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over a year ago
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I'm sure lots of women will relate to this. But here's one for the boys (bi boys)
Three times now I have been asked to drive to meet up with a couple. However the bloke wants to check me out each time before hand to make sure I'm suitable for his girl, OK fair enough, but each time now we do a little bit of fun (he bi curious, he says) goes back to his Mrs with pics and then rings me saying his girl isn't turned on.
Once, I was upset
Second time, annoyed
Third time, something is fishy here.
Now this has happened with girls cat fishing on here as well. Pics look great...Chat is amazing..... But you meet with them and it's like chatting to a mute in golems skin.
Someone help or just relate |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm sure lots of women will relate to this. But here's one for the boys (bi boys)
Three times now I have been asked to drive to meet up with a couple. However the bloke wants to check me out each time before hand to make sure I'm suitable for his girl, OK fair enough, but each time now we do a little bit of fun (he bi curious, he says) goes back to his Mrs with pics and then rings me saying his girl isn't turned on.
Once, I was upset
Second time, annoyed
Third time, something is fishy here.
Now this has happened with girls cat fishing on here as well. Pics look great...Chat is amazing..... But you meet with them and it's like chatting to a mute in golems skin.
Someone help or just relate "
oh you fell for that old chestnut
ive had it a few times too when couples have contacted me and the guy has said he wants to meet me alone first to see if his wife will like me |
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"You mean three times with the same couple or three separate couples?
This, I want to know the answer to this!"
Same "couple"
Their profile seems legit. Sends me pics of him and the same girl. But no verified meets |
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"You mean three times with the same couple or three separate couples?"
Surely three separate couple's,you wouldn't meet the same couple three time's surely,glutton for punishment if that's the case?! |
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"You mean three times with the same couple or three separate couples?
This, I want to know the answer to this!
Same "couple"
Their profile seems legit. Sends me pics of him and the same girl. But no verified meets"
why on earth did you feel the need to meet him alone more than once?
ok if you fell for it the first time, but after you had already met why did you feel he needed to meet you alone again? |
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"Haha, oh come on , they were both verified and you made sure their was female part to the couple right, because that's the most obvious rampart con going on here, That and men posing as women."
Has pictures of them together. But never got her on the phone and no verified meets. But pictures of them both on this site fucking people (or each other anyway) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You mean three times with the same couple or three separate couples?
This, I want to know the answer to this!
Same "couple"
Their profile seems legit. Sends me pics of him and the same girl. But no verified meets"
Haha you've been had, can't believe you went back THREE times  |
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"You mean three times with the same couple or three separate couples?
Surely three separate couple's,you wouldn't meet the same couple three time's surely,glutton for punishment if that's the case?!"
Ooh take that back |
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"That's very interesting. Had a request for exactly the same today. Maybe I won't go after all  "
i dont get why anybody would do this
surely only she will know if you are suitable for her
and if he was genuine him meeting a guy alone to see if they are suitable just makes me think like shes not choosing who shes having sex with
either way it smelly fishy |
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i had a similar experience once with a couple but we cammed for a while before that and yes it was mainly with her but he was with her sometimes and were a genuine couple but they just stopped messaging me. |
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As a couple when we find a bi-fem we always arrange for the girls to meet (after much verifying etc and always locally to us) wine/coffee etc to see if they have chemistry, its important they get on as to be honest with Mrs being a genuine bi-fem its key, i never chat alone or attempt in vain to converse with a fem other than to say hi, if youre lucky enough to be married too a uber hot bi lady who loves to share hot woman with you why ruin it by being a dick!! |
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"As a couple when we find a bi-fem we always arrange for the girls to meet (after much verifying etc and always locally to us) wine/coffee etc to see if they have chemistry, its important they get on as to be honest with Mrs being a genuine bi-fem its key, i never chat alone or attempt in vain to converse with a fem other than to say hi, if youre lucky enough to be married too a uber hot bi lady who loves to share hot woman with you why ruin it by being a dick!! "
Yeah mate I totally relate to that |
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"Haha, oh come on , they were both verified and you made sure their was female part to the couple right, because that's the most obvious rampart con going on here, That and men posing as women.
Has pictures of them together. But never got her on the phone and no verified meets. But pictures of them both on this site fucking people (or each other anyway)"
They aren't verified though so it could be him with a former partner. Sounds like you've been had thrice. |
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"I can appreciate that mate.... This site is hard to meet, not complaining lol so would suck to actually have something sorted and then get bailed on"
I had to read that 3 times the "suck" bit caught me out....Too much vino maybe. |
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"You mean three times with the same couple or three separate couples?
This, I want to know the answer to this!
Same "couple"
Their profile seems legit. Sends me pics of him and the same girl. But no verified meets
Haha you've been had, can't believe you went back THREE times "
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"You mean three times with the same couple or three separate couples?
This, I want to know the answer to this!
Same "couple"
Their profile seems legit. Sends me pics of him and the same girl. But no verified meets"
Why didn't you swap pics before driving anywhere? ?? |
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I can relate to this a little, in terms of meeting up with a guy to check he's ok, I don't get the 'having fun' on the premise that he's only indulging in this for the sake of his girl, because that very obviously is someone trying their luck.
We had a meet whereby I was to wear a blindfold on leaving the house, my OH take me to meet a guy and we would play together with me never seeing the guy, keeping the blindfold in place the whole time.
My OH met up with the guy beforehand, went to his factory, where the play was going to take place, on machinery, to ensure the guy was a nice guy, to ensure the factory was safe, check out all was ok etc. He had a tour of the premises, had a coffee with the guy whilst discussing the scenario, the guy wasn't to speak to me and I was to keep on the blindfold, my dos and don'ts etc. At no point did my OH ask the guy for sex to check out the quality on my behalf.
For safety reasons and dependant on the type of meet, guys may need to be met beforehand but there would be no need for sexual activity to take place at that point.
If you weren't happy with it OP why didn't you just say no and walk away? |
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