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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we usually reply but we are not really looking for single guys (not in our profile)
many guys do not even try to sell themselves or enclose a facial photo so they are not likely to succeed if a couple are really looking for singles |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"Ok that was quick!!
The follow on to that is...
How do i approach the couple?
I am genuine, I am not a time waster. I am not a freak!! At least i hope not haha!"
check to see if they are seeking single guys, craft a message to them that matches what THEY are looking for ( providing you match their criteria ).
Sell yourself and what your unique selling point is..
send message and leave it there.
if they reply....... great.
if they don't ... move on.
pushy is never good.
good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Advice more than anything i rekon!!"
I like your profile maybe a few more pics but your profile comes across as friendly I like that!
But one point it says your looking for tv/cd you may have ticked that by mistake x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We play with singles, but on our terms. We will do the prospecting as and when we want to meet.
Too many guys can't take the "no thanks" reply, even the ones who ask you to reply that way rather than to ignore them.
That's why the blocks on  |
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Single guys are there own worst enemies in the main.
From experience they have fun but do not have the courtesy to drop a line saying thanks or reciprocate on a verification. This then has made us bitter towards single guys and treat them all the same - on our terms. They need to be less selfish and look at the woman's needs and not just the fact they want a shag and orgasm and stuff everyone else's needs. |
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By *-and-KCouple
over a year ago
Back of Beyond |
Met a wonderful single bloke at the weekend. Did karen proud, he could cum and then withing 5 minutes was hard enough to go again, a real duracell bunny of a man  He was still getting hard ons after 5 cums and Karen having to call it a night because she began to get sore!
If single guys contact us we always reply, it might not be what they want to hear but we always reply. |
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By *r-MissCouple
over a year ago
Derbyshire |
There are couples out there who do look for single guys (like us), however a lot of single guys seem to send silly or pointless messages.
We do tend to reply to most messages from single guys, but the messages that impress us are from single guys who have read our profile and do understand what we are looking for. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are couples out there who do look for single guys (like us), however a lot of single guys seem to send silly or pointless messages.
We do tend to reply to most messages from single guys, but the messages that impress us are from single guys who have read our profile and do understand what we are looking for."
EXACTLY!! We are only looking to meet single guys, but SO SO many of them quite obviously have not read our profile! it doesn't make you want to reply to them. We don't block them immediately, but if its obvious that they have just sent a 'copy and paste' message without even reading what we have written, then sometimes we don't reply.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do couples on here actually meet single guys?
I have noticed that most (not all) rarely reply to messages or just block guys altogether!!!
Just a question!!"
don't worry hun, it;s not just the couples that ignore the majority of single men on here.
it's an equal opportunities site, we all get a chance to ignore them at will  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have met several absolutely lovely, sexy couples recently, and there are a couple of couples I have yet to meet but I have really enjoyed "talking" to. I try and make a point of addressing my messages to both partners, the equivalent of not talking to the woman's breasts as you chat over a drink.
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By *rT30 OP Man
over a year ago
Munster |
Hi again xx
I am the OP i just wanted to say thanks for all the replys. I genuinely did not expect it.
I will take all the advice on board. Especially the pushy part and also reading the profiles.
There is hope for me yet lmao!!
Thanks again
xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do couples on here actually meet single guys?
I have noticed that most (not all) rarely reply to messages or just block guys altogether!!!
Just a question!!"
im not a couple or a single male so i have no idea lol
im sure some must tho |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We play with singles, but on our terms. We will do the prospecting as and when we want to meet.
Too many guys can't take the "no thanks" reply, even the ones who ask you to reply that way rather than to ignore them.
That's why the blocks on "
If we are going to Chams we sometimes arrange to meet there. We would have a look at guy profiles local to the club, and after a few messages and pic exchanges, which we instigate, we will make our decision whether or not to take it further.
If we are looking to play local to where we live, we follow the same procedure.
However, even after following our "carefull" selection process, the last 5 guys, yes 5, have either cancelled at last minute or not shown.
Two of the guys who cancelled might get another chance, but the other three can go and "swivel on this" (pointy finger icon) 
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"Do couples on here actually meet single guys?
I have noticed that most (not all) rarely reply to messages or just block guys altogether!!!
Just a question!!"
Yes.
Half my meets to date have been couples. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, we meet single guys, however, there are many on here (and couples aren't exempt from this either) that do not read our profile properly, and just send friends invites without having the decency to send a message first. We clearly state that if this happens, they will be deleted, yet they (and couples} still do it!
It doesn't do you any favours, manners don't cost anything (yet} so all it takes is a few carefully written lines to avoid deletion, it doesn't guarantee you a meet, but its a start.....hope that helps a little?
T&A x |
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most appreciate the reply. 