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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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a couple messaged us last week we said if we're ever in their area, we'd talk
and now the guy messages me every morning "morning sexy" "can't wait to fuck you etc etc"
Totally put me off.
I might be nieve as we've only been doing this 10 days, but I don't like it when his wife/my husband isn't there.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If things they say don't add up. If I get any gut feeling that I shouldn't meet them. I can't even define it, it could be anything, but if my "I don't feel safe with this guy" alarm gets triggered, then nope, not meeting.
A more obvious "I'm not safe with this guy" trigger was a guy (who I'd never met) who suggested a fantasy scenario he wanted to play out where he would kidnap me and my husband had to find us.
Just. No.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bad hygiene
420 friendlies
Racists
Homophobics
Misogynistic men
Unattractiveness.....to me
Chavs
Men who wear socks in their cock picks
Men who pluck their eyebrows excessively  "
Funnily enough there's something I find a bit of a turn-on about chavs. Can't for the life of me think what it is.
Must be a psychological thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bad hygiene
420 friendlies
Racists
Homophobics
Misogynistic men
Unattractiveness.....to me
Chavs
Men who wear socks in their cock picks
Men who pluck their eyebrows excessively
Funnily enough there's something I find a bit of a turn-on about chavs. Can't for the life of me think what it is.
Must be a psychological thing."
More down to earth and funny with it, that's what does it for me anyway.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Slightest hint of racist or homophobic views and it doesn't matter what you look like I'm not interested. Oh and being a Sun or Mail reader is a dealbreaker |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Crossdressers of any level. Just not into it. "
Me neither, they're just soooo disgusting! I never ever ever crossdressed, I just instantly became a ts as soon as I tried my first pair of knickers on.
I know you're the same Rachel  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Slightest hint of racist or homophobic views and it doesn't matter what you look like I'm not interested. Oh and being a Sun or Mail reader is a dealbreaker"
I wouldn't go as far as not meeting because of their paper of choice, but bigotry is a huuuge dealbreaker for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Trannies.
Possibly would meet a bi guy if he was happy to playstraight but never ever a tv."
The "trannies" probably feel the same about you. They tend not to like bigots. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Slightest hint of racist or homophobic views and it doesn't matter what you look like I'm not interested. Oh and being a Sun or Mail reader is a dealbreaker
I wouldn't go as far as not meeting because of their paper of choice, but bigotry is a huuuge dealbreaker for me. "
Those papers peddle hate and lies. Perhaps harshly I assume their readers buy in to their editorial policies.
I've never knowingly kissed a tory and don't plan on that changing anytime soon!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Trannies.
Possibly would meet a bi guy if he was happy to playstraight but never ever a tv.
The "trannies" probably feel the same about you. They tend not to like bigots."
That suits me just fine. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Slightest hint of racist or homophobic views and it doesn't matter what you look like I'm not interested. Oh and being a Sun or Mail reader is a dealbreaker
I wouldn't go as far as not meeting because of their paper of choice, but bigotry is a huuuge dealbreaker for me.
Those papers peddle hate and lies. Perhaps harshly I assume their readers buy in to their editorial policies.
I've never knowingly kissed a tory and don't plan on that changing anytime soon! "
I agree wholeheartedly; but I doubt some people are that politically-minded or that it makes an iota of difference to their political leanings (if they have them at all).
For some people (I would venture to say most) it's just a paper.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Slightest hint of racist or homophobic views and it doesn't matter what you look like I'm not interested. Oh and being a Sun or Mail reader is a dealbreaker
I wouldn't go as far as not meeting because of their paper of choice, but bigotry is a huuuge dealbreaker for me.
Those papers peddle hate and lies. Perhaps harshly I assume their readers buy in to their editorial policies.
I've never knowingly kissed a tory and don't plan on that changing anytime soon! "
I saw an article in the mail that said you had a thing for Katie Hopkins... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They use text speak and aren't under 25. "
Or they dress or behave like they are under 25.
Ooh I'm getting very judgemental all of a sudden. Probably says more about me than the people I'm talking about. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Guys that go from 'yes, let's meet for coffee' to 'can't wait to fuck you all night' in consecutive messages. Just because I agree to a social doesn't mean it is a foregone conclusion "
This too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They use text speak and aren't under 25.
Or they dress or behave like they are under 25.
Ooh I'm getting very judgemental all of a sudden. Probably says more about me than the people I'm talking about."
That reminds me: skinny jeans on a guy - absolute no. |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"Slightest hint of racist or homophobic views and it doesn't matter what you look like I'm not interested. Oh and being a Sun or Mail reader is a dealbreaker
I wouldn't go as far as not meeting because of their paper of choice, but bigotry is a huuuge dealbreaker for me.
Those papers peddle hate and lies. Perhaps harshly I assume their readers buy in to their editorial policies.
I've never knowingly kissed a tory and don't plan on that changing anytime soon! "
I've been known to read The Sun on the odd occasion.   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Crossdressers of any level. Just not into it.
Me neither, they're just soooo disgusting! I never ever ever crossdressed, I just instantly became a ts as soon as I tried my first pair of knickers on.
I know you're the same Rachel "
I don't find crossdressers disgusting. I just don't fancy them. I hope that's ok with you. I'd hate you to get eye problems with all that I seem to induce by my choices.
I fancy big strong men. Not crossdressers. Simple.  |
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"They use text speak and aren't under 25.
Or they dress or behave like they are under 25.
Ooh I'm getting very judgemental all of a sudden. Probably says more about me than the people I'm talking about."
