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How young is too young?

By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

Have been chatting to an 18 year old - she wants to meet tonight and is very keen to try all sorts of new stuff and really push her boundaries - is she old enough? When is a girl mature enough to experiment with this kind of stuff? Obviously it is hard for me to resit given she is so gorgeous

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By *corpio67Man over a year ago

hillingdon

Better ask for ID !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We've met 18 year old girls and they can be hard work ... 20 is now our lower age limit but we wouldn't necessarily say no if the young lady was mature and fit

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By *atcoupleCouple over a year ago

Suffolk - East Anglia

"Have been chatting to an 18 year old - she wants to meet tonight and is very keen to try all sorts of new stuff and really push her boundaries - is she old enough? When is a girl mature enough to experiment with this kind of stuff? Obviously it is hard for me to resit given she is so gorgeous"

Absolute minimum is 21 years AND as a rule of thumb once this age is attained, if you are older then half your age plus 7.

Ie if you are 50 then she needs to be 25 plus 7 = 32

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I guess it comes down to A) Is she really 18? Like seriously ask her politely to reassure you. Then B) Would you feel bad or not really.

Honestly if you are two consenting adults and she is genuinely an adult, and you are both mature enough to do this safely and discreetly, then I can't see an issue with it. Some people will think it's weird, but lets face it, your business is you business and fab isn't a place for normal antics.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think I'd be tempted to meet socially first and get a feel for the situation, many 18 year olds are very mature and have got their heads in a good place, just as many are still children no matter what their ID and the law states.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Lucky b******d. Lol. Go for it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you have to ask then surely you have an element of doubt...

Personally I would say 18 is too young but it's your call

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By *lik and PaulCouple over a year ago

Flagrante

Hmmmm....a gorgeous 18 year old who wants to push the boundaries......her name isn't Trevor by any chance

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hmmmm....a gorgeous 18 year old who wants to push the boundaries......her name isn't Trevor by any chance

You win forum post of the year

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Age is no indicator of maturity..I've learned that being on this site

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

For a women 18 plus

For a man..cant be 5 years younger otherwise your a dirty perv

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

For me 25 and below is too young and I only base that on my experience. When I was under 25 I thought I new everything when in fact I knew nothing and bad decisions affected my future I didn't even know who I was emotionally never mind sexually

Also there was a young couple in cupids and quite simply they ruined the night it was like being out with the kids

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No in my opinion she is to young, but that's me!

I would go with what a previous poster said and have a social first get a feel for the situation and her maturity, x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I personally don't like the idea of meeting kids. If I saw a potential meet had met an 18 year old I'd stop talking immediately. It happened yesterday. Also an ex who 27 started seeing a 19 year old, I look at him differently now.

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By *piritsonfabCouple over a year ago

Nottingham

I would go for a social and insist on photo ID, even go so far as to take a pic of it for your protection.

If she won't allow that (and I wouldn't lol) then I'd steer clear.

Mind you, 16 is the age of consent so neither of you is breaking the law.

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

Age is just a number...If you click and can converse on a mutual level why should it make any difference?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

well she is over 16 so that makes her legal and i done a few years ago the sex was out of this world she either had a lot of practise or reads a lot but on a business meeting a client asked me back to the office and said he had to pick is daughter up from college it was her she did not make a secret of it and the dad said she is over 16 so it,s okay but what if she was not so your answer be carefull

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By *ensual temptressWoman over a year ago

Southampton

"Hmmmm....a gorgeous 18 year old who wants to push the boundaries......her name isn't Trevor by any chance

I'm afraid I'm also alil jaded about authenticity of your meet op. I find if it's too good to be true it generally is .

But I'm sure you've spoke on phone or on cam so know they are genuine or you wouldnt even be talking about meeting!

If that's the case well listen to your gut not your dick . As suggested arrange a Purely social meet so you can gauge things. No use rushing in to anything you have doubts with as just going to be uncomfortable and awkward.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"For me 25 and below is too young and I only base that on my experience. When I was under 25 I thought I new everything when in fact I knew nothing and bad decisions affected my future I didn't even know who I was emotionally never mind sexually

Also there was a young couple in cupids and quite simply they ruined the night it was like being out with the kids "

In my experience the people that say someones too young their jealous, when i was 16-17 iv slept with men 40+ iv known who and what i am,

she will never know what she wants till she sexually active and get more experience x

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By *piritsonfabCouple over a year ago

Nottingham

The poster seems to know his way around so hopefully he is savvy enough to avoid being conned.

But why is an 18yo seeking out a 48 yo?

Just be careful

;)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"well she is over 16 so that makes her legal and i done a few years ago the sex was out of this world she either had a lot of practise or reads a lot but on a business meeting a client asked me back to the office and said he had to pick is daughter up from college it was her she did not make a secret of it and the dad said she is over 16 so it,s okay but what if she was not so your answer be carefull"

She has to be over 18, its illegal to sex with a minor thats 16-18 x

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By *ouple4biMMFCouple over a year ago

Nottingham

I know people say age is just a number,but to me that's not the case. I may find someone of 18 attractive,but the older guy gets my juices flowing more. Someone just out of education or has only just started shaving does not do it for me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Also there was a young couple in cupids and quite simply they ruined the night it was like being out with the kids

In my experience the people that say someones too young their jealous, when i was 16-17 iv slept with men 40+ iv known who and what i am,

she will never know what she wants till she sexually active and get more experience x

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with respect only someone immature would consider it to be jealousy which kind of proves the point of age versus maturity

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

this I think you ought to leave it too as she is still very young and the age difference is far too great it seems too freaky really

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman over a year ago

Lyndhurst

you are supposed to be an adult at 18.

I met my now husband when I was 17, I wasn't a typical teenager because my parents were old and my brothers and sister were a lot older than me, I also looked older because I was big.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"you are supposed to be an adult at 18.

