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why don't guys understand the word No???

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Really getting annoyed. Two weeks ago we were getting pestered at Chameleons by a black guy... We politely said no thanks. He became a nuisance. We tolerated it.

This Friday the same thing. He approached Me again on several occasions. I said no. Later we where having fun in the round room. Hubby spoke to him 3 times. Guy started a heated conversation with hubby. Ok manager did throw him out. Totally ruined the night. Simply because he wouldn't except No!! Seems to becoming the norm at chameleons of late. Shouldn't...No ! Mean No,??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This is what puts me off the thought of going to clubs

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By *awandOrderCouple over a year ago

SW London

Is it important that he was black? I don't see the relevance of this?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

An unpleasant mix of ego and denial...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Shouldnt this be called...Why didnt this guy and not guys

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By *estmidscoupleCouple over a year ago

West Midlands

Pleased the club dealt with it OP, but this guy sounds like a jerk and the vast majority of guys in clubs are lovely so fingers crossed this is an isolated blip.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Guy, guys, girls or couples, happens sometimes, some people can take the rejection.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

.....some can't xx

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By *iscean MaleMan over a year ago

Darlaston

I go to chams with my fb and now only go saturdays as we got fed up with some men (not all) just following, staring, wanking and trying their luck.

A no should be a no.

Also, not sure the importance of saying a black man.. why not just say a single male. In my experience some black white asian men can be club stalkers

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By *uthTVDerbysTV/TS over a year ago

Derby

"Shouldnt this be called...Why didnt this guy and not guys

Shouldn't it be Accept. And not Except?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I understand it ..... I hear it enough ....

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By *ilmiss75Woman over a year ago

Thornton

It's not just clubs it's on here too..

I've had that I'm not meeting on my profile for almost 3 weeks yet I'm still getting a large amount of mail. When I ask have they read what it says they state words to the effect of... well if you don't ask you don't get.

It's still a no

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I go to chams with my fb and now only go saturdays as we got fed up with some men (not all) just following, staring, wanking and trying their luck.

A no should be a no.

Also, not sure the importance of saying a black man.. why not just say a single male. In my experience some black white asian men can be club stalkers"

Just because he was a black guy simple as.. And a few not all white guys,behave the same. Witnessed another black guy being asked to leave last month to. Before you hound me...read our profile and verfications. Not racist in anyway shape or form..love black men. So read before you preach

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By *estmidscoupleCouple over a year ago

West Midlands

"It's not just clubs it's on here too..

It's still a no

"
No point asking if you fancy a meet on the off-chance then....

I'll get me coat

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By *ilmiss75Woman over a year ago

Thornton

"It's not just clubs it's on here too..

It's still a no

No point asking if you fancy a meet on the off-chance then....

I'll get me coat

I'd love one...but due to recent surgery, I'm not allowed

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By *estmidscoupleCouple over a year ago

West Midlands

"It's not just clubs it's on here too..

It's still a no

No point asking if you fancy a meet on the off-chance then....

I'll get me coat

I'd love one...but due to recent surgery, I'm not allowed

"
Fingers crossed and best wishes for a very speedy recovery for you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Maybe would be better if ratio,s in clubs,where more controlled.

Have to say though. Have never in 16 yrs of swinging ever had anyone start a row..because we said no.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This is the sort of thing that drives me mad. A complete lack of respect and gives guys a bad name across FAB

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By *iscean MaleMan over a year ago

Darlaston

"I go to chams with my fb and now only go saturdays as we got fed up with some men (not all) just following, staring, wanking and trying their luck.

A no should be a no.

Also, not sure the importance of saying a black man.. why not just say a single male. In my experience some black white asian men can be club stalkers

Touchy touchy arent we. Am not preaching nor implying you are racist so read before you comment.

As mentioned in ealier post..just curious why mentioning the race was important in your forum

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By *awandOrderCouple over a year ago

SW London

"I go to chams with my fb and now only go saturdays as we got fed up with some men (not all) just following, staring, wanking and trying their luck.

A no should be a no.

Also, not sure the importance of saying a black man.. why not just say a single male. In my experience some black white asian men can be club stalkers

I am not preaching and I have read your profile, so don't assume I haven't. It tells me a lot about how you see 'black guys'. He may have read it too .... still, does it make it a different story because he was black? Why not include his height and weight too? That sort of detail may be important to people

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By *awandOrderCouple over a year ago

SW London

"I go to chams with my fb and now only go saturdays as we got fed up with some men (not all) just following, staring, wanking and trying their luck.

A no should be a no.

Also, not sure the importance of saying a black man.. why not just say a single male. In my experience some black white asian men can be club stalkers

Touchy touchy arent we. Am not preaching nor implying you are racist so read before you comment.

As mentioned in ealier post..just curious why mentioning the race was important in your forum"

I queried it too, Mr Indian summer, as I wondered what it added to the story .... obvious to me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It should but some men are that sure of them selves they don't think you mean it x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Shouldnt this be called...Why didnt this guy and not guys

Shouldn't it be Accept. And not Except? "

Apologies for that one. Stand corrected.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I go to chams with my fb and now only go saturdays as we got fed up with some men (not all) just following, staring, wanking and trying their luck.

A no should be a no.

Also, not sure the importance of saying a black man.. why not just say a single male. In my experience some black white asian men can be club stalkers

Touchy touchy arent we. Am not preaching nor implying you are racist so read before you comment.

As mentioned in ealier post..just curious why mentioning the race was important in your forum

I queried it too, Mr Indian summer, as I wondered what it added to the story .... obvious to me."

Oh ffs she just happened to mention he was black why are you trying to imply she is racist

Or aren't people allowed to describe people

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"This is the sort of thing that drives me mad. A complete lack of respect and gives guys a bad name across FAB "

no no no no no no no.................

