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By *igharry OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester |
hey guys, im in contact with a couple i'd really like to meet and it seems theyre interested in me too but theyre asking me to tell them about a fantasy which they can get me to be a part of.
Iv tried suggesting public teasing which they rejected and have now suggested sub/dom combined with tying and blindfolding and hopefully that'll tick their boxes but if not do you guys have suggestions?
Any couples who have done anything like this who can suggest what their favourite fantasies involved?
Unfortunately theyve not really hinted towards what their likes and dislikes are so im guessing theyre open minded and keen on hearing anything that is as wild as possible. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd be asking what interests and turns them on, without an indication as to their likes and boundaries then it's pretty much you could suggest something too take or too extreme and find yourself thinking of lots of things which end in nothing.
For a male, and even a couple, to go into such a fantasy scenario there has to be the mutual appreciation for it on both sides, not you doing something your uncomfortable with, and then either.
I would talk to them again about exactly what they are wanting and are interested in and ask for their input too.
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"hey guys, im in contact with a couple i'd really like to meet and it seems theyre interested in me too but theyre asking me to tell them about a fantasy which they can get me to be a part of.
Iv tried suggesting public teasing which they rejected and have now suggested sub/dom combined with tying and blindfolding and hopefully that'll tick their boxes but if not do you guys have suggestions?
Any couples who have done anything like this who can suggest what their favourite fantasies involved?
Unfortunately theyve not really hinted towards what their likes and dislikes are so im guessing theyre open minded and keen on hearing anything that is as wild as possible."
Before you take things further with these two can I suggest that you find out for certain that they are who they say they are and that they intend to meet you. |
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By *igharry OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester |
Thanks for the feedback guys, new to this swinging thing and havent met anyone so far so your suggestions are really helpful!
I have asked them to describe what theyre into sexually so helpfully their next message will help me more.
Can any couples describe any fantasies they have persued or that they have in mind? |
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"Thanks for the feedback guys, new to this swinging thing and havent met anyone so far so your suggestions are really helpful!
I have asked them to describe what theyre into sexually so helpfully their next message will help me more.
Can any couples describe any fantasies they have persued or that they have in mind?"
Why? They won't be their fantasies. Some people and I'm sure you aren't one of them post a thread like this just to get people to tell their fantasies, there's no need because people are happy to tell without some pretext.
Good luck hope it works out. |
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By *igharry OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester |
From out conversations it seems they dont have their own fantasies but are turned on by the thought of taking part in one.
Totally didnt know id get a reaction like that lol, my story is genuinely real but regardless does anyone have any fantasies they can share to help inspire me?
If i end up meeting this couple il personally be thanking all that helped! Haha |
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