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Takes me ages to cum. .sometimes think fab isn't the place for me with quickies and club meets etc. I get so turned on and horny but bloke always cums before I do.
Also see loads of posts and talk and status about women cumming loads of times. Within minutes of meeting. I sometimes feel like I am a bit of a dissapoinments to meets because I don't orgasm. |
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over a year ago
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You're not alone, sometimes I cum quite quickly, other times it takes a long time and guys call it a day before I get there. I can understand as they probably think it's not going to happen. It's just a case of finishing yourself off later. |
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"Takes me ages to cum. .sometimes think fab isn't the place for me with quickies and club meets etc. I get so turned on and horny but bloke always cums before I do.
Also see loads of posts and talk and status about women cumming loads of times. Within minutes of meeting. I sometimes feel like I am a bit of a dissapoinments to meets because I don't orgasm. "
It's not very gentlemanly to cum before the lady does. Fortunately I have excellent self control and can hold back my own orgasm for up to 4 hours. |
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"Takes me ages to cum. .sometimes think fab isn't the place for me with quickies and club meets etc. I get so turned on and horny but bloke always cums before I do.
Also see loads of posts and talk and status about women cumming loads of times. Within minutes of meeting. I sometimes feel like I am a bit of a dissapoinments to meets because I don't orgasm. "
If a man cums it doesn't mean that you can't.
All the talk about multiple orgasms etc is hype, of course some women do but just as many don't.
Don't feel you're a disappointment, you aren't here as entertainment for the troops you're here for mutually enjoyable meets.
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over a year ago
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Generally i take 15 minutes... some guys wont even put in 15 minutes. My hubby for example. Other guys can give me 8 in a row as a 29 year old guy off here proved to me a week ago lol
I know which one i desperately wanted to have sex with again lol |
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over a year ago
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You are not alone.....
I sometimes don't cum at all tbh, I get very turned on but it just doesn't happen, medication I'm on doesn't help but it all can depend on your partner, your mood, the environment you are in...it's not great when you see post about women have 5 zillion orgasms in ten minutes you do start to wonder if something's wrong  |
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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago
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I'm right there with you OP...I can take an eternity to cum and I usually have to do it myself in the end anyway. It's not a reflection on the guy or how much I'm enjoying the experience...it's just me. It used to bother me but it doesn't anymore  |
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over a year ago
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Totally get where you're coming from - I'm the same and can sometimes take awhile to get there but usually it's because my brain isn't entirely tuned in or I'm not relaxed enough etc. The mind plays a big role in it for women  |
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I'm the same, I can't do quickies or car fumbles, I need to be relaxed and comfortable. I need to be really turned on, and even then I take ages....or never..if a guy isn't that great. I don't multiple orgasm or gush or squirt either. |
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I have a house rule. The lady comes first.
Can take a while and I often end up finishing myself off (so few can get the clit pressure/tempo right) but they have to put the effort in to get their reward |
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It depends with me tbh...I have a terrible habit of holding off as long as possible to obtain the most mind blowing climax but this can be really frustrating (and quite hard work) for guys...and gals of course. I do try to forewarn who I am playing with though and to not expect me to come quickly if I'm not in the mood for a quickly.
Sometimes I can come quick, other times, not so. But that is no reflection on the quality of the play, it's just how I am on the day.
I have found that it can take me a bit longer since my hysterectomy as my sensitivity can be hit and miss, but I get there in the end and it can be mind blowing! lol
I wouldn't worry about it. Its not a race! lol xx |
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I can't cum if I'm not mentally stimulated ... Physically just isn't enough for me.
If a guy does it right I can cum quickly and many times if he doesn't then I won't cum at all. |
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By *woOfaKindCouple
over a year ago
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"I can't cum if I'm not mentally stimulated ... Physically just isn't enough for me."
You are exactly like my wife.  It's not always about a bloke knowing what he's doing in bed or how good he looks....the personality plays a huge part in the sex.
Ya know, if I could find a woman on the side who was happy to make out, grope, lick and just play in general, and it didn't matter if she orgasmed or not, the two of us could have a blast! As a male, I am the same...I do NOT cum easily, either. But I can still have an incredible amount of fun just fooling around.
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"I can't cum if I'm not mentally stimulated ... Physically just isn't enough for me.
You are exactly like my wife. It's not always about a bloke knowing what he's doing in bed or how good he looks....the personality plays a huge part in the sex.
Ya know, if I could find a woman on the side who was happy to make out, grope, lick and just play in general, and it didn't matter if she orgasmed or not, the two of us could have a blast! As a male, I am the same...I do NOT cum easily, either. But I can still have an incredible amount of fun just fooling around.
-JD"
I always have more fun in the kissing and foreplay stages ... That's when all the sparks fly. |
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By *woOfaKindCouple
over a year ago
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"I can't cum if I'm not mentally stimulated ... Physically just isn't enough for me.
