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What stops you meeting ??
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This week I've been offered the chance to meet 2 couples, 1 local and 1 about a 2hour bus ride away. Both wanted me to drop everything and go at the drop of an hat. 1 of the couples have got a car but they wanted me to jump on a bus and go to them. I said I'd love to join them today or tomorrow, have a shave and get something together etc etc....... Their profile said they were 1670 miles away, sounded a set up to me 
I'll bareback with my partner when I'm with someone, other couples have blocked me because I won't join lots of other men and bareback her. I said I'd fuck her..... with a condom on and then shoot my load anywhere she likes. I like being STD/STI free.
Plus I like intimacy when I meet I don't like a cold fuck and go. Maybe I'm too fussy ?? |
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"This week I've been offered the chance to meet 2 couples, 1 local and 1 about a 2hour bus ride away. Both wanted me to drop everything and go at the drop of an hat. 1 of the couples have got a car but they wanted me to jump on a bus and go to them. I said I'd love to join them today or tomorrow, have a shave and get something together etc etc....... Their profile said they were 1670 miles away, sounded a set up to me
I'll bareback with my partner when I'm with someone, other couples have blocked me because I won't join lots of other men and bareback her. I said I'd fuck her..... with a condom on and then shoot my load anywhere she likes. I like being STD/STI free.
Plus I like intimacy when I meet I don't like a cold fuck and go. Maybe I'm too fussy ??"
Or don't like buses ?  |
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The buses in Turkey are amazing and cheap, they feed you and give you drinks (all in the price) and stop regular too. Free WiFi screens built into the seat in front of you with free games films and music etc 
If their profile said 25 miles away I'd have gone, but like I said I think it was a wind up. I was sat on the seafront with friends having a few cold beers and enjoying the sun 
I'd rather meet for sober fun |
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"1670 miles away that's a long bus ride  it does stop twice for a wee and refreshments break though. So not a bad journey
Not one of them mega bus deals then ? "
No they only go 1769 miles then you get on a train the other mile |
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"The only thing that seems to stop us meeting atm is the people who are interested aren't really for us. Bit of a dry spell atm. "
Glad it's not just us then seams to go a lot like that on fab but suppose everyone has there own tastes etc |
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"The only thing that seems to stop us meeting atm is the people who are interested aren't really for us. Bit of a dry spell atm.
Glad it's not just us then seams to go a lot like that on fab but suppose everyone has there own tastes etc "
Meets 9n here are like buses. There's either none or you don't know which one to jump on  |
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"The only thing that seems to stop us meeting atm is the people who are interested aren't really for us. Bit of a dry spell atm.
Glad it's not just us then seams to go a lot like that on fab but suppose everyone has there own tastes etc
Meets 9n here are like buses. There's either none or you don't know which one to jump on "
Buses seams to be order of the day on this thread :
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"The only thing that seems to stop us meeting atm is the people who are interested aren't really for us. Bit of a dry spell atm.
Glad it's not just us then seams to go a lot like that on fab but suppose everyone has there own tastes etc
Meets 9n here are like buses. There's either none or you don't know which one to jump on
Buses seams to be order of the day on this thread :
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They do. You may aswell just jump on one up to Newcastle then lol |
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"The only thing that seems to stop us meeting atm is the people who are interested aren't really for us. Bit of a dry spell atm.
Glad it's not just us then seams to go a lot like that on fab but suppose everyone has there own tastes etc
Meets 9n here are like buses. There's either none or you don't know which one to jump on
Buses seams to be order of the day on this thread :
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They do. You may aswell just jump on one up to Newcastle then lol "
For you guys we jump on a plane more play time |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
To be fair on the couple, they may not have noticed that you are currently in Turkey. Your location states Mansfield.
There are many things that stop me from meeting but at the mo its mainly that I cannot be bothered. I don't accommodate and most of the 'single' guys in York can't either. I'm not rich enough to book a hotel in York at short notice so nothing ever comes of it. |
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"1670 miles away that's a long bus ride it does stop twice for a wee and refreshments break though. So not a bad journey
Not one of them mega bus deals then ? No they only go 1769 miles then you get on a train the other mile "
This made me laugh! Being a coach driver and having to do rail replacement I know how you lot feel... if only the trains were working!!! Haha |
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What stops me meeting....
1. BB - I respect the choices people make, I hope they respect mine. No BB
2. No connection - conversation has been dull (this is often my fault, see 3.)
3. Not attracted - Sometimes even I have preferences...
4. Text speak......
5. Location - There is one part of Devon I will not go |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
"what stops me meeting..a car that costs to make it move... 
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=picfzpEC4KU"
beautiful..thank you xx and the bank will let me travel more (fingers crossed) from the autumn x |
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over a year ago
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Pain (although tonight I have explained that it is bad and my legs will not be going over my head,and he can't lean on me), my babysitting duties that change frequency and crop up unexpectedly,distance/time/location logistics. |
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When it's the chauffer's night off and it's too much effort to decide whether to take the Bentley, Porsche, Rolls Royce or Lamborghini out of the garage and then to choose which colour. Charles usually does all that, so that when James has dressed me in the clothes he has prepared, the evening can be more relaxed. |
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Me stops me meeting.
I have anxiety n often over think things so if I'm given time to over think I end up cancelling.
Spontaneous meets would work better but i dont like doing these either.  xxx |
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Me stops me meeting.
I have anxiety n often over think things so if I'm given time to over think I end up cancelling.
Spontaneous meets would work better but i dont like doing these either. xxx |
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Feeling comfortable enough with someone to want to meet them, if I can't be relaxed when messaging them I won't be relaxed enough to enjoy being with them.
Also getting fed up of feeling like I had been used, that has also stopped me from meeting. |
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for me it's a huge turn off if the person has fucked loads and loads of people off the site. yes it's a sex site but scary when u see some profiles and they have 60/70/80+ meets. I always think they can't be that good if they don't get repeat performers and since I like filthy sex I limit the amount I meet. |
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"for me it's a huge turn off if the person has fucked loads and loads of people off the site. yes it's a sex site but scary when u see some profiles and they have 60/70/80+ meets. I always think they can't be that good if they don't get repeat performers and since I like filthy sex I limit the amount I meet."
What a load of tosh !
We get repeat meets , Infact, we are constantly turning repeat meets down .
We like filthy sex too , and see no reason why the 60 plus meets would be scary .
Perhaps it's more that you feel, by meeting people with lots of meets that you wouldn't be seen as very special ?
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I like to meet older men off here, and one situation that put me off meeting a particular user who's 20 years older than me was when he started talking about school girl uniforms...  |
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"for me it's a huge turn off if the person has fucked loads and loads of people off the site. yes it's a sex site but scary when u see some profiles and they have 60/70/80+ meets. I always think they can't be that good if they don't get repeat performers and since I like filthy sex I limit the amount I meet."
you do realise verifications are an exact figure for the number of people they've shagged there are other means to get laid other than fab, there are such things as socials/clubs where you can get many verifications in one go not just from fucking people, and of course the abundance of meets they could have had that didn't verify them |
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"for me it's a huge turn off if the person has fucked loads and loads of people off the site. yes it's a sex site but scary when u see some profiles and they have 60/70/80+ meets. I always think they can't be that good if they don't get repeat performers and since I like filthy sex I limit the amount I meet."
Some people don't always verify repeat meets though, so even if you only see one veri don't assume they've only met once.
And try to not be a hypocrite by "slut shaming" when you're only here for what the rest of us are here for. |
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