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Cpls and a lack of synergy
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm really starting to think of blocking cpls from contacting me.
A few weeks ago I was abused by a husband because I was working away and couldn't come and fuck his wife, today I've been blocked by a wife for asking why her husband removed me from their friends list.
my time on here isn't worth putting up with cpls who don't seem to work together, both times I've had the wife saying one thing and being great and the other half being aggressive and nasty or seemingly jealous!
Frankly I'm sick of it and starting to think every cpls the same. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No need for being abusive but it's very much personal choice if people add or remove others from friends list"
It is yes, but when one half is inviting and the other deleting it becomes very annoying! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So your annoyed? If both halves don't want you its not going to happen simple as that. They are cpls and cpls don't always agree so whats point getting arsey about it, just move on and find one where they both do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's not them it's you? 
Ha ha, I'm starting to think it is."
I wouldn't worry about it, we've had plenty of occasions mid foursome where things have happened and things have come to a grinding halt and we've bailed out sharpish.
Coming from our own experiences it's been the couples a bit older than us. 30s. That have had issues.
Maybe it's not them, it's us  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So your annoyed? If both halves don't want you its not going to happen simple as that. They are cpls and cpls don't always agree so whats point getting arsey about it, just move on and find one where they both do. "
Point missed.
I have male and female halves say they'll run it past their partners and some say no or don't get back in touch, that's fine, disappointing, but I don't get pissy about it.
When cpls are clearly not singing from the same hymn sheet it's annoying! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It's not them it's you?
Ha ha, I'm starting to think it is.
I wouldn't worry about it, we've had plenty of occasions mid foursome where things have happened and things have come to a grinding halt and we've bailed out sharpish.
Coming from our own experiences it's been the couples a bit older than us. 30s. That have had issues.
Maybe it's not them, it's us "
That must be awkward, cringe worthy even, bet you laugh on the way home though! |
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"I'm really starting to think of blocking cpls from contacting me.
A few weeks ago I was abused by a husband because I was working away and couldn't come and fuck his wife, today I've been blocked by a wife for asking why her husband removed me from their friends list.
my time on here isn't worth putting up with cpls who don't seem to work together, both times I've had the wife saying one thing and being great and the other half being aggressive and nasty or seemingly jealous!
Frankly I'm sick of it and starting to think every cpls the same."
These things happen all the time. Just put it behind you and get on with your life |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So your annoyed? If both halves don't want you its not going to happen simple as that. They are cpls and cpls don't always agree so whats point getting arsey about it, just move on and find one where they both do.
Point missed.
I have male and female halves say they'll run it past their partners and some say no or don't get back in touch, that's fine, disappointing, but I don't get pissy about it.
When cpls are clearly not singing from the same hymn sheet it's annoying!"
maybe one is chatting and the other hasnt seen - then does so and doesnt like and blocks deletes or whatever - if its happening a lot id say it was yourself that needs to address how youre messaging - if its just one or two not worth getting het up over |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So your annoyed? If both halves don't want you its not going to happen simple as that. They are cpls and cpls don't always agree so whats point getting arsey about it, just move on and find one where they both do.
Point missed.
I have male and female halves say they'll run it past their partners and some say no or don't get back in touch, that's fine, disappointing, but I don't get pissy about it.
When cpls are clearly not singing from the same hymn sheet it's annoying!
maybe one is chatting and the other hasnt seen - then does so and doesnt like and blocks deletes or whatever - if its happening a lot id say it was yourself that needs to address how youre messaging - if its just one or two not worth getting het up over "
It's only been the 2 so I'm thinking it's them, I'll stop getting lead into convos by the lady until their husbands have ok'd it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So your annoyed? If both halves don't want you its not going to happen simple as that. They are cpls and cpls don't always agree so whats point getting arsey about it, just move on and find one where they both do.
Point missed.
I have male and female halves say they'll run it past their partners and some say no or don't get back in touch, that's fine, disappointing, but I don't get pissy about it.
When cpls are clearly not singing from the same hymn sheet it's annoying!
maybe one is chatting and the other hasnt seen - then does so and doesnt like and blocks deletes or whatever - if its happening a lot id say it was yourself that needs to address how youre messaging - if its just one or two not worth getting het up over
It's only been the 2 so I'm thinking it's them, I'll stop getting lead into convos by the lady until their husbands have ok'd it. "
better attitude if i may so  |
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Hi mate.
I think sometimes with couples they're not a married couple. So there is going to be miscommunication. The other reason, could be, that the other half is only into this life halfhearted or is unaware of the other halts intentions. Just move on my friend. Don't get on here making a fuss. You'll just make other couples wary of you. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So your annoyed? If both halves don't want you its not going to happen simple as that. They are cpls and cpls don't always agree so whats point getting arsey about it, just move on and find one where they both do.
Point missed.
I have male and female halves say they'll run it past their partners and some say no or don't get back in touch, that's fine, disappointing, but I don't get pissy about it.
When cpls are clearly not singing from the same hymn sheet it's annoying!
maybe one is chatting and the other hasnt seen - then does so and doesnt like and blocks deletes or whatever - if its happening a lot id say it was yourself that needs to address how youre messaging - if its just one or two not worth getting het up over
It's only been the 2 so I'm thinking it's them, I'll stop getting lead into convos by the lady until their husbands have ok'd it.
better attitude if i may so "
Thanks, I was thinking, is it me that's so good looking that 1 husband really wanted me to have his wife and the other felt threatened, then I looked in the mirror and laughed!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Hi mate.
I think sometimes with couples they're not a married couple. So there is going to be miscommunication. The other reason, could be, that the other half is only into this life halfhearted or is unaware of the other halts intentions. Just move on my friend. Don't get on here making a fuss. You'll just make other couples wary of you. "
Cheers, not my intention at all, quite the opposite in fact. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"And the couples are cicling the wagons i see  "
They've no need, I'm sure 90% are genuine and lovely, much like us men, it's just a few that can give both a bad name, I'm sure many cpls have experienced the same. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm really starting to think of blocking cpls from contacting me.
A few weeks ago I was abused by a husband because I was working away and couldn't come and fuck his wife, today I've been blocked by a wife for asking why her husband removed me from their friends list.
my time on here isn't worth putting up with cpls who don't seem to work together, both times I've had the wife saying one thing and being great and the other half being aggressive and nasty or seemingly jealous!
Frankly I'm sick of it and starting to think every cpls the same."
It's your perogative to block any group you like .
However , the single guy and coupke dynamic is a good meet when it works .
Maybe gain a bit more understanding of it before giving up on what may end up being fun ?
We've met hundreds of single guys , all of whom have had a great time . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm really starting to think of blocking cpls from contacting me.
A few weeks ago I was abused by a husband because I was working away and couldn't come and fuck his wife, today I've been blocked by a wife for asking why her husband removed me from their friends list.
my time on here isn't worth putting up with cpls who don't seem to work together, both times I've had the wife saying one thing and being great and the other half being aggressive and nasty or seemingly jealous!
Frankly I'm sick of it and starting to think every cpls the same.
It's your perogative to block any group you like .
However , the single guy and coupke dynamic is a good meet when it works .
Maybe gain a bit more understanding of it before giving up on what may end up being fun ?
We've met hundreds of single guys , all of whom have had a great time ."
That's all I want, needn't be hard to sort out imo, sure I'll come across some easier situations in time.
Thanks. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well we meet guys for Mrs playtime like extra pleasure but check out 15 no shows out of 16 meets not bad average at all should we block all single guys and throw our rattle out the Pram no just carry on and get on with it in our book there loss lol |
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