You are exactly like my wife. It's not always about a bloke knowing what he's doing in bed or how good he looks....the personality plays a huge part in the sex.
Ya know, if I could find a woman on the side who was happy to make out, grope, lick and just play in general, and it didn't matter if she orgasmed or not, the two of us could have a blast! As a male, I am the same...I do NOT cum easily, either. But I can still have an incredible amount of fun just fooling around.
-JD
I always have more fun in the kissing and foreplay stages ... That's when all the sparks fly. "
I agree 1000% |
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-JD
I always have more fun in the kissing and foreplay stages ... That's when all the sparks fly
That's what makes me cum first "
Now that I think about it, that's the same for me ...  |
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By *woOfaKindCouple
over a year ago
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The two of you ( Hotgirl and MZ ) give me hope for the future! Maybe someday I can meet a lady like either of you, and it would be even better if she had a hubby that my wife liked!
It's a funny thing....I have often felt out of place at a Club or House Party because of my 'oddball' preferences. I actually feel a little validated now.
-JD |
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over a year ago
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I dont really mind if do take a long time to cum, sometimes i cum quickly other it takes a while and sometimes not at all.
Speaking for myself it isnt really important, as long as the experience was mutually pleasurable and satisfying for those involved.
For me a good sexual experience isnt all about orgasms. There are many other methods of pleasure to enjoy.
Though i do believe at times most people feel somewhat preasured into having to climax. As a way to show they enjoyed themselves and not to make the other individual feel they have failed to satisfy. |
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"Takes me ages to cum. .sometimes think fab isn't the place for me with quickies and club meets etc. I get so turned on and horny but bloke always cums before I do.
Also see loads of posts and talk and status about women cumming loads of times. Within minutes of meeting. I sometimes feel like I am a bit of a dissapoinments to meets because I don't orgasm. "
Totally relate...100%  |
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"Takes me ages to cum. .sometimes think fab isn't the place for me with quickies and club meets etc. I get so turned on and horny but bloke always cums before I do.
Also see loads of posts and talk and status about women cumming loads of times. Within minutes of meeting. I sometimes feel like I am a bit of a dissapoinments to meets because I don't orgasm. "
Just make the guy a sandwich then try again, might be a bit more sensitive then |
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Sounds like a challenge.
I think the build up to sexyual satisfaction can start before physical contact. Foreplay can start by chat. Physical foreplay is so important but starting off gentle building and listening. So many men are wam bam. Hope nobody mind me putting my thoughts in. |
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"Takes me ages to cum. .sometimes think fab isn't the place for me with quickies and club meets etc. I get so turned on and horny but bloke always cums before I do.
Also see loads of posts and talk and status about women cumming loads of times. Within minutes of meeting. I sometimes feel like I am a bit of a dissapoinments to meets because I don't orgasm.
Totally relate...100% "
Me too it's very very rare it happens to me with someone at all, fab meet or otherwise. A cause of paranoia all round at the start of every relationship I've had 
As long as someone tries, I don't mind if it doesn't happen for me. Well, id prefer it if it did but then we could be there hours |
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Try using a lovehoney desire luxury rabbit vibrator it makes me come quick I have never felt anything as good.
you need to use lots of lube though.
even when youre not feeling in the mood, you are as soon as you put it inside you. |
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"I'm right there with you OP...I can take an eternity to cum and I usually have to do it myself in the end anyway. It's not a reflection on the guy or how much I'm enjoying the experience...it's just me. It used to bother me but it doesn't anymore "
You say it's not a reflection on the guy,I agree with that to a degree. However I've only ever had one guy that could make me cum everytime we had sex! |
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I know I'm not a female and have yet to read what everyone has out. But for me I can not orgasm at all during sex or with another person. It's kind fun and annoying at the same time. But I believe if he guy is cumming the women should also cum aswell. Sex isn't one sided. They are two people or more people involved. X |
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I'm similar also, it's rare I orgasm through penetrative sex, and require lots of oral and fingers to get me off, and then I only usually cum once, which some guys find a chore and would rather dip their wick to seal the deal.
At least my vibrating friend is more considerate
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"Takes me forever to cum with anyone.. it really annoys me sometimes I get almost there then it disappears  "
Like I'm not a female but I make it sole job during sex to my partner cum. Have you tried like a wand on your clit etc while the guy is fucking you? |
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"I'm similar also, it's rare I orgasm through penetrative sex, and require lots of oral and fingers to get me off, and then I only usually cum once, which some guys find a chore and would rather dip their wick to seal the deal.
