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OK, so I completely appreciate that not everyone wants to meet a smoker. But I am completely up front about the fact that I DO. SO---WHY agree to meet if you're totally against it?
I chatted for a while with one who won't meet smokers. I told him I smoke, as his profile says won't meet smokers, and he said he's OK with it. We met for a drink, sat in a beer garden, and yes, I'm a smoker so I pulled out my pack and lit up.
We continued chatting while he very disdainfully waved away stray strands of smoke that came his way (I did move to sit downwind so most didn't go near him) and he reiterated how much he despises smmoking.
As we went our separate ways a while later, he suggested we meet again more privately.
Um. If we did, do you think lighting up after woud be a bit inapproriate? lol. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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I personally think men are more likely to meet outside their preferences, and he probably thought it was worth a try. However his behaviour at the date was a bit off.
I think it might be an idea for you to filter out the people who state they won't meet smokers, however much they U-turn on that  |
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Lol there certainly is a lot of people on here who'd meet single females that smoke but they complain about the habit.
I've had plenty of winks and friend invites that I check out before responding and their profiles say "won't meet smokers" so I won't even reply
I'm a considerate smoker and won't smoke around others but I do at clubs due to nerves |
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"OK, so I completely appreciate that not everyone wants to meet a smoker. But I am completely up front about the fact that I DO. SO---WHY agree to meet if you're totally against it?
I chatted for a while with one who won't meet smokers. I told him I smoke, as his profile says won't meet smokers, and he said he's OK with it. We met for a drink, sat in a beer garden, and yes, I'm a smoker so I pulled out my pack and lit up.
We continued chatting while he very disdainfully waved away stray strands of smoke that came his way (I did move to sit downwind so most didn't go near him) and he reiterated how much he despises smmoking.
As we went our separate ways a while later, he suggested we meet again more privately.
Um. If we did, do you think lighting up after woud be a bit inapproriate? lol."
no not at all. |
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I think the most annoying example was a couple I met who went, oh, we didn't realise you were a smoker?
I was like, it's fine, I don;t *have* to smoke. Anyway, a filthy session of fucking them into submission they were like, "Are you gonna cum now?"
And I said, I've not smoked for 5hrs on your account - I'd rather have a cigarette.
And left them to it.
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I'm a smoker but I don't smoke on meets, socials or other, unless the other person smokes.
I wouldn't want to kiss/play with a smoker if I was a non-smoker! |
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"OK, so I completely appreciate that not everyone wants to meet a smoker. But I am completely up front about the fact that I DO. SO---WHY agree to meet if you're totally against it?
I chatted for a while with one who won't meet smokers. I told him I smoke, as his profile says won't meet smokers, and he said he's OK with it. We met for a drink, sat in a beer garden, and yes, I'm a smoker so I pulled out my pack and lit up.
We continued chatting while he very disdainfully waved away stray strands of smoke that came his way (I did move to sit downwind so most didn't go near him) and he reiterated how much he despises smmoking.
As we went our separate ways a while later, he suggested we meet again more privately.
Um. If we did, do you think lighting up after woud be a bit inapproriate? lol."
it's just down to preference the same with everything these days  |
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"Perhaps he is perfectly fine with you smoking but didn't enjoy the smoke in his face as it is pretty gross after all."
You say it's gross but your profile says you'll meet smokers? You should be able to answer why non smokers who detest the habit are willing to meet smokers then |
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"I think the most annoying example was a couple I met who went, oh, we didn't realise you were a smoker?
I was like, it's fine, I don;t *have* to smoke. Anyway, a filthy session of fucking them into submission they were like, "Are you gonna cum now?"
And I said, I've not smoked for 5hrs on your account - I'd rather have a cigarette.
And left them to it.
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Absolutely brilliant !
Diamond you are our hero ..... |
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"I think the most annoying example was a couple I met who went, oh, we didn't realise you were a smoker?
I was like, it's fine, I don;t *have* to smoke. Anyway, a filthy session of fucking them into submission they were like, "Are you gonna cum now?"
And I said, I've not smoked for 5hrs on your account - I'd rather have a cigarette.
And left them to it.
Absolutely brilliant !
Diamond you are our hero ..... "
Wow. I'm your hero, eh?
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By (user no longer on site)
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If he knew he was that way about smoke I can't understand why he said he was ok with you smoking lol. Nowt as queer as folk.
I am really sensitive to smoke and ask any potential play mates to go outside to smoke. I don't mind the smell or anything but smoke makes my eyes stream! Nothing says sexy like bloodshot watery eyes haha. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"I'd prefer non smokers, but would meet smokers, however I would assume they wouldn't smoke on a meet, depending on the situation I suppose."
