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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So he has to be faithful to you, while you are - to all intents and purposes - monogamous with your partner that you are already with.
Doesn't sound like a good deal! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Now that's just being greedy. Some of us don't even have 1 partner to play with let alone 2  "
*Sigh* it's not 'greedy' to have more than one person in your life. You seem to be on the wrong site if you think it is. Try a site more focussed on finding 'the one'. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So he has to be faithful to you, while you are - to all intents and purposes - monogamous with your partner that you are already with.
Doesn't sound like a good deal!"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Remember this is ALL his wanting, I'm not greedy at all, I'm too nice not to care or sorry if I'm doing as he wants. So I am doing what my bf wants, isn't that what the missus does?"
Have you considered doing what *you* want? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Remember this is ALL his wanting, I'm not greedy at all, I'm too nice not to care or sorry if I'm doing as he wants. So I am doing what my bf wants, isn't that what the missus does?
Have you considered doing what *you* want?"
so is your first boyfriend faithful |
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By *obcatRoo OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Remember this is ALL his wanting, I'm not greedy at all, I'm too nice not to care or sorry if I'm doing as he wants. So I am doing what my bf wants, isn't that what the missus does?
Have you considered doing what *you* want?so is your first boyfriend faithful "
Yes he is. He wants to want me and have another guy have what he isn't allowed. (I had to google the whole cuckold thing a lot lol) |
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"Remember this is ALL his wanting, I'm not greedy at all, I'm too nice not to care or sorry if I'm doing as he wants. So I am doing what my bf wants, isn't that what the missus does?
Have you considered doing what *you* want?"
You should only do if you want, this does not sound right to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Remember this is ALL his wanting, I'm not greedy at all, I'm too nice not to care or sorry if I'm doing as he wants. So I am doing what my bf wants, isn't that what the missus does?"
No. Successful couples work together to sort out what they both want. |
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"Remember this is ALL his wanting, I'm not greedy at all, I'm too nice not to care or sorry if I'm doing as he wants. So I am doing what my bf wants, isn't that what the missus does?
No. Successful couples work together to sort out what they both want."
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"We are a cuckold couple, I'm after a straight/bi second boyfriend for me to be faithful to.
My current man is straight btw.
New bf can be all mine, and we can go play together also.
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So you won't be sleeping with your 1st boyfriend ever again then? Or is this 2nd boyfriend your gona be faithful too just a temporary thing? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Remember this is ALL his wanting, I'm not greedy at all, I'm too nice not to care or sorry if I'm doing as he wants. So I am doing what my bf wants, isn't that what the missus does?
Have you considered doing what *you* want?so is your first boyfriend faithful
Yes he is. He wants to want me and have another guy have what he isn't allowed. (I had to google the whole cuckold thing a lot lol)"
People don't generally expect the bull to be faithful. I think you will struggle to find someone to be monogamous with you, when you are not offering the same in return.
I mean, it just sucks to be in that situation. Everyone in your life thinks that you and your husband are a monogamous couple. Your boyfriend would always be seen as a lonely single. He'd never have anyone to take along as a +1 to a party, because your relationship is secret.
I mean, if you're going to share with the world that you are in a hinged triad (that's the name for a poly relationship with three people who aren't all seeing each other) then that's really cool and brave. But keeping your boyfriend as a dirty little secret wouldn't be. It's unkind and unfair to him. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When we joined this site, we were looking for that too (although my husband does play). We've had no trouble finding men to fill that role, but we haven't been able to get the regularity. Because of that we find it works better for me to have a few lovers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Good luck with your search, op. These things don't happen over night and some couples never find exactly what they are looking for. My husband and i were looking for 3 years and have now given up. It's not as easy as it sounds to find that one guy that gets it and gets your situation....especially on here.
Wish you well x |
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"Remember this is ALL his wanting, I'm not greedy at all, I'm too nice not to care or sorry if I'm doing as he wants. So I am doing what my bf wants, isn't that what the missus does?
No. Successful couples work together to sort out what they both want."
