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"See from lots of profiles,lots of people do not kiss when swinging. Do you?"
A kiss-less meet sounds absolutely horrendous. It doesn't sound like much fun at all. Kissing is one of the cornerstones to any dalliance with a lady. In fact I can't think of anything that's actually more pleasurable, sensual or downright erotic.
I'd love to hear people's experiences of meets without kissing. |
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"See from lots of profiles,lots of people do not kiss when swinging. Do you?"
I prefer kissing but have been with a couple who preferred not to.
For me it doesn't matter whether its hot & hard or soft & sensual, kissing makes it a little more intense  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Before we made the leap of playing with others we thought kissing others wouldn't be for us, but we soon changed out minds. Now a meet without some kissing seems quite clinical. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I find kissing the build up to
Lots more..;-)
Just not the same without. But have met a few that don't.
Saying that in a group,say in the dark room...not kissing doesn't bother me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't kiss unless I know and trust someone, I get claustrophobic having a stranger in my face and a bad kiss would be the fastest way to put my libido firmly back in its box. There are plenty of other places to kiss while we get to know each other.
Mrs x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No kiss = no meet. It sets the tone of things to come "
We've got it written into our profile.
But I don't think many read profiles to be honest with you x |
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By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago
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This is a strange one for me because before we started playing with other people I wasn't sure I'd want to be kissed because I can get very claustrophobic and panicked if someone immediately - without even any slight attempt at building to more passionate kissing - latches onto my face like an industrial vacuum cleaner meaning I can't breathe and which therefore pretty much kills the mood stone dead for me.
However, having played with a couple who only kissed each other I found the whole experience, though not completely awful, rather disconnected and not very exciting (... don't think they're on Fab so won't read this!). I was actually surprised afterwards at how disappointed I felt about the lack of kissing given my particular concerns about it.
Thankfully, our subsequent meets have so far been with people who are good kissers and they've been so much more of a turn on because of it!  
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"See from lots of profiles,lots of people do not kiss when swinging. Do you?"
Yh we do now but didnt at first, were pretty new to the scene though and wasn't sure what we liked in a meet or even what we wanted...we now know we ant and need kissing!
Although we do have a rule of no kissing afterwards 
We had a meet once and the boss gave her a full on snog outside the club afterwards me and her fella stood ther like  I was pretty pissed off to be honest haha x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think there's nothing more of a turn on than kissing . I think you can tell so much from a kiss. I like lots of full on snogs when I meet someone for fun |
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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago
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Although, if I'm proper desperate for a fuck, I don't mind not kissing BUT for me it just takes away some of the excitement. Easiest way to get me going? Kiss me!
Meets that didn't kiss just felt, well, it felt like I was being used. I'm not neive, I know I am in some, if not all or most, cases but at least when guys kiss me I don't *feel* like I am. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"See from lots of profiles,lots of people do not kiss when swinging. Do you?
Yh we do now but didnt at first, were pretty new to the scene though and wasn't sure what we liked in a meet or even what we wanted...we now know we ant and need kissing!
Although we do have a rule of no kissing afterwards
We had a meet once and the boss gave her a full on snog outside the club afterwards me and her fella stood ther like I was pretty pissed off to be honest haha x"
Yes that would piss me off to x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't kiss unless I know and trust someone, I get claustrophobic having a stranger in my face and a bad kiss would be the fastest way to put my libido firmly back in its box. There are plenty of other places to kiss while we get to know each other.
Mrs x"
this is where i am. and never found it has hindered.. with my ex partner I could have died happy with his kisses but few could understand why i didnt enjoy it with random men. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"See from lots of profiles,lots of people do not kiss when swinging. Do you?"
