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over a year ago
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Keep seeing the why don't I get meets question
I've had 6 meets in 5 weeks, missed out on another 5 because I was working, have 1 lined up for Friday night and 1 lined up for Monday night.
I'm 45, bit bald, bit grey and bit of a middle age spread.
So why do I get meets? |
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"Keep seeing the why don't I get meets question
I've had 6 meets in 5 weeks, missed out on another 5 because I was working, have 1 lined up for Friday night and 1 lined up for Monday night.
I'm 45, bit bald, bit grey and bit of a middle age spread.
So why do I get meets?"
Maybe its your username that attracts them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Keep seeing the why don't I get meets question
I've had 6 meets in 5 weeks, missed out on another 5 because I was working, have 1 lined up for Friday night and 1 lined up for Monday night.
I'm 45, bit bald, bit grey and bit of a middle age spread.
So why do I get meets?"
I'm going to presume you must send an excellent first message. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Keep seeing the why don't I get meets question
I've had 6 meets in 5 weeks, missed out on another 5 because I was working, have 1 lined up for Friday night and 1 lined up for Monday night.
I'm 45, bit bald, bit grey and bit of a middle age spread.
So why do I get meets?"
Maybe your not fussy about who you meet
Fancy a shag  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Keep seeing the why don't I get meets question
I've had 6 meets in 5 weeks, missed out on another 5 because I was working, have 1 lined up for Friday night and 1 lined up for Monday night.
I'm 45, bit bald, bit grey and bit of a middle age spread.
So why do I get meets?
I'm going to presume you must send an excellent first message."
I read the profiles and send polite messages, I think it's positive attitude |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Keep seeing the why don't I get meets question
I've had 6 meets in 5 weeks, missed out on another 5 because I was working, have 1 lined up for Friday night and 1 lined up for Monday night.
I'm 45, bit bald, bit grey and bit of a middle age spread.
So why do I get meets?
Maybe your not fussy about who you meet
Fancy a shag "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Keep seeing the why don't I get meets question
I've had 6 meets in 5 weeks, missed out on another 5 because I was working, have 1 lined up for Friday night and 1 lined up for Monday night.
I'm 45, bit bald, bit grey and bit of a middle age spread.
So why do I get meets?"
you just need to keep it all in perspective....and not the perspective on your profile pic either |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Keep seeing the why don't I get meets question
I've had 6 meets in 5 weeks, missed out on another 5 because I was working, have 1 lined up for Friday night and 1 lined up for Monday night.
I'm 45, bit bald, bit grey and bit of a middle age spread.
So why do I get meets?
Maybe your not fussy about who you meet
Fancy a shag "
Nice tatts and go on then you've twisted my arm x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Keep seeing the why don't I get meets question
I've had 6 meets in 5 weeks, missed out on another 5 because I was working, have 1 lined up for Friday night and 1 lined up for Monday night.
I'm 45, bit bald, bit grey and bit of a middle age spread.
So why do I get meets?
Maybe your not fussy about who you meet
Fancy a shag
Nice tatts and go on then you've twisted my arm x"
What with your huge to do list, you sure you can squeeze me in  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Keep seeing the why don't I get meets question
I've had 6 meets in 5 weeks, missed out on another 5 because I was working, have 1 lined up for Friday night and 1 lined up for Monday night.
I'm 45, bit bald, bit grey and bit of a middle age spread.
So why do I get meets?"
No idea but whatever you are doing, just keep doing it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Keep seeing the why don't I get meets question
I've had 6 meets in 5 weeks, missed out on another 5 because I was working, have 1 lined up for Friday night and 1 lined up for Monday night.
I'm 45, bit bald, bit grey and bit of a middle age spread.
So why do I get meets?
Maybe your not fussy about who you meet
Fancy a shag
Nice tatts and go on then you've twisted my arm x
What with your huge to do list, you sure you can squeeze me in "
Well now you mention squeezing something in |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Keep seeing the why don't I get meets question
I've had 6 meets in 5 weeks, missed out on another 5 because I was working, have 1 lined up for Friday night and 1 lined up for Monday night.
