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A quick question for anyone who is bi.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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For the past year or so I have been VERY curious. I really want to meet a guy and "explore" (I really want to wank someone, and give oral) but I'm really finding it hard to find the right person
to do it with. I'm really nervous and shy even when sending messages on Fab.
Was anyone else like this while they was curious? X
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Try changing your preferences and filters. Sort out your profile.
Post some meet requests. Starting threads like this is probably not a bad thing.
I dunno.
I did all this before the internet, it was a while ago. I just fucked some guy in my bedroom while his girlfriend was downstairs. Never looked back 
If you're curious go do it.
If you're desparate, look on Craigslist. |
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"Would it be less shy got you to meet a couple (male bi) and all play together rather than one on one ? Easier to go with the flow then xx "
This is what I did with a regular partner and a new man who both wanted to experience another man. I was mediator,so to speak,and made sure the new man felt comfortable with us. They were both nervous and excited but it went really well. |
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"Would it be less shy got you to meet a couple (male bi) and all play together rather than one on one ? Easier to go with the flow then xx
This is what I did with a regular partner and a new man who both wanted to experience another man. I was mediator,so to speak,and made sure the new man felt comfortable with us. They were both nervous and excited but it went really well. "
That's a great way to get both guys through their nerves and help ensure no "stage fright" |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For the past year or so I have been VERY curious. I really want to meet a guy and "explore" (I really want to wank someone, and give oral) but I'm really finding it hard to find the right person
to do it with. I'm really nervous and shy even when sending messages on Fab.
Was anyone else like this while they was curious? X
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Having straight on your profile does not help |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"For the past year or so I have been VERY curious. I really want to meet a guy and "explore" (I really want to wank someone, and give oral) but I'm really finding it hard to find the right person
to do it with. I'm really nervous and shy even when sending messages on Fab.
Was anyone else like this while they was curious? X
Having straight on your profile does not help"
Having "straight" doesn't do anything to my profile. I get plenty of messages of guys regardless. The reason it's set to straight is becuase a couple of my friends are on here and I'm not too sure that I want people to know yet.
Thank you guys. I am trying to find a couple as that does seem to be lot better with the female there as well
Thank you x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Ahhhh yes the my friends are on here ploy
Head to a club bi night, plenty of them about."
Haha, I'm actually serious. I'll just block them them and change it.
Thanks but I don't think clubs are my thing . |
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"For the past year or so I have been VERY curious. I really want to meet a guy and "explore" (I really want to wank someone, and give oral) but I'm really finding it hard to find the right person
to do it with. I'm really nervous and shy even when sending messages on Fab.
Was anyone else like this while they was curious? X
Having straight on your profile does not help
Having "straight" doesn't do anything to my profile. I get plenty of messages of guys regardless. The reason it's set to straight is becuase a couple of my friends are on here and I'm not too sure that I want people to know yet.
Thank you guys. I am trying to find a couple as that does seem to be lot better with the female there as well
Thank you x"
We live near you we can arrange a social and go from there . He is only orally bi so I could teach you how to suck a cock if you like  depending of course your our type  |
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The first thing I would recommend is to change your profile from straight to curious. At least that way if someone was to search for a curious guy then your name will come up.
Secondly I'd like to reiterate the advice given by a previous poster, to look to meet with a couple. It would be far more relaxing for you, and if your not sure then you focus on the woman instead. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The first thing I would recommend is to change your profile from straight to curious. At least that way if someone was to search for a curious guy then your name will come up.
Secondly I'd like to reiterate the advice given by a previous poster, to look to meet with a couple. It would be far more relaxing for you, and if your not sure then you focus on the woman instead."
Yes that's what I'm doing thankyou and also changing my setting to "curious " as well.
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