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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Bravado or not?
I've just had my first meet  and played it totally straight. I was nervous and let it show because I dont see any point in hiding it. Should I have faked it and felt like a knobhead? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks I dont see the point on faking anything... somebody once told me "please yourself and you'll please everybody else".. it makes sense when you think about it.. |
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Course not mate, every meet is like that whether it be a party or even one on one mEets. It is all part of the excitement and enjoyment of the scene it self. You will slowly gain confidence with more meets but those butterflies will always flutter. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Course not mate, every meet is like that whether it be a party or even one on one mEets. It is all part of the excitement and enjoyment of the scene it self. You will slowly gain confidence with more meets but those butterflies will always flutter. "
Its good to know guys with ripped abs get nervous too.. Thanks. |
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Lol cheers. But I find it isn't all about looks on here, well written and considerate messages are essential as well as good conversations. If you remember you aint there just to fuck but stimulate eachother then it becomes easier and nerves take a back seat after the initial face to face smile. Or is that just me :S lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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its natural to be nerves i have been swinging 10 yr still get nerves so dnt fake it be you self and will get better .Just go with flow enjoy we have all been there and still go there  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I never get nervous before a meet. I've usually met socially a couple of times, been in contact so I'm meeting people I'm comfortable with.
Always excited...never nervous! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thinking about it as i do the social meet first that is when the huge gert elephants kick in so no not nervous on a play meet as already met them just excited |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bravado or not?
I've just had my first meet and played it totally straight. I was nervous and let it show because I dont see any point in hiding it. Should I have faked it and felt like a knobhead?"
A confidant man always makes me feel more relaxed and at ease but if you are nervous then just be honest. People do understand and being your self is very important i think. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we all get nervous, biggest fear is not rising to the occasion  "
There are a few who don't if they can't relax. That's why rushed meets are often not a good thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"we all get nervous, biggest fear is not rising to the occasion
There are a few who don't if they can't relax. That's why rushed meets are often not a good thing."
not happened yet thankfully, but if it ever did my tongue would come into its own until one rises |
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"we have been swinging for nearly 2yrs now and i still get nervous"
We get nervous; Kid’s terrible just prior to actually meeting, nothing more stomach churning than sitting there chatting away to folks, and waiting for the 1st one to make a move!  |
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"we have been swinging for nearly 2yrs now and i still get nervous
We get nervous; Kid’s terrible just prior to actually meeting, nothing more stomach churning than sitting there chatting away to folks, and waiting for the 1st one to make a move! "
Same here that can be worse bit of a meet are they going to stay and play mmmmmm ,but once the butterfiles have gone think it would be time to give up with the swinging lifestyle |
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I wouldn't say nervous about 'rising to the occasion' however would say it concerns the mutual attraction as sometimes the pictures don't quite match the people, or the excitable nerves of the unknown and knowledge of what is to come. Confidence is key as one poster said earlier as it puts everyone to ease and you enjoy meetss so much more. |
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