I'm 45, bit bald, bit grey and bit of a middle age spread.
So why do I get meets?"
Decent profile - though too many cock pics - so a lot must come down to the way you approach people. The first message is crucial so you must get it right. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Keep seeing the why don't I get meets question
I've had 6 meets in 5 weeks, missed out on another 5 because I was working, have 1 lined up for Friday night and 1 lined up for Monday night.
I'm 45, bit bald, bit grey and bit of a middle age spread.
So why do I get meets?
Decent profile - though too many cock pics - so a lot must come down to the way you approach people. The first message is crucial so you must get it right."
Your probably right about too many cock pics, I just try to be friendly and have a laugh seems to work |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"you're 6ft 2, plenty of people will meet a guy just because he's tall.
No they wont lol
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he has pics up so people can check him out. that will help also. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"you're 6ft 2, plenty of people will meet a guy just because he's tall.
No they wont lol
he has pics up so people can check him out. that will help also."
I know, just messing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Keep seeing the why don't I get meets question
I've had 6 meets in 5 weeks, missed out on another 5 because I was working, have 1 lined up for Friday night and 1 lined up for Monday night.
I'm 45, bit bald, bit grey and bit of a middle age spread.
So why do I get meets?
Maybe your not fussy about who you meet
Fancy a shag "
I'll have a go |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"you're 6ft 2, plenty of people will meet a guy just because he's tall.
No they wont lol
he has pics up so people can check him out. that will help also.
I know, just messing "
i'm gullible, stop that. lmao |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Keep seeing the why don't I get meets question
I've had 6 meets in 5 weeks, missed out on another 5 because I was working, have 1 lined up for Friday night and 1 lined up for Monday night.
I'm 45, bit bald, bit grey and bit of a middle age spread.
So why do I get meets?
Maybe your not fussy about who you meet
Fancy a shag
I'll have a go "
Now, I'm just checking, are you talking to me or him |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"you're 6ft 2, plenty of people will meet a guy just because he's tall.
No they wont lol
he has pics up so people can check him out. that will help also.
I know, just messing
i'm gullible, stop that. lmao"
Really, do you want to see a pic of my 12 inch penis, I know it only looks 6 but that's just the camera angle, honest |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"you're 6ft 2, plenty of people will meet a guy just because he's tall.
No they wont lol
he has pics up so people can check him out. that will help also.
I know, just messing
i'm gullible, stop that. lmao
Really, do you want to see a pic of my 12 inch penis, I know it only looks 6 but that's just the camera angle, honest "
i have been tricked this way before. 
how i thought 3 inches was 8 i will never know. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"you're 6ft 2, plenty of people will meet a guy just because he's tall.
No they wont lol
he has pics up so people can check him out. that will help also.
I know, just messing
i'm gullible, stop that. lmao
Really, do you want to see a pic of my 12 inch penis, I know it only looks 6 but that's just the camera angle, honest
i have been tricked this way before.
how i thought 3 inches was 8 i will never know."
Dam not that gullible after all,  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Keep seeing the why don't I get meets question
I've had 6 meets in 5 weeks, missed out on another 5 because I was working, have 1 lined up for Friday night and 1 lined up for Monday night.
I'm 45, bit bald, bit grey and bit of a middle age spread.
So why do I get meets?
I'm going to presume you must send an excellent first message.
I read the profiles and send polite messages, I think it's positive attitude "
Must be x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"you're 6ft 2, plenty of people will meet a guy just because he's tall.
No they wont lol
he has pics up so people can check him out. that will help also.
I know, just messing
i'm gullible, stop that. lmao
Really, do you want to see a pic of my 12 inch penis, I know it only looks 6 but that's just the camera angle, honest
i have been tricked this way before.
how i thought 3 inches was 8 i will never know.
Dam not that gullible after all, "
used to be, not any more. i'm a quick learned luckily. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"you're 6ft 2, plenty of people will meet a guy just because he's tall.
I wouldn't
He has to be fit and young and good looking as well "
I can do the tall bit, the young and good looking I'm struggling |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Excellent sky remote comparison profile picture
Why oh why do guys do this?!