"being a tit" is not black guy exclusive, or single guy exclusive.....

I have seen single ladies being "rize tits" in clubs.... i have seen couples being "a pair of tits"

"some" people just don't take the word no and rejection well.....thats not exclusive to any one group!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

its not just guys who can't take no the amount of couples who get pissy when we say no is up there too

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By *awandOrderCouple over a year ago

SW London

"I go to chams with my fb and now only go saturdays as we got fed up with some men (not all) just following, staring, wanking and trying their luck.

A no should be a no.

Also, not sure the importance of saying a black man.. why not just say a single male. In my experience some black white asian men can be club stalkers

Touchy touchy arent we. Am not preaching nor implying you are racist so read before you comment.

As mentioned in ealier post..just curious why mentioning the race was important in your forum

I queried it too, Mr Indian summer, as I wondered what it added to the story .... obvious to me.

Oh ffs she just happened to mention he was black why are you trying to imply she is racist

Or aren't people allowed to describe people

Why would something like that matter though?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This is the sort of thing that drives me mad. A complete lack of respect and gives guys a bad name across FAB

no no no no no no no.................

"being a tit" is not black guy exclusive, or single guy exclusive.....

I have seen single ladies being "rize tits" in clubs.... i have seen couples being "a pair of tits"

"some" people just don't take the word no and rejection well.....thats not exclusive to any one group!"

Ok I'll shall add that single guys are the "majority" that cannot understand NO

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I go to chams with my fb and now only go saturdays as we got fed up with some men (not all) just following, staring, wanking and trying their luck.

A no should be a no.

Also, not sure the importance of saying a black man.. why not just say a single male. In my experience some black white asian men can be club stalkers

Touchy touchy arent we. Am not preaching nor implying you are racist so read before you comment.

As mentioned in ealier post..just curious why mentioning the race was important in your forum

I queried it too, Mr Indian summer, as I wondered what it added to the story .... obvious to me.

Oh ffs she just happened to mention he was black why are you trying to imply she is racist

Or aren't people allowed to describe people

Why would something like that matter though?"

She was describing the person and you jumped on it like a tramp on chips. Forgetting the point she was making about some men who don't take no for an answer!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I go to chams with my fb and now only go saturdays as we got fed up with some men (not all) just following, staring, wanking and trying their luck.

A no should be a no.

Also, not sure the importance of saying a black man.. why not just say a single male. In my experience some black white asian men can be club stalkers

Touchy touchy arent we. Am not preaching nor implying you are racist so read before you comment.

As mentioned in ealier post..just curious why mentioning the race was important in your forum

I queried it too, Mr Indian summer, as I wondered what it added to the story .... obvious to me.

Oh ffs she just happened to mention he was black why are you trying to imply she is racist

Or aren't people allowed to describe people

Why would something like that matter though?"

Because he was a black guy

If a black guy beat you in the street would you say to the police a guy beat me? No

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I go to chams with my fb and now only go saturdays as we got fed up with some men (not all) just following, staring, wanking and trying their luck.

A no should be a no.

Also, not sure the importance of saying a black man.. why not just say a single male. In my experience some black white asian men can be club stalkers

Touchy touchy arent we. Am not preaching nor implying you are racist so read before you comment.

As mentioned in ealier post..just curious why mentioning the race was important in your forum

I queried it too, Mr Indian summer, as I wondered what it added to the story .... obvious to me.

Oh ffs she just happened to mention he was black why are you trying to imply she is racist

Or aren't people allowed to describe people

Why would something like that matter though?

She was describing the person and you jumped on it like a tramp on chips. Forgetting the point she was making about some men who don't take no for an answer!"

Seems like some do have a chip on there shoulder

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By *awandOrderCouple over a year ago

SW London

"I go to chams with my fb and now only go saturdays as we got fed up with some men (not all) just following, staring, wanking and trying their luck.

A no should be a no.

Also, not sure the importance of saying a black man.. why not just say a single male. In my experience some black white asian men can be club stalkers

Touchy touchy arent we. Am not preaching nor implying you are racist so read before you comment.

As mentioned in ealier post..just curious why mentioning the race was important in your forum

I queried it too, Mr Indian summer, as I wondered what it added to the story .... obvious to me.

Oh ffs she just happened to mention he was black why are you trying to imply she is racist

Or aren't people allowed to describe people

Why would something like that matter though?

She was describing the person and you jumped on it like a tramp on chips. Forgetting the point she was making about some men who don't take no for an answer!"

Just thought it was strange .... but okay, sorry I have a different opinion here. what's wrong with chips anyway? Meow

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I go to chams with my fb and now only go saturdays as we got fed up with some men (not all) just following, staring, wanking and trying their luck.

A no should be a no.

Also, not sure the importance of saying a black man.. why not just say a single male. In my experience some black white asian men can be club stalkers

Touchy touchy arent we. Am not preaching nor implying you are racist so read before you comment.

As mentioned in ealier post..just curious why mentioning the race was important in your forum

I queried it too, Mr Indian summer, as I wondered what it added to the story .... obvious to me.

Oh ffs she just happened to mention he was black why are you trying to imply she is racist

Or aren't people allowed to describe people

Why would something like that matter though?

She was describing the person and you jumped on it like a tramp on chips. Forgetting the point she was making about some men who don't take no for an answer!

Seems like some do have a chip on there shoulder

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I go to chams with my fb and now only go saturdays as we got fed up with some men (not all) just following, staring, wanking and trying their luck.

A no should be a no.

Also, not sure the importance of saying a black man.. why not just say a single male. In my experience some black white asian men can be club stalkers

Touchy touchy arent we. Am not preaching nor implying you are racist so read before you comment.

