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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can understand this happening with a person that you know and have grown to like, but not find sexually attractive.
But with a total stranger that you have absolutely no connection with, physically or personality wise, not for many I would have thought  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have just been told that I am not a "True Swinger" as I need to fancy someone to have fun and can not jump into bed with just anyone"
Oh crap! I'll never ever be a "true swinger" in that case 
Were you told this by someone you had said 'no' to by any chance???  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was arranging to meet a guy ive been chatting to and i said, i meet socially first, see if there is a mutual attraction. He said that he didnt appreciate spending petrol on a 100 mile round trip if he wasnt going to get anything and his idea of real swinging is about a bit of attraction an initial chat and then get the clothes of and play, either its okay, indifferent or really good, so long as it ends in sex, he didnt care, just wasnt paying out that kind of money for nothing. He then went onto to imply that his verifications meant he was good in bed, i hate arrogance and told him so
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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago
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"I was arranging to meet a guy ive been chatting to and i said, i meet socially first, see if there is a mutual attraction. He said that he didnt appreciate spending petrol on a 100 mile round trip if he wasnt going to get anything and his idea of real swinging is about a bit of attraction an initial chat and then get the clothes of and play, either its okay, indifferent or really good, so long as it ends in sex, he didnt care, just wasnt paying out that kind of money for nothing. He then went onto to imply that his verifications meant he was good in bed, i hate arrogance and told him so
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Good for you! I prefer to meet socially first too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep whoever told ya that is right
After all swinging is about getting ya end away with as many people as ya can
Its simply walking up ta someone and fucking the ass of them
When will people learn the swingers have no morals or standards and are just simply cocks or cum buckets?
Im amazed at the amount of swingers that actually have ta fancy someone ta shag em
Its just not in the spirit of the game at all
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And if ya believe that then ya as stupid as the person that thinks like that
FFS what the hell do some folks think we are?????
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep whoever told ya that is right
After all swinging is about getting ya end away with as many people as ya can
Its simply walking up ta someone and fucking the ass of them
When will people learn the swingers have no morals or standards and are just simply cocks or cum buckets?
Im amazed at the amount of swingers that actually have ta fancy someone ta shag em
Its just not in the spirit of the game at all
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And if ya believe that then ya as stupid as the person that thinks like that
FFS what the hell do some folks think we are?????
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Cocks and cum buckets! 
Serously, I can't imagine anyone just dropping them or rising to the occasion just because. Who would want to play with someone who'd shag anything?!! |
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"I was arranging to meet a guy ive been chatting to and i said, i meet socially first, see if there is a mutual attraction. He said that he didnt appreciate spending petrol on a 100 mile round trip if he wasnt going to get anything and his idea of real swinging is about a bit of attraction an initial chat and then get the clothes of and play, either its okay, indifferent or really good, so long as it ends in sex, he didnt care, just wasnt paying out that kind of money for nothing. He then went onto to imply that his verifications meant he was good in bed, i hate arrogance and told him so
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whilst i am not saying you had to do anything with him etc but i cn see his point of not wanting to travel all that way for a coffee, maybe if you offered to meet him halfway for the initial social meet so as not to make it seem a onesided commitment??
but then if he doesnt want to spend money on petrol maybe he should look closer to home lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"...He said that he didnt appreciate spending petrol on a 100 mile round trip if he wasnt going to get anything ..."
I insist on a social-only meet first, and this man's attitude is exactly why I only meet local men. I can't even begin to count the number of men who have offered to travel 200 miles or more just for 'coffee' with me - yeah right! Why would I meet someone who is so unpopular that he has to travel 200 miles for a social-only meet, and who is then 90% likely to get pushy for sex 'because he's travelled so far'! Get real! I am not that attractive, they're just desperate! |
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"...He said that he didnt appreciate spending petrol on a 100 mile round trip if he wasnt going to get anything ...
I insist on a social-only meet first, and this man's attitude is exactly why I only meet local men. I can't even begin to count the number of men who have offered to travel 200 miles or more just for 'coffee' with me - yeah right! Why would I meet someone who is so unpopular that he has to travel 200 miles for a social-only meet, and who is then 90% likely to get pushy for sex 'because he's travelled so far'! Get real! I am not that attractive, they're just desperate!"
whydoes he have to be 'unpopular' to travel?? maybe he really likes the person he wants to meet and is willing to travel?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"...He said that he didnt appreciate spending petrol on a 100 mile round trip if he wasnt going to get anything ...