I met my now husband when I was 17, I wasn't a typical teenager because my parents were old and my brothers and sister were a lot older than me, I also looked older because I was big.

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was your husband 48 at the time? BIG difference

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If my son (who is 19 ) told me he is meeting a 39 yr old i would not be happy. Each to their own but what if she turns out to be younger?

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By *piritsonfabCouple over a year ago

Nottingham

She has to be over 18, its illegal to sex with a minor thats 16-18 x

16 is the age on consent, unless the other person is in a particular position of power line a teacher.

Anyway this girl is supposed to be 18.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

She has to be over 18, its illegal to sex with a minor thats 16-18 x

Age of consent is 16 in the uk, it's only 18 if the older person is in a position of trust to the 16/17 year old... ie carer, teacher etc.

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By *ouple4biMMFCouple over a year ago

Nottingham

Also there was a young couple in cupids and quite simply they ruined the night it was like being out with the kids

In my experience the people that say someones too young their jealous, when i was 16-17 iv slept with men 40+ iv known who and what i am,

she will never know what she wants till she sexually active and get more experience x

with respect only someone immature would consider it to be jealousy which kind of proves the point of age versus maturity"

I tend to agree,I can't see where the jealousy comes on really

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Too young for me would be 29 and under.

If I saw a potential meet had shagged an 18yr old I'd be a bit

tbh.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Also there was a young couple in cupids and quite simply they ruined the night it was like being out with the kids

In my experience the people that say someones too young their jealous, when i was 16-17 iv slept with men 40+ iv known who and what i am,

she will never know what she wants till she sexually active and get more experience x

with respect only someone immature would consider it to be jealousy which kind of proves the point of age versus maturity"

Well it is jealousy you wish you had the internet when you were 18, iv been slapped and hurt to get off the site by older women x

Im more mature then most women on this site, i respect that there are people who are older and younger id never hurt just help and give advice to anyone x

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By *egin551Couple over a year ago

south west !

We would not entertain a 18 year old, it's up to you but this person could be lying about their age.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Age (once an adult) is just a number. It all depends on the individual. Any age can be mature or immature!

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By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

Yes, lots of fathers feel like that and quite understandably - I don't have kids

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By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

"Age is just a number...If you click and can converse on a mutual level why should it make any difference?"

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By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

"The poster seems to know his way around so hopefully he is savvy enough to avoid being conned.

But why is an 18yo seeking out a 48 yo?

Just be careful

;)

Thanks - I have been around the block once or twice and recognize it might all be a wind up - that said I did shag a 20 year old recently, although not off fab, who hit on me and then practically invited herself back to mine. Girls grow up frighteningly fast these day (porn is partly to blame) and are not only interested in kink but also hugely p_edatory

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes, lots of fathers feel like that and quite understandably - I don't have kids"

If shes old enough to choice to have sex, id make sure shes 18, she is happy about everything whats going on x

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By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

"you are supposed to be an adult at 18.

I met my now husband when I was 17, I wasn't a typical teenager because my parents were old and my brothers and sister were a lot older than me, I also looked older because I was big.

was your husband 48 at the time? BIG difference"

Some young girls are positively attracted to older (much older) guys, they see them as hugely more experienced instead of just 'young, dumb. and full of cum'...especially if they have looked after themselves physically

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By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

"Age (once an adult) is just a number. It all depends on the individual. Any age can be mature or immature! "

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By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

Yes, lots of fathers feel like that and quite understandably - I don't have kids

If shes old enough to choice to have sex, id make sure shes 18, she is happy about everything whats going on x"

Thanks, I tend to agree, but then, perhaps its just because I so want to fuck the little spinner

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By *otlovefun42Couple over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

"Hmmmm....a gorgeous 18 year old who wants to push the boundaries......her name isn't Trevor by any chance

You win forum post of the year"

Seconded.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"you are supposed to be an adult at 18.

I met my now husband when I was 17, I wasn't a typical teenager because my parents were old and my brothers and sister were a lot older than me, I also looked older because I was big.

was your husband 48 at the time? BIG difference

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd go for a social first at the very least.

I wouldn't meet an 18 year old guy and I'm 40. I don't think I'd go under 25, and even then they'd have to be a mature 25.

And definitely, definitely get proof of age. Something that can't be faked (a lot of teens have fake id so be careful!).

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By *ittenandthepirateCouple over a year ago

Manchester

Also there was a young couple in cupids and quite simply they ruined the night it was like being out with the kids

In my experience the people that say someones too young their jealous, when i was 16-17 iv slept with men 40+ iv known who and what i am,

she will never know what she wants till she sexually active and get more experience x

with respect only someone immature would consider it to be jealousy which kind of proves the point of age versus maturity"

There are certainly many more reasons why people don't want to swing with younger people, mainly if they have or could have kids that age, which I think is what the couple above were trying to say. However I also think it sounds like their night was ruined simply by this younger couple being there which also sounds immature. If you don't play with younger couples, then don't play but there are always going to be younger people around and if you let the fact they are in a club ruin your night then you're not going to have much fun

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By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

"Hmmmm....a gorgeous 18 year old who wants to push the boundaries......her name isn't Trevor by any chance

You win forum post of the year

Seconded.

thanks - agreed - at least I am coming round to that conclusion - rather rapidly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes, lots of fathers feel like that and quite understandably - I don't have kids"

I gathe_ed that

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By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

Yes, lots of fathers feel like that and quite understandably - I don't have kids

I gathe_ed that

Not yet - my Grandfather started his second family - with my mum as the eldest at 52 (my grandmar was 25), so maybe it is in the gene - never say never

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think I'd be tempted to meet socially first and get a feel for the situation, many 18 year olds are very mature and have got their heads in a good place, just as many are still children no matter what their ID and the law states."

