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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Have any other couples had people say no because you have a no condom pic as a couple?
We have had one or two and we also see it a lot where the person says if there is no condom sex in your pics you will be ignored.
It's a bit silly to say that to a couple we think |
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"Have any other couples had people say no because you have a no condom pic as a couple?
We have had one or two and we also see it a lot where the person says if there is no condom sex in your pics you will be ignored.
It's a bit silly to say that to a couple we think "
Why's it silly? |
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"Have any other couples had people say no because you have a no condom pic as a couple?
We have had one or two and we also see it a lot where the person says if there is no condom sex in your pics you will be ignored.
It's a bit silly to say that to a couple we think
Why's it silly? "
Well because I fuck my wife without a condom I'm no expert but I'm pretty sure we won't get anything dodgy for just our selfs? |
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over a year ago
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Like us, most long term couples use birth control in the form of the pill, injection, implant or coil and do not use condoms with each other. That does not mean that we would go bareback with anyone else |
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"Have any other couples had people say no because you have a no condom pic as a couple?
We have had one or two and we also see it a lot where the person says if there is no condom sex in your pics you will be ignored.
It's a bit silly to say that to a couple we think
Why's it silly?
Well because I fuck my wife without a condom I'm no expert but I'm pretty sure we won't get anything dodgy for just our selfs?"
From your pictures its impossible to tell whose penis or vagina it is that's why people avoid you |
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"Have any other couples had people say no because you have a no condom pic as a couple?
We have had one or two and we also see it a lot where the person says if there is no condom sex in your pics you will be ignored.
It's a bit silly to say that to a couple we think "
I'm confused... Why would a couple refuse to meet another couple if they are having unprotected sex?
It sounds like a lame excuse |
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"Have any other couples had people say no because you have a no condom pic as a couple?
We have had one or two and we also see it a lot where the person says if there is no condom sex in your pics you will be ignored.
It's a bit silly to say that to a couple we think "
It is a bit silly if it's the couple in the pic. If it's a guy ye met then can sort of understand it. I don't use condoms with my girlfriend |
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"Have any other couples had people say no because you have a no condom pic as a couple?
We have had one or two and we also see it a lot where the person says if there is no condom sex in your pics you will be ignored.
It's a bit silly to say that to a couple we think
I'm confused... Why would a couple refuse to meet another couple if they are having unprotected sex?
It sounds like a lame excuse "
You can't tell who it is in the pictures. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Have any other couples had people say no because you have a no condom pic as a couple?
We have had one or two and we also see it a lot where the person says if there is no condom sex in your pics you will be ignored.
It's a bit silly to say that to a couple we think
Why's it silly?
Well because I fuck my wife without a condom I'm no expert but I'm pretty sure we won't get anything dodgy for just our selfs?
From your pictures its impossible to tell whose penis or vagina it is that's why people avoid you "
Surely people can figure out as a couple they are likely to have unprotected sex pictures we won't and never will plan on having pics of us having sex with face pic or anything distinguishing for privacy reasons our profile check box says "safe sex" |
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i'd feel like i was the diseased one if i was fucking a few people and i was the only one having to wear a condom. well not wear one coz i've no dick but be fucked by someone using one. |
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"You can't tell who it is in the pictures."
To be honest, that's completely true. however, I don't know anyone personally on this site so honestly couldn't say that anyone's pictures are actually of them whether they have a hat on or not |
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"i'd feel like i was the diseased one if i was fucking a few people and i was the only one having to wear a condom. well not wear one coz i've no dick but be fucked by someone using one."
That's just stupid.... Cos they are not only protecting their interest, but yours also!!! |
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"Have any other couples had people say no because you have a no condom pic as a couple?
We have had one or two and we also see it a lot where the person says if there is no condom sex in your pics you will be ignored.
It's a bit silly to say that to a couple we think "
Yes sounds silly as long as condoms are used with any third parties whats the issue |
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"Have any other couples had people say no because you have a no condom pic as a couple?
We have had one or two and we also see it a lot where the person says if there is no condom sex in your pics you will be ignored.
It's a bit silly to say that to a couple we think " |
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"i'd feel like i was the diseased one if i was fucking a few people and i was the only one having to wear a condom. well not wear one coz i've no dick but be fucked by someone using one.
That's just stupid.... Cos they are not only protecting their interest, but yours also!!! "
my feelings aren't stupid though. it would stand out for me that other people are going bareback and i am not because i'm considered unclean. |
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"i'd feel like i was the diseased one if i was fucking a few people and i was the only one having to wear a condom. well not wear one coz i've no dick but be fucked by someone using one.
