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first timers with timewasters.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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hi all
was just wondering if all newbies get has many timewasters as what we have come across. we have spoke on the phone arranged to meet, then one deleted his account without saying anything to us, the other one changed the day we was meeting and didnt get back to us with a definate date. is this the norm or is this just us. x  |
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By *ohjaneCouple
over a year ago
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You might do well to lay down a little checking routine, to screen out the fakers and dreamers.
Example, ask to see face(s) on cam, Have a telephone conversation, Have first meet at a club . . .
Just suggestions, but you will soon get a gut feeling for what people are like.
Keep smiling
Jane x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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welcome kinky love juta be cautious dnt belive all they say there is genuine ones but there is load time wasters 2 ,not u happens with us all .have arranged meets bukkaak and dogging had 30 names when it cme to night 10 turned up ....think what i have found on her is lot want to be add to u friends so can perv pics but not meet .so now i only add people to friends i have met as 2 many pic collectors timewasters for my liking on here .have fun with genuine ones  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only had one let down but i have a few "friends with benifits" and havent had the time to meet all the people id like.
Its more about finding the time for me, my friends and family come first so they take up most of my spare time.
I think as you go along youll learn to pick better, probably a few markers with those people.
Hope you have lots of fun here we need more Sheffielders around lol.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We had our first timewasters a couple of weeks ago. Arranged for 2 guys to join in the fun with us and both dropped out with no explanation. It was our first experience of timewasters, but so annoying as we don't get 'playtime' very often. Guess you just have to move on, but bloody annoying!! Mind you, we went on to have huge fun together!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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hi guys
thank you for all your comments and advice, which is really helpful, we will carry on regardless lol. will defo put a post on here when our cherry has been popped. xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Never had a timewaster I feel cheated now lol"
Me neither, I'm gutted because everyone else on here gets them.
I don't ever waste time...if someone has to cancel last minute then no worries, I call a mate & head off to the pub/club/whatever! |
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By *he tactile technicianMan
over a year ago
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"hi guys
thank you for all your comments and advice, which is really helpful, we will carry on regardless lol
. will defo put a post on here when our cherry has been popped. xx "
** sits paitently awaiting next installment, tongue hanging out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We all get cancellations it's life if someone cancels I get on with it.
I think people need to choose their meets better. I've never been stood up on here or any other site. I must pick them well I suppose x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Been here a year or so, never had a timewaster*. We are pretty thorough though, in communication before a meet.
*definition being a "yes I will be there at this time, for sure" then not turning up. All else is personal choice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We all get cancellations it's life if someone cancels I get on with it.
I think people need to choose their meets better. I've never been stood up on here or any other site. I must pick them well I suppose x"
Likewise!
I've had people cancel, as you say, life happens in between meets, I've had to cancel myself.
But in three years, I've never arranged a meet, arrived and been stood up...don't think they'd dare!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we all get them so dont worry about it, i had the same guy cancel on me twice in a week no explanation or a call to say sorry .......... wont get another chance thats for sure"
Sorry but if someone cancelled on me with out explanation then he wouldn't get a 2nd chance.
You do it to yourself by letting them do it.
Sorry if that's harsh |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we all get them so dont worry about it, i had the same guy cancel on me twice in a week no explanation or a call to say sorry .......... wont get another chance thats for sure
Sorry but if someone cancelled on me with out explanation then he wouldn't get a 2nd chance.
You do it to yourself by letting them do it.
Sorry if that's harsh "
*Nods in agreement* |
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I've heard it from quite a few women on here that they've had meets fall though. Im suprised because i would have thought that the men would be more assertive about meeting up and if anything it would be the women who would get cold feet at the last minuite.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The so-called timewasters come in all forms: single, couple, ladies, gents, TV/TS etc...
People are entitled to change their mind about meeting up right at the last minute.
Something could have put them off about going through with the meet.
Some peeps have genuine reasons that prevented them from meeting etc...
It is not pleasant to feel being let down, however, move on and don't dwell on it is the best approach IMHO!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Never had a timewaster I feel cheated now lol"
We've not had a timewaster either... we must be doing something wrong like wasting our time spotting genuine people
I'm so desperate to have a timewaster on our hands so we can start our very own thread titled "Timewasters"... I feel all left out of the 'clique'.
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By *emjoCouple
over a year ago
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Live down south and you'll get as many timewasters as you can handle. Nearly all the profiles in Berkshire area are timewasters. Genuine couples just go to the two good local clubs and don't really bother with this site. |
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