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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's more to do with the fact that there's a production line of "real single guys" churning it's way into this site everyday. What can you offer that's different from everyone else? That's the real selling point. Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok I am a real single guy looking to meet either a woman or couple. So why is there such negative stigma around us??"
I don't think there is negative stigma, I do think there are a bigger population of (real, genuine) single men on the site, so there is plenty of choice.
You just have to make yourself stand out. There is plenty of advice in the forums as this is a regular topic. |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
"I get that there are lots of singles like us but stand out?? Isn't that the same as bluffing or not being real ??"
Nope nothing like that.. 
Johnsodas second law ..
The more genuine the person is inversely proportional to the amount of genuines used.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get that there are lots of singles like us but stand out?? Isn't that the same as bluffing or not being real ??"
Exactly what I think, I'm me, if that's not enough for ppl then I'm not going to lie to get a meet as it'll be found out and I'll look a twonk! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You can't prove that you're genuine, but other people can. Get yourself out there, social events are great for getting verified. The more the better."
Make the effort and you will succeed |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
There are so many reasons for a single man to struggle on here, and there is little chance you'll find out why.
First of all, profiles. Is your profile as clear as it could be? Have a look at some other single guys profiles (don't forget to go into stealth mode to prevent misunderstandings). Find the profiles with a decent amount of verifications. How does your profile compare?
Pictures: are your userpics all of your cock? Yes, women on here like to see a cock or two, but not just cocks. Get some other pics like your bum (not bending over tough, or there will be more misunderstandings), torso, apollos belt, etc etc
Messages: Are you sending one liners (or worse, one worders), or are you reading their profiles and messaging something relevant to them? Are you sending a massive copy and paste fantasy message? What would you sat when approaching a woman in real life?
You got to think that, even if you think you fit their criteria, they may not think so. They may be in a bad mood that day, or just had to delete some abusive message, or have been overwhelmed by lots of other messages and have to work through them.
In the immortal words of Shag, you need patience, but there are loads of things you can do to get your foot in the door, so to speak. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok sound advice. In pretty sure that I have covered most if not all of your points but thanks. I think you are right I'll have to get myself to some clubs. But again as a single guy some clubs do take this piss especially on price. |
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"There are so many reasons for a single man to struggle on here, and there is little chance you'll find out why.
First of all, profiles. Is your profile as clear as it could be? Have a look at some other single guys profiles (don't forget to go into stealth mode to prevent misunderstandings). Find the profiles with a decent amount of verifications. How does your profile compare?
Pictures: are your userpics all of your cock? Yes, women on here like to see a cock or two, but not just cocks. Get some other pics like your bum (not bending over tough, or there will be more misunderstandings), torso, apollos belt, etc etc
Messages: Are you sending one liners (or worse, one worders), or are you reading their profiles and messaging something relevant to them? Are you sending a massive copy and paste fantasy message? What would you sat when approaching a woman in real life?
You got to think that, even if you think you fit their criteria, they may not think so. They may be in a bad mood that day, or just had to delete some abusive message, or have been overwhelmed by lots of other messages and have to work through them.
In the immortal words of Shag, you need patience, but there are loads of things you can do to get your foot in the door, so to speak."
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