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By *oneymitch OP Man over a year ago

Huddersfield

Just to say my posts aim was not to cause offence but to share my honest thoughts

I know we dont like to hear the truth sometimes as the truth can hurt

I will still continue to meet BBW's as I stated I enjoy them sexually

Anyway hope you have a good evening

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By *BWandhusbandCouple over a year ago

Midlands

"Just to say my posts aim was not to cause offence but to share my honest thoughts

I know we dont like to hear the truth sometimes as the truth can hurt

I will still continue to meet BBW's as I stated I enjoy them sexually

Anyway hope you have a good evening"

Good luck with that. That green arrow comes in very handy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just to say my posts aim was not to cause offence but to share my honest thoughts

I know we dont like to hear the truth sometimes as the truth can hurt

I will still continue to meet BBW's as I stated I enjoy them sexually

Anyway hope you have a good evening"

That's what you think

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just to say my posts aim was not to cause offence but to share my honest thoughts

I know we dont like to hear the truth sometimes as the truth can hurt

I will still continue to meet BBW's as I stated I enjoy them sexually

Anyway hope you have a good evening"

You're entitled to your opinion and I respect you for being honest but you are a shallow shallow man

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By *ornysalWoman over a year ago

essex

"Just to say my posts aim was not to cause offence but to share my honest thoughts

I know we dont like to hear the truth sometimes as the truth can hurt

I will still continue to meet BBW's as I stated I enjoy them sexually

Anyway hope you have a good evening"

Good luck there then as doubt many would still want to meet u i know I wouldnt but that's my opinion

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I wish there was a smiley with fingers x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As we are not allowed to name and sjame, but we can share links to forum posts..I encourage people to share the OP original post.

Warn other larger girls that we must not embarrass him

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

OP sometimes things are just better left unsaid as I said in your previous thread two wrongs don't make a right but sometimes like films they don't need a sequel

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Any BBW who has seen this or other posts will be straight to the block button.......never heard of "fabicide "?

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Maybe you should pop it on your profile that you wouldn't date the larger lady then you can be really honest like this thread

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"OP sometimes things are just better left unsaid as I said in your previous thread two wrongs don't make a right but sometimes like films they don't need a sequel

This

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"Just to say my posts aim was not to cause offence but to share my honest thoughts

I know we dont like to hear the truth sometimes as the truth can hurt

I will still continue to meet BBW's as I stated I enjoy them sexually

Anyway hope you have a good evening"

I agree the truth can sometimes hurt but it isn't always necessary or even advisable to tell it.

There are quite a few people on here and in real life (as I said) who have sex with people they wouldn't dream of dating.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am still wondering why you would feel embarrassed to be seen with a bbw or take her home to your mother? What is it that would make you feel embarrassed? Yes there can be a negative view of overweight people. Would it really bother you so much? Curious as you seem to genuinely love the feel of being with a bbw... would you be ready to give that up when you settle with a slimmer woman? Or continue with your 'embarrassing' bbw's on the side?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You asked for these responses. I'm loving reading them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I haven't read the original thread in it entirety but I can kinda tell how it went as it reached 175 in less than 2 hours....

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By *aughty bunny booCouple over a year ago

northampton

I think you may have blown your chances of hooking up with BBWs on here mate - you basically told them all that you would fuck them but that they embarrass you, and that you are a shallow prick who doesn't respect them enough to acknowledge them as people.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"I haven't read the original thread in it entirety but I can kinda tell how it went as it reached 175 in less than 2 hours...."

Hummmmm yeah

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

He is saying what a lot of people think though not just about BBW but swingers in general. The man of a couple we met socially said he didn't want swingers as friends, it's a similar thing.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The more we reinforce categories and draw attention to then the further away we are from being just human.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

I suppose in one respect it's a little insultive to the slimmer ladies who you would date,but don't get turned on by. Hmm interesting...what a dilemma you've put yourself in!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I thought most bbws only date/fuck black/coloured men? So the men are now saying there okay for a fuck but wouldn't date one in the real world? We knew this for ages! Shit just got real where's the crying icon lol

night

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By *aughty bunny booCouple over a year ago

northampton

"Maybe you should pop it on your profile that you wouldn't date the larger lady then you can be really honest like this thread

This!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"He is saying what a lot of people think though not just about BBW but swingers in general. The man of a couple we met socially said he didn't want swingers as friends, it's a similar thing."

