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What are most women's opinions on younger men like myself? I've had a few encounters with couples and single women but it's slowly becoming very difficult. Now I'm not sure if this is because of my age or my profile isn't to good? Just wouldn't mind some opinions every message I send includes a face and body picture. My profile gets seen then no reply.  |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"We have a 30 age limit but only because all our children are under 30 so would find it weird playing with people younger than them  "
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my son and daughter are your age.. xx |
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over a year ago
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It depends on the person tbh. We played at a party with a couple who were 25 - male 22 fem. It was great fun. Nothing wrong with the younger swingers so long as they have maturity and respect. |
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I like younger men in general 
But yea, they must be mature and able to hold down a conversation, same as anyone I meet.
I've not met anyone younger than my kids (though I've come close), but to be fair, they are still just into adulthood. I'll cross that line (or not) when it becomes an issue. |
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"We have a 30 age limit but only because all our children are under 30 so would find it weird playing with people younger than them "
Yeah I understand that but you have a set age limit I don't tend to message people if they have one. Sometimes because I can't lol, and because I respect people's preferences |
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"I like younger men in general
But yea, they must be mature and able to hold down a conversation, same as anyone I meet.
I've not met anyone younger than my kids (though I've come close), but to be fair, they are still just into adulthood. I'll cross that line (or not) when it becomes an issue."
The things is I like to see myself as quite mature and interesting I suppose, I like meeting for socials just to get to know people but most of the time I won't even get a reply.
I know people can't reply no to everybody but I've never had a reply saying why, is my profile boring does something put them off? Just wanted people's opinions |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
"What are most women's opinions on younger men like myself? I've had a few encounters with couples and single women but it's slowly becoming very difficult. Now I'm not sure if this is because of my age or my profile isn't to good? Just wouldn't mind some opinions every message I send includes a face and body picture. My profile gets seen then no reply. "
You can't change your age, Time will do that all by itself.. (wait until you're 51 like me)
If your approach ain't working change that... That you can change  |
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over a year ago
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"Your public pics would put me off.
They show more of a woman in them than of you  "
Agreed! Whether or not those women have even agreed to having their photos shared on here... |
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"Your public pics would put me off.
They show more of a woman in them than of you "
I have tattoos and friends on this website, I don't want to be recognised so that's why my body and face pictures are friends only and private I do send a face and body picture with messages. They are decent photos to not me standing with my cock out saying it's a face picture lol  |
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"What are most women's opinions on younger men like myself? I've had a few encounters with couples and single women but it's slowly becoming very difficult. Now I'm not sure if this is because of my age or my profile isn't to good? Just wouldn't mind some opinions every message I send includes a face and body picture. My profile gets seen then no reply. "
I suspect the bit in your profile where you say that you aren't picky puts more people off than your age does |
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"Your public pics would put me off.
They show more of a woman in them than of you
Agreed! Whether or not those women have even agreed to having their photos shared on here... "
I'm a respectable person, the women in the photos are all on fabswingers and have agreed to me sharing the photos. So you're saying more photos of just myself would help the situation? |
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"What are most women's opinions on younger men like myself? I've had a few encounters with couples and single women but it's slowly becoming very difficult. Now I'm not sure if this is because of my age or my profile isn't to good? Just wouldn't mind some opinions every message I send includes a face and body picture. My profile gets seen then no reply.
I suspect the bit in your profile where you say that you aren't picky puts more people off than your age does"
Yeah just sort of looked back over it, does seem abit iffy. It was more for the point as in I'm not judgmental big/small young/older I'm happy to speak to anyone in that sense? |
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"Your public pics would put me off.
They show more of a woman in them than of you
I have tattoos and friends on this website, I don't want to be recognised so that's why my body and face pictures are friends only and private I do send a face and body picture with messages. They are decent photos to not me standing with my cock out saying it's a face picture lol "
And everyone's on here for the same thing!
I'd say keep the photos of women in your friends only, body in public & face in private. |
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"I like younger men in general
But yea, they must be mature and able to hold down a conversation, same as anyone I meet.
I've not met anyone younger than my kids (though I've come close), but to be fair, they are still just into adulthood. I'll cross that line (or not) when it becomes an issue.
The things is I like to see myself as quite mature and interesting I suppose, I like meeting for socials just to get to know people but most of the time I won't even get a reply.
I know people can't reply no to everybody but I've never had a reply saying why, is my profile boring does something put them off? Just wanted people's opinions "
I'd guess that most simply look at the age and move on? That you simply haven't messaged the one(s) who are interested.
That being said, what you say in an opening message is essential, too.
I get lots of "would you meet a younger man?" messages. Too boring for me. I like to see you're a person capable of getting my interest before I realize your age.
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"Your public pics would put me off.
They show more of a woman in them than of you
Agreed! Whether or not those women have even agreed to having their photos shared on here...
I'm a respectable person, the women in the photos are all on fabswingers and have agreed to me sharing the photos. So you're saying more photos of just myself would help the situation? "
yeah noone wants to see who youve been with last..in general..unless they fancy them too..lol..but no, just have pics with yourself in and preferably not in the bathroom over the toilet x |
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"I like younger men in general
But yea, they must be mature and able to hold down a conversation, same as anyone I meet.