My remote is bigger than his, but I only show it in private...."
Hmmm I suspect depth perception plays a part with that pic  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Excellent sky remote comparison profile picture
Why oh why do guys do this?!
My remote is bigger than his, but I only show it in private....
Hmmm I suspect depth perception plays a part with that pic "
Sssh don't tell |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Keep seeing the why don't I get meets question
I've had 6 meets in 5 weeks, missed out on another 5 because I was working, have 1 lined up for Friday night and 1 lined up for Monday night.
I'm 45, bit bald, bit grey and bit of a middle age spread.
So why do I get meets?"
Because, apart from the height, your description fits me exactly. I had the same trouble as you on my previous profile...racked up too many meets, had to bat them away.
Came off for a little break. Back on and now keeping a low profile...but still meeting with a select few...between a now regular FB who keeps her profile hidden from others.
There is no big secret...it is just being honest, ordinary, genuine and polite.
Like you I often fail to understand the fuss some guys make about "the problems with fab" rather than looking at their own approach.
Refreshing post OP.....well in there! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Excellent sky remote comparison profile picture
Why oh why do guys do this?!
My remote is bigger than his, but I only show it in private....
Hmmm I suspect depth perception plays a part with that pic
Sssh don't tell"
Oops, sorry, I'll rephrase...
My that great big cock of yours makes that sky remote look abnormally and suspiciously tiny!   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Keep seeing the why don't I get meets question
I've had 6 meets in 5 weeks, missed out on another 5 because I was working, have 1 lined up for Friday night and 1 lined up for Monday night.
I'm 45, bit bald, bit grey and bit of a middle age spread.
So why do I get meets?
Because, apart from the height, your description fits me exactly. I had the same trouble as you on my previous profile...racked up too many meets, had to bat them away.
Came off for a little break. Back on and now keeping a low profile...but still meeting with a select few...between a now regular FB who keeps her profile hidden from others.
There is no big secret...it is just being honest, ordinary, genuine and polite.
Like you I often fail to understand the fuss some guys make about "the problems with fab" rather than looking at their own approach.
Refreshing post OP.....well in there!"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So why complain???
You should be enjoying
Don't try and analyse.... Just have fun!"
??? I think you missed the point, I'm having a great time, no complaints from me, just poking fun at the blokes moaning they don't get meets |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"Keep seeing the why don't I get meets question
I've had 6 meets in 5 weeks, missed out on another 5 because I was working, have 1 lined up for Friday night and 1 lined up for Monday night.
I'm 45, bit bald, bit grey and bit of a middle age spread.
So why do I get meets?
Maybe your not fussy about who you meet
Fancy a shag "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Keep seeing the why don't I get meets question
I've had 6 meets in 5 weeks, missed out on another 5 because I was working, have 1 lined up for Friday night and 1 lined up for Monday night.
I'm 45, bit bald, bit grey and bit of a middle age spread.
So why do I get meets?"
Good on ya that you do. Id love to know the secret. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Keep seeing the why don't I get meets question
I've had 6 meets in 5 weeks, missed out on another 5 because I was working, have 1 lined up for Friday night and 1 lined up for Monday night.
I'm 45, bit bald, bit grey and bit of a middle age spread.
So why do I get meets?"
not fussy about who you meet most likely |
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
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"Keep seeing the why don't I get meets question
I've had 6 meets in 5 weeks, missed out on another 5 because I was working, have 1 lined up for Friday night and 1 lined up for Monday night.
I'm 45, bit bald, bit grey and bit of a middle age spread.
So why do I get meets?
Good on ya that you do. Id love to know the secret. "
I keep giving the secret away and it is simply this: "Don't be a dickhead". This just seems to be an issue for so many.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Keep seeing the why don't I get meets question
I've had 6 meets in 5 weeks, missed out on another 5 because I was working, have 1 lined up for Friday night and 1 lined up for Monday night.
I'm 45, bit bald, bit grey and bit of a middle age spread.
So why do I get meets?
I'm going to presume you must send an excellent first message.
I read the profiles and send polite messages, I think it's positive attitude "
That's bollocks!
