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Verified vs Non-Verified
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I can completely understand why some people only meet verified people! Lesson learned - never arrange something with a non-verified guys! So much for dogging tonight -.- |
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Sorry to hear that. I always tend to go with verif's. I wouldn't waste my time on ppl who've been on awhile & no verifs and as for newbies, iv took a chance on a couple but I was always left disappointed either by their immaturity as they're like a kid in a sweet shop & wanting more & more, until u feel like a fab contact or their time keeping etc
There's plenty of verif's out there so hopefully next time u'l meet with some1decent & get your fun. |
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dd to my previous post.. yeah we were all non-verif once & I understand it is somewhat difficult to get a step on this Fab ladder but personally I won't meet a non-verif just for sexfun, theres just too much effort to be put in (childminders, travel, dress up etc) to take the gamble of been let down & I'd rather guarantee my fun with a verif'd
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We were all non verified in the beginning!"
That's my take. Someone had to meet an unverified person originally.
I take my hat off to those with the pioneering spirit of adventure. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have two genuine veri's on my profile and still find it difficult to meet couples. Nothing to do with being a fat, horny, old bastard."
or ticking every interest? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Our regular single guy friend is only verified by us, had joined the site 5 days previous to him approaching us, verified himself with a video and he is a great guy never lets us down etc x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally struggling, tried suggesting coffee meets but no joy. Don't quite see how being verified just because you're caned with someone makes you "better" "safer" to meet..or is that me? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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And we were non verified too at some point, yes everyone starts off somewhere. However every verified meet we've had they have showed up perfectly. Non-verified on the other hand 60% have arranged and backed out.. mostly without actually telling us. For us it's just not worth the hassle anymore. Maybe weve just been unlucky with the dreamers and time wasters x |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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We've been let down by verified but never by unverified, strange it seems but we do put the meet with unverified heavily in our favour. We meet not too far from us, hotel booked by them (we pay our half when we get there) and all this is only after we've spoken enough to be comfortable the meet has been properly arranged without a hint of a no show. A failed meet with an unverified therefore costs us little travel time at no financial cost, bruised ego perhaps but that's easy enough to get over, no deflowering though.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"And we were non verified too at some point, yes everyone starts off somewhere. However every verified meet we've had they have showed up perfectly. Non-verified on the other hand 60% have arranged and backed out.. mostly without actually telling us. For us it's just not worth the hassle anymore. Maybe weve just been unlucky with the dreamers and time wasters x"
Don't take this the wrong way but maybe it's the type of meets you're trying to arrange?
For example you mention dogging in your OP, now I for one would assume that you'd arrange that with more than 1 guy? So maybe that's the assumption they're working on too, a more casual arrangement than fixed?
Just a thought.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We've been let down by verified but never by unverified, strange it seems but we do put the meet with unverified heavily in our favour. We meet not too far from us, hotel booked by them (we pay our half when we get there) and all this is only after we've spoken enough to be comfortable the meet has been properly arranged without a hint of a no show. A failed meet with an unverified therefore costs us little travel time at no financial cost, bruised ego perhaps but that's easy enough to get over, no deflowering though. "
My mind is struggling to compute that anyone would let you down. Were they insane?   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't see a problem with meeting none veified people. You have to remember we didn't join with them.
As long as they are photo verifed and are happy to have a quick chat on phone then we happy to meet them x |
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"Personally struggling, tried suggesting coffee meets but no joy. Don't quite see how being verified just because you're caned with someone makes you "better" "safer" to meet..or is that me?"
It doesn't. All it shows is that the person turned up and was real. Nothing more, really. |
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