a site where people were just looking for sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Ok, so a girl looking to meet someone who is older, solvent and perhaps a little more traditional is wrong?
Sugar daddies, believe it or not is nothing like prostituting, they actually have an invested interest in helping their younger lady to develop her skills and attributes and are incredibly proud of the help and guidance that they can offer. In return "Sugar Babies" don't sell their body like prostitutes do, but they respect and they listen to their mentors.
There is actually very little to do with being paid for sex. In my opinion, a lot is down to the notion that you are a reflection of the people you spend most time with.
So why wouldn't a woman want to be around a man who is smart, good with money and has drive and ambition? That would be a positive influence.
Why wouldn't a man want to be around a woman who is fresh, vibrant, excited about life and brings energy into his life? That would be a positive influence.
I will of course clarify that I am not a sugar baby, but I do have older guy friends who I can always talk to about things as they've been around on the planet a lot longer than I have and they don't pay me for sex or anything.
Maybe I should be on a different site as swingers don't meet people from all walks of life and have an open-minded attitude, do they? |
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We class ourselves as swingers because we meet other couples...We also meet single guys (a lot) and single women (once) so what does that make us now? We're perfectly happy with the mix of people on here and even though the odd time waster and fake slip past our protective shield (the sniper soon picks them off though) we wouldn't have it any other way. The same goes for the forums and if you don't like or enjoy participating in them, then go find a different site but we think you'll struggle to better this one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've seen these posts but I think Thier are two types !
One where a young girl is looking to be spoilt chocks , flowers , affection , attention , wined and dined and treated like a princess 
And others often very young and not on for long who are obviously just after Cash for Sex 
I could be right or wrong !
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