If you chose to meet a smoker, and knew they wee a smoker, why would you assume they wouldn't smoke on a meet? |
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"Perhaps he is perfectly fine with you smoking but didn't enjoy the smoke in his face as it is pretty gross after all.
You say it's gross but your profile says you'll meet smokers? You should be able to answer why non smokers who detest the habit are willing to meet smokers then "
He's willing to put up with the grossness if the smoker has a vagina she may let him enter? |
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"I personally think men are more likely to meet outside their preferences, and he probably thought it was worth a try. However his behaviour at the date was a bit off.
I think it might be an idea for you to filter out the people who state they won't meet smokers, however much they U-turn on that "
Once again it's seems odd that you can preference on filters this.
But can't add, height, size, bust /willy preference.
Afterall it's a swinging /sex site and those are the things we are interested in.
A few extra filters on search and profile preferences would be great.
Sorry back to the thread
Ewwww smoking, nasty.
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"OK, so I completely appreciate that not everyone wants to meet a smoker. But I am completely up front about the fact that I DO. SO---WHY agree to meet if you're totally against it?
I chatted for a while with one who won't meet smokers. I told him I smoke, as his profile says won't meet smokers, and he said he's OK with it. We met for a drink, sat in a beer garden, and yes, I'm a smoker so I pulled out my pack and lit up.
We continued chatting while he very disdainfully waved away stray strands of smoke that came his way (I did move to sit downwind so most didn't go near him) and he reiterated how much he despises smmoking.
As we went our separate ways a while later, he suggested we meet again more privately.
Um. If we did, do you think lighting up after woud be a bit inapproriate? lol."
Lite up while you're doing it lol |
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"Perhaps he is perfectly fine with you smoking but didn't enjoy the smoke in his face as it is pretty gross after all."
.....so why meet her then?.....we don't meet smokers. ...he said he didn't. ....but he changed his mind....he didn't have to be a prick about it. ..
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By (user no longer on site)
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So...you're at a club, in the hot tub, lots of swapping going on, who has ever stopped to check if they're about to kiss a smoker first??!!! We've certainly never been asked! |
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"I'd prefer non smokers, but would meet smokers, however I would assume they wouldn't smoke on a meet, depending on the situation I suppose.
If you chose to meet a smoker, and knew they wee a smoker, why would you assume they wouldn't smoke on a meet?"
I said depending on circumstance. If we were in bed, i think it pretty much the done thing to be considerate around non smokers |
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"Perhaps he is perfectly fine with you smoking but didn't enjoy the smoke in his face as it is pretty gross after all.
You say it's gross but your profile says you'll meet smokers? You should be able to answer why non smokers who detest the habit are willing to meet smokers then
He's willing to put up with the grossness if the smoker has a vagina she may let him enter?"
Exactly its the balance of good and evil haha |
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"I'd prefer non smokers, but would meet smokers, however I would assume they wouldn't smoke on a meet, depending on the situation I suppose."
I'm a smoker (its VERY clear on my profile) and I prefer to meet smokers. However if a non smoker does want to meet me - they may safely assume I will smoke. |
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"I think the most annoying example was a couple I met who went, oh, we didn't realise you were a smoker?
I was like, it's fine, I don;t *have* to smoke. Anyway, a filthy session of fucking them into submission they were like, "Are you gonna cum now?"
And I said, I've not smoked for 5hrs on your account - I'd rather have a cigarette.
And left them to it.
Absolutely brilliant !
Diamond you are our hero .....
Wow. I'm your hero, eh?
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It's the fact it's so believable ....
I can imagine the scenario and it's just as we would be too .
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We are smokers and it clearly says so on our profile but we get quite a lot of messages and meet requests from people whose profile says "wont meet smokers"
So is it that they find us so stunningly attractive that they are willing to change their preferences? (doubtful) Or that they are just too bloody bone idle to read a profile before they send a message? (more likely)
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"I'd prefer non smokers, but would meet smokers, however I would assume they wouldn't smoke on a meet, depending on the situation I suppose.
If you chose to meet a smoker, and knew they wee a smoker, why would you assume they wouldn't smoke on a meet?
I said depending on circumstance. If we were in bed, i think it pretty much the done thing to be considerate around non smokers"
Depends who's bed your in
If I'm in my own home I smoke where I please if people don't like that they don't have to come in, I pay the mortgage
I wouldn't dream of going into anybody else's house and even asking if it's ok to smoke |
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"I'd prefer non smokers, but would meet smokers, however I would assume they wouldn't smoke on a meet, depending on the situation I suppose.