I do and I wouldn't meet anyone that didn't, although I can understand why they don't  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It depends entirely on the situation and the people involved. I can generally take it or leave it however, We meet some couples and I love to snog the face off them. I adore kissing women but am not bothered about men to be honest. If I know a guy needs it, I'll do it...if I'm at a club or party and I've agreed to play with someone, I'm not going to stop a group play to insist they kiss me before I suck their cock... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If Rick kissed another outside the act,shall we say. I would consider that being
Un-faithful x"
We're still finding our feet when it comes to couples so I didn't see it like that we just needed more communication between us as a couple x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It depends entirely on the situation and the people involved. I can generally take it or leave it however, We meet some couples and I love to snog the face off them. I adore kissing women but am not bothered about men to be honest. If I know a guy needs it, I'll do it...if I'm at a club or party and I've agreed to play with someone, I'm not going to stop a group play to insist they kiss me before I suck their cock..."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We will only kiss each other because, strange as it sounds with all the other action, it is the one thing we consider to be intimate to us. And despite all the 'it's a must on a meet' on this thread, we haven't been turned down yet!!
Him |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We will only kiss each other because, strange as it sounds with all the other action, it is the one thing we consider to be intimate to us. And despite all the 'it's a must on a meet' on this thread, we haven't been turned down yet!!
Him"
No kiss then on that information  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We will only kiss each other because, strange as it sounds with all the other action, it is the one thing we consider to be intimate to us. And despite all the 'it's a must on a meet' on this thread, we haven't been turned down yet!!
Him"
i can honestly say in all my years of doing this.. i can count on my fingers the nunber of guys that have tried to kiss me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Kissing is such an important part of the intimacy of sex. I couldn't imagine meeting anyone and not kissing them..
Even at socials, if we're getting on, my mind is racing ahead and wondering what they're going to kiss like.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If Rick kissed another outside the act,shall we say. I would consider that being
Un-faithful x
We're still finding our feet when it comes to couples so I didn't see it like that we just needed more communication between us as a couple x"
x |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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"Kissing is such an important part of the intimacy of sex. I couldn't imagine meeting anyone and not kissing them..
Even at socials, if we're getting on, my mind is racing ahead and wondering what they're going to kiss like.."
I know exactly what you mean
I wouldn't meet anyone who didn't want to kiss me, I just adore kissing too much  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Kissing is such an important part of the intimacy of sex. I couldn't imagine meeting anyone and not kissing them..
Even at socials, if we're getting on, my mind is racing ahead and wondering what they're going to kiss like.."
I totally get that, if I was single and meeting then it would be a must but we're not looking for intimacy. We already have that between ourselves. Occasionally we meet people for whom there is an exception but for me(boobs) that only really happens with women... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"See from lots of profiles,lots of people do not kiss when swinging. Do you?
A kiss-less meet sounds absolutely horrendous. It doesn't sound like much fun at all. Kissing is one of the cornerstones to any dalliance with a lady. In fact I can't think of anything that's actually more pleasurable, sensual or downright erotic.
I'd love to hear people's experiences of meets without kissing."
Ok here is mine. Couple came to mine. He just a voyeur, she slim, long hair, great tits.....then out of the blue...no touching or kissing apart from boobs/pussy. Nothing else...nada!
Told them I don't play with pieces of meat. Asked them to leave and blocked them....sorry but don't care how fit...just not for me! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If I met a mf couple I would be fine with no kissing,but if they wanted me to kiss the woman only I would decline,as I don't kiss women. I don't want sex with a man without kissing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"See from lots of profiles,lots of people do not kiss when swinging. Do you?
Yh we do now but didnt at first, were pretty new to the scene though and wasn't sure what we liked in a meet or even what we wanted...we now know we ant and need kissing!
Although we do have a rule of no kissing afterwards
We had a meet once and the boss gave her a full on snog outside the club afterwards me and her fella stood ther like I was pretty pissed off to be honest haha x
Yes that would piss me off to x"
Me too, we kiss but I prefer only during play itself |
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We didn't used too... it was one of the things hubby asked me not to do and I didn't.