As mentioned in ealier post..just curious why mentioning the race was important in your forum

I queried it too, Mr Indian summer, as I wondered what it added to the story .... obvious to me."

If is was a white single guy. I would of stated white guy.

Touchy!!! Dam right hate being treated like a piece of meat. Just because he's paid ,to come through the door doesn't mean he can do what he likes. From the way you're speaking. Looks like you slip into the same category.

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By *awandOrderCouple over a year ago

SW London

"I go to chams with my fb and now only go saturdays as we got fed up with some men (not all) just following, staring, wanking and trying their luck.

A no should be a no.

Also, not sure the importance of saying a black man.. why not just say a single male. In my experience some black white asian men can be club stalkers

Touchy touchy arent we. Am not preaching nor implying you are racist so read before you comment.

As mentioned in ealier post..just curious why mentioning the race was important in your forum

I queried it too, Mr Indian summer, as I wondered what it added to the story .... obvious to me.

Oh ffs she just happened to mention he was black why are you trying to imply she is racist

Or aren't people allowed to describe people

Why would something like that matter though?

Because he was a black guy

If a black guy beat you in the street would you say to the police a guy beat me? No "

We aren't the police though, are we? My point is, if I was telling the police, I would describe him in more detail because, contrary to popular opinion, not all black men are or look the same, so they would ask for other details about the man, not just that he is black. They stopped this racial profiling a while ago. If I was telling my friends I was attacked, or some random strangers on an online forum, I would say a man attacked me, I wouldn't need to make a point that he was black, no. I am genuinely interested in why people say certain things .... and why others, certain others, jump in with so much venom, to their defence ....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I go to chams with my fb and now only go saturdays as we got fed up with some men (not all) just following, staring, wanking and trying their luck.

A no should be a no.

Also, not sure the importance of saying a black man.. why not just say a single male. In my experience some black white asian men can be club stalkers

Touchy touchy arent we. Am not preaching nor implying you are racist so read before you comment.

As mentioned in ealier post..just curious why mentioning the race was important in your forum

I queried it too, Mr Indian summer, as I wondered what it added to the story .... obvious to me.

If is was a white single guy. I would of stated white guy.

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

Ok I'll shall add that single guys are the "majority" that cannot understand NO"

but you don't know that is true either.... that just makes you look good with the people you are trying to get with....

you should see some of the mail i get from couples and ladies if i say no thank you....but i don't label people because the actions of a few....

look... a tit is a tit.... and if someone is being a tit in a club, they are not helping their chances.... and they are helping mine, because i act differently to the person/people being tits!!!

i am the only one who affects what i do.... no one else....

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By *awandOrderCouple over a year ago

SW London

"I go to chams with my fb and now only go saturdays as we got fed up with some men (not all) just following, staring, wanking and trying their luck.

A no should be a no.

Also, not sure the importance of saying a black man.. why not just say a single male. In my experience some black white asian men can be club stalkers

Touchy touchy arent we. Am not preaching nor implying you are racist so read before you comment.

As mentioned in ealier post..just curious why mentioning the race was important in your forum

I queried it too, Mr Indian summer, as I wondered what it added to the story .... obvious to me.

If is was a white single guy. I would of stated white guy.

I am a white female, five foot one, who isn't meeting at the moment due to overload at work. when I go to clubs, with or without my partner, I don't play ... exactly how does that make me the same? Or are you, after reading our profile, assuming I am the male half of the couple getting upset about you calling out black men? Btw, he wasn't there ...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Shouldnt this be called...Why didnt this guy and not guys

No because all men in the history of swinging act like this guy.

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By *LCCCouple over a year ago

Cambridge

We didn't like so many single guys in chams. We also saw a serious sexual assault in there by one these single guys, so I doubt we will be returning there.

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By *awandOrderCouple over a year ago

SW London

"We didn't like so many single guys in chams. We also saw a serious sexual assault in there by one these single guys, so I doubt we will be returning there. "

Oh my goodness guys, you forgot to say if he was black ....

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I go to chams with my fb and now only go saturdays as we got fed up with some men (not all) just following, staring, wanking and trying their luck.

A no should be a no.

Also, not sure the importance of saying a black man.. why not just say a single male. In my experience some black white asian men can be club stalkers

Touchy touchy arent we. Am not preaching nor implying you are racist so read before you comment.

As mentioned in ealier post..just curious why mentioning the race was important in your forum

I queried it too, Mr Indian summer, as I wondered what it added to the story .... obvious to me.

Oh ffs she just happened to mention he was black why are you trying to imply she is racist

Or aren't people allowed to describe people

Why would something like that matter though?

She was describing the person and you jumped on it like a tramp on chips. Forgetting the point she was making about some men who don't take no for an answer!

Seems like some do have a chip on there shoulder

Thankyou...it was merely a description... Not a racist rant!!! I've said no to load's of guys black and white. Never had a guy.. Take on hubby over it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I go to chams with my fb and now only go saturdays as we got fed up with some men (not all) just following, staring, wanking and trying their luck.

A no should be a no.

Also, not sure the importance of saying a black man.. why not just say a single male. In my experience some black white asian men can be club stalkers

Touchy touchy arent we. Am not preaching nor implying you are racist so read before you comment.

As mentioned in ealier post..just curious why mentioning the race was important in your forum

I queried it too, Mr Indian summer, as I wondered what it added to the story .... obvious to me.

Oh ffs she just happened to mention he was black why are you trying to imply she is racist

Or aren't people allowed to describe people

Why would something like that matter though?

She was describing the person and you jumped on it like a tramp on chips. Forgetting the point she was making about some men who don't take no for an answer!"

But the guy's ethnicity has no relevance whatsoever

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By *awandOrderCouple over a year ago

SW London

"I go to chams with my fb and now only go saturdays as we got fed up with some men (not all) just following, staring, wanking and trying their luck.

