Maybe some will change the appropriate setting at the times they can accommodate or travel, so keep checking back in the hopes they have changed the settings.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I know exactly what he means.

Maybe people can't accom coz of there children or just don't want strange men in there home.

And can't travel far due to not driving.

Unfortunately,the site doesn't offer a tick box for 2 other options of club & hotel which many people may well prefare."

This

Used to have people bitch at me because it said I couldn't accommodate or travel.

Actually I could travel (but not far) and that was put in my blurb, and I was more than happy to go half on a hotel. Only most men I spoke to weren't happy with that, suggesting car sex, which I'd also made clear in my blurb, I didn't do.

If you want to meet then you find a way. Talking about it usually helps, rather than jumping to conclusions.

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By *anky_PankyWoman over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

Not true.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i had a complaint about this and all i meant by it was i only meet local and not at my place x

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I personally think that if you can travel to a club or hotel, or even locally, then you can travel. Not being able to travel to me means you can't leave your house.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

shows you dont have much of an imagination or understanding of peoples situations

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some people say this as a filtering system too...reduces alot of messages....and they approach people whom they re interested in instead.

Sometimes it can backfire though...It has with me when I decline pointing out that in their profile they don't meet single men. (it puts a negative tone in my mind with them immediately. ..(as a sapiophile/ Sapiosexual it won't go any further)...but I understand why some say it when it's just a filter system.

It can be the same for not meeting at home, (not because their missus or Mr will be there

as is so often wrongly assumed, it eases on the messages)....but have ended up meeting at their home.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i think a lot depends on the area you live in. if you are in a city,then it is not a stumbling block at all,as there wil be far more potential meets within a close area than if you live somewhere less populated.

I ,naively, also thought it would act as a filter,but i was completely wrong...hadn't factored in the whole 'man/sight of tits/temporary blindness effect...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i think a lot depends on the area you live in. if you are in a city,then it is not a stumbling block at all,as there wil be far more potential meets within a close area than if you live somewhere less populated.

I ,naively, also thought it would act as a filter,but i was completely wrong...hadn't factored in the whole 'man/sight of tits/temporary blindness effect..."

Goodpoint...must gouge them out later....after a perved first

...oooops already blind from another regular activity spanning decades

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