I'm sure that there are hundreds of guys out there, genuine, polite , who do all the right things and still don't get a message let alone a meet. You're just lucky, there is no science or explanation behind it.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been on here about 4-5 months now, I'm polite, friendly and read profiles before I message. I hardly ever get a reply and am still yet to get a meet.. It's really frustrating |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've been on here about 4-5 months now, I'm polite, friendly and read profiles before I message. I hardly ever get a reply and am still yet to get a meet.. It's really frustrating "
Your profile and pics look ok, maybe write a bit more on there, offer social meets, try and have a laugh with people and dont take it too seriously. Try using the forums everyday |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've been on here about 4-5 months now, I'm polite, friendly and read profiles before I message. I hardly ever get a reply and am still yet to get a meet.. It's really frustrating
Your profile and pics look ok, maybe write a bit more on there, offer social meets, try and have a laugh with people and dont take it too seriously. Try using the forums everyday"
Cheers mate, thanks for the advice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"*shrugs*
I don't know but whatever it is you're doing, keep doing it. It's obviously working for you.
I'm getting worn out doing it"
6 shags in 5 weeks is wearing you out? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"*shrugs*
I don't know but whatever it is you're doing, keep doing it. It's obviously working for you.
I'm getting worn out doing it
6 shags in 5 weeks is wearing you out? "
Lol, fabs not the only place a single bloke can get some fun x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"*shrugs*
I don't know but whatever it is you're doing, keep doing it. It's obviously working for you.
I'm getting worn out doing it
6 shags in 5 weeks is wearing you out?
Lol, fabs not the only place a single bloke can get some fun x"
POF I know loads of men do well on that site as well |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ahh yes, but do you get repeat meets... That my friend imho is the real question  "
Read the veri's, still meeting friends from previous profiles and not always got the time to meet new people |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"*shrugs*
I don't know but whatever it is you're doing, keep doing it. It's obviously working for you.
I'm getting worn out doing it
6 shags in 5 weeks is wearing you out?
Lol, fabs not the only place a single bloke can get some fun x
POF I know loads of men do well on that site as well "
Yep and I tell the women I swing, was surprised how many are interested, it gets me more meets than fab. Have had hardly any negative comments about it |
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I'm absolutely bemused by this thread. Starting a look-at-me thread solely in order to boast and mock others by 'poking fun at the blokes moaning they don't get meets' is not behaviour I'd expect to be approved of on Fab. But so many responses, especially from women, have been congratulatory or admiring. Why??
OP, there are plenty of lovely single guys on this site who have done exactly as you say you have in reading profiles and sending positive, polite messages and have had little or no joy. Anyone who has had any measure of success over time will tell you that there is a lot of luck involved. It's very nice that you've had a good start on the site, but it is nothing more than that, there is nothing to be learned from it and you should have the good grace simply to be thankful. Luck can turn, you know, and in both ways. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Ive been on and off here for years .
Ive never found meets hard to come by . I always thought it's because I don't act desperate and can hold a conversation without it turning to sex in the first 5 messages ..
Guys who can't get meets need to look at yourself and your behaviours when chatting to the ladies . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm absolutely bemused by this thread. Starting a look-at-me thread solely in order to boast and mock others by 'poking fun at the blokes moaning they don't get meets' is not behaviour I'd expect to be approved of on Fab. But so many responses, especially from women, have been congratulatory or admiring. Why??
OP, there are plenty of lovely single guys on this site who have done exactly as you say you have in reading profiles and sending positive, polite messages and have had little or no joy. Anyone who has had any measure of success over time will tell you that there is a lot of luck involved. It's very nice that you've had a good start on the site, but it is nothing more than that, there is nothing to be learned from it and you should have the good grace simply to be thankful. Luck can turn, you know, and in both ways."
I think you have missed the point but hey ho maybe thats why I do well (soh). Ive been on and off here for 4 years nothing to do with beginners luck. And if you read through my post you will see im also laughing at myself as well. Don't take things so seriously do you not have banter with your mates? No-one is getting there feelings hurt, It's not directed at any individual, I'm just simply bored of the whinging whining blokes and put a positve attitude out there |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Ive been on and off here for years .
