"So frustrating when you see an absolute worldie yet you notice you can't chat to her cos you're like a year or less outside of her age range   "
You know other people's preferences never frustrate me. I concentrate on who's looking for me not waste time on those that aren't. |
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"So frustrating when you see an absolute worldie yet you notice you can't chat to her cos you're like a year or less outside of her age range
You know other people's preferences never frustrate me. I concentrate on who's looking for me not waste time on those that aren't."
This is somewhat true but, depends how much they float your boat :P |
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"So frustrating when you see an absolute worldie yet you notice you can't chat to her cos you're like a year or less outside of her age range
You know other people's preferences never frustrate me. I concentrate on who's looking for me not waste time on those that aren't.
This is somewhat true but, depends how much they float your boat :P"
But obviously your age grouping doesn't float your boat so go with the advice above |
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"So frustrating when you see an absolute worldie yet you notice you can't chat to her cos you're like a year or less outside of her age range
You know other people's preferences never frustrate me. I concentrate on who's looking for me not waste time on those that aren't.
This is somewhat true but, depends how much they float your boat :P"
You don't get told no very often , do you? |
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"So frustrating when you see an absolute worldie yet you notice you can't chat to her cos you're like a year or less outside of her age range
You know other people's preferences never frustrate me. I concentrate on who's looking for me not waste time on those that aren't.
This is somewhat true but, depends how much they float your boat :P
But obviously your age grouping doesn't float your boat so go with the advice above "
Float their boat even |
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"So frustrating when you see an absolute worldie yet you notice you can't chat to her cos you're like a year or less outside of her age range "
Don't worry, at your age, you can only get older, so you can look forward to being in most people's age ranges one day. It's the older guys who can't get younger. |
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"So frustrating when you see an absolute worldie yet you notice you can't chat to her cos you're like a year or less outside of her age range
You know other people's preferences never frustrate me. I concentrate on who's looking for me not waste time on those that aren't."
My thoughts exactly. |
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"So frustrating when you see an absolute worldie yet you notice you can't chat to her cos you're like a year or less outside of her age range "
know that problem so well and those that I am in get blocked for checking that they actually happy to meet my age range |
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"So frustrating when you see an absolute worldie yet you notice you can't chat to her cos you're like a year or less outside of her age range
Don't worry, at your age, you can only get older, so you can look forward to being in most people's age ranges one day. It's the older guys who can't get younger."
So true but many a good tune is played on an old fiddle  |
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"Most people with age restrictions will be slightly flexible if the chat and vibe are right. "
This is the thinking of the people who start a message with
I know you're not looking for _________
But I decided to message you anyway.. |
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"So frustrating when you see an absolute worldie yet you notice you can't chat to her cos you're like a year or less outside of her age range
Don't worry, at your age, you can only get older, so you can look forward to being in most people's age ranges one day. It's the older guys who can't get younger."
Tell me about it!  |
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"So frustrating when you see an absolute worldie yet you notice you can't chat to her cos you're like a year or less outside of her age range
You know other people's preferences never frustrate me. I concentrate on who's looking for me not waste time on those that aren't.
My thoughts exactly. "
Exactly this!   |
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"So frustrating when you see an absolute worldie yet you notice you can't chat to her cos you're like a year or less outside of her age range
You know other people's preferences never frustrate me. I concentrate on who's looking for me not waste time on those that aren't.
This is somewhat true but, depends how much they float your boat :P"
But if you can't message them, your boat will sink without a trace |
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Totally depends on the person...I've seen a young girl in chams on a sat night regular with her fella she looks young my god I'll tear her a new one  excuse the pun lol her fella does a good job |
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"So frustrating when you see an absolute worldie yet you notice you can't chat to her cos you're like a year or less outside of her age range
You know other people's preferences never frustrate me. I concentrate on who's looking for me not waste time on those that aren't.
This is somewhat true but, depends how much they float your boat :P"
I have a partner to float my boat. Then again, even when I was single didn't waste time on those not looking for me: an exercise in futility. |
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"So frustrating when you see an absolute worldie yet you notice you can't chat to her cos you're like a year or less outside of her age range "
They also suffer in the long run as lots of non time wasters and adventurous friendly people will never get the chance to meet them.
Choices are there for every one and its a personal thing what we do with them choices.
You could always think of it the other way they are the ones to lose out for being regimented with their range.
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"So frustrating when you see an absolute worldie yet you notice you can't chat to her cos you're like a year or less outside of her age range
They also suffer in the long run as lots of non time wasters and adventurous friendly people will never get the chance to meet them.
Choices are there for every one and its a personal thing what we do with them choices.
You could always think of it the other way they are the ones to lose out for being regimented with their range.
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But how are they losing out? Their range is their range, they are obviously happy with that choice so no they are not losing out. |
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"So frustrating when you see an absolute worldie yet you notice you can't chat to her cos you're like a year or less outside of her age range
They also suffer in the long run as lots of non time wasters and adventurous friendly people will never get the chance to meet them.
Choices are there for every one and its a personal thing what we do with them choices.
You could always think of it the other way they are the ones to lose out for being regimented with their range.
But how are they losing out? Their range is their range, they are obviously happy with that choice so no they are not losing out."
I can't speak for any individuals decision on there age ranges etc but giving a few years here & there would introduce to a wider choice of person.
I myself would usually meet 40+ couples/ladies who by that time have got their shit together in swinging etiquette, a few times we ( me & Kim ) have strayed of this path with mature 20-30yr olds and have actually enjoyed it.
Its something we wouldn't have done normally but it made us realise you do miss out if you restrict yourself. |
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