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Tired of being knocked back because of no veri's!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Go to a club, chat to some people, have a play or not whatever you like. Ask those you meet to leave a little veri to say they met you. Most will as they understand the importance of veris to help split the time wasters from the genuine. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Took me ages too matey. Just chill it will happen.
Keep in mind many of the knock-backs will have nothing to do with being varified, thats just a handy excuse that is less likely to offend  |
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OK
seeing as you couldn't be bothered to use the search function on here and read 1 or 2 of the hundreds of threads asking the exact same thing here goes.
Option 1
Use the chat rooms, you can get a veri there. Some think a cam veri is pointless but you don't have to show it or your veri summary.
Option 2
Look for local organised social events, they are usually put on the forums. Go meet people, chat, but don't expect to get your pole greased.
Option 3
Find a local club, save up your pennies and go along - the 2nd sentence in option 2 also applies here.
Option 4
Keep plugging away on here with messages.
Enjoy |
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"OK
seeing as you couldn't be bothered to use the search function on here and read 1 or 2 of the hundreds of threads asking the exact same thing here goes.
Option 1
Use the chat rooms, you can get a veri there. Some think a cam veri is pointless but you don't have to show it or your veri summary.
Option 2
Look for local organised social events, they are usually put on the forums. Go meet people, chat, but don't expect to get your pole greased.
Option 3
Find a local club, save up your pennies and go along - the 2nd sentence in option 2 also applies here.
Option 4
Keep plugging away on here with messages.
Enjoy"
Totally this  |
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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago
You Dont Need to Know, right now |
"I'd appreciate some help if anyone has any ideas on how to get my first meet  "
In the "search forum threads" box, type Newcastle, and put your name down for the next Newcastle social. Or go to Club F. Both options should enable you to meet local Fabsters who will give you your first verification. However, do not go expecting sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Give it time and whilst its a good thing to have, its not be all and end all - I meet with single Fem and MF couple who dont verify me because I am Bisexual - its not a problem as I value their choices - so give it time mate it will happen  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fill out your profile,as you have noticed there is lots od competition.Sell yourself and show what you can offer meets etc.Miss."
Agree you've been on here over a year and you've still not filled out your profile.
Other than that a club visit or find a social. |
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"I'd appreciate some help if anyone has any ideas on how to get my first meet "
I'm not going to offer any profile advice but I will make two observations based on your profile - firstly, you say you haven't had a meet but have a photo of a lady from March 2016.....get her to verify you or is it stolen from the Internet or what?
Your 'legal' warning has a mistake in it so won't stand up in court. Neither, I suspect, would you. |
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In all honesty veris count for little, it's a personal opinion on someone they met and is no guarantee of anything not even that the verified or the verifier are genuine. I do wonder why people put so much stock in them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Someone has told me time and time again that you simply have to be Patient lol.
Join the club my man! "
Just realised that I commented on the wrong post DOH! Forget what my previous post said as it makes no sense what so ever to the OPs thread lol. Sorry..... |
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"Fill out your profile,as you have noticed there is lots of competition.Sell yourself..
you've been on here over a year and still not filled out your profile.
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Agree with this.
Write a profile sweetie x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Veris definitely count for something it's definitely a good insight into how genuine people are and how friendly e t c . Fab and swinging is social thing as well as a sex. So for us we can only say if you've no veris your not very sociable people hence why would we bother ?? . Anyway our advice would be to try and go to an organised social and try going to the odd club or two . Make an effort to mix and the veris will roll in |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
Here's a tip depending which way you chose to get the verification: don't ask for it.
There are some people that go to socials or use the chat room purel tobget verifications. The verification is not the be all and end all. It's someone saying "yes, I vouch for this person should you choose to interact on such and such level".
Some sadly forget and think swinging is about getting the most number of veris or fabbed pics rather than going out and having fun with others. It's not Pokemon. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Here's a tip depending which way you chose to get the verification: don't ask for it.
There are some people that go to socials or use the chat room purel tobget verifications. The verification is not the be all and end all. It's someone saying "yes, I vouch for this person should you choose to interact on such and such level".
Some sadly forget and think swinging is about getting the most number of veris or fabbed pics rather than going out and having fun with others. It's not Pokemon."
Well said that man! . A new avatar is needed for clapping hands |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Here's a tip depending which way you chose to get the verification: don't ask for it.
There are some people that go to socials or use the chat room purel tobget verifications. The verification is not the be all and end all. It's someone saying "yes, I vouch for this person should you choose to interact on such and such level".
Some sadly forget and think swinging is about getting the most number of veris or fabbed pics rather than going out and having fun with others. It's not Pokemon."
Oh shit .....
Why couldn't someone have told us this sooner ?
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By *an Holo-Man
over a year ago
Yorkshire Dales |
"OK
seeing as you couldn't be bothered to use the search function on here and read 1 or 2 of the hundreds of threads asking the exact same thing here goes.
Option 1
Use the chat rooms, you can get a veri there. Some think a cam veri is pointless but you don't have to show it or your veri summary.
Option 2
Look for local organised social events, they are usually put on the forums. Go meet people, chat, but don't expect to get your pole greased.
Option 3
Find a local club, save up your pennies and go along - the 2nd sentence in option 2 also applies here.
Option 4
Keep plugging away on here with messages.
Enjoy"
Perfect advice |
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