Good advice

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hmmmm....a gorgeous 18 year old who wants to push the boundaries......her name isn't Trevor by any chance

You win forum post of the year

Seconded.

thanks - agreed - at least I am coming round to that conclusion - rather rapidly

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so you think theres a chance this 18 yr old girl could be a tv/ts ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you have to ask then surely you have an element of doubt...

Personally I would say 18 is too young but it's your call "

Exactly what I was going to say

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By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

"Hmmmm....a gorgeous 18 year old who wants to push the boundaries......her name isn't Trevor by any chance

You win forum post of the year

Seconded.

thanks - agreed - at least I am coming round to that conclusion - rather rapidly

so you think theres a chance this 18 yr old girl could be a tv/ts ? "

If you could see the pics you would know that is ridiculous - I have know some stunning ts girls but this one is certainly genetic ..ffs..lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hmmmm....a gorgeous 18 year old who wants to push the boundaries......her name isn't Trevor by any chance

You win forum post of the year

Seconded.

thanks - agreed - at least I am coming round to that conclusion - rather rapidly

so you think theres a chance this 18 yr old girl could be a tv/ts ?

If you could see the pics you would know that is ridiculous - I have know some stunning ts girls but this one is certainly genetic ..ffs..lol"
then I'm lost with the earlier post about her name being trevor ? am I missing something ? lol knowing me then yes

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Sorry, but I just think you're a perv

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OP; only you know whether or not you would feel comfortable with the meet and there's little a bunch of online strangers can add to your dilemma which you should confront and resolve in your own mind. However, if you did that you'd miss out on the opportunity to tell the world that a gorgeous, hot eighteen year old wants to bump ugglies with you wouldn't you and where's the fun in that scenario

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By *edMan over a year ago

cambridgeshire

"Hmmmm....a gorgeous 18 year old who wants to push the boundaries......her name isn't Trevor by any chance

She's a sexy little mints..

(I'll get my coat...)

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By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

"Sorry, but I just think you're a perv

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By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

"Hmmmm....a gorgeous 18 year old who wants to push the boundaries......her name isn't Trevor by any chance

She's a sexy little mints..

(I'll get my coat...)"

Too sexy forwards ...anyway she has not got back to confirm since suggesting this evening at the end of our long chat ...lol ...probably just a wind up

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"OP; only you know whether or not you would feel comfortable with the meet and there's little a bunch of online strangers can add to your dilemma which you should confront and resolve in your own mind. However, if you did that you'd miss out on the opportunity to tell the world that a gorgeous, hot eighteen year old wants to bump ugglies with you wouldn't you and where's the fun in that scenario

This!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This!

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ive wonde_ed if its a ego boosting attempt too lol

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By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

This!

ive wonde_ed if its a ego boosting attempt too lol

Bump ugglies? don't get that...what do you mean? Am I missing something?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you're uncomfortable about it, don't do it. Simple.

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By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

If you're uncomfortable about it, don't do it. Simple."

Was just trying to decide I feel - have pretty much decided I am fine with it - she is an adult after all - albeit a young one

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By *ouple4biMMFCouple over a year ago

Nottingham

If you're uncomfortable about it, don't do it. Simple.

Was just trying to decide I feel - have pretty much decided I am fine with it - she is an adult after all - albeit a young one"

Problem solved then

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This!

ive wonde_ed if its a ego boosting attempt too lol

Bump ugglies? don't get that...what do you mean? Am I missing something?

'Bump ugglies' a euphemism for sex - possibly a military one.

What I meant was that only you could truly answer your dilemma but, if you did so you would be unable to broadcast that a hot eighteen year old was professing her overwhelming desire for you.

Sarcastic humour loses its edge sometimes I guess.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As long as someone is 18 or over, there is no issue - other than the fact that I find it can be difficult to form a mental connection with youngsters. Without decent conversational skills and common ground, sex isn't going to happen.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Lucky b******d. Lol. Go for it. "

This!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This!

ive wonde_ed if its a ego boosting attempt too lol

Bump ugglies? don't get that...what do you mean? Am I missing something?

'Bump ugglies' a euphemism for sex - possibly a military one.

What I meant was that only you could truly answer your dilemma but, if you did so you would be unable to broadcast that a hot eighteen year old was professing her overwhelming desire for you.

Sarcastic humour loses its edge sometimes I guess. "

I understood Every word, not lost on Everyone!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Too young and at 18 she may be adult in law but still too young for a man nearly three times her age.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Perhaps she has a father figure fantasy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Much as i love pussy lol

Cldn't do with anyone under 21 wld just feel morally wrong personally

But then I do love older women maybe that's why

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If she is 18...then old enough to be on here...so old enough to play with.

If you still have doubts...then send her my way!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Perhaps she has a father figure fantasy

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knocking on grand daddy too lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

To be fair I wouldn't be happy if an 18 y/o did when she is 18!! She can have sex when she is 35 or I am dead!!! Or both.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I keep getting told I'm too young after I send a face pic :/ shame really but it's understandable !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I had much fun with a 19 yr old recently. Does that make me a bad man?

Her mum is on here, she knew, and is still a friend.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Also there was a young couple in cupids and quite simply they ruined the night it was like being out with the kids

In my experience the people that say someones too young their jealous, when i was 16-17 iv slept with men 40+ iv known who and what i am,

she will never know what she wants till she sexually active and get more experience x

with respect only someone immature would consider it to be jealousy which kind of proves the point of age versus maturity

Well it is jealousy you wish you had the internet when you were 18, iv been slapped and hurt to get off the site by older women x

Im more mature then most women on this site, i respect that there are people who are older and younger id never hurt just help and give advice to anyone x

I'm not jealous in the slightest! and yes I did have the Internet when I was 18

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hmmmm....a gorgeous 18 year old who wants to push the boundaries......her name isn't Trevor by any chance

She's a sexy little mints..