A no should be a no.

Also, not sure the importance of saying a black man.. why not just say a single male. In my experience some black white asian men can be club stalkers

Touchy touchy arent we. Am not preaching nor implying you are racist so read before you comment.

As mentioned in ealier post..just curious why mentioning the race was important in your forum

I queried it too, Mr Indian summer, as I wondered what it added to the story .... obvious to me.

Oh ffs she just happened to mention he was black why are you trying to imply she is racist

Or aren't people allowed to describe people

Why would something like that matter though?

She was describing the person and you jumped on it like a tramp on chips. Forgetting the point she was making about some men who don't take no for an answer!

But the guy's ethnicity has no relevance whatsoever"

Thank you .... now, I am still waiting for the response as to why I am exactly the same as he is .... because that is a personal insult ....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I go to chams with my fb and now only go saturdays as we got fed up with some men (not all) just following, staring, wanking and trying their luck.

A no should be a no.

Also, not sure the importance of saying a black man.. why not just say a single male. In my experience some black white asian men can be club stalkers

Touchy touchy arent we. Am not preaching nor implying you are racist so read before you comment.

As mentioned in ealier post..just curious why mentioning the race was important in your forum

I queried it too, Mr Indian summer, as I wondered what it added to the story .... obvious to me.

Oh ffs she just happened to mention he was black why are you trying to imply she is racist

Or aren't people allowed to describe people

Why would something like that matter though?

Because he was a black guy

If a black guy beat you in the street would you say to the police a guy beat me? No

Perhaps you attract venom with your attitude on here and other threads.

The most important thing is she felt uncomfortable but let's not let that get in the way of you making a pathetic attempt of accusing people of racism.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's a real shame that this happens .

Guys feel a sense of entitlement at times , and Friday nights are very popular with single guys .

There is no excuse for it , and it's good they threw him out , but it's a bit like shutting the gate after the horse has bolted .

Perhaps they could have more a proactive presence in showing guys the etiquette ?

Oh and the colour of the skin makes no difference at all , from our experience there are equally as many twats in every race . By the same token , equally as many wonderful guys in every race .

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"We didn't like so many single guys in chams. We also saw a serious sexual assault in there by one these single guys, so I doubt we will be returning there. "

OMG sexual assualt...really!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I go to chams with my fb and now only go saturdays as we got fed up with some men (not all) just following, staring, wanking and trying their luck.

A no should be a no.

Also, not sure the importance of saying a black man.. why not just say a single male. In my experience some black white asian men can be club stalkers

Touchy touchy arent we. Am not preaching nor implying you are racist so read before you comment.

As mentioned in ealier post..just curious why mentioning the race was important in your forum

I queried it too, Mr Indian summer, as I wondered what it added to the story .... obvious to me.

Oh ffs she just happened to mention he was black why are you trying to imply she is racist

Or aren't people allowed to describe people

Why would something like that matter though?

She was describing the person and you jumped on it like a tramp on chips. Forgetting the point she was making about some men who don't take no for an answer!"

A tramp on chips hahaha that made me giggle

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It's a real shame that this happens .

Guys feel a sense of entitlement at times , and Friday nights are very popular with single guys .

There is no excuse for it , and it's good they threw him out , but it's a bit like shutting the gate after the horse has bolted .

Perhaps they could have more a proactive presence in showing guys the etiquette ?

Oh and the colour of the skin makes no difference at all , from our experience there are equally as many twats in every race . By the same token , equally as many wonderful guys in every race .

Agree there are many wonderful guys of all races

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This is the sort of thing that drives me mad. A complete lack of respect and gives guys a bad name across FAB

no no no no no no no.................

"being a tit" is not black guy exclusive, or single guy exclusive.....

I have seen single ladies being "rize tits" in clubs.... i have seen couples being "a pair of tits"

"some" people just don't take the word no and rejection well.....thats not exclusive to any one group!"

Totally agree with this...

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By *awandOrderCouple over a year ago

SW London

"I go to chams with my fb and now only go saturdays as we got fed up with some men (not all) just following, staring, wanking and trying their luck.

A no should be a no.

Also, not sure the importance of saying a black man.. why not just say a single male. In my experience some black white asian men can be club stalkers

Touchy touchy arent we. Am not preaching nor implying you are racist so read before you comment.

As mentioned in ealier post..just curious why mentioning the race was important in your forum

I queried it too, Mr Indian summer, as I wondered what it added to the story .... obvious to me.

Oh ffs she just happened to mention he was black why are you trying to imply she is racist

Or aren't people allowed to describe people

Why would something like that matter though?

She was describing the person and you jumped on it like a tramp on chips. Forgetting the point she was making about some men who don't take no for an answer!

A tramp on chips hahaha that made me giggle"

Glad to see that, as it didn't make me giggle. I have been compared to someone who was thrown out of a club .... here on a public forum, and there is no recourse, no explanation .... well done OP, you are centre stage, just as you wanted. Anyone who queries you shall be laughed at and undermined in good old British fashion

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By *awandOrderCouple over a year ago

SW London

"I go to chams with my fb and now only go saturdays as we got fed up with some men (not all) just following, staring, wanking and trying their luck.

A no should be a no.

Also, not sure the importance of saying a black man.. why not just say a single male. In my experience some black white asian men can be club stalkers

Touchy touchy arent we. Am not preaching nor implying you are racist so read before you comment.

As mentioned in ealier post..just curious why mentioning the race was important in your forum

I queried it too, Mr Indian summer, as I wondered what it added to the story .... obvious to me.

Oh ffs she just happened to mention he was black why are you trying to imply she is racist

Or aren't people allowed to describe people

Why would something like that matter though?