I've not met anyone younger than my kids (though I've come close), but to be fair, they are still just into adulthood. I'll cross that line (or not) when it becomes an issue.
The things is I like to see myself as quite mature and interesting I suppose, I like meeting for socials just to get to know people but most of the time I won't even get a reply.
I know people can't reply no to everybody but I've never had a reply saying why, is my profile boring does something put them off? Just wanted people's opinions
I'd guess that most simply look at the age and move on? That you simply haven't messaged the one(s) who are interested.
That being said, what you say in an opening message is essential, too.
I get lots of "would you meet a younger man?" messages. Too boring for me. I like to see you're a person capable of getting my interest before I realize your age.
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I'll message you personally trying to woo you yeah  just to show you how I'd approach someone |
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"Your public pics would put me off.
They show more of a woman in them than of you
Agreed! Whether or not those women have even agreed to having their photos shared on here...
I'm a respectable person, the women in the photos are all on fabswingers and have agreed to me sharing the photos. So you're saying more photos of just myself would help the situation? yeah noone wants to see who youve been with last..in general..unless they fancy them too..lol..but no, just have pics with yourself in and preferably not in the bathroom over the toilet x"
I shall keep that in mind and take some later, also keeping away from the toilet lol |
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"Your public pics would put me off.
They show more of a woman in them than of you
I have tattoos and friends on this website, I don't want to be recognised so that's why my body and face pictures are friends only and private I do send a face and body picture with messages. They are decent photos to not me standing with my cock out saying it's a face picture lol "
It's your profile but the pics are just of your cock. |
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"Your public pics would put me off.
They show more of a woman in them than of you
I have tattoos and friends on this website, I don't want to be recognised so that's why my body and face pictures are friends only and private I do send a face and body picture with messages. They are decent photos to not me standing with my cock out saying it's a face picture lol
It's your profile but the pics are just of your cock."
Yeah I understand, and it's going to change the pictures are abit upfront in some ways. I have to be careful because of my job so I'm going to find ways to get nice body pictures without getting my tattoos in the way |
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"I have no idea what most women's opinions are, we're a delightfully varied bunch OP. I only know my own opinion. "
I should of edited the post and put 'your' opinion quite silly of me to put 'womens' as someone has stated
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"Your public pics would put me off.
They show more of a woman in them than of you
I have tattoos and friends on this website, I don't want to be recognised so that's why my body and face pictures are friends only and private I do send a face and body picture with messages. They are decent photos to not me standing with my cock out saying it's a face picture lol
It's your profile but the pics are just of your cock. Yeah I understand, and it's going to change the pictures are abit upfront in some ways. I have to be careful because of my job so I'm going to find ways to get nice body pictures without getting my tattoos in the way "
You could always cover your face with an emoji like you have with the woman in your pic |
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"Your public pics would put me off.
They show more of a woman in them than of you
Agreed! Whether or not those women have even agreed to having their photos shared on here...
I'm a respectable person, the women in the photos are all on fabswingers and have agreed to me sharing the photos. So you're saying more photos of just myself would help the situation? "
So you happily play with other swingers bareback?
Maybe that's putting people off? I know it would me |
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"Your public pics would put me off.
They show more of a woman in them than of you
Agreed! Whether or not those women have even agreed to having their photos shared on here...
I'm a respectable person, the women in the photos are all on fabswingers and have agreed to me sharing the photos. So you're saying more photos of just myself would help the situation?
So you happily play with other swingers bareback?
Maybe that's putting people off? I know it would me "
The only girl who I'm playing bb with is a friend who recommended me to the site who I've know for a number of years and trusted |
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"Your public pics would put me off.
They show more of a woman in them than of you
I have tattoos and friends on this website, I don't want to be recognised so that's why my body and face pictures are friends only and private I do send a face and body picture with messages. They are decent photos to not me standing with my cock out saying it's a face picture lol
It's your profile but the pics are just of your cock. Yeah I understand, and it's going to change the pictures are abit upfront in some ways. I have to be careful because of my job so I'm going to find ways to get nice body pictures without getting my tattoos in the way
You could always cover your face with an emoji like you have with the woman in your pic "
True.. never thought of that, I do this for fabs rules as I'm a single male profile only I can be in the photo other people's faces must be covered |
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"I have to be careful because of my job so I'm going to find ways to get nice body pictures without getting my tattoos in the way "
I used to tell myself this, then I realised it's a load of old rubbish. Your a single (I presume e) guy, no ties and no one you work with cares. I'm also very well known in my work, appeared in national publications for it and I'm still not recognised so don't let the 'job' thing be your excuse for not posting your face. |
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"I have to be careful because of my job so I'm going to find ways to get nice body pictures without getting my tattoos in the way
I used to tell myself this, then I realised it's a load of old rubbish. Your a single (I presume e) guy, no ties and no one you work with cares. I'm also very well known in my work, appeared in national publications for it and I'm still not recognised so don't let the 'job' thing be your excuse for not posting your face. "
It's not so much work, it's people I know on this website with big mouths, I've almost been caught before being young people my age still think things like this are weird |
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"What are most women's opinions on younger men like myself? I've had a few encounters with couples and single women but it's slowly becoming very difficult. Now I'm not sure if this is because of my age or my profile isn't to good? Just wouldn't mind some opinions every message I send includes a face and body picture. My profile gets seen then no reply. "
I wouldn't meet you
To many veris plus you don't fit my criteria and you like having other women in your photo gallery.