(I'll get my coat...)

Too sexy forwards ...anyway she has not got back to confirm since suggesting this evening at the end of our long chat ...lol ...probably just a wind up

If was a wind up then you've had a lucky escape as sounds very immature.

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By *om and JennieCouple over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"I'd go for a social first at the very least.

I wouldn't meet an 18 year old guy and I'm 40. I don't think I'd go under 25, and even then they'd have to be a mature 25.

And definitely, definitely get proof of age. Something that can't be faked (a lot of teens have fake id so be careful!)."

My rule is similar mainly because I have a near 15 yr old child. To think they will be legal next year is frightening when they can only just blow their nose properly!!

It just feels a bit desperate to me OP. And I think the comment where you call her a little spinner is disrespectful.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Also there was a young couple in cupids and quite simply they ruined the night it was like being out with the kids

In my experience the people that say someones too young their jealous, when i was 16-17 iv slept with men 40+ iv known who and what i am,

she will never know what she wants till she sexually active and get more experience x

with respect only someone immature would consider it to be jealousy which kind of proves the point of age versus maturity

Well it is jealousy you wish you had the internet when you were 18, iv been slapped and hurt to get off the site by older women x

Im more mature then most women on this site, i respect that there are people who are older and younger id never hurt just help and give advice to anyone x

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who says older people wish they had the internet wheres the jealousy aspect of that? explain if you can

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes, lots of fathers feel like that and quite understandably - I don't have kids"
well if you did I'm pretty sure you wouldn't be happy if a 48 year old man fucked your 18 year old daughter trust me

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By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

"Lucky b******d. Lol. Go for it.

This!"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd go for a social first at the very least.

I wouldn't meet an 18 year old guy and I'm 40. I don't think I'd go under 25, and even then they'd have to be a mature 25.

And definitely, definitely get proof of age. Something that can't be faked (a lot of teens have fake id so be careful!).

My rule is similar mainly because I have a near 15 yr old child. To think they will be legal next year is frightening when they can only just blow their nose properly!!

It just feels a bit desperate to me OP. And I think the comment where you call her a little spinner is disrespectful. "

What's a 'little spinner'?

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By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

Yes, lots of fathers feel like that and quite understandably - I don't have kidswell if you did I'm pretty sure you wouldn't be happy if a 48 year old man fucked your 18 year old daughter trust me"

true, but I don't have kids and at the end of the day past 18, they will do what they want, regardless of what their parents might think

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Personally I won't play with anyone in there teens. I have in the past and I didn't feel comfortable. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm firmly of the belief that personality counts for everything.

I've met 20 year old girls that had more class than some 50+ women I've met.

But on the whole I do tend to meet women older than myself as I feel I connect more on a maturity level.xx

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By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

"I'd go for a social first at the very least.

I wouldn't meet an 18 year old guy and I'm 40. I don't think I'd go under 25, and even then they'd have to be a mature 25.

And definitely, definitely get proof of age. Something that can't be faked (a lot of teens have fake id so be careful!).

My rule is similar mainly because I have a near 15 yr old child. To think they will be legal next year is frightening when they can only just blow their nose properly!!

It just feels a bit desperate to me OP. And I think the comment where you call her a little spinner is disrespectful.

What's a 'little spinner'?

A petite girl who is small enough to throw about and 'spin' ...larger women - have you ever tried moving from cow girl to reverse cow girl without 'disconnecting' - for a light girl this manoeuvre is child's play (no pun intended

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes, lots of fathers feel like that and quite understandably - I don't have kidswell if you did I'm pretty sure you wouldn't be happy if a 48 year old man fucked your 18 year old daughter trust me

true, but I don't have kids and at the end of the day past 18, they will do what they want, regardless of what their parents might think"
clearly you are thinking with your little head and not your brain

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By *ouple4biMMFCouple over a year ago

Nottingham

It hits reality for me when I'm told they're still living at home with mum and dad so can't accommodate

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

One of my neighbour's has a daughter 18/19 years old and she's very imature, even her parents say it ...esp when's she's having screaming rows with her bf in the street

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By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

Yes, lots of fathers feel like that and quite understandably - I don't have kidswell if you did I'm pretty sure you wouldn't be happy if a 48 year old man fucked your 18 year old daughter trust me

true, but I don't have kids and at the end of the day past 18, they will do what they want, regardless of what their parents might thinkclearly you are thinking with your little head and not your brain "

Most of us men employ our penises as a compass

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think it comes down to the individual.

At 18 I had set up as self employed and was doing my own books/accounting. Whilst a lot of my mates went to 6th form just to toss it off and get pissed up.

I've seen more immature behaviour from middle aged couples than any under 21s

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd go for a social first at the very least.

I wouldn't meet an 18 year old guy and I'm 40. I don't think I'd go under 25, and even then they'd have to be a mature 25.

And definitely, definitely get proof of age. Something that can't be faked (a lot of teens have fake id so be careful!).

My rule is similar mainly because I have a near 15 yr old child. To think they will be legal next year is frightening when they can only just blow their nose properly!!

It just feels a bit desperate to me OP. And I think the comment where you call her a little spinner is disrespectful.

What's a 'little spinner'?

Im a bbw i dont have to disconnect to move from cow girl to reverse i lift my own arse thank you x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

go for it might never get another chance

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It hits reality for me when I'm told they're still living at home with mum and dad so can't accommodate "

By the sounds of it op would be game with mom and dad joinning in

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd go for a social first at the very least.

I wouldn't meet an 18 year old guy and I'm 40. I don't think I'd go under 25, and even then they'd have to be a mature 25.

