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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We all know there is a massive difference in the ratio of males to females which I know means woman and even couples end up inundated with stupid amounts of messages that's like a full time job to even get through, so what do all of you? Couples women and even tv/ts go for to choose they guys U meet? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I use my filters and block everyone and look for people myself so I don't have this problem. I look for a well written informative profile and a nice selection of photos including face pics, I wouldn't message someone without any. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How near they are to me.
It just seems pointless to chat to someone who lives miles away no matter how great their profile or message is as the chances of us actually meeting are zilch.
Then I look at their face pic because there has to be an attraction  |
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"I use my filters and block everyone and look for people myself so I don't have this problem. I look for a well written informative profile and a nice selection of photos including face pics, I wouldn't message someone without any. "
Not a bad way to do it I guess a girl I recommend onto the site got 200 messages before even having her photo verified so god knows what happens with photos ?? gotta be impossible to keep track of and even miss someone U may like |
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verifications especialy the ones they have left for other people, whether we like the same sort of things, if they seem really interested without being pushy. I think about the men I liked and the men I didn't like who I have met in the past before and compare them to the ones who message me so hopefuly I will meet the right one.  |
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Have to say physical attraction is important as well as personality and availability. So we would generally ( but not always) go for a guy who:
Good looking
Full head of hair
Slim with some tone
A good size cock (not always huge, just not small)
Easy going, relaxed and confident
Available to chat during sociable hours, meet for drinks, accommodate and stay out all night if needed.
Think that's it lol x |
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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago
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Photo and site verified by at least two different people.
Meets all the Criteria we are looking for.
Not looking for a model but somebody who's reasonable looking, there's got to be some physical attraction.
Well written profile in what they are looking for helps.
Pictures on profile or some they can send. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We all know there is a massive difference in the ratio of males to females which I know means woman and even couples end up inundated with stupid amounts of messages that's like a full time job to even get through, so what do all of you? Couples women and even tv/ts go for to choose they guys U meet? "
It really isn't as bad as all that. Those that don't want to be inundated aren't. It's that simple. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We all know there is a massive difference in the ratio of males to females which I know means woman and even couples end up inundated with stupid amounts of messages that's like a full time job to even get through, so what do all of you? Couples women and even tv/ts go for to choose they guys U meet?
It really isn't as bad as all that. Those that don't want to be inundated aren't. It's that simple."
 Exactly this. People often moan about having so many messages they can't cope when in reality, there is an easy way to stop this but then I get the impression these people would moan they get no messages then! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Photo and site verified by at least two different people.
Meets all the Criteria we are looking for.
Not looking for a model but somebody who's reasonable looking, there's got to be some physical attraction.
Well written profile in what they are looking for helps.
Pictures on profile or some they can send. "
This saves me writing it out. Pretty much that's said above.
We wouldn't meet with bi or bi curious men even as part of a couple. We wouldn't meet if pics show bareback sex unless it's obvious they are the couple.
We like to see photos and showing full bodies (dressed or naked). A face pic is nice after a message or two.
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I'm not fussed with age or looks. The best looking guy can appear ugly as fuck if he ends up being full of himself, or the opposite, if he's a great guy but not much (at first sight) in the looks department.
I ignore all messages that bore me, end of. "Hi," "Wanna meet?" etc get deleted without my even looking at the profile. Same with a message that contains a list of statistics as to looks, body type, and all.
Some humorous insight that gets my attention, on the other hand, engages me and I try to respond asap.
A well written profile that shows he's put a bit of effort into it is a plus. I forget to look at pictures, so not a big deal for me how they look.
I find a long list of veris offputting. It makes me feel I'm just another hit on the list. |
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