There are a lot of people who would shag people they met on here but would never dream of having a relationship with them pruely because they are on this site..

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

So glad I read the forums been contemplating messaging the OP but he's now on my block list.

I might be fat but I'd rather be that that grotesquely shallow

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"The more we reinforce categories and draw attention to then the further away we are from being just human. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just grow some balls and admit that you like what you like. My mates all joke that I'm a chubby chaser but who cares, I like larger ladies, they also slag off my socks but I like them so I wear them!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"He is saying what a lot of people think though not just about BBW but swingers in general. The man of a couple we met socially said he didn't want swingers as friends, it's a similar thing.

There are a lot of people who would shag people they met on here but would never dream of having a relationship with them pruely because they are on this site.."

I think a lot of things on here are what I would call double standards.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"He is saying what a lot of people think though not just about BBW but swingers in general. The man of a couple we met socially said he didn't want swingers as friends, it's a similar thing.

There are a lot of people who would shag people they met on here but would never dream of having a relationship with them pruely because they are on this site.."

Yep. I think that saying he would be embarrassed was unnecessary and unkind but I'm willing to bet lots of men who will happily queue up at a gang bang would never take the woman they fuck home to mama. Many men still want to keep date women and sexual women separate.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The more we reinforce categories and draw attention to then the further away we are from being just human.

In fairness the BBW category is one of the most popular on here. There are many more threads created praising the larger woman than there are praising slimmer women often for their sexual attributes. I do agree though we are all just human."
yes because some men see them as easy targets and in a swingers club some men would go with a bbw behind closed doors but not to take her shopping or to meet the family or friends or date or have a relationship with her and that's the truth.Not everyone's the same but that's the majority view

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just to say my posts aim was not to cause offence but to share my honest thoughts

I know we dont like to hear the truth sometimes as the truth can hurt

I will still continue to meet BBW's as I stated I enjoy them sexually

Anyway hope you have a good evening"

I'm sure they'll be queuing round the block. Still all the more sexy ladies for the rest of us. Keep on digging! I was with a bbw for over thirty years and be happy to do the same again. Thankfully we never met any closed minded people like you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm fine with men only wanting to fuck me and not date me,for whatever reason. I couldn't see myself dating any of my regular partners and not just because they are younger than me. You've been honest,which is better than flattering fat women just to get your dick in a hole.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"The more we reinforce categories and draw attention to then the further away we are from being just human.

In fairness the BBW category is one of the most popular on here. There are many more threads created praising the larger woman than there are praising slimmer women often for their sexual attributes. I do agree though we are all just human. yes because some men see them as easy targets and in a swingers club some men would go with a bbw behind closed doors but not to take her shopping or to meet the family or friends or date or have a relationship with her and that's the truth.Not everyone's the same but that's the majority view

I don't know I tend to meet the guys that would be happy to be seen with me in public...However I probably have shagged a bloke in a club situation who wouldn't be seen with me in public but then I went to the club with the sole purpose of getting laid

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just to say my posts aim was not to cause offence but to share my honest thoughts

I know we dont like to hear the truth sometimes as the truth can hurt

I will still continue to meet BBW's as I stated I enjoy them sexually

Anyway hope you have a good evening"
wen i was big men would be nasty. Am slimmer now

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By *oneymitch OP Man over a year ago

Huddersfield

"The more we reinforce categories and draw attention to then the further away we are from being just human.

