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Dom, Sub or Switch!?
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By *igwilly2k OP Man
over a year ago
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So, I'm on the hunt for fellow kinksters! I want to know weather your Dominant, Submissive or Switch between them both!
So.... I'll start off. Normally Dom, however really want to submit and be someone's toy to use abuse and humiliate for their pleasure! So I'm going to say Switch!
Bonus loony flt saying how you would Top, or Sub to the poster above you!
Keep it kinky!  |
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I'm a switch. I love nowt more than pegging my fella, and topping him, but equally I love to be completely dominated too. I'm actually looking for a Dom with my fellas blessing as there's just no way he can hurt me like I need to be. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It will probably be a surprise to most, but I tend on the side of dominant.
I was in a three year relationship as the Dom.
Don't let the pretty face and beautiful hair fool you.  |
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Went to my first kinky event a week ago and think I'm dominant as spanking and rope play is dreamy however there was also present a very tempting mistress who was born to smack me 
Can I say learning ? |
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"It will probably be a surprise to most, but I tend on the side of dominant.
I was in a three year relationship as the Dom.
Don't let the pretty face and beautiful hair fool you. "
Yes, can you tell us your hair care secrets, Master? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I definitely started out as sub, but as life with Billy has progressed I've found a domme side I didn't know I had, so I guess I have to say I'm switch and love it. Makes for so many more possible fantasys to explore  
Poppy x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It will probably be a surprise to most, but I tend on the side of dominant.
I was in a three year relationship as the Dom.
Don't let the pretty face and beautiful hair fool you.
Yes, can you tell us your hair care secrets, Master?"
I'm afraid I can't divulge that information |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Very very submissive!
I'm looking for someone dominant to build somewhat of a relationship with...build trust and explore our boundaries together.
Have a look at my profile and send me a message if interested  xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi i have been into BDSM for a while but i still feel conflicted in whether i am dom, sub or switch.
Part of me loves being totally controlled and the feeling of doing what the person want, knowing i must please them however a lot of time i love being in control, it gives me a sense of excitement and drives me more forward into liking what i am doing with the person.
its just so annoying and confusing how i feel because when i am a dom i want to be a sub and versa visa.
does anyone else feel like and have any advice |
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"Hi i have been into BDSM for a while but i still feel conflicted in whether i am dom, sub or switch.
Part of me loves being totally controlled and the feeling of doing what the person want, knowing i must please them however a lot of time i love being in control, it gives me a sense of excitement and drives me more forward into liking what i am doing with the person.
its just so annoying and confusing how i feel because when i am a dom i want to be a sub and versa visa.
does anyone else feel like and have any advice "
Sounds like a switch then. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm a masochistic sub with bratty tendencies
what is a masochistic sub?
enjoys pain "
ooo i like giving and receiving pain
pain is a unusual thing that people either love or hate always people sometimes see pain as a bad thing and think how can people enjoy pain .
its just one of those things that is very hard to explain (: |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm a masochistic sub with bratty tendencies
what is a masochistic sub?
enjoys pain
ooo i like giving and receiving pain
pain is a unusual thing that people either love or hate always people sometimes see pain as a bad thing and think how can people enjoy pain .
its just one of those things that is very hard to explain (: "
Exactly, pain of stubbing your toe, smacking your elbow or cutting your finger are all everyday pains that are never nice to feel or receive.
Pain from flogging & whipping however is totally different, you consent to receiving the pain, you entrust your Dom to be accurate & controlled, the build up of the pain is warming & allows the masochist to feel release from so many everyday stresses & as it increases & goes on for longer you actually feel your mind & body becoming centred and put back into balance. I used to hurt myself to release stress, when I'm in receipt of pain play on a regular basis I no longer feel the need to hurt myself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm a masochistic sub with bratty tendencies
what is a masochistic sub?
enjoys pain
ooo i like giving and receiving pain
pain is a unusual thing that people either love or hate always people sometimes see pain as a bad thing and think how can people enjoy pain .
its just one of those things that is very hard to explain (:
Exactly, pain of stubbing your toe, smacking your elbow or cutting your finger are all everyday pains that are never nice to feel or receive.
Pain from flogging & whipping however is totally different, you consent to receiving the pain, you entrust your Dom to be accurate & controlled, the build up of the pain is warming & allows the masochist to feel release from so many everyday stresses & as it increases & goes on for longer you actually feel your mind & body becoming centred and put back into balance. I used to hurt myself to release stress, when I'm in receipt of pain play on a regular basis I no longer feel the need to hurt myself. "
for me it takes my mind of things that are bad when i am in the zone of bdsm things i think of nothing else its like my being is not there and i let all my senses go and enter another world.
i still finding pain a odd thing like you was saying about everyday pain not being a turn on and yet the feeling of being naughty or punished it sexual and we enjoy it
us humans are a weried bunch (:
would you like to message us other privatly and disucss more of it ? |
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"I might be a primal sub if I can find a sensual, primal, respectful dom
what is a primal sub"
I have yet to explore - I like a certain type of dominant man though I am not particularly submissive, and the primal play sounds just my cup of tea and is defined by others as:
"To get to a place, where the feelings are primary- pure, raw, animal emotions, sensation and/or instinct. .... past rational thought.
....If we start with the basic definition above, then we can think of primal play in the kink context as getting to a place where the masks of our civilized selves can fall away and we can act on our urges more directly, letting ourselves really play, give over to our feelings and impulses."