And definitely, definitely get proof of age. Something that can't be faked (a lot of teens have fake id so be careful!).

My rule is similar mainly because I have a near 15 yr old child. To think they will be legal next year is frightening when they can only just blow their nose properly!!

It just feels a bit desperate to me OP. And I think the comment where you call her a little spinner is disrespectful.

What's a 'little spinner'?

)

Im a bbw i dont have to disconnect to move from cow girl to reverse i lift my own arse thank you x"

The same here X

"Throw about "....

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By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

"It hits reality for me when I'm told they're still living at home with mum and dad so can't accommodate

By the sounds of it op would be game with mom and dad joinning in

No, only the mum - or sister...lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes, lots of fathers feel like that and quite understandably - I don't have kidswell if you did I'm pretty sure you wouldn't be happy if a 48 year old man fucked your 18 year old daughter trust me

Most of us men employ our penises as a compass

"
it shows

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So op has she confirmed she'll meet ??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i started experimenting at 17, wasn't very confident about it though.

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By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

"So op has she confirmed she'll meet ??"

As I mentioned about two thirds through the thread, it does look like it was actually all a bit of a wind up - probably just a young inquisitive girl - nice chatting to her and looking at her stunning pics all the same

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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O o O oo

Was just trying to decide I feel - have pretty much decided I am fine with it - she is an adult after all - albeit a young one"

So really it was just a post to let everyone know you could be shagging an 18 year old.

I am guessing the men might be wanting to high five you and the women will be thinking eww

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By *ustcutieWoman over a year ago

edinburgh

Was just trying to decide I feel - have pretty much decided I am fine with it - she is an adult after all - albeit a young one

So really it was just a post to let everyone know you could be shagging an 18 year old.

I am guessing the men might be wanting to high five you and the women will be thinking eww"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i started experimenting at 17, wasn't very confident about it though."
most of us here were having sex at that age, no one is denying that, but few with people who are actually old enough to be their grandparents!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It hits reality for me when I'm told they're still living at home with mum and dad so can't accommodate "

I was kicked out at 16 lived i had feed myself on £30 a week till i was 18 when i was allowed benefits, i only moved back to mums because my flat was on fire that wasnt my fault three years ago.

im on housing list it took two years to get on waiting list x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So op has she confirmed she'll meet ??

Oh well I'm sure your find another spinner somewhere

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By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

"i started experimenting at 17, wasn't very confident about it though.most of us here were having sex at that age, no one is denying that, but few with people who are actually old enough to be their grandparents!!"

Ha bloody ha - if there is mutual attraction and its not a case of the Peter Stringfield scenario then what's the problem?

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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"Hmmmm....a gorgeous 18 year old who wants to push the boundaries......her name isn't Trevor by any chance

She's a sexy little mints..

(I'll get my coat...)

Too sexy forwards ...anyway she has not got back to confirm since suggesting this evening at the end of our long chat ...lol ...probably just a wind up

If was a wind up then you've had a lucky escape as sounds very immature. "

How can you say that from her not answering a question about a meet?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd get her to bring her passport as ID before you proceed with anything sexual, or you'll be all over Snapchat before you had time to say 'she told me she was 18'

Alarm bells would be ringing in my head if an 18 year old wanted to meet me.

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By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

Was just trying to decide I feel - have pretty much decided I am fine with it - she is an adult after all - albeit a young one

So really it was just a post to let everyone know you could be shagging an 18 year old.

I am guessing the men might be wanting to high five you and the women will be thinking eww

Am I bothe_ed though....who on here is right to judge - I do not judge anyone - as long as our activities and with whom they might be transgressed do not hurt anyone, what is the problem?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

She's 14. Run away!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ha bloody ha - if there is mutual attraction and its not a case of the Peter Stringfield scenario then what's the problem?"
actually that's a great comparison

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So op has she confirmed she'll meet ??

Ah I didn't see that either.

Just shows you then to think with your brain not your nether regions

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By *ouple4biMMFCouple over a year ago

Nottingham

Was just trying to decide I feel - have pretty much decided I am fine with it - she is an adult after all - albeit a young one

So really it was just a post to let everyone know you could be shagging an 18 year old.

I am guessing the men might be wanting to high five you and the women will be thinking eww"

Yeah it shows the difference between men and women doesn't,interesting...

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman over a year ago

Lyndhurst

"you are supposed to be an adult at 18.

I met my now husband when I was 17, I wasn't a typical teenager because my parents were old and my brothers and sister were a lot older than me, I also looked older because I was big.

was your husband 48 at the time? BIG difference"

No he was 38.

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By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

Ha bloody ha - if there is mutual attraction and its not a case of the Peter Stringfield scenario then what's the problem?actually that's a great comparison "

Haha, but I am not bestowing gifts or plying with champagne

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By *omez42Man over a year ago

gloucester

I have turned down a few 18 year old, not sure what they see on me!

Only one had ever convinced me to meet, and it took her so long to convince me, she was then 19!

After a few meets, her age started to show, she became unreliable and apparently in a different world to mine.

Even if all your reservations are unfounded, the reality probably won't live up to the idea.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ha bloody ha - if there is mutual attraction and its not a case of the Peter Stringfield scenario then what's the problem?actually that's a great comparison

Haha, but I am not bestowing gifts or plying with champagne

"
YET

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hmmmm....a gorgeous 18 year old who wants to push the boundaries......her name isn't Trevor by any chance

She's a sexy little mints..

(I'll get my coat...)

Too sexy forwards ...anyway she has not got back to confirm since suggesting this evening at the end of our long chat ...lol ...probably just a wind up

If was a wind up then you've had a lucky escape as sounds very immature.