Because he was a black guy

If a black guy beat you in the street would you say to the police a guy beat me? No

Perhaps you attract venom with your attitude on here and other threads.

The most important thing is she felt uncomfortable but let's not let that get in the way of you making a pathetic attempt of accusing people of racism. "

God, do people really follow everything I say, should I be flattered ... are you sure its me who is like the tramp and chips?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I go to chams with my fb and now only go saturdays as we got fed up with some men (not all) just following, staring, wanking and trying their luck.

A no should be a no.

Also, not sure the importance of saying a black man.. why not just say a single male. In my experience some black white asian men can be club stalkers

Touchy touchy arent we. Am not preaching nor implying you are racist so read before you comment.

As mentioned in ealier post..just curious why mentioning the race was important in your forum

I queried it too, Mr Indian summer, as I wondered what it added to the story .... obvious to me.

Oh ffs she just happened to mention he was black why are you trying to imply she is racist

Or aren't people allowed to describe people

Why would something like that matter though?

Because he was a black guy

If a black guy beat you in the street would you say to the police a guy beat me? No

Perhaps you attract venom with your attitude on here and other threads.

The most important thing is she felt uncomfortable but let's not let that get in the way of you making a pathetic attempt of accusing people of racism.

God, do people really follow everything I say, should I be flattered ... are you sure its me who is like the tramp and chips?"

It's not just me who noticed. Oh yes it's definitely you.

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By *awandOrderCouple over a year ago

SW London

Anyway, off to get some chips. And wait for the explanation of why I am like the man in the club ..... wont hold my breath though

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I go to chams with my fb and now only go saturdays as we got fed up with some men (not all) just following, staring, wanking and trying their luck.

A no should be a no.

Also, not sure the importance of saying a black man.. why not just say a single male. In my experience some black white asian men can be club stalkers

Touchy touchy arent we. Am not preaching nor implying you are racist so read before you comment.

As mentioned in ealier post..just curious why mentioning the race was important in your forum

I queried it too, Mr Indian summer, as I wondered what it added to the story .... obvious to me.

Oh ffs she just happened to mention he was black why are you trying to imply she is racist

Or aren't people allowed to describe people

Why would something like that matter though?

Because he was a black guy

If a black guy beat you in the street would you say to the police a guy beat me? No

Perhaps you attract venom with your attitude on here and other threads.

The most important thing is she felt uncomfortable but let's not let that get in the way of you making a pathetic attempt of accusing people of racism. "

Maybe instead of attacking people you disagree with you could explain what significance the word black has in the contect of this thread?

Particulary considering the OP is attempting to sterotype all men and not just some as being unable to take no as an answer

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By *iscean MaleMan over a year ago

Darlaston

"Anyway, off to get some chips. And wait for the explanation of why I am like the man in the club ..... wont hold my breath though"

Enjoy your chips.. much more tastier than this. Save me one

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's getting almost impossible to post anything on these pages without the forum police jumping all over it, waiting to pounce on anybody that doesn't adhere to their own politically correct rules or dares to use incorrect grammar, or God forbid, misspell a word!......

Nothing positive to add to a post?....then jog on and leave the op alone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I go to chams with my fb and now only go saturdays as we got fed up with some men (not all) just following, staring, wanking and trying their luck.

A no should be a no.

Also, not sure the importance of saying a black man.. why not just say a single male. In my experience some black white asian men can be club stalkers

Touchy touchy arent we. Am not preaching nor implying you are racist so read before you comment.

As mentioned in ealier post..just curious why mentioning the race was important in your forum

I queried it too, Mr Indian summer, as I wondered what it added to the story .... obvious to me.

Oh ffs she just happened to mention he was black why are you trying to imply she is racist

Or aren't people allowed to describe people

Why would something like that matter though?

She was describing the person and you jumped on it like a tramp on chips. Forgetting the point she was making about some men who don't take no for an answer!

But the guy's ethnicity has no relevance whatsoever

Thank you .... now, I am still waiting for the response as to why I am exactly the same as he is .... because that is a personal insult .... "

Because from how I see it.. You're insulting me. By Implying I'm a racist! When I'm far from it. From what I read in your threads. You seem to agree with this type of behaviour. Your words speak volumes'!!!!!

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By *ikeC81Man over a year ago

harrow

First of all no means no

If you ask and a couple or fem say no say ok and move on end of

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I read this whole thread and still trying to work out how if went from "guys not taking no for an answer" to "your a racist"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's getting almost impossible to post anything on these pages without the forum police jumping all over it, waiting to pounce on anybody that doesn't adhere to their own politically correct rules or dares to use incorrect grammar, or God forbid, misspell a word!......

Nothing positive to add to a post?....then jog on and leave the op alone."

Well said

I think some people like to create an issue. Must lead such interesting lives

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I go to chams with my fb and now only go saturdays as we got fed up with some men (not all) just following, staring, wanking and trying their luck.

A no should be a no.

Also, not sure the importance of saying a black man.. why not just say a single male. In my experience some black white asian men can be club stalkers

Touchy touchy arent we. Am not preaching nor implying you are racist so read before you comment.

As mentioned in ealier post..just curious why mentioning the race was important in your forum

I queried it too, Mr Indian summer, as I wondered what it added to the story .... obvious to me.

Oh ffs she just happened to mention he was black why are you trying to imply she is racist

Or aren't people allowed to describe people

Why would something like that matter though?

Because he was a black guy

If a black guy beat you in the street would you say to the police a guy beat me? No

Perhaps you attract venom with your attitude on here and other threads.

The most important thing is she felt uncomfortable but let's not let that get in the way of you making a pathetic attempt of accusing people of racism.

Maybe instead of attacking people you disagree with you could explain what significance the word black has in the contect of this thread?