At least my vibrating friend is more considerate
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I did not ever cum with a man until my current partner. I gave up trying with other men and usually finished myself ... then bam he comes along and it happens. I have no idea why, but it's love for sure .... |
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"I did not ever cum with a man until my current partner. I gave up trying with other men and usually finished myself ... then bam he comes along and it happens. I have no idea why, but it's love for sure .... "
Is it really that hard for you guys to cum? Sure most of the guys in her know where the clit and gspot is right? |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
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I wish I could give you ladies that struggle some of my instant orgasm - at times its embarrassing how quickly I do and guys then think I'm done - but cause I cum lots the first is like a taster 
If I was a bloke and came as quick I'd be a laughing stock.....! |
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"I did not ever cum with a man until my current partner. I gave up trying with other men and usually finished myself ... then bam he comes along and it happens. I have no idea why, but it's love for sure ....
Is it really that hard for you guys to cum? Sure most of the guys in her know where the clit and gspot is right?"
It's not just a case of knowing where it is! |
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"I'm right there with you OP...I can take an eternity to cum and I usually have to do it myself in the end anyway. It's not a reflection on the guy or how much I'm enjoying the experience...it's just me. It used to bother me but it doesn't anymore "
Im exactky the same, although alone it can happen in minutes. It doesn't bother me now, although sometimes I think I'd like a guy to live up to what he says he's gonna do. Most times they cum first & give up.
Conversely, I can squirt very easily. But of course it's not the same. |
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"Takes me forever to cum with anyone.. it really annoys me sometimes I get almost there then it disappears
Like I'm not a female but I make it sole job during sex to my partner cum. Have you tried like a wand on your clit etc while the guy is fucking you?"
Ha the guys ive been with find it offensive if i suggest bringing toys into it .. |
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"I did not ever cum with a man until my current partner. I gave up trying with other men and usually finished myself ... then bam he comes along and it happens. I have no idea why, but it's love for sure ....
Is it really that hard for you guys to cum? Sure most of the guys in her know where the clit and gspot is right?
It's not just a case of knowing where it is!"
Yeah I know that. You have to simulate then both aswell. I prefer to use my fingers to begin with and then move on from there. Found if she's moaning I'm doing it right. |
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"Takes me ages to cum. .sometimes think fab isn't the place for me with quickies and club meets etc. I get so turned on and horny but bloke always cums before I do.
Also see loads of posts and talk and status about women cumming loads of times. Within minutes of meeting. I sometimes feel like I am a bit of a dissapoinments to meets because I don't orgasm. "
I didn't often used to cum during meets, either guys/women didn't cut it for me or its over too quick, so now I make sure to guide them and have lots of foreplay and make sure im really horny at the very least or preferably have cum before we fuck.
Mark has always been like that, it is why enjoy being with him so much because he has stamina, self control and is a very unselfish lover. But even if he didn't have the stamina I know he would definitely make sure I was satisfied and anyone we are with is satisfied before they leave.
We wouldn't want to be a disappointing meet for anyone! |
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"Takes me forever to cum with anyone.. it really annoys me sometimes I get almost there then it disappears
Like I'm not a female but I make it sole job during sex to my partner cum. Have you tried like a wand on your clit etc while the guy is fucking you?
Ha the guys ive been with find it offensive if i suggest bringing toys into it .. "
Fuck that shit. Sex is as much about you as it is them. Just because the can cum in 2 minutes doesn't mean that can leave. I stay til my job is finished. X |
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"Takes me forever to cum with anyone.. it really annoys me sometimes I get almost there then it disappears
Like I'm not a female but I make it sole job during sex to my partner cum. Have you tried like a wand on your clit etc while the guy is fucking you?
Ha the guys ive been with find it offensive if i suggest bringing toys into it .. "
Yes they do I think its because they are insecure. |
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Sabrina here and being eway more of a giver it doesn't matter to me whether or not I cum on meets .
More often than not I cum way more with women than men as I love long sensuous sessions with them.
There's nothing worse than a guy holding back on a meet .... I can't stand meets with men who think it's good to last for hours on end .... boring .
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"I did not ever cum with a man until my current partner. I gave up trying with other men and usually finished myself ... then bam he comes along and it happens. I have no idea why, but it's love for sure ....
Is it really that hard for you guys to cum? Sure most of the guys in her know where the clit and gspot is right?"
For me its nothing like as mechanical as that .... its about my mind too .... I am talking about 40 years in real life and three kids and five years in here and still only he can do it. |
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"Takes me forever to cum with anyone.. it really annoys me sometimes I get almost there then it disappears
Like I'm not a female but I make it sole job during sex to my partner cum. Have you tried like a wand on your clit etc while the guy is fucking you?
Ha the guys ive been with find it offensive if i suggest bringing toys into it ..
Yes they do I think its because they are insecure."
I agree even as a guy. There properly comparing dick sizes with other guys on the site aswell. |
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"I did not ever cum with a man until my current partner. I gave up trying with other men and usually finished myself ... then bam he comes along and it happens. I have no idea why, but it's love for sure ....
Is it really that hard for you guys to cum? Sure most of the guys in her know where the clit and gspot is right?
It's not just a case of knowing where it is!
Yeah I know that. You have to simulate then both aswell. I prefer to use my fingers to begin with and then move on from there. Found if she's moaning I'm doing it right."