I insist on a social-only meet first, and this man's attitude is exactly why I only meet local men. I can't even begin to count the number of men who have offered to travel 200 miles or more just for 'coffee' with me - yeah right! Why would I meet someone who is so unpopular that he has to travel 200 miles for a social-only meet, and who is then 90% likely to get pushy for sex 'because he's travelled so far'! Get real! I am not that attractive, they're just desperate!"
*Nods in agreement*...apart from the "I'm not that attractive" bit...I'm stunning! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was arranging to meet a guy ive been chatting to and i said, i meet socially first, see if there is a mutual attraction. He said that he didnt appreciate spending petrol on a 100 mile round trip if he wasnt going to get anything and his idea of real swinging is about a bit of attraction an initial chat and then get the clothes of and play, either its okay, indifferent or really good, so long as it ends in sex, he didnt care, just wasnt paying out that kind of money for nothing. He then went onto to imply that his verifications meant he was good in bed, i hate arrogance and told him so
whilst i am not saying you had to do anything with him etc but i cn see his point of not wanting to travel all that way for a coffee, maybe if you offered to meet him halfway for the initial social meet so as not to make it seem a onesided commitment??
but then if he doesnt want to spend money on petrol maybe he should look closer to home lol"
We were arranging to meet halfway and to be honest, ive tried to avoid meeting as we are some distance and wasnt sure if i could afford it but thought to hell with it.
And yes, maybe he should afterall it does say my thoughts on long distance meets on my profile so his choice to be honest |
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"...He said that he didnt appreciate spending petrol on a 100 mile round trip if he wasnt going to get anything ...
I insist on a social-only meet first, and this man's attitude is exactly why I only meet local men. I can't even begin to count the number of men who have offered to travel 200 miles or more just for 'coffee' with me - yeah right! Why would I meet someone who is so unpopular that he has to travel 200 miles for a social-only meet, and who is then 90% likely to get pushy for sex 'because he's travelled so far'! Get real! I am not that attractive, they're just desperate!"
My thoughts exactly hence i wont meet someone from the other side of the country |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sounds like a lucky escape to me Grey Kitten "
Most definitely as if there had been no mutual attraction, as i told him he would still have paid the petrol but i guess he thought i would swoon at the sight of him or his cock  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Were you told this by someone you had said 'no' to by any chance??? "
I had been chatting on and off with this guy for year and he knew from the beginning that I would never meet him, as he has had a meet with a friend of mine and he wasn't my type but now I am no longer talking to that friend, he thought that changed things, when I reminded him that I didn't fancy him, he came out with that, I said to him that the subject of having to have some attraction to a playmate had often come up in the forums and not once had I ever seen someone post that they would sleep with someone they did not find attractive, so he must be in a very small majority, he still would not accept this fact lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have just been told that I am not a "True Swinger" as I need to fancy someone to have fun and can not jump into bed with just anyone"
i could NEVER meet someone i didnt fancy ! why should you just meet for the sake of it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've never understood this 'we fuck anyone thing/approach'???
Surely in order to enjoy sex there HAS to be an attraction on both sides??
each to their own fair enough but we certainly dont meet anyone we're not attracted to - whats the point?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We fuck any arse.com
We fuck any arse.com
Any shape
Any model
Any colour
Any size
We fuck any arse.com
Sound familiar lol??????"
Apart from non-white arse .com  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have just been told that I am not a "True Swinger" as I need to fancy someone to have fun and can not jump into bed with just anyone"
blood ell, that you beggard then - bloody mods overstepping the mark a bit there? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We've never understood this 'we fuck anyone thing/approach'???
Surely in order to enjoy sex there HAS to be an attraction on both sides??
each to their own fair enough but we certainly dont meet anyone we're not attracted to - whats the point?! "
For some guys it's a purely physical business centred around emptying their scrotum. |
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"We've never understood this 'we fuck anyone thing/approach'???
Surely in order to enjoy sex there HAS to be an attraction on both sides??
each to their own fair enough but we certainly dont meet anyone we're not attracted to - whats the point?!
For some guys it's a purely physical business centred around emptying their scrotum."
Ahem,for some women its about getting the orgasm...lets not be sexist. |
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