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"I've done almost 4 without it and I was married at the time  "
It must be more common than I thought! I also spent nearly 4 years without it, considering my high sex drive, I do wonder how I managed for so long!!!
The media portrays it as always being the man who's up for it and the lady who just wants to go to sleep/has a headache etc. I feel that's a very unfair representation. Some of us are nearly always up for it.   |
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"I've done almost 4 without it and I was married at the time
It must be more common than I thought! I also spent nearly 4 years without it, considering my high sex drive, I do wonder how I managed for so long!!!
The media portrays it as always being the man who's up for it and the lady who just wants to go to sleep/has a headache etc. I feel that's a very unfair representation. Some of us are nearly always up for it. "
That was always me I tried all sorts to get him interested but he said it wasn't me just his depression. His depression turned out to be a woman called Clare |
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In the past there's been many times I've gone years between having sex. That's just the way life goes I guess. You just get used to it. Not ideal and certainly not what I wanted. I'm hoping to make up for it now though  |
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"I've done almost 4 without it and I was married at the time
It must be more common than I thought! I also spent nearly 4 years without it, considering my high sex drive, I do wonder how I managed for so long!!!
The media portrays it as always being the man who's up for it and the lady who just wants to go to sleep/has a headache etc. I feel that's a very unfair representation. Some of us are nearly always up for it.
That was always me I tried all sorts to get him interested but he said it wasn't me just his depression. His depression turned out to be a woman called Clare "
 that sucks. Yours definitely better off without someone like that.
My ex just genuinely wasn't that interested, we've been apart for a few years now and he's not been in another relationship so I presume he's still not that interested. |
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"I've done almost 4 without it and I was married at the time
It must be more common than I thought! I also spent nearly 4 years without it, considering my high sex drive, I do wonder how I managed for so long!!!
The media portrays it as always being the man who's up for it and the lady who just wants to go to sleep/has a headache etc. I feel that's a very unfair representation. Some of us are nearly always up for it.
That was always me I tried all sorts to get him interested but he said it wasn't me just his depression. His depression turned out to be a woman called Clare
that sucks. Yours definitely better off without someone like that.
My ex just genuinely wasn't that interested, we've been apart for a few years now and he's not been in another relationship so I presume he's still not that interested."
It's how it goes for some people, I've made up for my period of abstinence since joining fab, makes me wish I'd done it sooner but at least my loyal wife halo is still in tact |
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"I've done almost 4 without it and I was married at the time
It must be more common than I thought! I also spent nearly 4 years without it, considering my high sex drive, I do wonder how I managed for so long!!!
The media portrays it as always being the man who's up for it and the lady who just wants to go to sleep/has a headache etc. I feel that's a very unfair representation. Some of us are nearly always up for it.
That was always me I tried all sorts to get him interested but he said it wasn't me just his depression. His depression turned out to be a woman called Clare
that sucks. Yours definitely better off without someone like that.
My ex just genuinely wasn't that interested, we've been apart for a few years now and he's not been in another relationship so I presume he's still not that interested.
It's how it goes for some people, I've made up for my period of abstinence since joining fab, makes me wish I'd done it sooner but at least my loyal wife halo is still in tact "
You can definitely take the moral high ground and look down from your well earned pedestal whilst enjoying all the delights of fab . There were other factors in our separation but the lack of sex was a large part of it, could I imagine that being the rest of my life? Put simply, No.
Thankfully I've met someone who gives my sex drive a run for it's money and together we've discovered the clubs and fab, though I've a sneaking suspicion I would've found my way here by now had I stayed single. |
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Wow!! I don't think I've ever gone more than a month since I was 15. I discovered swinging at 19 so between relationships would play/meet online etc. I genuinely cannot imagine ever not having sex for long periods of time.... |
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"I've done almost 4 without it and I was married at the time
It must be more common than I thought! I also spent nearly 4 years without it, considering my high sex drive, I do wonder how I managed for so long!!!
God for you I left a ltr because lack.pf sex
The media portrays it as always being the man who's up for it and the lady who just wants to go to sleep/has a headache etc. I feel that's a very unfair representation. Some of us are nearly always up for it.
That was always me I tried all sorts to get him interested but he said it wasn't me just his depression. His depression turned out to be a woman called Clare
that sucks. Yours definitely better off without someone like that.
My ex just genuinely wasn't that interested, we've been apart for a few years now and he's not been in another relationship so I presume he's still not that interested.
It's how it goes for some people, I've made up for my period of abstinence since joining fab, makes me wish I'd done it sooner but at least my loyal wife halo is still in tact
You can definitely take the moral high ground and look down from your well earned pedestal whilst enjoying all the delights of fab. There were other factors in our separation but the lack of sex was a large part of it, could I imagine that being the rest of my life? Put simply, No.
Thankfully I've met someone who gives my sex drive a run for it's money and together we've discovered the clubs and fab, though I've a sneaking suspicion I would've found my way here by now had I stayed single. "
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