I love moaning ... today it's about who has left the sink full of dishes. Doesn't mean anyone's doing it right ... |
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"I did not ever cum with a man until my current partner. I gave up trying with other men and usually finished myself ... then bam he comes along and it happens. I have no idea why, but it's love for sure ....
Is it really that hard for you guys to cum? Sure most of the guys in her know where the clit and gspot is right?
For me its nothing like as mechanical as that .... its about my mind too .... I am talking about 40 years in real life and three kids and five years in here and still only he can do it. "
Yeah. Well I have a problem in which I can cum unless solo. Even if I'm totally relaxed with the person. So for me at the moment I have no end game. Just trying to find the thing that can make me cum during sex. Tried bareback etc aswell. |
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"I did not ever cum with a man until my current partner. I gave up trying with other men and usually finished myself ... then bam he comes along and it happens. I have no idea why, but it's love for sure ....
Is it really that hard for you guys to cum? Sure most of the guys in her know where the clit and gspot is right?
It's not just a case of knowing where it is!
Yeah I know that. You have to simulate then both aswell. I prefer to use my fingers to begin with and then move on from there. Found if she's moaning I'm doing it right.
I love moaning ... today it's about who has left the sink full of dishes. Doesn't mean anyone's doing it right ..."
I guess but can't fake facial expressions and there face going red. X |
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I've never had an orgasm during penetrative sex alone! Clit stimulation is always required.
I don't climax easily, mind over matter a lot of the time.
I can make myself climax in minutes but it's because I know what I'm doing!!
I can have a really good, satisfying time without having to climax, some guys find that very hard to comprehend but it's true |
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"I'm similar also, it's rare I orgasm through penetrative sex, and require lots of oral and fingers to get me off, and then I only usually cum once, which some guys find a chore and would rather dip their wick to seal the deal.
At least my vibrating friend is more considerate
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"I'm similar also, it's rare I orgasm through penetrative sex, and require lots of oral and fingers to get me off, and then I only usually cum once, which some guys find a chore and would rather dip their wick to seal the deal.
At least my vibrating friend is more considerate
this"
even though I'm straight I believe guys to be very selfish in bed and they only care about there satisfaction. I wasn't brought up this was and I have respect for women. And I'm a firm believer in if you give you recieve. This includes oral and orgasms |
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By *odramafunCouple
over a year ago
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"Takes me ages to cum. .sometimes think fab isn't the place for me with quickies and club meets etc. I get so turned on and horny but bloke always cums before I do.
Also see loads of posts and talk and status about women cumming loads of times. Within minutes of meeting. I sometimes feel like I am a bit of a dissapoinments to meets because I don't orgasm. "
Not alone there but thankfully my partner not into quickies ... Had some fab meets but not cum yet x |
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It's not a goal!
Enjoy the whole thing and if it doesn't happen, sort yourself out later or ask the man you are with to do what you'd like to get there.
Men holding back to allow a woman to cum first puts huge pressure on the woman and if he zips up and buggers off without finding out if you want more is rude and smacks of self entitlement.
You can stop them in their tracks by switching on your magic wand, closing your eyes and having a bit of 'me' time in front of him. Guaranteed to stop them in their tracks and get them going again.
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"I've never had an orgasm during penetrative sex alone! Clit stimulation is always required.
I don't climax easily, mind over matter a lot of the time.
I can make myself climax in minutes but it's because I know what I'm doing!!
I can have a really good, satisfying time without having to climax, some guys find that very hard to comprehend but it's true "
in like this exactly!! |
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"I did not ever cum with a man until my current partner. I gave up trying with other men and usually finished myself ... then bam he comes along and it happens. I have no idea why, but it's love for sure ....
Is it really that hard for you guys to cum? Sure most of the guys in her know where the clit and gspot is right?
It's not just a case of knowing where it is!
Yeah I know that. You have to simulate then both aswell. I prefer to use my fingers to begin with and then move on from there. Found if she's moaning I'm doing it right.
I love moaning ... today it's about who has left the sink full of dishes. Doesn't mean anyone's doing it right ...
I guess but can't fake facial expressions and there face going red. X"
Oh believe me, you can. Easily. |
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Amazes me how many men on here genuinely think they can make EVERY woman cum!
I don't cum from oral. .ever! Never will. .as much as I enjoy it.
Also every woman I know has faked it at some point so chances are you have been faked.
That doesn't mean they weren't having a good time. It just means it wasn't happening .
It annoys me when mostly younger men think they know women better than they know their own bodies |
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Forgive my ignorance but if it takes a long while then surly its because the best way to suit "you" has not yet been found and a bit more experimenting is needed no?
For the first 6 years we was married used to take Shaz yonks but I found a way that suits her and can make her cum in less than and minute multiple times  |
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I've never cum during a meet. I don't cum very often, full stop. I wish people wouldn't see it as the whole point of sex. The point of sex is, well, sex!