I want to see pics of the male |
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"I have to be careful because of my job so I'm going to find ways to get nice body pictures without getting my tattoos in the way
I used to tell myself this, then I realised it's a load of old rubbish. Your a single (I presume e) guy, no ties and no one you work with cares. I'm also very well known in my work, appeared in national publications for it and I'm still not recognised so don't let the 'job' thing be your excuse for not posting your face.
It's not so much work, it's people I know on this website with big mouths, I've almost been caught before being young people my age still think things like this are weird "
Why do they? I was swinging at your age, all I got was admiration from lads that age as I was getting more than they ever did Haha. And so what if they have big mouths, they must forget they are on here too so anything they say about you equally applicable to them as well. |
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"I have to be careful because of my job so I'm going to find ways to get nice body pictures without getting my tattoos in the way
I used to tell myself this, then I realised it's a load of old rubbish. Your a single (I presume e) guy, no ties and no one you work with cares. I'm also very well known in my work, appeared in national publications for it and I'm still not recognised so don't let the 'job' thing be your excuse for not posting your face.
It's not so much work, it's people I know on this website with big mouths, I've almost been caught before being young people my age still think things like this are weird
Why do they? I was swinging at your age, all I got was admiration from lads that age as I was getting more than they ever did Haha. And so what if they have big mouths, they must forget they are on here too so anything they say about you equally applicable to them as well. "
I understand where you're coming from and I do need to stop caring if I want to meet people lol |
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"What are most women's opinions on younger men like myself? I've had a few encounters with couples and single women but it's slowly becoming very difficult. Now I'm not sure if this is because of my age or my profile isn't to good? Just wouldn't mind some opinions every message I send includes a face and body picture. My profile gets seen then no reply. "
My children are over 30 and I'm a grandmother so rules like not meeting folk my children's age would be very restrictive for me.
Age has no meaning, it's entirely about attraction. |
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"I have to be careful because of my job so I'm going to find ways to get nice body pictures without getting my tattoos in the way
I used to tell myself this, then I realised it's a load of old rubbish. Your a single (I presume e) guy, no ties and no one you work with cares. I'm also very well known in my work, appeared in national publications for it and I'm still not recognised so don't let the 'job' thing be your excuse for not posting your face.
It's not so much work, it's people I know on this website with big mouths, I've almost been caught before being young people my age still think things like this are weird "
Only show the bottom half of your face or put a sticker over your eyes. If the women in your photos can't be recognised by doing that then you won't be,will you. |
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"I have to be careful because of my job so I'm going to find ways to get nice body pictures without getting my tattoos in the way
I used to tell myself this, then I realised it's a load of old rubbish. Your a single (I presume e) guy, no ties and no one you work with cares. I'm also very well known in my work, appeared in national publications for it and I'm still not recognised so don't let the 'job' thing be your excuse for not posting your face.
It's not so much work, it's people I know on this website with big mouths, I've almost been caught before being young people my age still think things like this are weird
Only show the bottom half of your face or put a sticker over your eyes. If the women in your photos can't be recognised by doing that then you won't be,will you. "
I'll be doing this, have a clean out and change of the profile. Thanks very much |
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"Your public pics would put me off.
They show more of a woman in them than of you
Agreed! Whether or not those women have even agreed to having their photos shared on here...
I'm a respectable person, the women in the photos are all on fabswingers and have agreed to me sharing the photos. So you're saying more photos of just myself would help the situation?
So you happily play with other swingers bareback?
Maybe that's putting people off? I know it would me
The only girl who I'm playing bb with is a friend who recommended me to the site who I've know for a number of years and trusted "
It doesn't really matter mate. She's a fellow swinger who I assume is meeting other people on Fab?
Anyway, it's none of my business, I was just pointing out why it might put some off. |
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"Your public pics would put me off.
They show more of a woman in them than of you
Agreed! Whether or not those women have even agreed to having their photos shared on here...
I'm a respectable person, the women in the photos are all on fabswingers and have agreed to me sharing the photos. So you're saying more photos of just myself would help the situation?
So you happily play with other swingers bareback?
Maybe that's putting people off? I know it would me
The only girl who I'm playing bb with is a friend who recommended me to the site who I've know for a number of years and trusted
It doesn't really matter mate. She's a fellow swinger who I assume is meeting other people on Fab?
Anyway, it's none of my business, I was just pointing out why it might put some off. "
Yeah I know where your coming from, I don't play unsafe with anyone unless I'm 100% sure she joined and recommended me to it we couldn't verify each other |
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