Ive never found meets hard to come by . I always thought it's because I don't act desperate and can hold a conversation without it turning to sex in the first 5 messages ..
Guys who can't get meets need to look at yourself and your behaviours when chatting to the ladies . "
100% correct mate, don't take ot too seriously, try and have a laugh, treat all people with respect, don't chase sex, it's not hard is it |
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"I'm absolutely bemused by this thread. Starting a look-at-me thread solely in order to boast and mock others by 'poking fun at the blokes moaning they don't get meets' is not behaviour I'd expect to be approved of on Fab. But so many responses, especially from women, have been congratulatory or admiring. Why??
OP, there are plenty of lovely single guys on this site who have done exactly as you say you have in reading profiles and sending positive, polite messages and have had little or no joy. Anyone who has had any measure of success over time will tell you that there is a lot of luck involved. It's very nice that you've had a good start on the site, but it is nothing more than that, there is nothing to be learned from it and you should have the good grace simply to be thankful. Luck can turn, you know, and in both ways."
Does the fact women are congratulatory, not speak volumes to you, why this guy is doing something right and getting the meets - attitude
He's trying to point out it can be done, not mock just give something positive instead of the whingeing that goes on |
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You'll have to forgive me if I've misunderstood your kerr-azy sense of humour, OP. There are I'm afraid people whose idea of fun involves having a pop at some other group of people they feel superior to, whilst loudly insisting that they're 'only joking'...I'm relieved to hear that you're not, in fact, one of them.
To return to your original post, then: you keep seeing 'why don't I get meets' posts simply because, generally, it's tough for single guys on Fab to get meets. Yes, some do themselves no favours with their profile, messages, attitude or behaviour, but for many others this is not the case. There are always different variables at play: I suspect that if you were proclaiming an average sized penis and lived in London, you'd be doing less well. And (did I mention this before?) you've been lucky. Quite possibly very, very lucky.
Smug, self-satisfied posts (even 'tongue in cheek' ones) that insist that all that is needed is politeness, respect and a sense of humour are not helpful - because they are not true. You've been (I may have mentioned this before...) very lucky. Try and have some humility about it, rather than thinking you know it all and doing your best to demoralise other guys. Some of them may actually be even more polite, more respectful - and perhaps even funnier, hard as you might find that to believe - than you, you know. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"You'll have to forgive me if I've misunderstood your kerr-azy sense of humour, OP. There are I'm afraid people whose idea of fun involves having a pop at some other group of people they feel superior to, whilst loudly insisting that they're 'only joking'...I'm relieved to hear that you're not, in fact, one of them.
To return to your original post, then: you keep seeing 'why don't I get meets' posts simply because, generally, it's tough for single guys on Fab to get meets. Yes, some do themselves no favours with their profile, messages, attitude or behaviour, but for many others this is not the case. There are always different variables at play: I suspect that if you were proclaiming an average sized penis and lived in London, you'd be doing less well. And (did I mention this before?) you've been lucky. Quite possibly very, very lucky.
Smug, self-satisfied posts (even 'tongue in cheek' ones) that insist that all that is needed is politeness, respect and a sense of humour are not helpful - because they are not true. You've been (I may have mentioned this before...) very lucky. Try and have some humility about it, rather than thinking you know it all and doing your best to demoralise other guys. Some of them may actually be even more polite, more respectful - and perhaps even funnier, hard as you might find that to believe - than you, you know."
Get off your high horse and feel free to go forth and multiply mate, your posts are far more rude and offensive than any of mine because they are directed at me personally. As the lovely lady above says can you not see your opinion is not shared by the large majority of other people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive seen a few of these threads where it leads to the op being mocked or seen as gloating. It just depends on the day if its taken kindly or gonna turn nasty |
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"You'll have to forgive me if I've misunderstood your kerr-azy sense of humour, OP. There are I'm afraid people whose idea of fun involves having a pop at some other group of people they feel superior to, whilst loudly insisting that they're 'only joking'...I'm relieved to hear that you're not, in fact, one of them.