(Oh and the guys who tell you to cum during a meet - sod off, no! Cheers for the pressure though. ) |
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I love all the kissing touching rubbing playing and oral first, I'd like to do it for ages, then when it comes to the sex I cum fast and some women think thats it but its far from over, I stay rock hard and keep going hopefully until she cums or just has enough lol |
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"I've never cum during a meet. I don't cum very often, full stop. I wish people wouldn't see it as the whole point of sex. The point of sex is, well, sex!
(Oh and the guys who tell you to cum during a meet - sod off, no! Cheers for the pressure though. )"
sure fire way to guarantee I won't cum is to tell me to! |
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"I've never cum during a meet. I don't cum very often, full stop. I wish people wouldn't see it as the whole point of sex. The point of sex is, well, sex!
(Oh and the guys who tell you to cum during a meet - sod off, no! Cheers for the pressure though. )"
Yes I agree the more people see orgasms as essential the more difficult to attain. I dont find it important I love the closeness and intimacy.
Boot on other foot though, I would be upset if I couldnt make him cum. Thankfully I can |
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"Amazes me how many men on here genuinely think they can make EVERY woman cum!
I don't cum from oral. .ever! Never will. .as much as I enjoy it.
Also every woman I know has faked it at some point so chances are you have been faked.
That doesn't mean they weren't having a good time. It just means it wasn't happening .
It annoys me when mostly younger men think they know women better than they know their own bodies"
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"Amazes me how many men on here genuinely think they can make EVERY woman cum!
I don't cum from oral. .ever! Never will. .as much as I enjoy it.
Also every woman I know has faked it at some point so chances are you have been faked.
That doesn't mean they weren't having a good time. It just means it wasn't happening .
It annoys me when mostly younger men think they know women better than they know their own bodies "
I would agree with you on this. As men can be cocky. But guess it depends on the guy you meet and if he's all talk. Or actually can figure out what makes you work and show to exploit that.
Reason why I always ask people what there turn ons are. |
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"Takes me ages to cum. .sometimes think fab isn't the place for me with quickies and club meets etc. I get so turned on and horny but bloke always cums before I do.
Also see loads of posts and talk and status about women cumming loads of times. Within minutes of meeting. I sometimes feel like I am a bit of a dissapoinments to meets because I don't orgasm. "
I Have never orgasmed with penetration, I only actually "cum" with clitoral play, I can get really wet & squirt with penetration |
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"Amazes me how many men on here genuinely think they can make EVERY woman cum!
I don't cum from oral. .ever! Never will. .as much as I enjoy it.
Also every woman I know has faked it at some point so chances are you have been faked.
That doesn't mean they weren't having a good time. It just means it wasn't happening .
It annoys me when mostly younger men think they know women better than they know their own bodies "
Any man who has to say 'I am the king!' Is no King
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"I've never cum during a meet. I don't cum very often, full stop. I wish people wouldn't see it as the whole point of sex. The point of sex is, well, sex!
(Oh and the guys who tell you to cum during a meet - sod off, no! Cheers for the pressure though. )"
I don't cum with meets and don't want to. |
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"Takes me ages to cum. .sometimes think fab isn't the place for me with quickies and club meets etc. I get so turned on and horny but bloke always cums before I do.
Also see loads of posts and talk and status about women cumming loads of times. Within minutes of meeting. I sometimes feel like I am a bit of a dissapoinments to meets because I don't orgasm. "
i hardly ever cum, i never even had an orgasm until my mid 30s and ive only had a handful since |
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I can have one big one but am not very multi orgasmic unless aided by a wand or bullet. Am finding this never goes down very well with blokes who either feel I can't perform as they'd like or that I am some sort of challenge. Rubbing like they are trying to light a fire then ensues 
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"Lol a bloke off here won't ever make me cum no way
Bold statement!! "
I've been on here since 2008 and have only met one guy who has made me cum
If you don't cum easy anyway my the chances of a stranger managing it is quite slim |
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"Lol a bloke off here won't ever make me cum no way
Bold statement!!
I've been on here since 2008 and have only met one guy who has made me cum
If you don't cum easy anyway my the chances of a stranger managing it is quite slim "
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"Lol a bloke off here won't ever make me cum no way
Bold statement!!
I've been on here since 2008 and have only met one guy who has made me cum
If you don't cum easy anyway my the chances of a stranger managing it is quite slim "
Only one bloke has managed to make you cum from your meets which span 8 years? I feel really good about myself all of a sudden |
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My wife usually comes three or four times before I do. The best is when she is fucking herself with a dildo as she sucks me and I rub her clit. She very rarely makes herself come as she prefers my fingers. After I've come in her she usually wants one more orgasm through rubbing my spunk into her clit. |
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"Takes me forever to cum with anyone.. it really annoys me sometimes I get almost there then it disappears "
That is how mine goes too, it's so infuriating and I always feel like I'm letting my Sir down when it goes like that. He is so patient with it all, I get so close to cumming so many times but it just won't happen & the more I stress about it the less likely it is to happen. He even bought a wand & that seems to work, but it's still doesn't feel right to me that it doesn't always happen when it should. |
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"My wife usually comes three or four times before I do. The best is when she is fucking herself with a dildo as she sucks me and I rub her clit. She very rarely makes herself come as she prefers my fingers. After I've come in her she usually wants one more orgasm through rubbing my spunk into her clit."
