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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Not really sure what to put down on our profile.I have me down as straight.I have played a little bit with women and quite enjoyed it.My preference is for men but I don't mind a little play with women.I don't want to put bi-curious as I'm not any more but I don't want to put bi either because that might attract very bi women which I'm not really into.We need a bi friendly option to show I'm quite happy with women but not as the main course.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sexuality labels can be contensious issues, not so much for ladies, but certainly so for guys.
If you prefer or favour the opposite sex, you are straight in my eyes.
If you are 50/50 you are bi.
If you like same sex you are gay.
Loads will disagree with me but I think a guy who likes to suck another guy, but wont kiss a guy or do anal with a guy, is not bi.
It's the grey areas in life that causes the confusion or the arguments.
For example, and it might be an over simplification, but I hope you will follow my line of thought, you can't nearly be a doctor or an astronaut, you either are or you're not.
You can't nearly pass an exam, you pass or fail.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why don't you just put what you wrote here on it?"
I have wrote bi friendly in the profile but I'm thinking some people might see the straight bit and pass us by without reading it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why don't you just put what you wrote here on it?
I have wrote bi friendly in the profile but I'm thinking some people might see the straight bit and pass us by without reading it."
Lots of people will contact you without reading any of your profile...so doesn't really matter. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why don't you just put what you wrote here on it?
I have wrote bi friendly in the profile but I'm thinking some people might see the straight bit and pass us by without reading it.
Lots of people will contact you without reading any of your profile...so doesn't really matter."
Berties right they skip the written text and head for the pictures |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sexuality labels can be contensious issues, not so much for ladies, but certainly so for guys.
If you prefer or favour the opposite sex, you are straight in my eyes.
If you are 50/50 you are bi.
If you like same sex you are gay.
Loads will disagree with me but I think a guy who likes to suck another guy, but wont kiss a guy or do anal with a guy, is not bi.
It's the grey areas in life that causes the confusion or the arguments.
For example, and it might be an over simplification, but I hope you will follow my line of thought, you can't nearly be a doctor or an astronaut, you either are or you're not.
You can't nearly pass an exam, you pass or fail.
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I do agree with you and I know i'm straight but in the heat of the moment I do like a little fumble with the ladies  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Well if it was a guy saying that I'd say he was bi but as I'm not a woman I can't comment what the feel. But if you like playing with women occasionally your bi curious to me |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well if it was a guy saying that I'd say he was bi but as I'm not a woman I can't comment what the feel. But if you like playing with women occasionally your bi curious to me "
Think I had better change my profile |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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Of course people are fully entitled to sexually categorise themselves in any way they see fit..
But..
I believe people who play with the same sex more than once and class themselves as straight are.......
Delusional |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have played with women in a group setting but not 1 on 1 and do not fancy women. I do not consider my self as bi or gay, just enlightened and open minded. "
What your idea of playing is diff from others if a lady was to have oral sex with another one she's bi/bi curious |
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I don't agree that being bisexual makes you 50/50. I prefer men to women so if I had to choose, I'd choose a man, that doesn't make me straight though. I'm still bisexual cause I like having sex with women. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Hmm I did this for a male related thread recently. I think we need a bi- meter doing for the ladies by the sound of it!
1- fantasises about ladies
2 - has discussed or masturbated alone thinking about it.
3 - likes watching porn or steals partners mags
4 - has looked on Internet on how to meet women
5 - kissed another woman
6 - fondled another woman
7 - fingered / or been fingered by another woman
8 - oral between both
9 - strapon fun
10 - just going out to buy dungarees
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think you should put down bi-curious, that seems like the closest option, even if you're not really curious anymore.
With such an eclectic bunch of people on here, it's impossible for everyone to be pigeon holed into either 'straight, bi-curious, bi, or gay'. Explain it in your profile - some people really do read them. After looking at the pics of course!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not really sure what to put down on our profile.I have me down as straight.I have played a little bit with women and quite enjoyed it.My preference is for men but I don't mind a little play with women.I don't want to put bi-curious as I'm not any more but I don't want to put bi either because that might attract very bi women which I'm not really into.We need a bi friendly option to show I'm quite happy with women but not as the main course.
Christin"
i got bi curious on mine - but class myself as bi playful... read our profile and see if that kinda fits you. What it is for me is, i have played and like women, although i wouldn't date them, nor would i want to be in a relationship with one as i much prefer men. |
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