Particulary considering the OP is attempting to sterotype all men and not just some as being unable to take no as an answer"

It was relevant to the OP not sure why the forum police are so interested in villifying the OP for describing someone but you carry on.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Really getting annoyed. Two weeks ago we were getting pestered at Chameleons by a black guy... We politely said no thanks. He became a nuisance. We tolerated it.

"
Not other been to a club yet.. so out of interest. What is the etiquette when attending a club as both a single guy and a couple

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I go to chams with my fb and now only go saturdays as we got fed up with some men (not all) just following, staring, wanking and trying their luck.

A no should be a no.

Also, not sure the importance of saying a black man.. why not just say a single male. In my experience some black white asian men can be club stalkers

Touchy touchy arent we. Am not preaching nor implying you are racist so read before you comment.

As mentioned in ealier post..just curious why mentioning the race was important in your forum

I queried it too, Mr Indian summer, as I wondered what it added to the story .... obvious to me.

Oh ffs she just happened to mention he was black why are you trying to imply she is racist

Or aren't people allowed to describe people

Why would something like that matter though?

Because he was a black guy

If a black guy beat you in the street would you say to the police a guy beat me? No

Perhaps you attract venom with your attitude on here and other threads.

The most important thing is she felt uncomfortable but let's not let that get in the way of you making a pathetic attempt of accusing people of racism.

Maybe instead of attacking people you disagree with you could explain what significance the word black has in the contect of this thread?

Particulary considering the OP is attempting to sterotype all men and not just some as being unable to take no as an answer

It was relevant to the OP not sure why the forum police are so interested in villifying the OP for describing someone but you carry on.

Dolce...not listening to him anymore. Obviously he likes to have a god row. And doesn't appreciate anyone's opinion other than his own.,x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We were at a club a few weeks ago and we had to say to a guy about 5 or 6 times not to touch. Thankfully that's the only time that has happened and we have only ever had to say to guys once. Most are respectful but you always get the odd one to spoil it. Thankfully they are few and far between x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I go to chams with my fb and now only go saturdays as we got fed up with some men (not all) just following, staring, wanking and trying their luck.

A no should be a no.

Also, not sure the importance of saying a black man.. why not just say a single male. In my experience some black white asian men can be club stalkers

Touchy touchy arent we. Am not preaching nor implying you are racist so read before you comment.

As mentioned in ealier post..just curious why mentioning the race was important in your forum

I queried it too, Mr Indian summer, as I wondered what it added to the story .... obvious to me.

Oh ffs she just happened to mention he was black why are you trying to imply she is racist

Or aren't people allowed to describe people

Why would something like that matter though?

She was describing the person and you jumped on it like a tramp on chips. Forgetting the point she was making about some men who don't take no for an answer!

A tramp on chips hahaha that made me giggle

I was giggling at the turn of phrase, not at you. Too much drama

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Really getting annoyed. Two weeks ago we were getting pestered at Chameleons by a black guy... We politely said no thanks. He became a nuisance. We tolerated it.

"
has he had his membership revoked? Should do. !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

think club think benny hill think benny hill think club you move they follow you move faster they follow faster lol that's why we don't do clubs often and don't get started on the clicky its our club lot lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Really getting annoyed. Two weeks ago we were getting pestered at Chameleons by a black guy... We politely said no thanks. He became a nuisance. We tolerated it.

Not other been to a club yet.. so out of interest. What is the etiquette when attending a club as both a single guy and a couple

You ask before making any move , and accept no means no .

Same for everyone

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I go to chams with my fb and now only go saturdays as we got fed up with some men (not all) just following, staring, wanking and trying their luck.

A no should be a no.

Also, not sure the importance of saying a black man.. why not just say a single male. In my experience some black white asian men can be club stalkers

Touchy touchy arent we. Am not preaching nor implying you are racist so read before you comment.

As mentioned in ealier post..just curious why mentioning the race was important in your forum

I queried it too, Mr Indian summer, as I wondered what it added to the story .... obvious to me.

Oh ffs she just happened to mention he was black why are you trying to imply she is racist

Or aren't people allowed to describe people

Why would something like that matter though?

Because he was a black guy

If a black guy beat you in the street would you say to the police a guy beat me? No

Perhaps you attract venom with your attitude on here and other threads.

The most important thing is she felt uncomfortable but let's not let that get in the way of you making a pathetic attempt of accusing people of racism.

Maybe instead of attacking people you disagree with you could explain what significance the word black has in the contect of this thread?

Particulary considering the OP is attempting to sterotype all men and not just some as being unable to take no as an answer

It was relevant to the OP not sure why the forum police are so interested in villifying the OP for describing someone but you carry on.

Dolce...not listening to him anymore. Obviously he likes to have a god row. And doesn't appreciate anyone's opinion other than his own.,x"

I noticed that too

. Especially like the bit where I get accused of "attacking" people then he does exactly the same

. Nothing relevant to say so tries to cause an issue. As pathetic as the other one

. More to the point sorry to hear about your bad experience. Xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I go to chams with my fb and now only go saturdays as we got fed up with some men (not all) just following, staring, wanking and trying their luck.

A no should be a no.

Also, not sure the importance of saying a black man.. why not just say a single male. In my experience some black white asian men can be club stalkers

Touchy touchy arent we. Am not preaching nor implying you are racist so read before you comment.

As mentioned in ealier post..just curious why mentioning the race was important in your forum

I queried it too, Mr Indian summer, as I wondered what it added to the story .... obvious to me.

Oh ffs she just happened to mention he was black why are you trying to imply she is racist

Or aren't people allowed to describe people

Why would something like that matter though?

She was describing the person and you jumped on it like a tramp on chips. Forgetting the point she was making about some men who don't take no for an answer!

