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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have a dilema and am posting it to see if anyone has had similar issue and what they did;
I dont have facepic om prof because of my job but will send them in message once spoken to someone. So anyway today i was messaging back and forth with a fem, she attaches a pic and behold she is a girl from work sitting about 10meters away and has asked for my pic.
Ive yet to reply any ideas?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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if she is lovely mail could make for a very horny sexy time .....if you have the gutts as could end up hating each other and having to look at each others faces , lol only you know if you can handle it x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a dilema and am posting it to see if anyone has had similar issue and what they did;
I dont have facepic om prof because of my job but will send them in message once spoken to someone. So anyway today i was messaging back and forth with a fem, she attaches a pic and behold she is a girl from work sitting about 10meters away and has asked for my pic.
Ive yet to reply any ideas? "
Yep my idea is that she and some of the other girls in the office have been noticing you skivving at work and have looked up your browsing history and have joined the site and are having a ruddy good laugh waiting for you to respond while watching you all hot under the collar. But Im evil. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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if she looks here in the forum you have given the game away anyways lol.
I would say go for it, you both have the attraction obviously, could be fun and whats the worst that happens.
You dont meet, both know each others secret and it goes no further. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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you could either point her towards the forum...
...or, be a gent and say, "it would possibly cause both of us embarrassment if i sent you a picture as we do actually know each other"...then go on to assure her that you will, of course, be discrete |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"go on , connect , she will be as embarrassed as you, tell her to look up to see who is after her then see wat happens  "
I like that biker, ill send next time she leaves room |
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By *mf4BxJCouple
over a year ago
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"go on , connect , she will be as embarrassed as you, tell her to look up to see who is after her then see wat happens
I like that biker, ill send next time she leaves room"
So after all those suggestions you go for the one that makes you look/sound a bit creepy and is going to freak her out... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can assure its not a set up unless she gets on me ipone when im not around lol"
She's a woman for goodness sakes - of course she does....
Just randomly ask her what she thinks of online dating - dont leap in with swinging it will clam her up... be casual and calm... practice first... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"looking forward to hear an update on this!"
Me too its a bit like Match Dot COM ,,, dateing site , lol x That add on tv when thay start to sing to each other knowing thay are both looking to date , lolol x
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"looking forward to hear an update on this! Me too its a bit like Match Dot COM ,,, dateing site , lol x That add on tv when thay start to sing to each other knowing thay are both looking to date , lolol x"
I dnt think singing would be a good idea, unless she likes the sound of cats fighting.
Message has been sent with pic and a few kind words lol |
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"looking forward to hear an update on this! Me too its a bit like Match Dot COM ,,, dateing site , lol x That add on tv when thay start to sing to each other knowing thay are both looking to date , lolol x
I dnt think singing would be a good idea, unless she likes the sound of cats fighting.
Message has been sent with pic and a few kind words lol "
what did u say? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a dilema and am posting it to see if anyone has had similar issue and what they did;
I dont have facepic om prof because of my job but will send them in message once spoken to someone. So anyway today i was messaging back and forth with a fem, she attaches a pic and behold she is a girl from work sitting about 10meters away and has asked for my pic.
Ive yet to reply any ideas? "
So she has no problems with having a pic on site for professional reasons then?!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have a dilema and am posting it to see if anyone has had similar issue and what they did;
I dont have facepic om prof because of my job but will send them in message once spoken to someone. So anyway today i was messaging back and forth with a fem, she attaches a pic and behold she is a girl from work sitting about 10meters away and has asked for my pic.
Ive yet to reply any ideas?
So she has no problems with having a pic on site for professional reasons then?!! "
neither does he stop side steppign and bate your breath - go on you know you want to! This is worse than waiting for the George Best has finally died announcement |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Calling all staff....Passion for service, spill in aisle three, and budding romance between checkout 5 and checkout 12"
fnaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaarrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"I have a dilema and am posting it to see if anyone has had similar issue and what they did;
I dont have facepic om prof because of my job but will send them in message once spoken to someone. So anyway today i was messaging back and forth with a fem, she attaches a pic and behold she is a girl from work sitting about 10meters away and has asked for my pic.
Ive yet to reply any ideas?
So she has no problems with having a pic on site for professional reasons then?!! "
She attached it, the same as he did  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"looking forward to hear an update on this! Me too its a bit like Match Dot COM ,,, dateing site , lol x That add on tv when thay start to sing to each other knowing thay are both looking to date , lolol x
I dnt think singing would be a good idea, unless she likes the sound of cats fighting.