To return to your original post, then: you keep seeing 'why don't I get meets' posts simply because, generally, it's tough for single guys on Fab to get meets. Yes, some do themselves no favours with their profile, messages, attitude or behaviour, but for many others this is not the case. There are always different variables at play: I suspect that if you were proclaiming an average sized penis and lived in London, you'd be doing less well. And (did I mention this before?) you've been lucky. Quite possibly very, very lucky.
Smug, self-satisfied posts (even 'tongue in cheek' ones) that insist that all that is needed is politeness, respect and a sense of humour are not helpful - because they are not true. You've been (I may have mentioned this before...) very lucky. Try and have some humility about it, rather than thinking you know it all and doing your best to demoralise other guys. Some of them may actually be even more polite, more respectful - and perhaps even funnier, hard as you might find that to believe - than you, you know.
Get off your high horse and feel free to go forth and multiply mate, your posts are far more rude and offensive than any of mine because they are directed at me personally. As the lovely lady above says can you not see your opinion is not shared by the large majority of other people. "
My posts weren't intended to be rude, I'm genuinely sorry if you or anybody else feels that they were. They are personal about you only in as much as it's your comments to which I'm responding. They were intended to make serious, relevant points. I'm very sorry that you've taken them in a different spirit to that in which they were intended. |
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"You'll have to forgive me if I've misunderstood your kerr-azy sense of humour, OP. There are I'm afraid people whose idea of fun involves having a pop at some other group of people they feel superior to, whilst loudly insisting that they're 'only joking'...I'm relieved to hear that you're not, in fact, one of them.
To return to your original post, then: you keep seeing 'why don't I get meets' posts simply because, generally, it's tough for single guys on Fab to get meets. Yes, some do themselves no favours with their profile, messages, attitude or behaviour, but for many others this is not the case. There are always different variables at play: I suspect that if you were proclaiming an average sized penis and lived in London, you'd be doing less well. And (did I mention this before?) you've been lucky. Quite possibly very, very lucky.
Smug, self-satisfied posts (even 'tongue in cheek' ones) that insist that all that is needed is politeness, respect and a sense of humour are not helpful - because they are not true. You've been (I may have mentioned this before...) very lucky. Try and have some humility about it, rather than thinking you know it all and doing your best to demoralise other guys. Some of them may actually be even more polite, more respectful - and perhaps even funnier, hard as you might find that to believe - than you, you know.
Get off your high horse and feel free to go forth and multiply mate, your posts are far more rude and offensive than any of mine because they are directed at me personally. As the lovely lady above says can you not see your opinion is not shared by the large majority of other people.
My posts weren't intended to be rude, I'm genuinely sorry if you or anybody else feels that they were. They are personal about you only in as much as it's your comments to which I'm responding. They were intended to make serious, relevant points. I'm very sorry that you've taken them in a different spirit to that in which they were intended."
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"You'll have to forgive me if I've misunderstood your kerr-azy sense of humour, OP. There are I'm afraid people whose idea of fun involves having a pop at some other group of people they feel superior to, whilst loudly insisting that they're 'only joking'...I'm relieved to hear that you're not, in fact, one of them.
To return to your original post, then: you keep seeing 'why don't I get meets' posts simply because, generally, it's tough for single guys on Fab to get meets. Yes, some do themselves no favours with their profile, messages, attitude or behaviour, but for many others this is not the case. There are always different variables at play: I suspect that if you were proclaiming an average sized penis and lived in London, you'd be doing less well. And (did I mention this before?) you've been lucky. Quite possibly very, very lucky.
Smug, self-satisfied posts (even 'tongue in cheek' ones) that insist that all that is needed is politeness, respect and a sense of humour are not helpful - because they are not true. You've been (I may have mentioned this before...) very lucky. Try and have some humility about it, rather than thinking you know it all and doing your best to demoralise other guys. Some of them may actually be even more polite, more respectful - and perhaps even funnier, hard as you might find that to believe - than you, you know.
Get off your high horse and feel free to go forth and multiply mate, your posts are far more rude and offensive than any of mine because they are directed at me personally. As the lovely lady above says can you not see your opinion is not shared by the large majority of other people.