In fairness the BBW category is one of the most popular on here. There are many more threads created praising the larger woman than there are praising slimmer women often for their sexual attributes. I do agree though we are all just human. yes because some men see them as easy targets and in a swingers club some men would go with a bbw behind closed doors but not to take her shopping or to meet the family or friends or date or have a relationship with her and that's the truth.Not everyone's the same but that's the majority view

It happens all the time, I just think the women are unhappy to hear one persons true thoughts

There are various forums who slate the larger women to unacceptable levels, im actually stating i find them sexually attractive but the women are looking past this

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The more we reinforce categories and draw attention to then the further away we are from being just human.

In fairness the BBW category is one of the most popular on here. There are many more threads created praising the larger woman than there are praising slimmer women often for their sexual attributes. I do agree though we are all just human. yes because some men see them as easy targets and in a swingers club some men would go with a bbw behind closed doors but not to take her shopping or to meet the family or friends or date or have a relationship with her and that's the truth.Not everyone's the same but that's the majority view

It happens all the time, I just think the women are unhappy to hear one persons true thoughts

There are various forums who slate the larger women to unacceptable levels, im actually stating i find them sexually attractive but the women are looking past this

We can't be that attractive if you won't be seen in public with us

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"The more we reinforce categories and draw attention to then the further away we are from being just human.

In fairness the BBW category is one of the most popular on here. There are many more threads created praising the larger woman than there are praising slimmer women often for their sexual attributes. I do agree though we are all just human. yes because some men see them as easy targets and in a swingers club some men would go with a bbw behind closed doors but not to take her shopping or to meet the family or friends or date or have a relationship with her and that's the truth.Not everyone's the same but that's the majority view

It happens all the time, I just think the women are unhappy to hear one persons true thoughts

There are various forums who slate the larger women to unacceptable levels, im actually stating i find them sexually attractive but the women are looking past this

I don't think people are looking past that but I think some have an issue that you are just treating them like a bit of meat....

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

"The more we reinforce categories and draw attention to then the further away we are from being just human.

In fairness the BBW category is one of the most popular on here. There are many more threads created praising the larger woman than there are praising slimmer women often for their sexual attributes. I do agree though we are all just human. yes because some men see them as easy targets and in a swingers club some men would go with a bbw behind closed doors but not to take her shopping or to meet the family or friends or date or have a relationship with her and that's the truth.Not everyone's the same but that's the majority view

It happens all the time, I just think the women are unhappy to hear one persons true thoughts

There are various forums who slate the larger women to unacceptable levels, im actually stating i find them sexually attractive but the women are looking past this

Any man that finds a woman truly attractive wouldn't be embarrassed to be seen with them in any context

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

It's like the men in their 20s who want to meet older women, I would be kidding myself if I believed it was for anything other than sex and I would no more want to date a man that young or go home and meet his mum than he would want to take me. I think sometimes we forget that no strings attached sex is just that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The more we reinforce categories and draw attention to then the further away we are from being just human.

In fairness the BBW category is one of the most popular on here. There are many more threads created praising the larger woman than there are praising slimmer women often for their sexual attributes. I do agree though we are all just human. yes because some men see them as easy targets and in a swingers club some men would go with a bbw behind closed doors but not to take her shopping or to meet the family or friends or date or have a relationship with her and that's the truth.Not everyone's the same but that's the majority view

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hearhear. Wen i was in my teens and twenties i neva had a bf cos i was always big size22/24. Am slimmer now a size12 and men now complain am too slim. Cant win

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Oooh controversial.

Not sure why you wrote your original post (actually I think I can guess but I thought people had grown out of that sort of thing), but I know why you wrote this one.

There are a lot off men on here who are happy to shag women in couples then turn around and say 'but of course I would never let any girlfriend I had behave that like'. Double standards all the way. We are all entitled to our own opinions, but sometimes its best to keep them quiet. All you've done is riled up people you'll never meet.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's like the men in their 20s who want to meet older women, I would be kidding myself if I believed it was for anything other than sex and I would no more want to date a man that young or go home and meet his mum than he would want to take me. I think sometimes we forget that no strings attached sex is just that."

Yes but unlike OP, I would not be ashamed to be seen with the older lady in public. We can go for dinner or to the movies

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I just found and read the original post. I'm a size 20 woman and let me tell you OP that I wouldn't be seen dead walking around with a shallow, ignorant, self centred so and so like yourself and others with that opinion. That the real tragedy.