That's just stupid.... Cos they are not only protecting their interest, but yours also!!!
my feelings aren't stupid though. it would stand out for me that other people are going bareback and i am not because i'm considered unclean."
You make no sense.... !!! |
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"i'd feel like i was the diseased one if i was fucking a few people and i was the only one having to wear a condom. well not wear one coz i've no dick but be fucked by someone using one.
That's just stupid.... Cos they are not only protecting their interest, but yours also!!!
my feelings aren't stupid though. it would stand out for me that other people are going bareback and i am not because i'm considered unclean.
You make no sense.... !!!"
if a couple are not using condoms with each other and only with me then it makes sense. |
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"i'd feel like i was the diseased one if i was fucking a few people and i was the only one having to wear a condom. well not wear one coz i've no dick but be fucked by someone using one.
That's just stupid.... Cos they are not only protecting their interest, but yours also!!!
my feelings aren't stupid though. it would stand out for me that other people are going bareback and i am not because i'm considered unclean.
You make no sense.... !!!
if a couple are not using condoms with each other and only with me then it makes sense. " why are you considered unclean? |
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"i'd feel like i was the diseased one if i was fucking a few people and i was the only one having to wear a condom. well not wear one coz i've no dick but be fucked by someone using one.
That's just stupid.... Cos they are not only protecting their interest, but yours also!!!
my feelings aren't stupid though. it would stand out for me that other people are going bareback and i am not because i'm considered unclean.
You make no sense.... !!!
if a couple are not using condoms with each other and only with me then it makes sense. "
They are man & wife and therefore only do bareback with each other (normal on this planet, generally anyway lol) using condoms with others is a responsible thing to do when swinging....
If you don't want condoms to be used when you are being penetrated (just cos you want to feel clean) then be prepared for a dose of clap, because a couple or even a single guy has succumbed to another ladies/couples request to go bareback before you, just so they can feel clean.....
Personally, feeling of having safe & therefore enjoyable fun should be the priority... |
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
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If it was a couple profile I would assume that it was there cock and pussy however if it was clearly obvious say there was one photo of a black guy, and one white guy unprotected sex I would then see if they played bareback or not if they did I wouldn't play because they play bareback if they don't I still woudnt as they are not being honest |
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"i'd feel like i was the diseased one if i was fucking a few people and i was the only one having to wear a condom. well not wear one coz i've no dick but be fucked by someone using one.
That's just stupid.... Cos they are not only protecting their interest, but yours also!!!
my feelings aren't stupid though. it would stand out for me that other people are going bareback and i am not because i'm considered unclean.
You make no sense.... !!!
if a couple are not using condoms with each other and only with me then it makes sense. "
STI protection and birth control can be the same thing. A couple that are not using condoms together but are using contraception trust each other and know that it is in use. If we were to ignore that they do not know your sexual history, how do they know and trust that you are also on contraception? They may not want a child with someone else. Being diseased is not the only reason to use condoms |
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"Most posts like this normally state its peoples preferences, surely its no different."
They should state bareback only, so others can make an informed decision, not bullshit about feeling clean or like we have had in the past "allergic to Latex".
Barebackers can do what they want and all power to them, but don't play games with others peoples health.... |
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"Have any other couples had people say no because you have a no condom pic as a couple?
We have had one or two and we also see it a lot where the person says if there is no condom sex in your pics you will be ignored.
It's a bit silly to say that to a couple we think
I'm confused... Why would a couple refuse to meet another couple if they are having unprotected sex?
It sounds like a lame excuse "
I always assume that the people i meet would have had unprotected sex with someone at some point and especially with their partner, and protect myself accordingly. I wouldn't be put off by such images. Some are put off though because it's outside of their level of risk. That's fine. Just another filter and an indication of incompatibility. |
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"i'd feel like i was the diseased one if i was fucking a few people and i was the only one having to wear a condom. well not wear one coz i've no dick but be fucked by someone using one.
That's just stupid.... Cos they are not only protecting their interest, but yours also!!!
my feelings aren't stupid though. it would stand out for me that other people are going bareback and i am not because i'm considered unclean.
You make no sense.... !!!
if a couple are not using condoms with each other and only with me then it makes sense.
They are man & wife and therefore only do bareback with each other (normal on this planet, generally anyway lol) using condoms with others is a responsible thing to do when swinging....