How can you say that from her not answering a question about a meet? "

Most mature people of any age if change mind let the other person know .some immature people like to chat /send pics and when get asked to meet either disappear or don't message.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What could possibly go wrong?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Was just trying to decide I feel - have pretty much decided I am fine with it - she is an adult after all - albeit a young one

So really it was just a post to let everyone know you could be shagging an 18 year old.

I am guessing the men might be wanting to high five you and the women will be thinking eww

Yeah it shows the difference between men and women doesn't,interesting..."

Very.....

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By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

Ha bloody ha - if there is mutual attraction and its not a case of the Peter Stringfield scenario then what's the problem?actually that's a great comparison

Haha, but I am not bestowing gifts or plying with champagne

YET"

No, maybe when I reach his age

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i was travelling round the country hooking up with guys who had adverts in the sport newspaper, and trying out BDSM.

some were old...

but local so it was handier to meet them.

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By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

What could possibly go wrong? "

I can't imagine - probably that she would fall in love with me and want to have my babies

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Also there was a young couple in cupids and quite simply they ruined the night it was like being out with the kids

In my experience the people that say someones too young their jealous, when i was 16-17 iv slept with men 40+ iv known who and what i am,

she will never know what she wants till she sexually active and get more experience x

with respect only someone immature would consider it to be jealousy which kind of proves the point of age versus maturity

The reason they ruined it was that they got extremely d*unk and loud. At one point they clea_ed the couples room with behaviour you would expect from a young couple. The problem was most of the other people were 30 plus and yes often see their kids coming in that d*unk

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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O o O oo

Was just trying to decide I feel - have pretty much decided I am fine with it - she is an adult after all - albeit a young one

So really it was just a post to let everyone know you could be shagging an 18 year old.

I am guessing the men might be wanting to high five you and the women will be thinking eww

Am I bothe_ed though....who on here is right to judge - I do not judge anyone - as long as our activities and with whom they might be transgressed do not hurt anyone, what is the problem?"

My post didn't say there is one. In fact I didn't give my opinion of shagging an 18 year old at all

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Was just trying to decide I feel - have pretty much decided I am fine with it - she is an adult after all - albeit a young one

So really it was just a post to let everyone know you could be shagging an 18 year old.

I am guessing the men might be wanting to high five you and the women will be thinking eww

Yeah it shows the difference between men and women doesn't,interesting...

Very....."

It shows me that some men really do think with their dicks and have huge egos.

But I knew that already .

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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O o O oo

"Hmmmm....a gorgeous 18 year old who wants to push the boundaries......her name isn't Trevor by any chance

She's a sexy little mints..

(I'll get my coat...)

Too sexy forwards ...anyway she has not got back to confirm since suggesting this evening at the end of our long chat ...lol ...probably just a wind up

If was a wind up then you've had a lucky escape as sounds very immature.

How can you say that from her not answering a question about a meet?

Most mature people of any age if change mind let the other person know .some immature people like to chat /send pics and when get asked to meet either disappear or don't message."

He said he asked her to meet, she hadn't answe_ed.

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By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

"Hmmmm....a gorgeous 18 year old who wants to push the boundaries......her name isn't Trevor by any chance

She's a sexy little mints..

(I'll get my coat...)

Too sexy forwards ...anyway she has not got back to confirm since suggesting this evening at the end of our long chat ...lol ...probably just a wind up

If was a wind up then you've had a lucky escape as sounds very immature.

How can you say that from her not answering a question about a meet?

Most mature people of any age if change mind let the other person know .some immature people like to chat /send pics and when get asked to meet either disappear or don't message.

He said he asked her to meet, she hadn't answe_ed. "

This is indeed the case thanks - in fact she proposed meeting tonight, not I

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By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

"Hmmmm....a gorgeous 18 year old who wants to push the boundaries......her name isn't Trevor by any chance

She's a sexy little mints..

(I'll get my coat...)

Too sexy forwards ...anyway she has not got back to confirm since suggesting this evening at the end of our long chat ...lol ...probably just a wind up

If was a wind up then you've had a lucky escape as sounds very immature.

How can you say that from her not answering a question about a meet?

Most mature people of any age if change mind let the other person know .some immature people like to chat /send pics and when get asked to meet either disappear or don't message.

He said he asked her to meet, she hadn't answe_ed.

This is indeed the case thanks - in fact she proposed meeting tonight, not I"

Ps..I think she probably would have got back to me, only she has gone off line as she is obviously busy studying for her imminent A level exams - both kinds

- I am the prefer_ed tutor for the later

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

id be happy if a 50+ female took pity on me and fucked my brains out in order to get verified.

Any willing females from South Yorkshire reading this? If you are get in touch. ????

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By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

"id be happy if a 50+ female took pity on me and fucked my brains out in order to get verified.

Any willing females from South Yorkshire reading this? If you are get in touch. ????

Good looking guy - I might take pity on you and put you in touch with one or two of my past conquests - vouch for you and say you are a mate - lol x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Freaked me out a bit sleeping with a 21 year old when I was 28! Although when I was 19 I slept with a guy who was in his 50's. Didn't bother me too much at the time but looking back it makes me seriously cringe. What was I thinking but more importantly what was he thinking?!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Freaked me out a bit sleeping with a 21 year old when I was 28! Although when I was 19 I slept with a guy who was in his 50's. Didn't bother me too much at the time but looking back it makes me seriously cringe. What was I thinking but more importantly what was he thinking?!

He was probably thinking, jackpot.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hmmmm....a gorgeous 18 year old who wants to push the boundaries......her name isn't Trevor by any chance

She's a sexy little mints..

(I'll get my coat...)

Too sexy forwards ...anyway she has not got back to confirm since suggesting this evening at the end of our long chat ...lol ...probably just a wind up

If was a wind up then you've had a lucky escape as sounds very immature.

How can you say that from her not answering a question about a meet?

