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Confidence crisis re figure!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do men (or women) REALLY like bigger girls or just "curves"? I've got curves with curves on. My newly arrived "plus-size" lingerie must have got rained on in the post and shrunk....I know I love to see ladies with fuller figures and lots of cuddly bits, so why do I not like to see it on ME?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do men (or women) REALLY like bigger girls or just "curves"? I've got curves with curves on. My newly arrived "plus-size" lingerie must have got rained on in the post and shrunk....I know I love to see ladies with fuller figures and lots of cuddly bits, so why do I not like to see it on ME?? "
Same here! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Being a big girl myself. I have to say, I have only ever found the site/clubs/socials and meets a very positive experience. And a massive confidence boost!
Imagine my utter delight when a gorgeous man started to chat little (Well, not so little) old me up at a club! And he was STUNNING!!
So, stick your confidence hat on and shake that gorgeous booty!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know I love to see ladies with fuller figures and lots of cuddly bits, so why do I not like to see it on ME?? "
Now that is the question!! Its not only me then lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Disagree with that one! Some people I can agree are classically perfect to look at in every way, but I don't find them remotely attractive ...even with a vagina mouth and tits xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't find my own build in the slightest bit attractive.
I wholly embrace the fact that others will though.
Whilst recognising I am not attractive to all, I am attractive to some .
And of those, there are some that I do find attractive.
And that's where the magic happens.
So accept yourself, love yourself and let others worry about whether your curves and wobbles are sexy or not cos it's all subjective |
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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
Shrewsbury |
"Do men (or women) REALLY like bigger girls or just "curves"? I've got curves with curves on. My newly arrived "plus-size" lingerie must have got rained on in the post and shrunk....I know I love to see ladies with fuller figures and lots of cuddly bits, so why do I not like to see it on ME?? "
Same here.. I don't think I look good I look pregnant! |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
"I don't find my own build in the slightest bit attractive.
I wholly embrace the fact that others will though.
Whilst recognising I am not attractive to all, I am attractive to some .
And of those, there are some that I do find attractive.
And that's where the magic happens.
So accept yourself, love yourself and let others worry about whether your curves and wobbles are sexy or not cos it's all subjective "
I feel podgy. But I am aware on a logical basis that some may not view me the same way so it's a back of the mind niggle when I am trying on clothes rather than a full blown crisis of confidence. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do men (or women) REALLY like bigger girls or just "curves"? I've got curves with curves on. My newly arrived "plus-size" lingerie must have got rained on in the post and shrunk....I know I love to see ladies with fuller figures and lots of cuddly bits, so why do I not like to see it on ME?? "
I've got no preference for size I love women in general. I think your all beautiful in your own way.
Now that said does anyone fancy a shag lol |
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I've had a similar conversation to this today too. The upshot being that we don't view ourselves how others view us. I love some bigger ladies, I also love some smaller ladies, what I love most is who they are and how they entice me in to their kinky devious activities |
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The answer to your question is, yes. We both enjoy contact with larger ladies. Anyone les than a size 20 is a non starter in our book. The only proviso is that the lady should have the confidence to fully engage. That word sex implies a two way thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes some men do. A very clever young man convinced me of this a few years ago. He spoke a lot of sense.
It doesn't stop me feeling utter shit sometimes but at least I have his voice in my head saying that I am fanciable to some. |
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I feel podgy. But I am aware on a logical basis that some may not view me the same way so it's a back of the mind niggle when I am trying on clothes rather than a full blown crisis of confidence."
You my lovely lady are perfection and I would love to treat you to a coffee and show how beautiful you are. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Iv always been uncomfortable with my body shape and size, but since I went on my first club visit and saw women of all shapes and sizes enjoying themselves. I must admit I'm not so conscious anymore.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder so they say! |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
leeds |
Whatever their size or shape many women haven't much body confidence. I didn't until we started posting pictures of me on fab - I was surprised and delighted to find how many men (and women) really like my figure - and weren't complimenting me just to get into my knickers. Now I'm much more comfortable with my body. |
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I found that going to spa type clubs and getting naked in public did wonders for my body confidence.
This is who I am, for now, and tough shit to those who don't appreciate it (and I don't expect any to, if I'm not to anyone's taste, they can simply move on).
I have nothing close to a perfect body, but have found that some appreciate it more than I thought possible.
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my mum and my sister mostly who have always been very critical of the way I look and other things, meeting certain people can help you feel a bit better about yourself sometimes because not everyone sees only bad things about you. |
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