If you don't want condoms to be used when you are being penetrated (just cos you want to feel clean) then be prepared for a dose of clap, because a couple or even a single guy has succumbed to another ladies/couples request to go bareback before you, just so they can feel clean.....
Personally, feeling of having safe & therefore enjoyable fun should be the priority... "
i'm not saying i want bareback sex with them at all.
what you say makes sense as well obviously. but it stands out that they are only having safe sex with me because i might infect them and not that they might infect me because they're not having safe sex with each other so are trusting they aren't infected with anything or don't care if they are. |
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"i'd feel like i was the diseased one if i was fucking a few people and i was the only one having to wear a condom. well not wear one coz i've no dick but be fucked by someone using one.
That's just stupid.... Cos they are not only protecting their interest, but yours also!!!
my feelings aren't stupid though. it would stand out for me that other people are going bareback and i am not because i'm considered unclean.
You make no sense.... !!!
if a couple are not using condoms with each other and only with me then it makes sense.
They are man & wife and therefore only do bareback with each other (normal on this planet, generally anyway lol) using condoms with others is a responsible thing to do when swinging....
If you don't want condoms to be used when you are being penetrated (just cos you want to feel clean) then be prepared for a dose of clap, because a couple or even a single guy has succumbed to another ladies/couples request to go bareback before you, just so they can feel clean.....
Personally, feeling of having safe & therefore enjoyable fun should be the priority...
i'm not saying i want bareback sex with them at all.
what you say makes sense as well obviously. but it stands out that they are only having safe sex with me because i might infect them and not that they might infect me because they're not having safe sex with each other so are trusting they aren't infected with anything or don't care if they are."
Please have a think about what swinging is supposed to be about, and very importantly what you hope to achieve from it!!!
Of course they trust each other and not a stranger, in todays society & unfortunately the horrible risks that this type of activity can carry. Along with people that are just really not truthful. Its important to be safe...... Maybe, just maybe? After knowing a couple for a good long while that may change, towards a more pol amorous relationship. Is that maybe what you are really seeking??? |
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"Have any other couples had people say no because you have a no condom pic as a couple?
We have had one or two and we also see it a lot where the person says if there is no condom sex in your pics you will be ignored.
It's a bit silly to say that to a couple we think
Why's it silly?
Well because I fuck my wife without a condom I'm no expert but I'm pretty sure we won't get anything dodgy for just our selfs?
From your pictures its impossible to tell whose penis or vagina it is that's why people avoid you
Surely people can figure out as a couple they are likely to have unprotected sex pictures we won't and never will plan on having pics of us having sex with face pic or anything distinguishing for privacy reasons our profile check box says "safe sex" "
I'm not suggesting that you put pictures up of you having sex with your face showing. Lots of people on here bareback with other than their partner it makes people wary. |
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"You can't tell who it is in the pictures.
To be honest, that's completely true. however, I don't know anyone personally on this site so honestly couldn't say that anyone's pictures are actually of them whether they have a hat on or not"
No but it then follows that you can't be sure it's them having unprotected sex. |
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"You can't tell who it is in the pictures.
To be honest, that's completely true. however, I don't know anyone personally on this site so honestly couldn't say that anyone's pictures are actually of them whether they have a hat on or not
No but it then follows that you can't be sure it's them having unprotected sex."
Then ensure that you always use a condom on meets. It's simple, we all take control over our own sexual safety |
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"You can't tell who it is in the pictures.
To be honest, that's completely true. however, I don't know anyone personally on this site so honestly couldn't say that anyone's pictures are actually of them whether they have a hat on or not
No but it then follows that you can't be sure it's them having unprotected sex.
Then ensure that you always use a condom on meets. It's simple, we all take control over our own sexual safety"
I do. I'm answering their point that people are silly if they don't realise it's them having unprotected sex in their pictures. Personally I think it would be silly if you assumed it was. That's all. |
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"i'd feel like i was the diseased one if i was fucking a few people and i was the only one having to wear a condom. well not wear one coz i've no dick but be fucked by someone using one.
That's just stupid.... Cos they are not only protecting their interest, but yours also!!!
my feelings aren't stupid though. it would stand out for me that other people are going bareback and i am not because i'm considered unclean.
You make no sense.... !!!
if a couple are not using condoms with each other and only with me then it makes sense.
They are man & wife and therefore only do bareback with each other (normal on this planet, generally anyway lol) using condoms with others is a responsible thing to do when swinging....