After a lengthy conversation between swinging friends about kissing our meets he actually asked me if I'd like to, I admitted I did and explained why as I felt it would make the transition from talking/flirting into playing easier.
I was right and he actually likes to watch me kiss.
Tone xx
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"See from lots of profiles,lots of people do not kiss when swinging. Do you?
A kiss-less meet sounds absolutely horrendous. It doesn't sound like much fun at all. Kissing is one of the cornerstones to any dalliance with a lady. In fact I can't think of anything that's actually more pleasurable, sensual or downright erotic.
I'd love to hear people's experiences of meets without kissing."
We've had plenty and they've all gone very well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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No kissing to us is a no meet but respect people who have this on their profile we just find it hard to think you can do more intimate things than kiss but that's ok |
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By *D40Couple
over a year ago
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"See from lots of profiles,lots of people do not kiss when swinging. Do you?
A kiss-less meet sounds absolutely horrendous. It doesn't sound like much fun at all. Kissing is one of the cornerstones to any dalliance with a lady. In fact I can't think of anything that's actually more pleasurable, sensual or downright erotic.
I'd love to hear people's experiences of meets without kissing."
Agreed wholeheartedly. I wont meet smokers because the kissing for me is too important.
Mrs _d40 |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Kissing is the best way to get in the mood. Kissing is sometimes said to be more intimate than sex itself but I know that if I didn't kiss MrsJ and expected anything more I'd be turned away. Just thinking about kissing has given me an erection. MrsJ loves been kissed by both men and ladies. I love to see it too. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Kissing is the best way to get in the mood. Kissing is sometimes said to be more intimate than sex itself but I know that if I didn't kiss MrsJ and expected anything more I'd be turned away. Just thinking about kissing has given me an erection. MrsJ loves been kissed by both men and ladies. I love to see it too. "
Totally agree with you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Al part of the more sensuous side and definitely more erotic and arousing. I can understand why some won't want mouth to mouth as there is something very intimate about it. However, I am very much in favour |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Do you know, when we didn't kiss we were never turned down for a meet, ever. And even now if it doesn't happen, no one had ever gone "stop! You haven't kissed me!" |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you know, when we didn't kiss we were never turned down for a meet, ever. And even now if it doesn't happen, no one had ever gone "stop! You haven't kissed me!" "
But what would you do if you were just getting it on with someone and they went to kiss you, would you stop them? |
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"Do you know, when we didn't kiss we were never turned down for a meet, ever. And even now if it doesn't happen, no one had ever gone "stop! You haven't kissed me!"
But what would you do if you were just getting it on with someone and they went to kiss you, would you stop them? "
We have on our profile that we don't kiss it stops contact from people to whom it's important (as long as they read it). |
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"I don't kiss unless I know and trust someone, I get claustrophobic having a stranger in my face and a bad kiss would be the fastest way to put my libido firmly back in its box. There are plenty of other places to kiss while we get to know each other.
Mrs x"
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"Do you know, when we didn't kiss we were never turned down for a meet, ever. And even now if it doesn't happen, no one had ever gone "stop! You haven't kissed me!"
But what would you do if you were just getting it on with someone and they went to kiss you, would you stop them? "
If it was someone ì didn't want to kiss I'd turn my head away and cracking on with the fucking. |
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"I love a nice hot passionate kiss! Really gets me going. Love to find a really good kisser, "
I have to kiss. Have turned down MFF's cos I wasn't "allowed" to kiss both of the couple. Before I get critised I fully get why! Just I prefer to kiss |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The only thing worse than no kissing is meeting a guy who can't kiss but insists on keep kissing you because you've told him you love it "
A kiss... on the neck..moving up slowly towards the chin, and making my way up to the mouth, suckling on that gorgeous top lip..
anyway, I'll stop now :P |
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adds passion to the experience, otherwise it's cold and clinical which can be quite a turn off. 
