New women get so many messages, it's unreal. Takes days just to look at messages, much less check profiles and/or type a response.
Unless the opening message hits the mark, no chance of hearing back from her. |
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"Has anyone ever got a response from a new member.....I'm sure most aren't actually real!  "
Nope, especially the ones that update their status saying 'just received 300 messages I'll reply in good time' I mean, what's that about? x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Has anyone ever got a response from a new member.....I'm sure most aren't actually real! "
Why message the new members. I don't get it. I purposely avoid anyone new because i can't be arsed with the detective work. |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
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"Has anyone ever got a response from a new member.....I'm sure most aren't actually real!
Why message the new members. I don't get it. I purposely avoid anyone new because i can't be arsed with the detective work."
Because they have already messaged all the existing members! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm sure some men just sit and refresh looking for new women to prey on.
Give them a chance to find their feet, I received 100's of messages when I first joined  "
I didn't ....and that's how it continued... |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm sure some men just sit and refresh looking for new women to prey on.
Give them a chance to find their feet, I received 100's of messages when I first joined
I didn't ....and that's how it continued..."
You must have! I left within a week because they scared the hell out of then, then I grew some balls and came back lol
Now I get some messages, but they are all from crap profiles  |
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"I'm sure some men just sit and refresh looking for new women to prey on.
Give them a chance to find their feet, I received 100's of messages when I first joined
I didn't ....and that's how it continued...
You must have! I left within a week because they scared the hell out of then, then I grew some balls and came back lol
Now I get some messages, but they are all from crap profiles "
I really really didn't. I never have been swamped. Ever....the only time i once got about 20 new messages was when i "moved" to London and put a new pic up...that was a crazy day. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm sure some men just sit and refresh looking for new women to prey on.
Give them a chance to find their feet, I received 100's of messages when I first joined
I didn't ....and that's how it continued...
You must have! I left within a week because they scared the hell out of then, then I grew some balls and came back lol
Now I get some messages, but they are all from crap profiles
I really really didn't. I never have been swamped. Ever....the only time i once got about 20 new messages was when i "moved" to London and put a new pic up...that was a crazy day. "
 Try "moving" to Liverpool and upload a few pics, I did that a few months ago as I was seriously thinking about actually moving......now the friend invites went through the roof |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Has anyone ever got a response from a new member.....I'm sure most aren't actually real! "
Its hilarious watching a woman open a new account.
All feilds empty profile reading only .... no pictures 5 mins later 50 messages saying how wonderful she looks great profile and a few offers for a verifcation to get her started if they can meet later on |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"Im positive there not. Most are pictures from the net. Maybe a ploy to try and keep guys here by fab
Could be a ploy to keep the money rolling in from the single guys lol"
I seriously doubt that! Most men in my area are not site supporters, they just keep leaving and coming back |
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"Im positive there not. Most are pictures from the net. Maybe a ploy to try and keep guys here by fab
Could be a ploy to keep the money rolling in from the single guys lol
I seriously doubt that! Most men in my area are not site supporters, they just keep leaving and coming back"
I'm sure there's a joke in there about scotsmen being tightfisted.
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"I'm sure some men just sit and refresh looking for new women to prey on.
Give them a chance to find their feet, I received 100's of messages when I first joined
I didn't ....and that's how it continued...
You must have! I left within a week because they scared the hell out of then, then I grew some balls and came back lol
Now I get some messages, but they are all from crap profiles
I really really didn't. I never have been swamped. Ever....the only time i once got about 20 new messages was when i "moved" to London and put a new pic up...that was a crazy day. "
Try moving to the midlands, you would definitely stand out  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm sure some men just sit and refresh looking for new women to prey on.
Give them a chance to find their feet, I received 100's of messages when I first joined
I didn't ....and that's how it continued...
You must have! I left within a week because they scared the hell out of then, then I grew some balls and came back lol
Now I get some messages, but they are all from crap profiles
I really really didn't. I never have been swamped. Ever....the only time i once got about 20 new messages was when i "moved" to London and put a new pic up...that was a crazy day. "
You know thats because clem has messaged every guy on the site with a picture of him doing the "I'm watching you" hand sign and holding a pair of shears.
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"Im positive there not. Most are pictures from the net. Maybe a ploy to try and keep guys here by fab
Could be a ploy to keep the money rolling in from the single guys lol
I seriously doubt that! Most men in my area are not site supporters, they just keep leaving and coming back
I'm sure there's a joke in there about scotsmen being tightfisted.
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I'm sure there is, they can't even be arsed to uploads pics |
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"Im positive there not. Most are pictures from the net. Maybe a ploy to try and keep guys here by fab
Could be a ploy to keep the money rolling in from the single guys lol
I seriously doubt that! Most men in my area are not site supporters, they just keep leaving and coming back
I'm sure there's a joke in there about scotsmen being tightfisted.
I'm sure there is, they can't even be arsed to uploads pics "
Data costs money young lady! |
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When I first joined over 5 years ago I got over 100 messages before if even had chance to have a pic aproved also as a new member for the first week you are limited to only being able to send 100 messages per day unless you instantly upgrade to being a site supporter |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"Im positive there not. Most are pictures from the net. Maybe a ploy to try and keep guys here by fab
Could be a ploy to keep the money rolling in from the single guys lol
I seriously doubt that! Most men in my area are not site supporters, they just keep leaving and coming back
I'm sure there's a joke in there about scotsmen being tightfisted.
I'm sure there is, they can't even be arsed to uploads pics
Data costs money young lady!"
Seems your theory may be correct |
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