If you chose to meet a smoker, and knew they wee a smoker, why would you assume they wouldn't smoke on a meet?"
I was thinking that
If you don't like something about somebody don't meet them, don't expect them to change for you, its just a shag after all, why would a smoker refrain from smoking when there are loads of smokers they can meet  |
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"Who said he was a prick? All was said that he waived away the smoke and that he dislikes smoking."
.....so don't meet smokers. ...he knew she smoked....his behaviour was awful
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Who said he was a prick? All was said that he waived away the smoke and that he dislikes smoking......so don't meet smokers. ...he knew she smoked....his behaviour was awful"
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A lady off here who has "Won't meet smokers" on her profile traveled 200 miles to come and see me for a day knowing that I smoked. A month later she came back and stopped at mine for 2 nights.
"Won't meet smokers" doesn't necessarily mean that they won't meet smokers  |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"A lady off here who has "Won't meet smokers" on her profile traveled 200 miles to come and see me for a day knowing that I smoked. A month later she came back and stopped at mine for 2 nights.
"Won't meet smokers" doesn't necessarily mean that they won't meet smokers "
Yeah, but did she bitch about it the entire time she was there? Because that's what the OP is commenting about. |
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"A lady off here who has "Won't meet smokers" on her profile traveled 200 miles to come and see me for a day knowing that I smoked. A month later she came back and stopped at mine for 2 nights.
"Won't meet smokers" doesn't necessarily mean that they won't meet smokers "
....ah well there you are then. ....that proves it.....the people who have "won't meet smokers" on their profiles. ....are lying. .... |
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"A lady off here who has "Won't meet smokers" on her profile traveled 200 miles to come and see me for a day knowing that I smoked. A month later she came back and stopped at mine for 2 nights.
"Won't meet smokers" doesn't necessarily mean that they won't meet smokers
Yeah, but did she bitch about it the entire time she was there? Because that's what the OP is commenting about."
No she never mentioned it, but yeah I know what the OP meant |
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"I personally will meet a smoker, however I don't really like the habit. I do prefer it if you asked me if I minded you had a cig, but that's just me"
And if you said yes I do mind would you expect her to not smoke? |
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"I think the most annoying example was a couple I met who went, oh, we didn't realise you were a smoker?
I was like, it's fine, I don;t *have* to smoke. Anyway, a filthy session of fucking them into submission they were like, "Are you gonna cum now?"
And I said, I've not smoked for 5hrs on your account - I'd rather have a cigarette.
And left them to it.
Absolutely brilliant !
Diamond you are our hero .....
Wow. I'm your hero, eh?
It's the fact it's so believable ....
I can imagine the scenario and it's just as we would be too .
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I did pull again that night and came like Dambusters.
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I won't meet smokers and make that also clear on my profile but I have met at least three guys who have non smoker on their profile but quite clearly are smokers when you get up close beside them or in a few cases, kissed them.
People should be more honest |
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"Perhaps he is perfectly fine with you smoking but didn't enjoy the smoke in his face as it is pretty gross after all.
You say it's gross but your profile says you'll meet smokers? You should be able to answer why non smokers who detest the habit are willing to meet smokers then
He's willing to put up with the grossness if the smoker has a vagina she may let him enter?
Exactly its the balance of good and evil haha "
Or desperation |
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"I think the most annoying example was a couple I met who went, oh, we didn't realise you were a smoker?
I was like, it's fine, I don;t *have* to smoke. Anyway, a filthy session of fucking them into submission they were like, "Are you gonna cum now?"
And I said, I've not smoked for 5hrs on your account - I'd rather have a cigarette.
And left them to it.
Absolutely brilliant !
Diamond you are our hero .....
Wow. I'm your hero, eh?
It's the fact it's so believable ....
I can imagine the scenario and it's just as we would be too .
I did pull again that night and came like Dambusters.
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.......After fucking them into submission as well we assume?  |
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"I personally will meet a smoker, however I don't really like the habit. I do prefer it if you asked me if I minded you had a cig, but that's just me"
Same. I've never had anyone smoke on a meet though.
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"Lol there certainly is a lot of people on here who'd meet single females that smoke but they complain about the habit.
I've had plenty of winks and friend invites that I check out before responding and their profiles say "won't meet smokers" so I won't even reply
I'm a considerate smoker and won't smoke around others but I do at clubs due to nerves "
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