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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all I'm thinking of attending a club which is something I have never done before, so my questions are
what should I expect?
What should I wear?
How should I act?
And what do I do once there? |
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depends which club you are going to, have a look at clubs tab as that tells you a lot. whatever you do, dont think that fun is guarenteed. dont just sit there talk to people introduce your self and dont go following people to play rooms unless invited. may take you a couple of visits to get lucky but non pushy males are the most popular. good luck |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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Whatever you are comfortable in...
Relax..
Only involve yourself in play if invited.
Don't follow fems/ couples around... looks desperate.
No means No.
Steer clear of alchohol.
Have fun...... and a great time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If its a normal swing club smart never old jeans ... love men in really nice shurts like all black can be sexy like white can be too under club lights and maybe black jeans .. if its a swing club like chams you have to be in towel or boxers ... just relax and go with the flow of the evening and have fun xx Good fun meeting new people xx |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"Thanks for the advice, most admit I'm a bit nervous about it lol"
everyone was their 1st time....
if play happens it happens... soak up the atmosphere & network... and get yourself known.
good luck dude.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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when i was single years ago and i used to go to clubs on my own i would just make sure i was well groomed and and decent sexy underwear
and like some have said dont be pushy and dont follow as thats soooooo annoying for cpls and wont get you nowhere
i used to go to clube where the dress coad was just underwear or towel
so i was happy as i loooooovvvvvveee to get naked xxxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me personally, if a gent touches me first without so much a hi and some form of conversation, then it is a no no for me.
Therefore, I would advise striking up a conversation first to break the ice, and then go with the flow.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just treat it as you would a normal club night mate, be chatty and sociable and take it from there. If any fun happens all the better, but if it doesn't its still possible to have a good night! |
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"and in addition if you happen to be looking to play with part of a couple, talk to the other half as well, niot just the one you are interested in,
that goes a long long way"
Totally agree with this ... remember the guys has as much of a say about who does his mrs as the mrs!! |
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By *ohnsusCouple
over a year ago
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"and in addition if you happen to be looking to play with part of a couple, talk to the other half as well, niot just the one you are interested in,
that goes a long long way
Totally agree with this ... remember the guys has as much of a say about who does his mrs as the mrs!!"
Would definitely agree that you should talk to both in the couple not just the one. It's not about having a say about who plays with mrs as ultimately its her decision, but more about feeling they see you as a couple not just the one with tits plus one ! |
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"depends which club you are going to, have a look at clubs tab as that tells you a lot. whatever you do, dont think that fun is guarenteed. dont just sit there talk to people introduce your self and dont go following people to play rooms unless invited. may take you a couple of visits to get lucky but non pushy males are the most popular. good luck"
Speaking for ourselves only, we agree with this advice. Don't follow us about with a look of defeat on your face, give us a chance to get into it before trying to "jump in" and you'll be fine.
also, again, talk to us in a social environment and you stand more chance when we start playing. good luck! |
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