Sadly I once had a fuck buddy with these views. I dumped his ass as soon as he expressed his thoughts. He still bugs me to meet him again. Ain't gonna happen.

So I hope any lady who considers herself a bbw, blocks your sorry ass

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

Yes it's NSA but does that mean friendships can't be formed where you'll gladly be seen in public with the person?

I've got two long term FWB relationships, we go out have a great time then go home for fun and that's been NSA fun for 5+ years with both of them. We're not going to date we never will but we don't hide each other away for fear of embarrassment or awkward questions either

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By *ohnaronMan over a year ago

london

This is your captain speaking. We are listing to port. All ladies to the starboard rail please.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I want to meet the OP's mum and friends

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just to say my posts aim was not to cause offence but to share my honest thoughts

I know we dont like to hear the truth sometimes as the truth can hurt

I will still continue to meet BBW's as I stated I enjoy them sexually

Anyway hope you have a good evening"

You really do talk about 'BBW'S' like they're some kind of weird species!!

Threads don't very often piss me off but this one has. I really hope every 'BBW' reads this and gives you a wide berth..No pun intended

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes but unlike OP, I would not be ashamed to be seen with the older lady in public. We can go for dinner or to the movies

No white knights please...

Now let's get back to this train wreck..

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By *asokittyWoman over a year ago

Nr Worksop

I will still continue to meet BBW's as I stated I enjoy them sexually

Not from here anymore.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I will still continue to meet BBW's as I stated I enjoy them sexually

Not from here anymore. "

What he says on the forum won't have any effect in the real world of fab.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OP oh dear. You're extremely disrespectful. I always find shallow. disrespectful, selfish people are usually shit in bed. Good luck with your future meetings

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *oneymitch OP Man over a year ago

Huddersfield

To me BBW is a fetish the same way that BDSM is to others

I like to have sex with bigger women but just because i would never get into a relationship with them doesnt make me a monster.

All the women making there silly threats need to come down from there ego trips built from months of photo likes and winks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To me BBW is a fetish the same way that BDSM is to others

I like to have sex with bigger women but just because i would never get into a relationship with them doesnt make me a monster.

All the women making there silly threats need to come down from there ego trips built from months of photo likes and winks

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your digging a grave for yaself here mate ,Ego trip? Youre very ignorant and very rude .no manners.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To me BBW is a fetish the same way that BDSM is to others

I like to have sex with bigger women but just because i would never get into a relationship with them doesnt make me a monster.

All the women making there silly threats need to come down from there ego trips built from months of photo likes and winks

The same way that black men are to others. Good for a fuck but nothing else ay?

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By *LCCCouple over a year ago

Cambridge

Well that will teach the OP to use the forums!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To me BBW is a fetish the same way that BDSM is to others

I like to have sex with bigger women but just because i would never get into a relationship with them doesnt make me a monster.

All the women making there silly threats need to come down from there ego trips built from months of photo likes and winks

The same way that black men are to others. Good for a fuck but nothing else ay? "

Hey can we keep common sense out of this please?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As a bbw reading your profile or meeting at a interracial party I would have no idea,but end of the day my preference was always black guys who I wanted to fuck,some were thinking of me as a fetish,that's swinging for you,just like ive always been judged as a lady with a fetish for black guys.we all have preferences we wouldn't want to necessarily date.I'm bi but would never date woman but happy to be seen with woman in public

Thankfully my partner of 6months a blackguy has not got the same thoughts as the op (embarressment/follows his peers eg his mates),he is an individual and knows exactly what type of person he is attracted to,in real to swinging life

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By *awandOrderCouple over a year ago

SW London

"To me BBW is a fetish the same way that BDSM is to others

I like to have sex with bigger women but just because i would never get into a relationship with them doesnt make me a monster.