If you don't want condoms to be used when you are being penetrated (just cos you want to feel clean) then be prepared for a dose of clap, because a couple or even a single guy has succumbed to another ladies/couples request to go bareback before you, just so they can feel clean.....
Personally, feeling of having safe & therefore enjoyable fun should be the priority...
i'm not saying i want bareback sex with them at all.
what you say makes sense as well obviously. but it stands out that they are only having safe sex with me because i might infect them and not that they might infect me because they're not having safe sex with each other so are trusting they aren't infected with anything or don't care if they are.
Please have a think about what swinging is supposed to be about, and very importantly what you hope to achieve from it!!!
Of course they trust each other and not a stranger, in todays society & unfortunately the horrible risks that this type of activity can carry. Along with people that are just really not truthful. Its important to be safe...... Maybe, just maybe? After knowing a couple for a good long while that may change, towards a more pol amorous relationship. Is that maybe what you are really seeking???"
it's ok. i'm not risking my health, thanks for your concern though.
i wouldn't even trust a partner i'd been with long term, i know from my experience on here how many guys are attached/married and wanting to go bareback with me. i've met a lot of guys off here and other sites.
i'd be happy with just one guy to bb with but even then if i suspected him of anything shady i'd be off getting myself tested and asking him to. |
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"You can't tell who it is in the pictures.
To be honest, that's completely true. however, I don't know anyone personally on this site so honestly couldn't say that anyone's pictures are actually of them whether they have a hat on or not
No but it then follows that you can't be sure it's them having unprotected sex.
Then ensure that you always use a condom on meets. It's simple, we all take control over our own sexual safety
I do. I'm answering their point that people are silly if they don't realise it's them having unprotected sex in their pictures. Personally I think it would be silly if you assumed it was. That's all."
My point is that it really doesn't matter if it is or isn't. Wear a condom and stay safe. Why do pictures make a difference |
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"Surely it's a question that would be asked before a meet was arranged .we have sex bareback with ourselves but never would on a meet."
That's how I look at it. I've no problem with a couple who bareback between themselves, in fact it's quite a turn on
And I'd always explain my preferences and ask theirs when arranging a meet. |
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To me the main point of using a condom is to protect yourself from catching something from someone who may have gone bareback at some point in time. I don't see what difference seeing picture of this bareback event makes. There are many people who have bareback sex and don't post a picture of it, so we would never know unless they chose to tell us. And that's why we use condoms! |
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"i'd feel like i was the diseased one if i was fucking a few people and i was the only one having to wear a condom. well not wear one coz i've no dick but be fucked by someone using one.
That's just stupid.... Cos they are not only protecting their interest, but yours also!!!
my feelings aren't stupid though. it would stand out for me that other people are going bareback and i am not because i'm considered unclean.
You make no sense.... !!!
if a couple are not using condoms with each other and only with me then it makes sense.
They are man & wife and therefore only do bareback with each other (normal on this planet, generally anyway lol) using condoms with others is a responsible thing to do when swinging....
If you don't want condoms to be used when you are being penetrated (just cos you want to feel clean) then be prepared for a dose of clap, because a couple or even a single guy has succumbed to another ladies/couples request to go bareback before you, just so they can feel clean.....
Personally, feeling of having safe & therefore enjoyable fun should be the priority...
i'm not saying i want bareback sex with them at all.
what you say makes sense as well obviously. but it stands out that they are only having safe sex with me because i might infect them and not that they might infect me because they're not having safe sex with each other so are trusting they aren't infected with anything or don't care if they are.
Please have a think about what swinging is supposed to be about, and very importantly what you hope to achieve from it!!!
Of course they trust each other and not a stranger, in todays society & unfortunately the horrible risks that this type of activity can carry. Along with people that are just really not truthful. Its important to be safe...... Maybe, just maybe? After knowing a couple for a good long while that may change, towards a more pol amorous relationship. Is that maybe what you are really seeking???
it's ok. i'm not risking my health, thanks for your concern though.
i wouldn't even trust a partner i'd been with long term, i know from my experience on here how many guys are attached/married and wanting to go bareback with me. i've met a lot of guys off here and other sites.
i'd be happy with just one guy to bb with but even then if i suspected him of anything shady i'd be off getting myself tested and asking him to."
Then previously you was just chatting shit, about feeling dirty because couples only want to use a condom when the fuck you, but not each other.
Good god some people on here |
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"i'd feel like i was the diseased one if i was fucking a few people and i was the only one having to wear a condom. well not wear one coz i've no dick but be fucked by someone using one.