Most mature people of any age if change mind let the other person know .some immature people like to chat /send pics and when get asked to meet either disappear or don't message.

He said he asked her to meet, she hadn't answe_ed. "

He asked her...he's stated that several times

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And if she doesn't reply to except or decline it's bad manners

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By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

"And if she doesn't reply to except or decline it's bad manners "

I agree

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Maybe she reads the forums and was put off by people questioning the morality of meeting her.

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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"Hmmmm....a gorgeous 18 year old who wants to push the boundaries......her name isn't Trevor by any chance

She's a sexy little mints..

(I'll get my coat...)

Too sexy forwards ...anyway she has not got back to confirm since suggesting this evening at the end of our long chat ...lol ...probably just a wind up

If was a wind up then you've had a lucky escape as sounds very immature.

How can you say that from her not answering a question about a meet?

Most mature people of any age if change mind let the other person know .some immature people like to chat /send pics and when get asked to meet either disappear or don't message.

He said he asked her to meet, she hadn't answe_ed.

He asked her...he's stated that several times "

Thats what I said? She hadn't answe_ed. If that makes her immature from that then there is a lot of immature older folk around too as not everyone can/ want to answer straight away

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By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

He was probably thinking, jackpot.

Indeed I was - but then again I would be with you also - incidentally I never wear pants under my running tights

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hmmmm....a gorgeous 18 year old who wants to push the boundaries......her name isn't Trevor by any chance

She's a sexy little mints..

(I'll get my coat...)

Too sexy forwards ...anyway she has not got back to confirm since suggesting this evening at the end of our long chat ...lol ...probably just a wind up

If was a wind up then you've had a lucky escape as sounds very immature.

How can you say that from her not answering a question about a meet?

Most mature people of any age if change mind let the other person know .some immature people like to chat /send pics and when get asked to meet either disappear or don't message.

He said he asked her to meet, she hadn't answe_ed.

He asked her...he's stated that several times

Thats what I said? She hadn't answe_ed. If that makes her immature from that then there is a lot of immature older folk around too as not everyone can/ want to answer straight away"

Sorry I did that wrong it should of been she asked him.

Not arguing there's loads of imature people of all ages on here .I find though and only my opinion if ask someone to meet that day you tend to confirm with them fairly quickly, wether your the asked or askee

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

He was probably thinking, jackpot.

I was very emotionally vulnerable at the time so guess I thought I could get some comfort from an older man. It was being with him that taught me that age is irrelevant when it comes to a man's maturity! Lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

He was probably thinking, jackpot.

Indeed I was - but then again I would be with you also - incidentally I never wear pants under my running tights

I'm confused ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you're having a doubt then you proberbly shouldn't.

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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O o O oo

Not arguinge"

As you think you are in an argument I will leave you to it.

I was just bemused at your comment so will leave it at that

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By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

He was probably thinking, jackpot.

Indeed I was - but then again I would be with you also - incidentally I never wear pants under my running tights

I'm confused ?"

Your current status

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By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

He was probably thinking, jackpot.

Indeed I was - but then again I would be with you also - incidentally I never wear pants under my running tights

I'm confused ?

Your current status

Oops - have you changed your status? - sure you were talking about going commando to the gym

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Also there was a young couple in cupids and quite simply they ruined the night it was like being out with the kids

In my experience the people that say someones too young their jealous, when i was 16-17 iv slept with men 40+ iv known who and what i am,

she will never know what she wants till she sexually active and get more experience x

with respect only someone immature would consider it to be jealousy which kind of proves the point of age versus maturity

Not all young people get d*unk in clubs, i dont even drink. anyone get d*unk and misbehave x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

He was probably thinking, jackpot.

Indeed I was - but then again I would be with you also - incidentally I never wear pants under my running tights

I'm confused ?

Your current status

Oops - have you changed your status? - sure you were talking about going commando to the gym

Haha not likely, I've just had a hysterectomy !

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By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

He was probably thinking, jackpot.

Indeed I was - but then again I would be with you also - incidentally I never wear pants under my running tights

I'm confused ?

Your current status

Oops - have you changed your status? - sure you were talking about going commando to the gym

Haha not likely, I've just had a hysterectomy !"

Well someone in this thread has a profile stating that they are just off to the gym wearing no knickers - confused.com

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It hits reality for me when I'm told they're still living at home with mum and dad so can't accommodate

By the sounds of it op would be game with mom and dad joinning in

No, only the mum - or sister...lol"

Can we have an invite please

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By *olarfox OP Man over a year ago

North Cambs

"It hits reality for me when I'm told they're still living at home with mum and dad so can't accommodate

By the sounds of it op would be game with mom and dad joinning in

No, only the mum - or sister...lol

Can we have an invite please

Of course - but only if I get to unload down Sabriana's throat

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yeah yeah we get it you've pulled an 18 year old you just wanted to let us all know

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By *layfullsamMan over a year ago

Solihull

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Was just trying to decide I feel - have pretty much decided I am fine with it - she is an adult after all - albeit a young one

So really it was just a post to let everyone know you could be shagging an 18 year old.

I am guessing the men might be wanting to high five you and the women will be thinking eww"

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By *uxom _edCouple over a year ago

Shrewsbury

This!

ive wonde_ed if its a ego boosting attempt too lol

Bump ugglies? don't get that...what do you mean? Am I missing something?

'Bump ugglies' a euphemism for sex - possibly a military one.

What I meant was that only you could truly answer your dilemma but, if you did so you would be unable to broadcast that a hot eighteen year old was professing her overwhelming desire for you.

Sarcastic humour loses its edge sometimes I guess. "

HH you beat me too it, you've just said what I was thinking.

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By *hocoholicWoman over a year ago

The big D

Age isn't too much a prob for me, as long as they're not too baby faced. it's maturity that I'm more interested in.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd go for a social first at the very least.