A tramp on chips hahaha that made me giggle

I was giggling at the turn of phrase, not at you. Too much drama

Ignore them Jen she's determined to get a rise

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By *ficouldMan over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

No is a No!

In a club or out of it, makes no difference at all!

There is always people who will and will not understand the true meaning of the word.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

May I add.The minority of single guys in the swing scene. Ruin it for the majority. Women who frequent swing clubs. Are not prostitutes. Just because you pay on the door,does not entitle you to sex!

We have noticed a increase ,into this pushy behaviour ,of late from certain single guys . Of all races.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I go to chams with my fb and now only go saturdays as we got fed up with some men (not all) just following, staring, wanking and trying their luck.

A no should be a no.

Also, not sure the importance of saying a black man.. why not just say a single male. In my experience some black white asian men can be club stalkers

Touchy touchy arent we. Am not preaching nor implying you are racist so read before you comment.

As mentioned in ealier post..just curious why mentioning the race was important in your forum

I queried it too, Mr Indian summer, as I wondered what it added to the story .... obvious to me.

Oh ffs she just happened to mention he was black why are you trying to imply she is racist

Or aren't people allowed to describe people

Why would something like that matter though?

Because he was a black guy

If a black guy beat you in the street would you say to the police a guy beat me? No

Perhaps you attract venom with your attitude on here and other threads.

The most important thing is she felt uncomfortable but let's not let that get in the way of you making a pathetic attempt of accusing people of racism.

Maybe instead of attacking people you disagree with you could explain what significance the word black has in the contect of this thread?

Particulary considering the OP is attempting to sterotype all men and not just some as being unable to take no as an answer

It was relevant to the OP not sure why the forum police are so interested in villifying the OP for describing someone but you carry on.

Dolce...not listening to him anymore. Obviously he likes to have a god row. And doesn't appreciate anyone's opinion other than his own.,x

I noticed that too

. Especially like the bit where I get accused of "attacking" people then he does exactly the same

. Nothing relevant to say so tries to cause an issue. As pathetic as the other one

. More to the point sorry to hear about your bad experience. Xx"

I;ve asked a question about the post, where have I attacked you or anyone else on this thread?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I go to chams with my fb and now only go saturdays as we got fed up with some men (not all) just following, staring, wanking and trying their luck.

A no should be a no.

Also, not sure the importance of saying a black man.. why not just say a single male. In my experience some black white asian men can be club stalkers

Touchy touchy arent we. Am not preaching nor implying you are racist so read before you comment.

As mentioned in ealier post..just curious why mentioning the race was important in your forum

I queried it too, Mr Indian summer, as I wondered what it added to the story .... obvious to me.

Oh ffs she just happened to mention he was black why are you trying to imply she is racist

Or aren't people allowed to describe people

Why would something like that matter though?

Because he was a black guy

If a black guy beat you in the street would you say to the police a guy beat me? No

Perhaps you attract venom with your attitude on here and other threads.

The most important thing is she felt uncomfortable but let's not let that get in the way of you making a pathetic attempt of accusing people of racism.

Maybe instead of attacking people you disagree with you could explain what significance the word black has in the contect of this thread?

Particulary considering the OP is attempting to sterotype all men and not just some as being unable to take no as an answer

It was relevant to the OP not sure why the forum police are so interested in villifying the OP for describing someone but you carry on.

Dolce...not listening to him anymore. Obviously he likes to have a god row. And doesn't appreciate anyone's opinion other than his own.,x

I noticed that too

. Especially like the bit where I get accused of "attacking" people then he does exactly the same

. Nothing relevant to say so tries to cause an issue. As pathetic as the other one

. More to the point sorry to hear about your bad experience. Xx"

Dolce obviously he was removed from a club at some stage. Truth always hurts. . Nothing useful to say ,

So why did he even bother . Yes felt very uncomfortable

. 2 other well behaved single guys came to intervene . They made sure,I was ok. Whilst hubby went to find the manager x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I go to chams with my fb and now only go saturdays as we got fed up with some men (not all) just following, staring, wanking and trying their luck.

A no should be a no.

Also, not sure the importance of saying a black man.. why not just say a single male. In my experience some black white asian men can be club stalkers

Touchy touchy arent we. Am not preaching nor implying you are racist so read before you comment.

As mentioned in ealier post..just curious why mentioning the race was important in your forum

I queried it too, Mr Indian summer, as I wondered what it added to the story .... obvious to me.

Oh ffs she just happened to mention he was black why are you trying to imply she is racist

Or aren't people allowed to describe people

Why would something like that matter though?

Because he was a black guy

If a black guy beat you in the street would you say to the police a guy beat me? No

Perhaps you attract venom with your attitude on here and other threads.

The most important thing is she felt uncomfortable but let's not let that get in the way of you making a pathetic attempt of accusing people of racism.

Maybe instead of attacking people you disagree with you could explain what significance the word black has in the contect of this thread?

Particulary considering the OP is attempting to sterotype all men and not just some as being unable to take no as an answer

It was relevant to the OP not sure why the forum police are so interested in villifying the OP for describing someone but you carry on.

Dolce...not listening to him anymore. Obviously he likes to have a god row. And doesn't appreciate anyone's opinion other than his own.,x

I noticed that too

. Especially like the bit where I get accused of "attacking" people then he does exactly the same

. Nothing relevant to say so tries to cause an issue. As pathetic as the other one

. More to the point sorry to hear about your bad experience. Xx

Dolce obviously he was removed from a club at some stage. Truth always hurts. . Nothing useful to say ,

So why did he even bother . Yes felt very uncomfortable

. 2 other well behaved single guys came to intervene . They made sure,I was ok. Whilst hubby went to find the manager x"

I'd agree

. Only interested in perceived racism not about your horrible experience. Fucking unbelievable and pathetic.