How is this helpful to this thread? Did you just want to tell us how great u are? |
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"Lol a bloke off here won't ever make me cum no way
Bold statement!!
I've been on here since 2008 and have only met one guy who has made me cum
If you don't cum easy anyway my the chances of a stranger managing it is quite slim
Only one bloke has managed to make you cum from your meets which span 8 years? I feel really good about myself all of a sudden "
don't
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I had only cum a handful of times in my life until I met Steve in my late 40s. Now I can cum dozens of times in a session. Don't lose hope, but as many here have said, cumming isn't the only thing sex is about. If you're enjoying yourself then who cares - pleasure is what it's all about! |
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"Takes me forever to cum with anyone.. it really annoys me sometimes I get almost there then it disappears "
go on top and do it urself ..works braw everytime |
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"I'm similar also, it's rare I orgasm through penetrative sex, and require lots of oral and fingers to get me off, and then I only usually cum once, which some guys find a chore and would rather dip their wick to seal the deal.
At least my vibrating friend is more considerate
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this is spot one... men think it's all about the fuking, whilst we do enjoy sex for us to cum it's all about the clitirous! |
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"Takes me forever to cum with anyone.. it really annoys me sometimes I get almost there then it disappears go on top and do it urself ..works braw everytime"
...except when it's your least favourite position due to the total lack of stimulation and utter boredom. |
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And incidentally, I feel that coming is different to an orgasm, if I leave a meet feeling horny, I can come on my own and enjoy nothing better, I do like to do it in front of someone though |
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it is alot of pressure even when guy ask you too cum or if you have been married twice first partner i could second never had orgasam .but since i met this partner i able too alot more but when they ask if u do how many times so what about if we enjoy it and pleasure it all porn today i say so if u cannt dont worry as long you enjoy it main thing with no stress. |
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Surely that's the whole point of foreplay? I find it bizarre when I hear that men are just 'wham bam' - they're missing out on all the pleasure of your pleasure!
Ladies should always cum first! |
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"Surely that's the whole point of foreplay? I find it bizarre when I hear that men are just 'wham bam' - they're missing out on all the pleasure of your pleasure!
Ladies should always cum first!"
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Master C here.
I've had a little bit of experience on this subject.
From my experience every single person is different, even different at different times with different people.
I've known girls who say they can only ever cum once if at all. Others could fill a pond.
In my experience it takes time and practice with a person before this can get better.
Just ask Slut |
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"Takes me ages to cum. .sometimes think fab isn't the place for me with quickies and club meets etc. I get so turned on and horny but bloke always cums before I do.
Also see loads of posts and talk and status about women cumming loads of times. Within minutes of meeting. I sometimes feel like I am a bit of a dissapoinments to meets because I don't orgasm.
If a man cums it doesn't mean that you can't.
All the talk about multiple orgasms etc is hype, of course some women do but just as many don't.
Don't feel you're a disappointment, you aren't here as entertainment for the troops you're here for mutually enjoyable meets.
Be prepared for an in box full of messages from men happy to help you out "
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"Takes me ages to cum. .sometimes think fab isn't the place for me with quickies and club meets etc. I get so turned on and horny but bloke always cums before I do.
Also see loads of posts and talk and status about women cumming loads of times. Within minutes of meeting. I sometimes feel like I am a bit of a dissapoinments to meets because I don't orgasm. "
Don`t put yourself down as i feel like this too so you are not the only one, it all depends on what mood i am in!
Sometimes i feel really horny and when it comes down to it my horny feelings go, this place is for pure sex and the great sex happens when you are at home |
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A womans pleasure should be paramount. I like to meet girls who take their time as. This way i must find out what tuens her on. what buttons to push mmm. l am a person who takes hours to cum. So lt pay to be inventive and i have found that investing in some toys helps to fill in time. Lol |
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"Surely that's the whole point of foreplay? I find it bizarre when I hear that men are just 'wham bam' - they're missing out on all the pleasure of your pleasure!
Ladies should always cum first!well true "
No it's not. It puts pressure on some women to cum as much as the pressure put on some men not to. |
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"Surely that's the whole point of foreplay? I find it bizarre when I hear that men are just 'wham bam' - they're missing out on all the pleasure of your pleasure!
Ladies should always cum first!well true
No it's not. It puts pressure on some women to cum as much as the pressure put on some men not to."
Its horrible when you just know your not going to cum and the guy is putting his all into trying
it does put pressure on you
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"Surely that's the whole point of foreplay? I find it bizarre when I hear that men are just 'wham bam' - they're missing out on all the pleasure of your pleasure!
