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Ever been in love, but.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

In love with someone you know, and know that you will never be with them?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes , but I realised that you have to let go.of things and people not meant for.you

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By *orth_hantscplCouple over a year ago

camberley

Unless I'm missing something aren't you a couple?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I fell in love with a Kyrgyz lesbian... it was never going to happen, but she could make me smile more than any woman alive... we are now the best of friends; the desirous love died and now she is my friend, confident, like a sister.

Passionate love is a flower that needs to be nourished (reciprocated), else the bud will never open

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Unless I'm missing something aren't you a couple?"

Yes, maybe i didn't come across right. I fell in love with someone years ago, and have no intentions of taking it further, just wondered if it was just me being weird.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

not weird at all. i've found you can't stop loving someone after you've started.

so long as you accept the reality of the situation then it's actually a nice thing to do.

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By *orth_hantscplCouple over a year ago

camberley

"Unless I'm missing something aren't you a couple?

Yes, maybe i didn't come across right. I fell in love with someone years ago, and have no intentions of taking it further, just wondered if it was just me being weird."

Hmmm, that sounds like you're still in love with them? Not sure I can really give you any helpful advice. Do they know?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes I have

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I fell in love with a Kyrgyz lesbian... it was never going to happen, but she could make me smile more than any woman alive... we are now the best of friends; the desirous love died and now she is my friend, confident, like a sister.

Passionate love is a flower that needs to be nourished (reciprocated), else the bud will never open"
arghh that's lovley...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

been in love twice...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Passionate love is a flower that needs to be nourished (reciprocated), else the bud will never open"

can I ask what is a Kyrgyz lesbian?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Passionate love is a flower that needs to be nourished (reciprocated), else the bud will never open

can I ask what is a Kyrgyz lesbian?"

According to wikipedia it's a woman who has an beauty spot on the left asscheek and who is lesbian.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Passionate love is a flower that needs to be nourished (reciprocated), else the bud will never open

can I ask what is a Kyrgyz lesbian?"

A lesbian from the Kyrgyz Republic (formerly Kyrgyzstan, formerly part of the soviet union). She is Slavic Kyrgyz (there are two main groups; Central Asian (Mongol origin) and Slavic(Russian origin)...

Very beautiful, an environmental lawyer, so very funny... she is like the sun, and though I cannot ever hold her the way I once wished, I still think she's the most "real" woman I have ever met.... eek (bit gushing ain't it?!)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

In answer to the original question . Yes . I am .

I fell in love and ballsed it up . I'll never get the opportunity to be with that person again but there's not a day goes by I don't think of her and sadly everyone I meet I compare to her

Strange old world

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By *arisjokerMan over a year ago

Admaston

Know that feeling, she's getting married in a few weeks still hurts after 5 years and all my fault.... Total bellend

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes & still am, doesn't get any easier even as the years pass

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Come on guys!! None of this sorrow, never feel sad for what was... because it once WAS.... life isn't about having, it's about living, don't tarnish your memories, be happy for those you have loved, then who knows? Maybe you can love again too...

Feel a bit sad after reading all these posts; I empathise with your pain, but, well summers coming... who knows right?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *eneral HysteriaMan over a year ago

Newcastle

Yes. And she's about 6000 miles away.

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By *rtemisiaWoman over a year ago

Norwich

Why do we so often long for that which is out of reach?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why do we so often long for that which is out of reach?"

Human nature... Unfortunately...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Loved someone 5 years ago. Had the best time ever with her. Soon realised it was never going anywhere due to certain factors and we both had to call it off. Kept in touch as friends but soon after I had to let go of her totally otherwise I'd never be able to fully move on.

...turns out I still haven't.

Ah well. Such is life.

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By *oyuer99Man over a year ago

PRESTON

Every single day.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have loved someone for 36 years,will never ever forget him,couldn't and wasn't meant to be,but such wonderful memories like it was yesterday,havent seen him in all those 36 years,but in my mind he's still that handsome young man,he was a Gypsy and i was with him for 7 years ,i was very young,he had to marry into his own kind,he came to me and said it was over and we both cried,and he said i would never see him again,and i havent from that day,he left me a son,which he never knew about,but very sadly i lost him to at 7 years of age,devastating,but all true.my memories i have forever.

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By *eavenscentitCouple over a year ago

barnstaple

Yes...and I am backing off from a relationship at the minute emotionally as he is not right for me. I hate that vulnerable love feeling

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By *yldstyleWoman over a year ago

A world of my own

Currently

The sad thing in it all is that we both feel the same. It just can't ever be the happy ever after. It hurts and I think I cry myself to sleep most nights over it.

When we do see each other it's wonderful then he leaves and my heart breaks into a million pieces.

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By *lawless doveWoman over a year ago

bothwell

Yes and still am. He is very happily married and I would do nothing to spilt them up.

He is my rock, my best friend, my confidant. I can talk to him about anything and everything and know he will give me the best advice possible.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

More than once - which probably says more about me than I currently wish to analyse.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes and still am. He is very happily married and I would do nothing to spilt them up.

He is my rock, my best friend, my confidant. I can talk to him about anything and everything and know he will give me the best advice possible."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We all have a story to tell,some so sad

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Currently yes. But I know we can't be together so am just cherishing it while it lasts.

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By *helbeeCouple over a year ago

Nuneaton

Yes ive been in love only once properly

But now realise that im a lot hapier being single an love im done with the love game

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By *onbons_xxMan over a year ago

Bolton

Yes, in hindsight, if I had the foresight then I'm not sure the answer would be different if that makes sense.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes , but I realised that you have to let go.of things and people not meant for.you "

I know that feeling very well

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes and still am. Weirdly he has made an attempt to re enter my life this wk but I know it will only end up it yet another head fuck so I can't let him in again

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman over a year ago

Portsmouth

Nope

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Mine is a nope too. I loved, I lost, I moved on

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We don't choose who we fall in love with it just comes along and knocks you off your feet..

Not always with a HAPPY ending..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I was with someone for two years before she ended it, and in truth I was still in love with her for at least another four after the break up. It was the most intense two years of my life and I know that real love exists because I've felt it. She's the only person I could ever sit in a room with and say nothing and be totally comfortable and happy with. I was never happier than when I woke up next to her each morning. The chemistry was electric. Unfortunately after a series of conversations about our future I knew deep down she would only ever do what's best for her at the expense of what was better for us, she would quite happily risk hurting me to get what she wanted. This became even more apparent after the split as she would text me late into the night even though she had met someone else, but whenever I asked her if she wanted to get back together she would say no. At this point I started to see a side of her that I really didn't like. That didn't stop me loving her but now I'm glad I'm not with her. Had she only been a little more sensitive to our needs as well as her own I believe we would have had the most amazing life together. But it is what it is and now I'm looking for that feeling with the right woman. That and some naughty fun

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yer and I still struggle sometimes when I when I see her.

But I'm happy that's she's happy and somethings aren't meant to be.

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