Hopefully your next time at a club will be more enjoyable. Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I read this whole thread and still trying to work out how if went from "guys not taking no for an answer" to "your a racist"

Simply because I said I was approached by a black guy. Simple as that. How that makes me racist.God alone knows... But if you read our profile. His Comments are laughable x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Internet forums in a nutshell in one thread.

Oh dear.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The first thing to say is that it is bad news that OP had a bad experience and we all sympathise with her for her that.

The problem is that the initial post led with a major generalisation which has now been corrected.

What is being points out is if the main issue was her bad experience the colour of the person was irrelevant. In regard to the police report analogy it does not work because colour would only be one issue, height would be included and what the person was wearing. Would it be relevant to say she was abused by a short/tall/fat person because these were not mentioned and would be in a police report.

I am not saying OP is racist, but racists when complaining about a situation emphasise colour above anything else. Therefore OPs comment could be in my view be interpreted as being racist even if she is not racist.

Although this is opening another can of worms some black people find the acronym BBC stereo typing and used by people who stereotype black people. I know people will jump in and say "but black men use BBC on their profiles"

I have two responses but the short one is this .Some black people use the N word (normally gangstsa rappers that high point of black culture!) but right thinking black people would not use it.

But hey we all know racism and sexism is a fraud and used by people who are forum police and a front for people with chips on their shoulders! Yes l am being ironic.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I go to chams with my fb and now only go saturdays as we got fed up with some men (not all) just following, staring, wanking and trying their luck.

A no should be a no.

Also, not sure the importance of saying a black man.. why not just say a single male. In my experience some black white asian men can be club stalkers

Touchy touchy arent we. Am not preaching nor implying you are racist so read before you comment.

As mentioned in ealier post..just curious why mentioning the race was important in your forum

I queried it too, Mr Indian summer, as I wondered what it added to the story .... obvious to me.

Oh ffs she just happened to mention he was black why are you trying to imply she is racist

Or aren't people allowed to describe people

Why would something like that matter though?

Because he was a black guy

If a black guy beat you in the street would you say to the police a guy beat me? No

Perhaps you attract venom with your attitude on here and other threads.

The most important thing is she felt uncomfortable but let's not let that get in the way of you making a pathetic attempt of accusing people of racism.

Maybe instead of attacking people you disagree with you could explain what significance the word black has in the contect of this thread?

Particulary considering the OP is attempting to sterotype all men and not just some as being unable to take no as an answer

It was relevant to the OP not sure why the forum police are so interested in villifying the OP for describing someone but you carry on.

Dolce...not listening to him anymore. Obviously he likes to have a god row. And doesn't appreciate anyone's opinion other than his own.,x

I noticed that too

. Especially like the bit where I get accused of "attacking" people then he does exactly the same

. Nothing relevant to say so tries to cause an issue. As pathetic as the other one

. More to the point sorry to hear about your bad experience. Xx

Dolce obviously he was removed from a club at some stage. Truth always hurts. . Nothing useful to say ,

So why did he even bother . Yes felt very uncomfortable

. 2 other well behaved single guys came to intervene . They made sure,I was ok. Whilst hubby went to find the manager x

I'd agree

. Only interested in perceived racism not about your horrible experience. Fucking unbelievable and pathetic.

Hopefully your next time at a club will be more enjoyable. Xx

Thankyou I hope so xxx

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By *epper123Woman over a year ago

London

"The first thing to say is that it is bad news that OP had a bad experience and we all sympathise with her for her that.

The problem is that the initial post led with a major generalisation which has now been corrected.

I have two responses but the short one is this .Some black people use the N word (normally gangstsa rappers that high point of black culture!) but right thinking black people would not use it.

But hey we all know racism and sexism is a fraud and used by people who are forum police and a front for people with chips on their shoulders! Yes l am being ironic."

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By *ubbykittenWoman over a year ago

Kent

"I go to chams with my fb and now only go saturdays as we got fed up with some men (not all) just following, staring, wanking and trying their luck.

A no should be a no.

Also, not sure the importance of saying a black man.. why not just say a single male. In my experience some black white asian men can be club stalkers

Touchy touchy arent we. Am not preaching nor implying you are racist so read before you comment.

As mentioned in ealier post..just curious why mentioning the race was important in your forum

I queried it too, Mr Indian summer, as I wondered what it added to the story .... obvious to me.

Oh ffs she just happened to mention he was black why are you trying to imply she is racist

Or aren't people allowed to describe people

Why would something like that matter though?

Because he was a black guy

If a black guy beat you in the street would you say to the police a guy beat me? No "

If he was a white guy, I would state that! If he was a black guy...same thing. I would describe the man...white guy, black guy, Asian etc. ... colour of hair, height, build and what he is wearing etc..and I have done!!! Simply a description of the man so he might be recognised again. Simple!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

the 'default setting' of men is white, so thanks to the default settings of patriarchy and oligarchy if you're talking about anything but white men then you have to mention their colour.

god is a man by default too. women aren't to be discussed unless it's for their looks, cum dump worthiness and child rearing skills.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Really getting annoyed. Two weeks ago we were getting pestered at Chameleons by a black guy... We politely said no thanks. He became a nuisance. We tolerated it.

Not other been to a club yet.. so out of interest. What is the etiquette when attending a club as both a single guy and a couple

You ask before making any move , and accept no means no .

Same for everyone

Thanks... and nice and simple lol

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I read this whole thread and still trying to work out how if went from "guys not taking no for an answer" to "your a racist"

Simply because I said I was approached by a black guy. Simple as that. How that makes me racist.God alone knows... But if you read our profile. His Comments are laughable x"

You obviously haven't read her comments, as she states clearly she is the f of the couple, not the m.

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