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Just curious.... Have any of you met someone off fab, and become more than friends with benefits? Or even met on here and become a couple who then swing together? |
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Yeah had a few long relationships with some met on here, out together etc etc etc and swinging clubs together but when got too serious was time to cut it as they didn't want me or either to swing no more and become vanilla |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just curious.... Have any of you met someone off fab, and become more than friends with benefits? Or even met on here and become a couple who then swing together? "
Yes. Several times, both from 121 meets and also from MMF meets. As you can imagine, the relationships have been very intense and very close. I'm polyamorous and I tend to meet and build strong relationships with others who are polyamorous. Mike. |
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I met my (now) husband on another swinging site.
Neither of us were looking for love but it hit us both hard and here we are 9 years later happily married  and still swinging |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I met my (now) husband on another swinging site.
Neither of us were looking for love but it hit us both hard and here we are 9 years later happily married and still swinging "
Aww that's so lovely  |
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Want this myself. Such admiration for swinging couples.
Amazing how many people (usually single guys) say once they meet 'the one' they'll give up swinging and wouldn't continue in the lifestyle or want her to  |
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"Want this myself. Such admiration for swinging couples.
Amazing how many people (usually single guys) say once they meet 'the one' they'll give up swinging and wouldn't continue in the lifestyle or want her to "
We're surprised by this as well, when single they're happy for others to share with them, but wouldn't share themselves when in a couple. Attitudes like that put us off a bit (not a deal breaker thoygh) , as I'd see them as less likely to understand why we play and what we want. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Want this myself. Such admiration for swinging couples.
Amazing how many people (usually single guys) say once they meet 'the one' they'll give up swinging and wouldn't continue in the lifestyle or want her to
We're surprised by this as well, when single they're happy for others to share with them, but wouldn't share themselves when in a couple. Attitudes like that put us off a bit (not a deal breaker thoygh) , as I'd see them as less likely to understand why we play and what we want. "
I think swinging is in the blood. It's a way of life. For those who would leave if they found 'the one'... Not genuine swingers perhaps? I'm not sure how other perceive it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have three friends who started out as single & in the past year have met their OHs on here, one couple have even moved in together now. One couple uses the forums but don't meet others, and the other two are still on here & swing as couples. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Met on POF. Still new (3 1/2 months) but hopeful and on here as I (Rich) been here for years as single, with Mrs, then single after split. Deleted account, rejoined here and as was having little luck joined POF. Wouldn't have met her otherwise and never met anyone in all my years that I'm so in tune with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have three friends who started out as single & in the past year have met their OHs on here, one couple have even moved in together now. One couple uses the forums but don't meet others, and the other two are still on here & swing as couples."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have three friends who started out as single & in the past year have met their OHs on here, one couple have even moved in together now. One couple uses the forums but don't meet others, and the other two are still on here & swing as couples.
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Stalker  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have three friends who started out as single & in the past year have met their OHs on here, one couple have even moved in together now. One couple uses the forums but don't meet others, and the other two are still on here & swing as couples.
Stalker "
Hey you're the one always messaging me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have three friends who started out as single & in the past year have met their OHs on here, one couple have even moved in together now. One couple uses the forums but don't meet others, and the other two are still on here & swing as couples.
Stalker
Hey you're the one always messaging me "
Soz, my secret burning love for you is just too hard to bear sometimes 
*throws cupcakes and runs* |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have three friends who started out as single & in the past year have met their OHs on here, one couple have even moved in together now. One couple uses the forums but don't meet others, and the other two are still on here & swing as couples.
Stalker
Hey you're the one always messaging me
Soz, my secret burning love for you is just too hard to bear sometimes
*throws cupcakes and runs*"
oh cake!
*eats the cupcake* |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have three friends who started out as single & in the past year have met their OHs on here, one couple have even moved in together now. One couple uses the forums but don't meet others, and the other two are still on here & swing as couples.
Stalker
Hey you're the one always messaging me
Soz, my secret burning love for you is just too hard to bear sometimes
*throws cupcakes and runs*
oh cake!
*eats the cupcake*"
Mwuhahaha! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just curious.... Have any of you met someone off fab, and become more than friends with benefits? Or even met on here and become a couple who then swing together? "
we met on fab and getting married next yr xx
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just curious.... Have any of you met someone off fab, and become more than friends with benefits? Or even met on here and become a couple who then swing together? we met on fab and getting married next yr xx "
Are we all invited? Free bar?
Congrats. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Back to the OPs point, we met on here 8 months ago, got together & are now a couple. We still use the site together, go to clubs & have meets. We might decide to hang up our boots, we might not. But for now we're enjoying it & also enjoying being together.
Mr J |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Back to the OPs point, we met on here 8 months ago, got together & are now a couple. We still use the site together, go to clubs & have meets. We might decide to hang up our boots, we might not. But for now we're enjoying it & also enjoying being together.
Mr J"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Back to the OPs point, we met on here 8 months ago, got together & are now a couple. We still use the site together, go to clubs & have meets. We might decide to hang up our boots, we might not. But for now we're enjoying it & also enjoying being together.
Mr J
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Met on POF. Still new (3 1/2 months) but hopeful and on here as I (Rich) been here for years as single, with Mrs, then single after split. Deleted account, rejoined here and as was having little luck joined POF. Wouldn't have met her otherwise and never met anyone in all my years that I'm so in tune with. "
Sounds intriguing, most give this POF a go then!
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By (user no longer on site)
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And this is EXACTLY what if searching for - someone who wants to swing now and carry on as a proper couple.
It's the intensity that grows with the depth of the relationship. I wouldn't want my OH to stop, as it's what I really want us both to enjoy.
Difficult to find a single fem, though. Personality and chemistry don't come through in a photo or text off a screen.
I'll never stop searching though... |
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