All the women making there silly threats need to come down from there ego trips built from months of photo likes and winks

Interesting thread. Have to admit I haven't read through the whole of the last one ... but I need to comment, not on the BBW thing but ego trips? I don't need likes of winks to believe in myself, I feel valued for who I am (I wont mention if I am a bbw or not, as its not of relevance here) ... is this another man thinking he is doing women a favour? Just because you may be on an ego trip if you get a wink or like, OP, dont assume we all are. Most of us on here don't live our life holding our breath for these things.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To me BBW is a fetish the same way that BDSM is to others

I like to have sex with bigger women but just because i would never get into a relationship with them doesnt make me a monster.

All the women making there silly threats need to come down from there ego trips built from months of photo likes and winks

The same way that black men are to others. Good for a fuck but nothing else ay? "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To me BBW is a fetish the same way that BDSM is to others

I like to have sex with bigger women but just because i would never get into a relationship with them doesnt make me a monster.

All the women making there silly threats need to come down from there ego trips built from months of photo likes and winks

The same way that black men are to others. Good for a fuck but nothing else ay? "

Ha....i said that exact thing to hubby a while ago!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To me BBW is a fetish the same way that BDSM is to others

I like to have sex with bigger women but just because i would never get into a relationship with them doesnt make me a monster.

All the women making there silly threats need to come down from there ego trips built from months of photo likes and winks

The same way that black men are to others. Good for a fuck but nothing else ay?

Ha....i said that exact thing to hubby a while ago!

Great minds

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By *asonnosaMMan over a year ago

Grantham

shouldn't we all be jolly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

His attitude isn't unique. Quite the opposite.

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By *asokittyWoman over a year ago

Nr Worksop

"I thought most bbws only date/fuck black/coloured men? So the men are now saying there okay for a fuck but wouldn't date one in the real world? We knew this for ages! Shit just got real where's the crying icon lol

night

How did you come up with this gem

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"His attitude isn't unique. Quite the opposite."

You're quite right. It's become apparent that all im good for is secret fat girl sex. Other than that I'm just a worthless fatty and no matter what I do it will never be enough because I'm fat. And that why I guess so many are quite rightly cross. It's wrong on so many levels but it's the way the world thinks.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"His attitude isn't unique. Quite the opposite.

I wonder how many women he pissed off tonight?

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By *oneymitch OP Man over a year ago

Huddersfield

Ok Question for the women throwing there rattles out of the pram

Would you prefer a guy who despises bigger girls as a whole or one that finds them sexually attractive but wouldnt date one?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To me BBW is a fetish the same way that BDSM is to others

I like to have sex with bigger women but just because i would never get into a relationship with them doesnt make me a monster.

All the women making there silly threats need to come down from there ego trips built from months of photo likes and winks

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oh us tgirls are very used to being used as fetish fuck with no other purpose in life otherthan secretly satisfy guys dirty deep seated secrets but if we shout out about it no one gives a damn

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok Question for the women throwing there rattles out of the pram

Would you prefer a guy who despises bigger girls as a whole or one that finds them sexually attractive but wouldnt date one?"

The former. He's got a set of balls.

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By *asokittyWoman over a year ago

Nr Worksop

"Ok Question for the women throwing there rattles out of the pram

Would you prefer a guy who despises bigger girls as a whole or one that finds them sexually attractive but wouldnt date one?"

The former. At least they're honest.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Ok Question for the women throwing there rattles out of the pram

Would you prefer a guy who despises bigger girls as a whole or one that finds them sexually attractive but wouldnt date one?"

Neither I'm a fat woman but not a desperate one I don't need to shag men that wouldn't be seen with me in public I am really not that desperate for a shag or the attention I get enough in real life to not worry about what men think of me or my size on here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd have more respect for a guy who didn't find larger women attractive.

You are different, we are a dirty secret to you..

Do you sneer at big women when with your friends? Does it make you feel like a big man?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok Question for the women throwing there rattles out of the pram

Would you prefer a guy who despises bigger girls as a whole or one that finds them sexually attractive but wouldnt date one?"

