"My gf is abit shy and not confident with her body. Can you give us some honest feedback on her body.
I think she amazing x"
Personally I don't think she should be depending on others to get her validation ... how many need to say its okay before she believes it and how many does it take to destroy her self confidence again? She needs to love it herself, not rely on the opinions of others. |
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"My gf is abit shy and not confident with her body. Can you give us some honest feedback on her body.
I think she amazing x"
I've chatted to you guys on kik before & as I've said before to you both she has a gorgeous body. It's certainly kept me entertained on the chat Hayley & I have had  |
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"My gf is abit shy and not confident with her body. Can you give us some honest feedback on her body.
I think she amazing x"
I'm glad you think she is amazing but I don't think fab is the place for people who are shy and have issues about their body confidence...
and asking strangers for feedback is a little crass imo |
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"My gf is abit shy and not confident with her body. Can you give us some honest feedback on her body.
I think she amazing x"
She has a gorgeous figure. Being Shy can be very alluring. Lots of honest, positive comments helps bolster confidence... |
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I may be wrong but I always thought theres a danger that seeking reassurance too much can, in some cases, lead to addictive behaviour with sex and swinging, Ie doing things not because you are enjoying them per say but because you are seeking that positive feedback.
Certainly that's what I've noticed in a very small number of cases.
So swing, go on cam, Go to a club, enjoy the fact people tell her she is sexy and won't judge her but don't focus on or keep looking for it. Focus on the other aspects ie both of you exploring a new dimension of your relationship and bringing something that will expand rather than harm your relationship.
Imho of course. |
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What happens when someone says "ew no thanks"? Will she ignore all the positives and ficus on that one comment? I find generally that thousands of compliments mean sod all (or are chalked up as harrassment) but one negative becomes a focal point and the one that gets remembered. If she is always telling herself she's ugly she will only believe those who agree. Personally I think her pics look nice. But that won't matter to her. I hope she finds some comfort in the positivity in this thread but ultimately the person who needs to tell her she is beautiful is herself. |
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