Ladies should always cum first!well true
No it's not. It puts pressure on some women to cum as much as the pressure put on some men not to.
Its horrible when you just know your not going to cum and the guy is putting his all into trying
it does put pressure on you
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Horrid isn't it and telling them it's ok and to just to enjoy sex put a bit of a dampener on things. |
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"Come see me I'll make you cum all over my throbbing cock "
That's one that gets me...I don't cum from penetration at all so saying that is just irritating.
I also take ages to cum, a minimum of 30 mins unless i've been turned on all day from teasing messages and such.
I will say though that since I quit the fags and switched to vaping I have found it marginally easier. |
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K will generally take alongish time and only from clitoral stimulation, but thats great because I love doing oral, she has only cum once when swinging and that was from oral, but as she says there is much more to having fun than just cumming, just as many ladies lie about how many times they cum as men do about the size of their cock. Really amuses me when boys claim to know it all and men who claim to be able to make any lady cum, I just try my best and will try anything they want me to do .
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"Generally i take 15 minutes... some guys wont even put in 15 minutes. My hubby for example. Other guys can give me 8 in a row as a 29 year old guy off here proved to me a week ago lol
I know which one i desperately wanted to have sex with again lol"
I'd give you plenty more than 15 mins! Jeez! But I never like to screw a lady till I've licked her to at least one big orgasm first! It makes her feel hot and sexy and wanting more before my cock gets near her pussy and removes any anxiety about her being wet enough for me to sink my cock deep in to the hilt on my first push. Whether I choose to enter with one swift movement full deep or a really teasingly slow, incremental entry till I'm lodged firmly and fully as far as I can fit inside her, I know I can go in with total ease and confidence having licked her to climax first. It makes that first entry a beautiful and memorable moment with every woman! |
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There's are other non sexual factors that play a role in a female orgasm. Level of comfort and how relaxed you are in a big one, for allot of women it'll be near impossible to orgasm if you're anxious or stressed.
Perhaps it weighs so much on your mind that it'll actually like performance anxiety (allot of guys can relate to this, including myself).
Are you the same way with someone that you are familiar with and very comfortable and relaxed around? |
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Never failed to make someone come yet... Don't wanna blow my own trumpet but if you've not come from kissing and touchin every inch of ya you will when I go deep |
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"Never failed to make someone come yet... Don't wanna blow my own trumpet but if you've not come from kissing and touchin every inch of ya you will when I go deep "
See my previous comment on every woman I know saying they have faked it! Women fake it even when it's great sex to try and let you know that it's great and they love what you doing! So many arrogant men on here! Clueless!
And yes am much better with someone I know and trust and who knows me! |
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"Generally i take 15 minutes... some guys wont even put in 15 minutes. My hubby for example. Other guys can give me 8 in a row as a 29 year old guy off here proved to me a week ago lol
I know which one i desperately wanted to have sex with again lol
I'd give you plenty more than 15 mins! Jeez! But I never like to screw a lady till I've licked her to at least one big orgasm first! It makes her feel hot and sexy and wanting more before my cock gets near her pussy and removes any anxiety about her being wet enough for me to sink my cock deep in to the hilt on my first push. Whether I choose to enter with one swift movement full deep or a really teasingly slow, incremental entry till I'm lodged firmly and fully as far as I can fit inside her, I know I can go in with total ease and confidence having licked her to climax first. It makes that first entry a beautiful and memorable moment with every woman! "
I think you'll find quite a few of those women have faked it just to get you to stop. As for the wet comment, why don't you trust women's bodies to work? |
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And yes am much better with someone I know and trust and who knows me!"
That's a big reason for me why I'm not really looking for random meets, for me sex is always better with someone I know, trust and respect. |
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"Takes me ages to cum. .sometimes think fab isn't the place for me with quickies and club meets etc. I get so turned on and horny but bloke always cums before I do.
Also see loads of posts and talk and status about women cumming loads of times. Within minutes of meeting. I sometimes feel like I am a bit of a dissapoinments to meets because I don't orgasm. It's not very gentlemanly to cum before the lady does. Fortunately I have excellent self control and can hold back my own orgasm for up to 4 hours."
That sounds like purgatory rather than enjoyment!!
Sometimes I cum quickly sometimes I don't, but if a guy is so turned on that he cums quickly when he fucks me it is often enough of a turn on for me to make me orgasm too |
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"Lol a bloke off here won't ever make me cum no way
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Ive only ever made myself cum..and used to say that but 2 guys on here have taken me by surprise with their skill ! Never say never |
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You're not alone it takes me a while to orgasm especially on a meet, I can see in their faces they get frustrated about it...I dont haha we dont do quickie meets anyway because when we play we like to play all night...the boss can make me orgasm in about 1minute but he does have 14 years experience haha |
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"Never failed to make someone come yet... Don't wanna blow my own trumpet but if you've not come from kissing and touchin every inch of ya you will when I go deep
See my previous comment on every woman I know saying they have faked it! Women fake it even when it's great sex to try and let you know that it's great and they love what you doing! So many arrogant men on here! Clueless!