That's just stupid.... Cos they are not only protecting their interest, but yours also!!!
my feelings aren't stupid though. it would stand out for me that other people are going bareback and i am not because i'm considered unclean.
You make no sense.... !!!
if a couple are not using condoms with each other and only with me then it makes sense.
They are man & wife and therefore only do bareback with each other (normal on this planet, generally anyway lol) using condoms with others is a responsible thing to do when swinging....
If you don't want condoms to be used when you are being penetrated (just cos you want to feel clean) then be prepared for a dose of clap, because a couple or even a single guy has succumbed to another ladies/couples request to go bareback before you, just so they can feel clean.....
Personally, feeling of having safe & therefore enjoyable fun should be the priority...
i'm not saying i want bareback sex with them at all.
what you say makes sense as well obviously. but it stands out that they are only having safe sex with me because i might infect them and not that they might infect me because they're not having safe sex with each other so are trusting they aren't infected with anything or don't care if they are.
Please have a think about what swinging is supposed to be about, and very importantly what you hope to achieve from it!!!
Of course they trust each other and not a stranger, in todays society & unfortunately the horrible risks that this type of activity can carry. Along with people that are just really not truthful. Its important to be safe...... Maybe, just maybe? After knowing a couple for a good long while that may change, towards a more pol amorous relationship. Is that maybe what you are really seeking???
it's ok. i'm not risking my health, thanks for your concern though.
i wouldn't even trust a partner i'd been with long term, i know from my experience on here how many guys are attached/married and wanting to go bareback with me. i've met a lot of guys off here and other sites.
i'd be happy with just one guy to bb with but even then if i suspected him of anything shady i'd be off getting myself tested and asking him to.
Then previously you was just chatting shit, about feeling dirty because couples only want to use a condom when the fuck you, but not each other.
Good god some people on here "
that's how i feel though. you presumed i wanted to bb them and i didn't.
it's fine, i like the way i think and don't care if other people don't understand me. |
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"i'd feel like i was the diseased one if i was fucking a few people and i was the only one having to wear a condom. well not wear one coz i've no dick but be fucked by someone using one.
That's just stupid.... Cos they are not only protecting their interest, but yours also!!!
my feelings aren't stupid though. it would stand out for me that other people are going bareback and i am not because i'm considered unclean.
You make no sense.... !!!
if a couple are not using condoms with each other and only with me then it makes sense.
They are man & wife and therefore only do bareback with each other (normal on this planet, generally anyway lol) using condoms with others is a responsible thing to do when swinging....
If you don't want condoms to be used when you are being penetrated (just cos you want to feel clean) then be prepared for a dose of clap, because a couple or even a single guy has succumbed to another ladies/couples request to go bareback before you, just so they can feel clean.....
Personally, feeling of having safe & therefore enjoyable fun should be the priority...
i'm not saying i want bareback sex with them at all.
what you say makes sense as well obviously. but it stands out that they are only having safe sex with me because i might infect them and not that they might infect me because they're not having safe sex with each other so are trusting they aren't infected with anything or don't care if they are.
Please have a think about what swinging is supposed to be about, and very importantly what you hope to achieve from it!!!
Of course they trust each other and not a stranger, in todays society & unfortunately the horrible risks that this type of activity can carry. Along with people that are just really not truthful. Its important to be safe...... Maybe, just maybe? After knowing a couple for a good long while that may change, towards a more pol amorous relationship. Is that maybe what you are really seeking???
it's ok. i'm not risking my health, thanks for your concern though.
i wouldn't even trust a partner i'd been with long term, i know from my experience on here how many guys are attached/married and wanting to go bareback with me. i've met a lot of guys off here and other sites.
i'd be happy with just one guy to bb with but even then if i suspected him of anything shady i'd be off getting myself tested and asking him to.
Then previously you was just chatting shit, about feeling dirty because couples only want to use a condom when the fuck you, but not each other.
Good god some people on here
that's how i feel though. you presumed i wanted to bb them and i didn't.
it's fine, i like the way i think and don't care if other people don't understand me."
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"i'd feel like i was the diseased one if i was fucking a few people and i was the only one having to wear a condom. well not wear one coz i've no dick but be fucked by someone using one.
That's just stupid.... Cos they are not only protecting their interest, but yours also!!!
my feelings aren't stupid though. it would stand out for me that other people are going bareback and i am not because i'm considered unclean.