Dress like they are under 25? Does that mean I have to get a whole new wardrobe in a few months...?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Guys that go from 'yes, let's meet for coffee' to 'can't wait to fuck you all night' in consecutive messages. Just because I agree to a social doesn't mean it is a foregone conclusion
This too. "
I've stopped speaking to guys because they do exactly this.  |
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Several things, not finding them attractive, being pushy, sending multiple messages despite me either saying no or deleting them. Or being deceitful with the pictures they send, if we meet and you're not who you say you are i wouldn't entertain it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If there was no attraction at all like a few on here bad hygiene etc you wouldn't know about till a meet but would walk away then but before meeting would have to be some attraction |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Poor hygiene .
Bad teeth .
Being pissed .
No attraction .
Aggressive people .
Judgemental people .
Liars .
We aren't bothered by political leaning , what paper they read or any of that though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Crossdressers of any level. Just not into it.
Me neither, they're just soooo disgusting! I never ever ever crossdressed, I just instantly became a ts as soon as I tried my first pair of knickers on.
I know you're the same Rachel
I don't find crossdressers disgusting. I just don't fancy them. I hope that's ok with you. I'd hate you to get eye problems with all that I seem to induce by my choices.
I fancy big strong men. Not crossdressers. Simple. "
I'm a cross dresser
I've a pair of 34 inch jeans
They don't fit and it makes me cross |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Messaging 10 mins after there last message saying "hey u not talkin" or "guess I am not your type then"
If they wont give us time to check out their profile and discuss it between us then sorry but bye bye. |
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"Bad hygiene
420 friendlies
Racists
Homophobics
Misogynistic men
Unattractiveness.....to me
Chavs
Men who wear socks in their cock picks
Men who pluck their eyebrows excessively
Funnily enough there's something I find a bit of a turn-on about chavs. Can't for the life of me think what it is.
Must be a psychological thing."
A bit of rough maybe? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"they send you a message saying they like your profile so you reply saying thanks, then they send you a message saying they want to meet you."
Should they say
Don't want to meet you then? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Messaging 10 mins after there last message saying "hey u not talkin" or "guess I am not your type then"
If they wont give us time to check out their profile and discuss it between us then sorry but bye bye."
That's one of my irritants too.
Also "what you up to?" And "you busy?" kill it for me. I would never ask anyone those kinds of questions, it's none of my business. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Slightest hint of racist or homophobic views and it doesn't matter what you look like I'm not interested. Oh and being a Sun or Mail reader is a dealbreaker
I wouldn't go as far as not meeting because of their paper of choice, but bigotry is a huuuge dealbreaker for me.
Those papers peddle hate and lies. Perhaps harshly I assume their readers buy in to their editorial policies.
I've never knowingly kissed a tory and don't plan on that changing anytime soon!
I've been known to read The Sun on the odd occasion. "
Me too...usually when I'm on the train. I am very much a lefty; but I'm not going to burst into flames just because I'm reading a paper that doesn't match my political leanings.
Also; it might have a crossword. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tory
Daily Mail reader
Misogynist
Transphobic
Racist
Xenophobic
Body fascist
Bad teeth
Multiple cock shots
Bad hygiene
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I'm sure I wouldn't want to meet one of them either, but what the blithering hell is a 'body fascist'?!?
Maybe I'm getting out of touch in my old age. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Messaging 10 mins after there last message saying "hey u not talkin" or "guess I am not your type then"
If they wont give us time to check out their profile and discuss it between us then sorry but bye bye.
That's one of my irritants too.
Also "what you up to?" And "you busy?" kill it for me. I would never ask anyone those kinds of questions, it's none of my business."
In all fairness though; Fab doesn't come with a pre-packaged 'Fabswingers etiquette guide'. Some guys don't know what to put, or they lack social skills; or they're newbies. Or all three.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Crossdressers of any level. Just not into it.
Me neither, they're just soooo disgusting! I never ever ever crossdressed, I just instantly became a ts as soon as I tried my first pair of knickers on.
I know you're the same Rachel
I don't find crossdressers disgusting. I just don't fancy them. I hope that's ok with you. I'd hate you to get eye problems with all that I seem to induce by my choices.
I fancy big strong men. Not crossdressers. Simple. "
Well in that case I owe you an apology.
I just get sick of transsexuals who think they are somehow better than cd's and tv's.
I misinterpreted your post and I'm sorry.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Crossdressers of any level. Just not into it.
Me neither, they're just soooo disgusting! I never ever ever crossdressed, I just instantly became a ts as soon as I tried my first pair of knickers on.
I know you're the same Rachel
I don't find crossdressers disgusting. I just don't fancy them. I hope that's ok with you. I'd hate you to get eye problems with all that I seem to induce by my choices.
I fancy big strong men. Not crossdressers. Simple.
Well in that case I owe you an apology.
I just get sick of transsexuals who think they are somehow better than cd's and tv's.
I misinterpreted your post and I'm sorry. "
No worries. Apology accepted.
For the record I'm not often attracted to real girls either. Femininity is a beautiful thing to see and appreciate but it doesn't turn me on. Masculinity does.
Occasionally I meet a woman who's personality and sexuality turn me on though. She may be beautiful she may not be. |
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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago
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"If things they say don't add up. If I get any gut feeling that I shouldn't meet them. I can't even define it, it could be anything, but if my "I don't feel safe with this guy" alarm gets triggered, then nope, not meeting.
A more obvious "I'm not safe with this guy" trigger was a guy (who I'd never met) who suggested a fantasy scenario he wanted to play out where he would kidnap me and my husband had to find us.
Just. No. "
I had a guy who wanted to "go chokey" with me, and couldn't understand why I wanted to run a mile! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What would make you say no to someone no matter what the circumstances......
No pulse or no sign of breathing "
Don't think you'd have to say no in those circumstances as they wouldn't hear you anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What would make you say no to someone no matter what the circumstances......
No pulse or no sign of breathing
Don't think you'd have to say no in those circumstances as they wouldn't hear you anyway "
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