I would think I wouldn't be messaged by a man who despised me. I wouldn't care if a man despised me for my size,I don't have an ego and I laugh at name callers.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Whether his attitude is unique or not doesn't matter. No need to be disrespectful and vile. Lowest of the low. Whether we're on here for nsa sex or not people still have feelings. Some people would do well to remember that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd have more respect for a guy who didn't find larger women attractive.

You are different, we are a dirty secret to you..

Do you sneer at big women when with your friends? Does it make you feel like a big man?

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this all seems very familiar to me all my life not just one thread in a forum

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OP,do you feel like you're doing fat women a favour by fucking them? Or asking to fuck them?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok Question for the women throwing there rattles out of the pram

Would you prefer a guy who despises bigger girls as a whole or one that finds them sexually attractive but wouldnt date one?"
u are very shallow man

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd have more respect for a guy who didn't find larger women attractive.

You are different, we are a dirty secret to you..

Do you sneer at big women when with your friends? Does it make you feel like a big man?

this all seems very familiar to me all my life not just one thread in a forum "

Are you a T girl 24/7?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Very shallow

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd have more respect for a guy who didn't find larger women attractive.

You are different, we are a dirty secret to you..

Do you sneer at big women when with your friends? Does it make you feel like a big man?

this all seems very familiar to me all my life not just one thread in a forum

Are you a T girl 24/7?"
no not a tgirl 24/7 but have experienced this sort of behaviour over the years towards my homosexuality tho its better these days but being a tgirl too takes me back several years re the all above

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't shag anyone I wouldn't take to a restaurant...

I shag people, not body types.... night all xx

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By *oneymitch OP Man over a year ago

Huddersfield

"OP,do you feel like you're doing fat women a favour by fucking them? Or asking to fuck them? "

No totally the opposite there doing me a favour if anything

Like i said big women are my fetish

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd have more respect for a guy who didn't find larger women attractive.

You are different, we are a dirty secret to you..

Do you sneer at big women when with your friends? Does it make you feel like a big man?

this all seems very familiar to me all my life not just one thread in a forum

Are you a T girl 24/7?no not a tgirl 24/7 but have experienced this sort of behaviour over the years towards my homosexuality tho its better these days but being a tgirl too takes me back several years re the all above "

Ok. So you think fat people havnt delt with this all their lives too?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd have more respect for a guy who didn't find larger women attractive.

You are different, we are a dirty secret to you..

Do you sneer at big women when with your friends? Does it make you feel like a big man?

this all seems very familiar to me all my life not just one thread in a forum

Ok. So you think fat people havnt delt with this all their lives too?"
well I'm fat too so to answer ur pertinent question of course and thank you for ur interest most just skip over my comments so cheers again xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To me BBW is a fetish the same way that BDSM is to others

I like to have sex with bigger women but just because i would never get into a relationship with them doesnt make me a monster.

All the women making there silly threats need to come down from there ego trips built from months of photo likes and winks

oh us tgirls are very used to being used as fetish fuck with no other purpose in life otherthan secretly satisfy guys dirty deep seated secrets but if we shout out about it no one gives a damn "

Testify testify

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By *lackMetalMan over a year ago

Centre

"To me BBW is a fetish the same way that BDSM is to others

I like to have sex with bigger women but just because i would never get into a relationship with them doesnt make me a monster.

All the women making there silly threats need to come down from there ego trips built from months of photo likes and winks

The same way that black men are to others. Good for a fuck but nothing else ay? "

Whoa whoa let's keep some perspective here, shall we? The fact that someone states something you don't like doesn't mean you go for something that you think is an advantage in your mind when it isn't! Don't slate and denigrate every black male in the world cos of one person. Absolutely ridiculous!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To me BBW is a fetish the same way that BDSM is to others

I like to have sex with bigger women but just because i would never get into a relationship with them doesnt make me a monster.

All the women making there silly threats need to come down from there ego trips built from months of photo likes and winks

oh us tgirls are very used to being used as fetish fuck with no other purpose in life otherthan secretly satisfy guys dirty deep seated secrets but if we shout out about it no one gives a damn

Testify testify "

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By *asokittyWoman over a year ago

Nr Worksop

"OP,do you feel like you're doing fat women a favour by fucking them? Or asking to fuck them?