It sounds to me like just totally letting go, wherever that may lead. Yum! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I might be a primal sub if I can find a sensual, primal, respectful dom
what is a primal sub
I have yet to explore - I like a certain type of dominant man though I am not particularly submissive, and the primal play sounds just my cup of tea and is defined by others as:
"To get to a place, where the feelings are primary- pure, raw, animal emotions, sensation and/or instinct. .... past rational thought.
....If we start with the basic definition above, then we can think of primal play in the kink context as getting to a place where the masks of our civilized selves can fall away and we can act on our urges more directly, letting ourselves really play, give over to our feelings and impulses."
It sounds to me like just totally letting go, wherever that may lead. Yum! "
thats sounds so cool
i think the whole dom sub or switch thing is a great way to make yourself feel happy
and its good to talk to people who like the same as you (: |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sub. It's what comes naturally to me. I have played Domme a few times to men, and even switched places with my master, and although they loved it, it felt very very wrong to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Very much a sub. Realised that after dating a total deviant. Love that side of me... especially as I have a rather demanding profession and need to be dominant in the workplace. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm kinky but not all my kinky play involves D/s. When it does, I'm Domme/Top. I'm not even slightly submissive."
explain what makes you want to be a dom? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm kinky but not all my kinky play involves D/s. When it does, I'm Domme/Top. I'm not even slightly submissive.
explain what makes you want to be a dom?
I just am."
what gives you the thrill of being dom how does it make you feel |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm kinky but not all my kinky play involves D/s. When it does, I'm Domme/Top. I'm not even slightly submissive.
explain what makes you want to be a dom?
I just am.
what gives you the thrill of being dom how does it make you feel"
Why? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm kinky but not all my kinky play involves D/s. When it does, I'm Domme/Top. I'm not even slightly submissive.
explain what makes you want to be a dom?
I just am.
what gives you the thrill of being dom how does it make you feel
Why?"
curious on how different people feel when they are dom or sub what drives people to like what they do
the feelings it gives off just is unbelieveable that we are so bizzare as humans and yet it feel normal to us |
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I am definitely a switch, though I rarely switch with the same partner.
I've enjoyed a full on D/s relationship as the Dom. I owned my sub for over 4 years before the relationship morphed into a more conventional bf/gf. She wore a locked collar 24/7 and had a set of rules to obey every day including a schedule. She was punished if she deviated from these.
I also have a sub side, and have had a Mistress albeit only for a few months. I do enjoy being tied to a St Andrews Cross and heavily flogged, but have rarely had the opportunity to explore the more emotional side.
I also love vanilla. I just adore pleasure in all it's forms. |
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"curious on how different people feel when they are dom or sub what drives people to like what they do
the feelings it gives off just is unbelieveable that we are so bizzare as humans and yet it feel normal to us"
People will offer what information they feel comfortable with. In general they don't like to be quizzed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am sub, very switch then I am very sadistic if my victim is up for it. After switching I crave a deeply humiliating sub experience. Sort of restored my balance.
Hubby is Dom, quiet Dom-, quite sadistic. M x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We both switch! Which makes life interesting!
Ed is dominant but submissive when dressed.
Rachael is usually dominant but will sub to Ed, but no one else.
Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm a masochistic sub with bratty tendencies
what is a masochistic sub?
enjoys pain
ooo i like giving and receiving pain
pain is a unusual thing that people either love or hate always people sometimes see pain as a bad thing and think how can people enjoy pain .
its just one of those things that is very hard to explain (:
Exactly, pain of stubbing your toe, smacking your elbow or cutting your finger are all everyday pains that are never nice to feel or receive.
Pain from flogging & whipping however is totally different, you consent to receiving the pain, you entrust your Dom to be accurate & controlled, the build up of the pain is warming & allows the masochist to feel release from so many everyday stresses & as it increases & goes on for longer you actually feel your mind & body becoming centred and put back into balance. I used to hurt myself to release stress, when I'm in receipt of pain play on a regular basis I no longer feel the need to hurt myself. "
This |
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"you don't have to be dom or sub to be kinky  "
I'm definitely sub to my partner but agree with what you say because having been introduced to this wonderful world of kink by him 8 months ago I am really spreading my wings and now want some slaves of my own - Mmmmmmmm
C xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most certainly Dom, although I have submitted to two very strict Domme's. I did it so I could experience what submissive's go through, it was a challenge to submit and did not come naturally. |
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When subbing I completely understand the poster who says it clears the mind. I find a good, long impact play session can really soothe a stressed mind.
I can be very masochistic as a sub and a sadist as a Dom but it is all about exploring mutual desires. I have to know the person to want to submit to them, or to dominate them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So, I'm on the hunt for fellow kinksters! I want to know weather your Dominant, Submissive or Switch between them both!
So.... I'll start off. Normally Dom, however really want to submit and be someone's toy to use abuse and humiliate for their pleasure! So I'm going to say Switch!
Bonus loony flt saying how you would Top, or Sub to the poster above you!
Keep it kinky! "
Definitely sub for me, no switching xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My username gives it away lol
But I am becoming more Dom as time goes by. Nothing I like better than taking control and being in charge of a man!
Woman not so much just love to enjoy their bodies. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am Grrrrrr!!!! A hairy, primal, bitey, rough fucking, hitty and growling thing. Does that make me a dom? Or a Grrrrr?
Like a teddy bear!! :p"
Hmmm. Yes. Grrrr! |
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