Yes, to each their own. It would be fun to learn how the OP gets on with the experience |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why are so many having a go here? This is not unusual for a cuckold couple...quite the norm for many on here.
Given the ratio of men to women on here then one woman having two (or more) guys should simply help things! |
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By *obcatRoo OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Good luck with your search, op. These things don't happen over night and some couples never find exactly what they are looking for. My husband and i were looking for 3 years and have now given up. It's not as easy as it sounds to find that one guy that gets it and gets your situation....especially on here.
Wish you well x"
Thank you so much. Glad someone gets it lol x |
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By *obcatRoo OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Why are so many having a go here? This is not unusual for a cuckold couple...quite the norm for many on here.
Given the ratio of men to women on here then one woman having two (or more) guys should simply help things!"
Omg! Thank you so much!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Jesus give them a break you judgemental fucks. Its simple... he wants her to have a bf while denying him sex. Its a cuckold thing. Why have a go?
There's a brilliant site dedicated to this, PM me if you would like details. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My bf will not bad a secret, neither of them would, polyandry isn't known over here like USA etc, but its what we want. "
Polyamory is actually very common in the UK. I'd say most of my friends are polyamorous.
Polyandry is actually illegal. You are not legally allowed to marry two people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why are so many having a go here? This is not unusual for a cuckold couple...quite the norm for many on here.
Given the ratio of men to women on here then one woman having two (or more) guys should simply help things!
Omg! Thank you so much!!!
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Jheeze give them a break - you have taken what was a Sexy request and just bullied.
If you don't like it just jog on!
Life is too short to waste being a hater x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My bf will not bad a secret, neither of them would, polyandry isn't known over here like USA etc, but its what we want.
Polyamory is actually very common in the UK. I'd say most of my friends are polyamorous.
Polyandry is actually illegal. You are not legally allowed to marry two people."
how do people who enter uk to love and have more than one wife get on |
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"When we joined this site, we were looking for that too (although my husband does play). We've had no trouble finding men to fill that role, but we haven't been able to get the regularity. Because of that we find it works better for me to have a few lovers."
Exactly the same with us |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP you are all going to be in for a fantastic and sometimes emotional but very very enjoyable time together.....take it slowly and savour every second of it and take into account everyone's needs....and you will love your experiences as long as communication is kept up xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Jesus give them a break you judgemental fucks.
I really don't think there is any need for that kind of rudeness.... Do you ?  "
I think it was level and about right, and not rude at all. Her first ever forum post and her and her partner get flamed? Well deserved imo. |
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"Jesus give them a break you judgemental fucks.
I really don't think there is any need for that kind of rudeness.... Do you ?
I think it was level and about right, and not rude at all. Her first ever forum post and her and her partner get flamed? Well deserved imo. "
She's posted it in a open forum, not everyone will just agree. I think your use of words and how it comes across looks and sounds rude. Or am I also not allowed to disagree. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Jesus give them a break you judgemental fucks.
I really don't think there is any need for that kind of rudeness.... Do you ?
I think it was level and about right, and not rude at all. Her first ever forum post and her and her partner get flamed? Well deserved imo.
She's posted it in a open forum, not everyone will just agree. I think your use of words and how it comes across looks and sounds rude. Or am I also not allowed to disagree."
Then by the same token don't start dripping and bleating when someone calls bullshit on how someone is treated, just scroll on past and don't get that sexy, tasteful underwear you seem to like to wear all ridden up in a bunch. Or were you expecting some sort of apology by pulling me up on using the word "fucks"..? Can I go play out now Mum or am I grounded..? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You will get plenty of offers here lol. One thing I noticed it that, you hardly see the opposite in couples, that the woman want many for the hubby?."
Theres an evolutionary answer to that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You will get plenty of offers here lol. One thing I noticed it that, you hardly see the opposite in couples, that the woman want many for the hubby?."
