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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Can now see why many folk choose NOT to display verifications! I met two folk socially in the course of one day last week - both drinks meets only - both verified me and one took the huff when he noticed I had spent some time with another guy that same day. Gave me abuse on the site then blocked me so his verification didn't get displayed.
Anyone else had this happen?
Some people are extremely touchy! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can now see why many folk choose NOT to display verifications! I met two folk socially in the course of one day last week - both drinks meets only - both verified me and one took the huff when he noticed I had spent some time with another guy that same day. Gave me abuse on the site then blocked me so his verification didn't get displayed.
Anyone else had this happen?
Some people are extremely touchy!"
I think they are best hidden then there's no complications or issues,long as it shows you've met people that's good enough for me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Do what works for you and sod everyone else. Whatever you do will probably upset some saddo on here! I don't care much for them and don't ever display them, I can't receive them anyway because of my age filters and that's fine with me, who I meet is my business and no one else's. |
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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago
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Yes...I've had that too. The final straw was when a guy I was chatting to messaged the people who had previously verified me asking for more intimate details of our meets! Thankfully they notified me about what he was doing. Now I manage my veris differently but I'm happy to open one or two up if someone I'm chatting to wants proof that I actually meet and that they're not just from camming. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Can now see why many folk choose NOT to display verifications! I met two folk socially in the course of one day last week - both drinks meets only - both verified me and one took the huff when he noticed I had spent some time with another guy that same day. Gave me abuse on the site then blocked me so his verification didn't get displayed.
Anyone else had this happen?
Some people are extremely touchy! I think they are best hidden then there's no complications or issues,long as it shows you've met people that's good enough for me "
I am thinking that it's the best thing to do now. Thanks |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"i guess verifications and showing them can be a double edged sword just for the reason the OP posted and because people often just assume things and as we all know to assume makes a ass out of u and me lol
AS you can see i have a lot n choose to show them because they are from friends and peeps i have met through socials and working at cupids and i don't care if someone who hasn't taken time to read them and has made assumptions about me blocked me or got snarky coz at the end of the day their opinion is is like an arsehole we all have 1 and they can full of crap at times   "
Thanks for the reply. I agree! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A swinging site and you met more than one person in the same day.....
What shock horror.
Ignore the abuse clearly not worthy of your time anyway if that's his reaction......
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I never let someone else's behaviour dictate how I choose to run my profile."
Yep this exactly. If someone chooses to get offended by my profile or the way i do things then so be it. |
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"I never let someone else's behaviour dictate how I choose to run my profile.
Yep this exactly. If someone chooses to get offended by my profile or the way i do things then so be it. "
Don't ever change |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like to display mine show my character and sexual prowess  and can important for a single male. I don't think women need to though aslong as there verified they will still get attention."
Don't think it really matters, just depends what you want. I've never struggled to get what I want from the site, though to be fair if you're looking to get meets and messaging women then it may be more difficult without showing them. |
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I show some of mine, but I am not under any illusions that they show my 'prowess' or anyone else's when I read them .... they are just a play on words .... some are funny. I like the ones that make me laugh. |
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