Message has been sent with pic and a few kind words lol "
well i am thinking of the right song for you here , lol cant get that add out my head now... just you at work her sitting there in front of you , god this is so erotic ,, can we swop .. i am fem .. she could be bi .. lol i hope she is nice xx sexy and all woman mmmm xxx fingers crossed xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Im sorry it was believable right to the very end. I feel flat now. I wanted hysterics and omg omg omg from her at the very least. Deffos a set up."
Histerics would have been funny im sorry to dissapoint you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im sorry it was believable right to the very end. I feel flat now. I wanted hysterics and omg omg omg from her at the very least. Deffos a set up.
Histerics would have been funny im sorry to dissapoint you "
yeah I wish you had let me write your ending - or that bloke from Eastenders.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think this just about confirms that social networking has killed the art of flirting and attracting. How come they never got together without the intervention of a website. When I was a lass you just had to walk through Purchasing and Shipping and had four phone numbers before you reached the typing pool..... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think this just about confirms that social networking has killed the art of flirting and attracting. How come they never got together without the intervention of a website. When I was a lass you just had to walk through Purchasing and Shipping and had four phone numbers before you reached the typing pool....."
I agree with what your saying, i prob wouldnt have made an effort otherwise because being at work, although social networking is easier i prefer good old charm and sweet talking  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think this just about confirms that social networking has killed the art of flirting and attracting. How come they never got together without the intervention of a website. When I was a lass you just had to walk through Purchasing and Shipping and had four phone numbers before you reached the typing pool.....
I agree with what your saying, i prob wouldnt have made an effort otherwise because being at work, although social networking is easier i prefer good old charm and sweet talking "
How can sitting alone at home doing all this social networking be easier than smiling at a pretty fanciable girl you see every single day at work? Whats happening to you young people? Why did you post this to a forum - why didnt you ask Sid in accounting what do do? Didnt you miss the meanignful looks and flirting and the lovely tickly feeling in your stomach as you lusted after her day in day out. Its soooooooooo unromantic!!!!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have a dilema and am posting it to see if anyone has had similar issue and what they did;
I dont have facepic om prof because of my job but will send them in message once spoken to someone. So anyway today i was messaging back and forth with a fem, she attaches a pic and behold she is a girl from work sitting about 10meters away and has asked for my pic.
Ive yet to reply any ideas? "
You're not actually posting from work, are you?
It's almost certainly a breach of your employer's Acceptable Use Policy and that's never a wise move. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your on here shes on here so whats the problem?
Personally though i wouldnt actually meet her as such but it may well be an advantage as a social friendship situation just keep the sex outta it xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would have found it much funnier if they had exchanged pics and then she screamed, jumped up and ran out of the office leaving behind a cloud of dust 
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By (user no longer on site)
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"you could either point her towards the forum...
...or, be a gent and say, "it would possibly cause both of us embarrassment if i sent you a picture as we do actually know each other"...then go on to assure her that you will, of course, be discrete"
think this is about the best thing to do. If she persists and wants to know you just meet her at a bar for a drink. If she broadcasts it, she will in turn be giving herself away. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" i just hope she is a nice looking woman and sexy ... i have this pic in my head how she should be , lol xx"
He knows what she looks like she works in same office lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" i just hope she is a nice looking woman and sexy ... i have this pic in my head how she should be , lol xx
He knows what she looks like she works in same office lol"
i know i dont , lol but hope she is nice for him , lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I want to know what happens next! This is worse than the eastenders drumroll!"
He has gone home now - he'll make something up in the morning. If he's bored. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your on here shes on here so whats the problem?
Personally though i wouldnt actually meet her as such but it may well be an advantage as a social friendship situation just keep the sex outta it xx "
*spits tea*
Yeah right Soapy! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would have found it much funnier if they had exchanged pics and then she screamed, jumped up and ran out of the office leaving behind a cloud of dust
Or jumped out of the office window...."
Haa haa haa haa behave you two! |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"I have a dilema and am posting it to see if anyone has had similar issue and what they did;
I dont have facepic om prof because of my job but will send them in message once spoken to someone. So anyway today i was messaging back and forth with a fem, she attaches a pic and behold she is a girl from work sitting about 10meters away and has asked for my pic.