I wouldn't meet an 18 year old guy and I'm 40. I don't think I'd go under 25, and even then they'd have to be a mature 25.

And definitely, definitely get proof of age. Something that can't be faked (a lot of teens have fake id so be careful!).

My rule is similar mainly because I have a near 15 yr old child. To think they will be legal next year is frightening when they can only just blow their nose properly!!

It just feels a bit desperate to me OP. And I think the comment where you call her a little spinner is disrespectful.

What's a 'little spinner'?

Oh I suppose when You are little too that makes sense x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When I get mail from really young guys I can't help but think if I met them would I just look like I was having a mid life crisis

I man can you imagine me sat in a pub with an 18 year old I'd look a right twat

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By *imiUKMan over a year ago

Hereford

Re: the dad question. I have a daughter. If, when she turns 18, I find out that she has had sex with a 48yr old bloke, I would find him and gut him.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Would be too young for me. I know how vulnerable young females can be, not all, but a lot are.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"Re: the dad question. I have a daughter. If, when she turns 18, I find out that she has had sex with a 48yr old bloke, I would find him and gut him. "

It certainly wouldn't be my choice for my teenage daughters!

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"When I get mail from really young guys I can't help but think if I met them would I just look like I was having a mid life crisis

I man can you imagine me sat in a pub with an 18 year old I'd look a right twat

That's my issue,mummy taking her son out a drinky

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman over a year ago

Lyndhurst

"Re: the dad question. I have a daughter. If, when she turns 18, I find out that she has had sex with a 48yr old bloke, I would find him and gut him.

It certainly wouldn't be my choice for my teenage daughters!"

It wouldn't be mine either but as my mum used to say, better to be an old mans darling than a young mans slave.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Absolute minimum is 21 years AND as a rule of thumb once this age is attained, if you are older then half your age plus 7.

Ie if you are 50 then she needs to be 25 plus 7 = 32"

Who comes up with bollocks like this ?

It's almost along the same lines as this new thing for needing a new mattress every 8 years

Just thought up by someone and like sheep people take it as read.

At 46, I am in a relationship with a 21 year old.

We met when I was 43 and he was 18

Things started off great and have continued to just get better.

So, OP, if YOU are happy to meet, if you have done your checks and YOUR conscience allows you to meet, then meet.

Ignore the advice of those who hide behind random equations to justify their prejudices or should I say ... 'preferences'

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The cynic in me is thinking you made an old man very happy OP

Assuming she was an 18 yr old stunner you may have had amazing sex,you may have had shit sex,she may have loved it and wanted more,she may have hated it and damaged your ego. You will never know but all you've lost is however long the messages took to type.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Re: the dad question. I have a daughter. If, when she turns 18, I find out that she has had sex with a 48yr old bloke, I would find him and gut him. "

I wousdnt be happy either but having had three teenage daughters I have learned one thing, keep your mouth shut and watch from a distance, at 18 they are old enough to move out so if you go beating up their fella they can legally move in with him, the more you protest the more they do it

Kids, who'd have 'em

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If she is happy with it and you are happy with it then go for it, if you feel she is too young for you then so be it, she obviously doesn't feel you are too old for her. I was experimenting from 16 years old, haven't stopped, never regretted a thing, always made sure I was sober, or soberish at least and happy with the decisions we both/all were making. I had my first 3sum at 16, enjoyed it, still friends with the couple I was with, had great times and had some laughable times but I think it's up to the individuals involved to decide if they are happy with the situation or not.

Good luck with whatever you decide though!

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By *imiUKMan over a year ago

Hereford

"Re: the dad question. I have a daughter. If, when she turns 18, I find out that she has had sex with a 48yr old bloke, I would find him and gut him.

Kids, who'd have 'em

I get decidedly irrational when I think of some old perv with my darling offspring. I could try and discuss it with my brother, but he thinks the sun shines out of her arse and is a kickboxer.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd go for a social first at the very least.

I wouldn't meet an 18 year old guy and I'm 40. I don't think I'd go under 25, and even then they'd have to be a mature 25.

And definitely, definitely get proof of age. Something that can't be faked (a lot of teens have fake id so be careful!)."

The OP does have pics of himself with ladies...he needs to be VERY careful. If she isn't 18 its classed as child porn, even if its consensual.

I agree with many on here. I would avoid someone that young like anal herpes. Pretty to look at but I would feel a bit like a dirty old man..and for the OP she is young enough to be his granddaughter. .

Just eeewww.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd go for a social first at the very least.

I wouldn't meet an 18 year old guy and I'm 40. I don't think I'd go under 25, and even then they'd have to be a mature 25.

And definitely, definitely get proof of age. Something that can't be faked (a lot of teens have fake id so be careful!).

The OP does have pics of himself with ladies...he needs to be VERY careful. If she isn't 18 its classed as child porn, even if its consensual.

Just eeewww."

Ok let's not over do it, there's only 30 years between them that's hardly two generation gaps

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By *imiUKMan over a year ago

Hereford

Anyway, the point I was trying to make, in a roundablut way was that if, as a bloke pushing 50, you become known fgor shagging 18yr old girls, then you may find yourself in situations that you maty otherwise have avoided...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Would be too young for me. I know how vulnerable young females can be, not all, but a lot are. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd go for a social first at the very least.

I wouldn't meet an 18 year old guy and I'm 40. I don't think I'd go under 25, and even then they'd have to be a mature 25.

And definitely, definitely get proof of age. Something that can't be faked (a lot of teens have fake id so be careful!).

The OP does have pics of himself with ladies...he needs to be VERY careful. If she isn't 18 its classed as child porn, even if its consensual.

Just eeewww.

Ok let's not over do it, there's only 30 years between them that's hardly two generation gaps

Great granddaughter.

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