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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I noticed a few profile where the single girl has a thing for married or attached or cheating men.
What's the attraction? Is it the thrill of the forbidden?
Nb its not for me. I like single peeps. X |
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"I noticed a few profile where the single girl has a thing for married or attached or cheating men.
What's the attraction? Is it the thrill of the forbidden?
Nb its not for me. I like single peeps. X"
Not sure about that but reference to June which area of Ireland are you visiting? Tried to message you but I am a single male. |
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"Maybe they are married themselves?
Ticking a box to say you are single means nothing on here "
I think it's most often this. If your playing away and meet someone else who is you have a degree of security in that you both have something to lose. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had fun with a number of married ladies (I'm single). Some with hubby's knowledge, some with hubby present (cuckold/hot wife/voyeur etc......or just mmf fun).
For me it's not really about the excitement of having a cheating harlot in my bed....mor that they won't get clingy etc... That's my take on it anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Maybe they are married themselves?
Ticking a box to say you are single means nothing on here
I think it's most often this. If your playing away and meet someone else who is you have a degree of security in that you both have something to lose. "
I'm so naive, haha, I didn't even think that they might be married themselves. lol I'm too innocent! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Maybe they are married themselves?
Ticking a box to say you are single means nothing on here
I think it's most often this. If your playing away and meet someone else who is you have a degree of security in that you both have something to lose. "
I suspect it's this too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Less drama with married men .singles are too clingy. Very much agree with this  "
But is there not the scope for a married man who is cheating to see the person they meet as a way out of a relationship and become clingy? |
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Clingy people are clingy people regardless of marital status.
I think if a person is missing intimacy at home (and isn't the reason most married people are here because they have sexless marriages  ) they are likely to become attached to someone who shows them sexual affection. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Maybe they are married themselves?
Ticking a box to say you are single means nothing on here
I think it's most often this. If your playing away and meet someone else who is you have a degree of security in that you both have something to lose. "
There is a degree of this along with they seem to meet my needs more / a higher level of compatability.
Saying that I don't look to meet attached people as its not a turn on per se, I just meet men I like.
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By (user no longer on site)
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I prefer attached men as im married myself and cant meet often due to family and workload and have met the same guy more than once . I have questioned myself and thought is it classed as an affair ? ...then thought no , not on my side its not . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Less drama with married men .singles are too clingy. Very much agree with this
But is there not the scope for a married man who is cheating to see the person they meet as a way out of a relationship and become clingy?"
No I never get clingy it's only sex.Takes more than sex to get clingy .  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Clingy people are clingy people regardless of marital status.
I think if a person is missing intimacy at home (and isn't the reason most married people are here because they have sexless marriages ) they are likely to become attached to someone who shows them sexual affection."
Seems being married in such a scenario is living with a millstone around ones neck. Great way of living. Great energy of such a person. The reasons for taking a wide birth for me. |
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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago
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"I dont prefer attached guys but like on a previous post I said, ive found it a bit of a turn on knowing they're having the fun they crave with us,x"
works both ways , its forbidden fun extra excitment,  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Clingy people are clingy people regardless of marital status.
I think if a person is missing intimacy at home (and isn't the reason most married people are here because they have sexless marriages ) they are likely to become attached to someone who shows them sexual affection."
You only have their word for it that they are in a sexless marriage. More than likely it is a difference in sex drives, or simply the thrill of doing something you shouldn't.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I prefer attached men as im married myself and cant meet often due to family and workload and have met the same guy more than once . I have questioned myself and thought is it classed as an affair ? ...then thought no , not on my side its not ."
My process of thought exactly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"maybe it makes them feel important that the man has got a wife and he still wants you, or maybe she doesn't like other women very much."
And with a statement like this we hereby bury Sister Solidarity forever.
Amen. |
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"maybe it makes them feel important that the man has got a wife and he still wants you, or maybe she doesn't like other women very much.
And with a statement like this we hereby bury Sister Solidarity forever.
Amen."
Possibly true though eh. |
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"I noticed a few profile where the single girl has a thing for married or attached or cheating men.
What's the attraction? Is it the thrill of the forbidden?
Nb its not for me. I like single peeps. X"
I think different women go for attached men for different reasons, ie all of the above. some are very needy and need to prove to themselves they can outdo another woman, others like the fact that the married man is better for NSA. Personally I think those who say they don't go for attached men but do anyway are the worst ... what exactly are they doing it for? I agree with previous posters who say that even if one or the other is attached, if the attachment is broken because of sex with another, it wasn't the right thing in the first place.
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