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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah its ok but always read the profile.. people get so many meeaages so you might have been nice but you couldve been the 40th message they have opened and its been clear you havent read their profile.. its gets frustrating |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Of course it is, its nice to be nice, I send compliments to guys all the time. Unfortunately, the nature of this site means some people think you're after a meet and can get a bit funny if you're not for them, others just ignore you. I sent one once complimenting a guys body and he replied saying he liked slim girls and wasn't interested in me. I wasn't after a meet, I was just complimenting him which I said to him to which he replied f*ck off time waster! Some lovely people on here  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Did you meet their criteria? Do they ask for a face pic or to provide specific information or coded message? It's all about their profile and whether you read it first. "
This is what I mean about people assuming that every person that messages is after a meet. Can people not just be nice and send a compliment with no intention of a meet? Doesn't matter what someone has asked for, to be rude to someone after receiving a compliment is totally uncalled for. |
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"just sent a message to a couple just saying WOW hot couple and got a message back which was awfull, is it ok to compliment people on here or not?"
It's completely ok. Carry on being nice and bollox to the arrogant that take offence.
I don't answer all our mail, often I just don't have time and when they are "wanna fuck" ones I just can't be arsed.
But genuinely nice and complimentary messeges from someone who is not what we are looking for are more likely to get a responce from us then chat up lines from people hundreds of miles away even if they are our type.
Put enough love out there and you'll get some of it back. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I take compliments on here with a huge pinch of salt, we're all the 'hottest chicks' on Fabs
Saying that I'd never be rude to someone who messaged me, that's out of order.
All you can do OP is delete, block & move on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Of course it's ok and as has already been mentioned on here some people are so far up their own arses they can wave through their mouths!
Whenever I recieve a compliment regarding my pics I always reply by thanking the sender... It's good manners  |
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"I take compliments on here with a huge pinch of salt, we're all the 'hottest chicks' on Fabs
Saying that I'd never be rude to someone who messaged me, that's out of order.
All you can do OP is delete, block & move on."
Ha ha, me too . One of my favourites was something along the lines of complimenting me on being a BBW he hadn't even looked at the pictures let alone the profile.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Of course it is, its nice to be nice, I send compliments to guys all the time. Unfortunately, the nature of this site means some people think you're after a meet and can get a bit funny if you're not for them, others just ignore you. I sent one once complimenting a guys body and he replied saying he liked slim girls and wasn't interested in me. I wasn't after a meet, I was just complimenting him which I said to him to which he replied f*ck off time waster! Some lovely people on here "
Well I think your profile is one of the most entertaining I have read, have a +1 fab point for being awesome.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Of course it is, its nice to be nice, I send compliments to guys all the time. Unfortunately, the nature of this site means some people think you're after a meet and can get a bit funny if you're not for them, others just ignore you. I sent one once complimenting a guys body and he replied saying he liked slim girls and wasn't interested in me. I wasn't after a meet, I was just complimenting him which I said to him to which he replied f*ck off time waster! Some lovely people on here
Well I think your profile is one of the most entertaining I have read, have a +1 fab point for being awesome. "
Why thank you my lovely, have yourself a fannytastic day  x |
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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago
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I get sent lovely compliments all the time. I've also sent a few. It's nice to be nice.
While I don't believe most of them I always try to reply with a polite thank you.
My profile states I'm not meeting so it shouldn't then result in a why not conversation.
Sometimes I get messages from the same folk all the time and I do tend to ignore them .
Id never give a nasty reply. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We get compliments every now and again, whether we like them or not we will always reply to say thankyou. Manners cost nothing and a compliment makes us feel good |
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While passing a compliment is perfectly fine, a short message along those lines wouldn't really inspire me much especially when you get it 20+ times a day everyday and id take it with a pinch of salt as anyone can be gorgeous to that one dick of a guy that sees you as just another hole for the evening and you do get plenty of those. I wouldn't however be a bitch to the sender of such message
And when I used to reply to all messages of that type I didn't encounter a single one that didn't want a meet from it, or even ones that felt it entitled them to a meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Any compliments we receive will always be responded to politely and respectfully.
We try to be respectful to all people regardless of who they are and what they are looking for. |
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And when I used to reply to all messages of that type I didn't encounter a single one that didn't want a meet from it, or even ones that felt it entitled them to a meet "
I agree. For some (most) "You look great" is classed as a chat up line. And if it isn't then it's a statement of the obvious. In which case to acknowledge is equally as futile. I agree that to insult the sender is plain pointless then so is to respond in kind because chances are they won't have a photo profile. If they can't add anything other than "You look great" chances are that's as far as it will go. The moral of the thread is .... Ignore and wait for a composed and considered effort. I can shout "Oi mate ... Nice car!" What's he going to say back? Yeah I know, thanks. Sorry what was the question again?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some people are just up their own far arses on here !"
If they don't want messages they shouldn't have a profile on a fuck site!!!! 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Did you meet their criteria? Do they ask for a face pic or to provide specific information or coded message? It's all about their profile and whether you read it first.
This is what I mean about people assuming that every person that messages is after a meet. Can people not just be nice and send a compliment with no intention of a meet? Doesn't matter what someone has asked for, to be rude to someone after receiving a compliment is totally uncalled for. "
But it shows their true colours. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thankfully I have never recieved any so I don't have to deal with the emotion.
I've given compliments
Been called a stalker and blocked
There's some lovely folk about |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Did you meet their criteria? Do they ask for a face pic or to provide specific information or coded message? It's all about their profile and whether you read it first.
This is what I mean about people assuming that every person that messages is after a meet. Can people not just be nice and send a compliment with no intention of a meet? Doesn't matter what someone has asked for, to be rude to someone after receiving a compliment is totally uncalled for.
But it shows their true colours. "
Indeed it does. I always thank people for that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's nice to get compliments although I don't think many men send them without an ulterior motive.
If they did, they would accept thanks as a response and leave it as that.
Unfortunately, most think it's then an excuse to chat which a lot of times I don't want to do but then I feel guilty.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What's a compliment???? Lol
Maybe when we get some pics up (fully clothed, sorry to disappoint) we may get one or two, but for now we just get the 'wanna fuck' or similar messages 
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"just sent a message to a couple just saying WOW hot couple and got a message back which was awfull, is it ok to compliment people on here or not?"
Some people just like or get off on being rude & abusive to others.
Of course it's all right to compliment someone.
However some people use it as a way to try and get their foot in the door, which is what makes some people wary. Still no excuse to be rude, when they could just ignore or delete the message.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A compliment is always nice.. If it's genuine.
I sort of feel obliged to reply saying thanks but in doing that, the person thinks it's a green light that I'm interested
If I say thanks but not interested I sound like an arrogant twunt because they haven't actually said they want to progress ...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We love compliment messages and try to respond to any that we can.
As above when we reply often people assume that means we want to meet right away!
Never the less, messages that are complimentary of our pictures or our profile do put a smile on our faces |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I send compliments.. Don't expect replies especially if perhaps I'm out of their criteria. I do realise people get lots of messages....but I do get some very nice replies. A compliment is a good thing...and not always meant as a direct chat up. |
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