No totally the opposite there doing me a favour if anything

Like i said big women are my fetish "

*they're

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

"Ok Question for the women throwing there rattles out of the pram

Would you prefer a guy who despises bigger girls as a whole or one that finds them sexually attractive but wouldnt date one?"

Neither I'm not desperate for a fuck and my ego is quite satisfied with choosing a vibrator over choosing between the above options.

I'd have more respect for the first guy but then again he wouldn't message me if he despised big women so it's not an issue

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

night

How did you come up with this gem

"
man of knowledge beaut

most bbw girls are single thou

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't shag anyone I wouldn't take to a restaurant...

I shag people, not body types.... night all xx"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

night

How did you come up with this gem

man of knowledge beaut

most bbw girls are single thou

How did you come up with that stat? Plenty of men/women date ladies over size 14. Size 16 is the average size for a lady in the UK.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

Yes but unlike OP, I would not be ashamed to be seen with the older lady in public. We can go for dinner or to the movies

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Society makes it embarassing when your in high school op. Thats just how it is. But by 18 most have matured enough not to live for other people and what they may or may not care about.

Truth be told i your thouhhts dont offend me because i think its a sad part of life i accept. I do pity you though. You 2ill never be truly happy in life because like a drone you do only what you think you should to fit in.

Who cares about fitting in? These people that dont approve that would make you feel this embarassment do you know them? If so get rid. If you dont then why would their opnions matter?

Hopefully one day you will grow up and change your views.

One thought id leave ypu with though is atrractiveness as a quality is far more than looks. Men may be highly visual creatures but women are usually higher in aspect of emotional perception.

So when your embarrassed of a bbw in thr strèet because society tells you shes not attractive. She may find you far lower down this imaginary scale of yours...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

night

How did you come up with this gem

man of knowledge beaut

most bbw girls are single thou

Wow

Most bbws only fuck or date black men???

Most bbws are single??

I bet it blows your mind ive never been single or had sex with a blackman. Please dont blow our fat heads with your other insights i dont think we could take it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To me BBW is a fetish the same way that BDSM is to others

I like to have sex with bigger women but just because i would never get into a relationship with them doesnt make me a monster.

All the women making there silly threats need to come down from there ego trips built from months of photo likes and winks

The same way that black men are to others. Good for a fuck but nothing else ay?

I think you'll find she wasn't slating or denigrating anyone...merely pointing out to the op that his attitude toward larger ladies is the same as SOME of those that seek only BBC ..great to Fuck...but wouldn't want to be walking down the street with a black guy...oh but that's racism....something that the OP may have encountered. I guess he must be ok with being fetishized in that way in order to apply the same logic to BBWs.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think you may have blown your chances of hooking up with BBWs on here mate - you basically told them all that you would fuck them but that they embarrass you, and that you are a shallow prick who doesn't respect them enough to acknowledge them as people.

Hardly any of the site reads the forums tbh most dont know it exists.

I will say cuddling with a bigger girl kind of sucks though as many women say they like to feel safe held in the big arms of a man, i think the same applies to a lot of us guys. We like to hole the delicate little thing in our arms and make them feel safe. Which doesnt work when the other person is twice the size of you and your arm is up in the air over then.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To me BBW is a fetish the same way that BDSM is to others

I like to have sex with bigger women but just because i would never get into a relationship with them doesnt make me a monster.

All the women making there silly threats need to come down from there ego trips built from months of photo likes and winks

oh us tgirls are very used to being used as fetish fuck with no other purpose in life otherthan secretly satisfy guys dirty deep seated secrets but if we shout out about it no one gives a damn "

I find that tends to be more a TV issue tbh.

Most of the transgender girls i know have no problem finding guys for a relationship (usualy they're trying to sort through the offers or they don't want one themselves)

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By *ezebelWoman over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Ive moved abusive posts and we can drop this now please

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