You make no sense.... !!!
if a couple are not using condoms with each other and only with me then it makes sense.
They are man & wife and therefore only do bareback with each other (normal on this planet, generally anyway lol) using condoms with others is a responsible thing to do when swinging....
If you don't want condoms to be used when you are being penetrated (just cos you want to feel clean) then be prepared for a dose of clap, because a couple or even a single guy has succumbed to another ladies/couples request to go bareback before you, just so they can feel clean.....
Personally, feeling of having safe & therefore enjoyable fun should be the priority...
i'm not saying i want bareback sex with them at all.
what you say makes sense as well obviously. but it stands out that they are only having safe sex with me because i might infect them and not that they might infect me because they're not having safe sex with each other so are trusting they aren't infected with anything or don't care if they are.
Please have a think about what swinging is supposed to be about, and very importantly what you hope to achieve from it!!!
Of course they trust each other and not a stranger, in todays society & unfortunately the horrible risks that this type of activity can carry. Along with people that are just really not truthful. Its important to be safe...... Maybe, just maybe? After knowing a couple for a good long while that may change, towards a more pol amorous relationship. Is that maybe what you are really seeking???
it's ok. i'm not risking my health, thanks for your concern though.
i wouldn't even trust a partner i'd been with long term, i know from my experience on here how many guys are attached/married and wanting to go bareback with me. i've met a lot of guys off here and other sites.
i'd be happy with just one guy to bb with but even then if i suspected him of anything shady i'd be off getting myself tested and asking him to.
Then previously you was just chatting shit, about feeling dirty because couples only want to use a condom when the fuck you, but not each other.
Good god some people on here
that's how i feel though. you presumed i wanted to bb them and i didn't.
it's fine, i like the way i think and don't care if other people don't understand me.
nice to know, who to avoid "
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"i'd feel like i was the diseased one if i was fucking a few people and i was the only one having to wear a condom. well not wear one coz i've no dick but be fucked by someone using one.
That's just stupid.... Cos they are not only protecting their interest, but yours also!!!
my feelings aren't stupid though. it would stand out for me that other people are going bareback and i am not because i'm considered unclean."
A way to fix this issue for yourself is chat with the couple and agree that everyone has checks beforehand, then you can all play freely and with no worries.
If condoms make you feel unclean then surely enforcing the use onto the couple just means that you feel that everyone there is unclean ? Don't do it if you feel that way. Maybe you're in the wrong place |
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"i'd feel like i was the diseased one if i was fucking a few people and i was the only one having to wear a condom. well not wear one coz i've no dick but be fucked by someone using one.
That's just stupid.... Cos they are not only protecting their interest, but yours also!!!
my feelings aren't stupid though. it would stand out for me that other people are going bareback and i am not because i'm considered unclean.
A way to fix this issue for yourself is chat with the couple and agree that everyone has checks beforehand, then you can all play freely and with no worries.
If condoms make you feel unclean then surely enforcing the use onto the couple just means that you feel that everyone there is unclean ? Don't do it if you feel that way. Maybe you're in the wrong place "
being singled out as the only one who has to have condoms used on them does make me feel unclean, despite me knowing what relationships are like. it's just weird that's all.
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"You can't tell who it is in the pictures.
To be honest, that's completely true. however, I don't know anyone personally on this site so honestly couldn't say that anyone's pictures are actually of them whether they have a hat on or not
No but it then follows that you can't be sure it's them having unprotected sex.
Then ensure that you always use a condom on meets. It's simple, we all take control over our own sexual safety
I do. I'm answering their point that people are silly if they don't realise it's them having unprotected sex in their pictures. Personally I think it would be silly if you assumed it was. That's all.
My point is that it really doesn't matter if it is or isn't. Wear a condom and stay safe. Why do pictures make a difference "
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"Have any other couples had people say no because you have a no condom pic as a couple?
We have had one or two and we also see it a lot where the person says if there is no condom sex in your pics you will be ignored.
It's a bit silly to say that to a couple we think "
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I prefer to see non-bareback pictures on profile. You don't know who is in the pictures. For preference we also prefer protected sex with other couples. He, for instance, would be reluctant to have penetrative sex with a woman if she had just had unprotected sex with someone else. Wearing a condom also means that jizz doesn't stop play. |
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No wonder many ppl get put off by this site & (unfortunately) people on it. We have had some horrible experiences tbh. Shame it takes time to work through the idiots to get acquainted to the genuine respectful individuals. |
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