Ive yet to reply any ideas?
You're not actually posting from work, are you?
It's almost certainly a breach of your employer's Acceptable Use Policy and that's never a wise move."
He was on his iphone |
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"I have a dilema and am posting it to see if anyone has had similar issue and what they did;
I dont have facepic om prof because of my job but will send them in message once spoken to someone. So anyway today i was messaging back and forth with a fem, she attaches a pic and behold she is a girl from work sitting about 10meters away and has asked for my pic.
Ive yet to reply any ideas?
You're not actually posting from work, are you?
It's almost certainly a breach of your employer's Acceptable Use Policy and that's never a wise move."
You ARE always so sensible!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have a dilema and am posting it to see if anyone has had similar issue and what they did;
I dont have facepic om prof because of my job but will send them in message once spoken to someone. So anyway today i was messaging back and forth with a fem, she attaches a pic and behold she is a girl from work sitting about 10meters away and has asked for my pic.
Ive yet to reply any ideas?
You're not actually posting from work, are you?
It's almost certainly a breach of your employer's Acceptable Use Policy and that's never a wise move.
You ARE always so sensible!! "
Not always right but usually sensible. |
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"I have a dilema and am posting it to see if anyone has had similar issue and what they did;
I dont have facepic om prof because of my job but will send them in message once spoken to someone. So anyway today i was messaging back and forth with a fem, she attaches a pic and behold she is a girl from work sitting about 10meters away and has asked for my pic.
Ive yet to reply any ideas? "
I bet this is a first, the odds against this happening must be massive, would be interesting to see if this has actually ever happened! Z |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i hate all that crap about cant have pics cos of my job.......... we all have jobs but you can be creative with yr pics, no pic is very suspicious i think "
Some Fabsters are more interested in personality than appearance. |
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"i hate all that crap about cant have pics cos of my job.......... we all have jobs but you can be creative with yr pics, no pic is very suspicious i think
Some Fabsters are more interested in personality than appearance."
Usually the ugly ones! Z |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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At the end of the day!
If shes on here, your on here!
If you find her attractive and would like some, then tell her what do you have to loose!
Shes meting you for a drink, so i don't think she is gonna reject.
Take the bull by the horns so to speak 
Similar to how i met my better half, thats all! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i hate all that crap about cant have pics cos of my job.......... we all have jobs but you can be creative with yr pics, no pic is very suspicious i think
Some Fabsters are more interested in personality than appearance.
Usually the ugly ones! Z"
What a fookin shallow thing to say  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Some Fabsters are more interested in personality than appearance.
Usually the ugly ones! Z
lol.. best post on here so far ...
anyway... any news on the date of the century ??"
Date went well got on alrite, bit awkard but kind of expected that, watch this space for a new fab couple  |
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Some Fabsters are more interested in personality than appearance.
Usually the ugly ones! Z
lol.. best post on here so far ...
anyway... any news on the date of the century ??
Date went well got on alrite, bit awkard but kind of expected that, watch this space for a new fab couple "
so wud u still swing? |
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"i hate all that crap about cant have pics cos of my job.......... we all have jobs but you can be creative with yr pics, no pic is very suspicious i think
Some Fabsters are more interested in personality than appearance.
Usually the ugly ones! Z
What a fookin shallow thing to say "
So shoot me! Z |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Some Fabsters are more interested in personality than appearance.
Usually the ugly ones! Z
lol.. best post on here so far ...
anyway... any news on the date of the century ??
Date went well got on alrite, bit awkard but kind of expected that, watch this space for a new fab couple
so wud u still swing?"
Cant see why not if it happens may aswell i think |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Block and move on
lol
a bit late now if she knows who he is she might get narky "
I thought she had sent her picture but he had not yet sent his, hence his dilemma |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Some Fabsters are more interested in personality than appearance.
Usually the ugly ones! Z
lol.. best post on here so far ...
anyway... any news on the date of the century ??
Date went well got on alrite, bit awkard but kind of expected that, watch this space for a new fab couple
so wud u still swing?
Cant see why not if it happens may aswell i think"
I'd have thought you'd want to get to know each other first before introducing others! 
Having a fb in the same office is certainly...erm different! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"never chat to people in your own town
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I only meet locally: have even bumped into a playmate in Sainsbury's and sat next to him on the morning commute! |
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