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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What would you suggest if he was keen on certain couples that didn't float your boat ? ...that may be your answer  "
Seems to not happen that way around though! |
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"Hubby seems to be getting more and more fussy about meets, not sure what to do! I'm keen on certain couples and him not so much, any ideas? "
Talk to him, not us. Maybe he doesn't want to do this any more. |
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Miss is much more fussy than me, which is fine as I only want to meet people if we are both happy too. She sometimes feels she is holding me back but I dont think she is at all. I'm only happy and willing when she is. Jack. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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He's not alone my hubby has not played in over two years has no problem with me playing at all and joins in ,but we're playmates for him he's mega picky lol |
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"What would you suggest if he was keen on certain couples that didn't float your boat ? ...that may be your answer
Seems to not happen that way around though!"
but how would you feel if he wanted you to meet people you werent interested in? |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"Hubby seems to be getting more and more fussy about meets, not sure what to do! I'm keen on certain couples and him not so much, any ideas? "
There isn't anything that you can do other than respect his feelings/opinion.
Would you want to meet / have sex with people that you didnt want to, just to please him?
It's always more tricky when you're a couple finding people that you both like. We rarely agree.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im fussy who my wife plays with but then so is she.If we do not both agree then it doesn't happen. Not that it happens anyway because the younger guys always let you down. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It can be really hard as a couple to please both parties, communication is key. We've had to change the way we do things to keep us both happy and interested,it'll mean we play with fewer people but that's ok, we aren't missing anything at home so we're happy to wait.
We have the issue that we have different tastes in women generally and I like bi guys but hubby is straight so unless they make it clear they aren't into hubby anyway that's not going to happen. It just makes finding that perfect match so much sweeter when it finally happens. |
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so they get nervous and hiding 