My posts weren't intended to be rude, I'm genuinely sorry if you or anybody else feels that they were. They are personal about you only in as much as it's your comments to which I'm responding. They were intended to make serious, relevant points. I'm very sorry that you've taken them in a different spirit to that in which they were intended.
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"Keep seeing the why don't I get meets question
I've had 6 meets in 5 weeks, missed out on another 5 because I was working, have 1 lined up for Friday night and 1 lined up for Monday night.
I'm 45, bit bald, bit grey and bit of a middle age spread.
So why do I get meets?"
Well done mate, showing the majority of males how it's done |
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"You'll have to forgive me if I've misunderstood your kerr-azy sense of humour, OP. There are I'm afraid people whose idea of fun involves having a pop at some other group of people they feel superior to, whilst loudly insisting that they're 'only joking'...I'm relieved to hear that you're not, in fact, one of them.
To return to your original post, then: you keep seeing 'why don't I get meets' posts simply because, generally, it's tough for single guys on Fab to get meets. Yes, some do themselves no favours with their profile, messages, attitude or behaviour, but for many others this is not the case. There are always different variables at play: I suspect that if you were proclaiming an average sized penis and lived in London, you'd be doing less well. And (did I mention this before?) you've been lucky. Quite possibly very, very lucky.
Smug, self-satisfied posts (even 'tongue in cheek' ones) that insist that all that is needed is politeness, respect and a sense of humour are not helpful - because they are not true. You've been (I may have mentioned this before...) very lucky. Try and have some humility about it, rather than thinking you know it all and doing your best to demoralise other guys. Some of them may actually be even more polite, more respectful - and perhaps even funnier, hard as you might find that to believe - than you, you know.
Get off your high horse and feel free to go forth and multiply mate, your posts are far more rude and offensive than any of mine because they are directed at me personally. As the lovely lady above says can you not see your opinion is not shared by the large majority of other people.
My posts weren't intended to be rude, I'm genuinely sorry if you or anybody else feels that they were. They are personal about you only in as much as it's your comments to which I'm responding. They were intended to make serious, relevant points. I'm very sorry that you've taken them in a different spirit to that in which they were intended."
I wouldn't waste my time on him, hes obviously superior to everyone else on here |
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"It's quite possible that since the OP has been here before some - if not all - of his verifications could come from people he already knew."
The latest veri is from a couple I met on a previous profile so that is partly true, having been here before I have a good idea how to write my profile and how to write a first message. |
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"Could also be the area on where people live could there be more swingers in certain areas than others just a thought "
There isn't a huge amount round here but it's a good point, Ive been on and off here for 4 years, Ive worked at it |
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"In all honesty, I have no idea how I get meets either it's a mysterious source of nature that always has confused me"
good things happen to good people? I don't know either, just trying to have a laugh and enjoy my life |
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"In all honesty, I have no idea how I get meets either it's a mysterious source of nature that always has confused me
good things happen to good people? I don't know either, just trying to have a laugh and enjoy my life"
As a fellow balding male, I agree |
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"Keep seeing the why don't I get meets question
I've had 6 meets in 5 weeks, missed out on another 5 because I was working, have 1 lined up for Friday night and 1 lined up for Monday night.
I'm 45, bit bald, bit grey and bit of a middle age spread.
So why do I get meets?"
You have a really good profile apart from the bit about "is there Any point filling this in" well apparently there is! |
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"It's quite possible that since the OP has been here before some - if not all - of his verifications could come from people he already knew.
The latest veri is from a couple I met on a previous profile so that is partly true, having been here before I have a good idea how to write my profile and how to write a first message."
its a load of bollox really lol I get meets galore a lot more than I can handle its down to how how easy a fuck u are period |
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"Keep seeing the why don't I get meets question
I've had 6 meets in 5 weeks, missed out on another 5 because I was working, have 1 lined up for Friday night and 1 lined up for Monday night.
I'm 45, bit bald, bit grey and bit of a middle age spread.
So why do I get meets?"
You're 6' 2", white, under 50, have a big cock, straight, can accommodate, can communicate coherently with the written word...That combination is why you are so successful compared to many others. |
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