And yes am much better with someone I know and trust and who knows me!"
I'm not arrogant, far from it!! I'm a well mannered old fashioned gentleman me personally but I know when Iv made a women from the obvious signs they give off... But maybe some fake the squirting too, suppose I'm not female I'll never know |
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"I'm not arrogant, far from it!! I'm a well mannered old fashioned gentleman me personally but I know when Iv made a women from the obvious signs they give off... But maybe some fake the squirting too, suppose I'm not female I'll never know "
I can squirt without having an orgasm so I would say that was a sure sign a lady is fully satisfied...unless that's just me aha |
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"I'm not arrogant, far from it!! I'm a well mannered old fashioned gentleman me personally but I know when Iv made a women from the obvious signs they give off... But maybe some fake the squirting too, suppose I'm not female I'll never know
I can squirt without having an orgasm so I would say that was a sure sign a lady is fully satisfied...unless that's just me aha "
Squirting and orgasm is mostly exclusive of each other. Some women do both together though. |
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"I'm not arrogant, far from it!! I'm a well mannered old fashioned gentleman me personally but I know when Iv made a women from the obvious signs they give off... But maybe some fake the squirting too, suppose I'm not female I'll never know
I can squirt without having an orgasm so I would say that was a sure sign a lady is fully satisfied...unless that's just me aha
Squirting and orgasm is mostly exclusive of each other. Some women do both together though."
Typo that was supposed to say wouldn't aha |
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"Never failed to make someone come yet... Don't wanna blow my own trumpet but if you've not come from kissing and touchin every inch of ya you will when I go deep
See my previous comment on every woman I know saying they have faked it! Women fake it even when it's great sex to try and let you know that it's great and they love what you doing! So many arrogant men on here! Clueless!
And yes am much better with someone I know and trust and who knows me!
I'm not arrogant, far from it!! I'm a well mannered old fashioned gentleman me personally but I know when Iv made a women from the obvious signs they give off... But maybe some fake the squirting too, suppose I'm not female I'll never know "
Squirting isnt an orgasm though |
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I actually blame squirting for my lack of orgasums
Men are that fixated on making women gush they forget about everything else
Because squirting/gushing is more visual to men they would sooner see that, then give themselves a pat on the back for a job well done and that's you sorted, when in actual fact you haven't cum at all and your needs has been forgotten about
Damn you squirting/gushing your the bain of my life |
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"I actually blame squirting for my lack of orgasums
Men are that fixated on making women gush they forget about everything else
Because squirting/gushing is more visual to men they would sooner see that, then give themselves a pat on the back for a job well done and that's you sorted, when in actual fact you haven't cum at all and your needs has been forgotten about
Damn you squirting/gushing your the bain of my life "
It's a real bugger when you star isn't it....can't stop afterwards lol.
But seriously. ..yes guys are too fixed on it and can ruined the rutting going on.... there's a time and place |
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"Takes me ages to cum. .sometimes think fab isn't the place for me with quickies and club meets etc. I get so turned on and horny but bloke always cums before I do.
Also see loads of posts and talk and status about women cumming loads of times. Within minutes of meeting. I sometimes feel like I am a bit of a dissapoinments to meets because I don't orgasm.
If a man cums it doesn't mean that you can't.
All the talk about multiple orgasms etc is hype, of course some women do but just as many don't.
Don't feel you're a disappointment, you aren't here as entertainment for the troops you're here for mutually enjoyable meets.
Be prepared for an in box full of messages from men happy to help you out "
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"I actually blame squirting for my lack of orgasums
Men are that fixated on making women gush they forget about everything else
Because squirting/gushing is more visual to men they would sooner see that, then give themselves a pat on the back for a job well done and that's you sorted, when in actual fact you haven't cum at all and your needs has been forgotten about
absolutely .. here here !
Damn you squirting/gushing your the bain of my life "
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"Only one man cud make me cum through oral. Took ages but it did happen. No other guy has managed to make me cum since him."
snap only twice in my whole life
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I rarely cum tbh but that doesn't spoil my enjoyment. If only guys weren't fixated on it. When I say I not likely to cum, some see it as a challenge and say that they never fail to make a lady cum. The more fixated they get with making me cum, the less of a chance I am going to. In fact more chance they are going to leave me sore from their efforts.
I get aroused, which is obvious on a meet, so guys 'let it go' and have fun without the fixation. And thanks OP for letting me know I am not weird |
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Teo fab guys made me cum much to my shock and pleasant surprise but never before in my life. Guys....this is the more usual !!!!!!! Incidentally, these two werent fixated on making me cum or squirt.. just taking their time to please me without pressure Hint hint !! |
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