I very much enjoy the same for my husband, but we can't pursue it in the same way that he can for me. I mean it's part of swing culture for a straight man to invite another straight man to fuck his wife. However, I wouldn't have the same success if I were to invite a woman to fuck my husband, unless I were to play with her too. So he does do that, and I love it well he tells me about. But it has to be persuaded independently of me. |
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By *rinhueCouple
over a year ago
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Polyamory is actually very common in the UK. I'd say most of my friends are polyamorous.
Polyandry is actually illegal. You are not legally allowed to marry two people."
No, it isn't. You're just buried so deeply in your lifestyle that you can't see over the edges. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's amazing how judgemental people are in forums these days, actually surprising that people still dare to post....
Fair enough if you have an opinion but why get personal... what happened to live and let live?! We all have different tastes and preferences..
I hope you find what you're looking for OP |
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"Jesus give them a break you judgemental fucks.
I really don't think there is any need for that kind of rudeness.... Do you ?
I think it was level and about right, and not rude at all. Her first ever forum post and her and her partner get flamed? Well deserved imo.
She's posted it in a open forum, not everyone will just agree. I think your use of words and how it comes across looks and sounds rude. Or am I also not allowed to disagree.
Then by the same token don't start dripping and bleating when someone calls bullshit on how someone is treated, just scroll on past and don't get that sexy, tasteful underwear you seem to like to wear all ridden up in a bunch. Or were you expecting some sort of apology by pulling me up on using the word "fucks"..? Can I go play out now Mum or am I grounded..?"
Hahahaha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's amazing how judgemental people are in forums these days, actually surprising that people still dare to post....
Fair enough if you have an opinion but why get personal... what happened to live and let live?! We all have different tastes and preferences..
I hope you find what you're looking for OP"
Us two as well x. Ignore bitterness. Love will always out power the saddos x We happy peeps Always win. Poor them!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've never visited a forum that so quickly descends into digging people out at every single glimpse of an opportunity.
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You missed the one yesterday, when a lady asked for advice on getting large lingerie  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Now that's just being greedy. Some of us don't even have 1 partner to play with let alone 2 "
Exactly and I bet she gets her second boyfriend before I even get one! |
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
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"Jesus give them a break you judgemental fucks. Its simple... he wants her to have a bf while denying him sex. Its a cuckold thing. Why have a go?
There's a brilliant site dedicated to this, PM me if you would like details. "
It's not a usual "cuckolding thing" in that she expects the bull to be faithful only to her, and I think this is where most are suggesting that she might have a hard time finding that.
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"We are a cuckold couple, I'm after a straight/bi second boyfriend for me to be faithful to.
My current man is straight btw.
New bf can be all mine, and we can go play together also.
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Good on you...go and enjoy yourself. Take no notice of the pompous few on here |
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"Remember this is ALL his wanting, I'm not greedy at all, I'm too nice not to care or sorry if I'm doing as he wants. So I am doing what my bf wants, isn't that what the missus does?
No. Successful couples work together to sort out what they both want."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Jesus give them a break you judgemental fucks. Its simple... he wants her to have a bf while denying him sex. Its a cuckold thing. Why have a go?
There's a brilliant site dedicated to this, PM me if you would like details.
It's not a usual "cuckolding thing" in that she expects the bull to be faithful only to her, and I think this is where most are suggesting that she might have a hard time finding that.
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I can't see where she says the bull must be faithful to her, only to him. Or am I missing something? |
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
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"Jesus give them a break you judgemental fucks. Its simple... he wants her to have a bf while denying him sex. Its a cuckold thing. Why have a go?
There's a brilliant site dedicated to this, PM me if you would like details.
It's not a usual "cuckolding thing" in that she expects the bull to be faithful only to her, and I think this is where most are suggesting that she might have a hard time finding that.
I can't see where she says the bull must be faithful to her, only to him. Or am I missing something?"
"New bf will be all mine" - its in the OP, but it seems to have been confirmed later on in the thread. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Jesus give them a break you judgemental fucks. Its simple... he wants her to have a bf while denying him sex. Its a cuckold thing. Why have a go?
There's a brilliant site dedicated to this, PM me if you would like details.
It's not a usual "cuckolding thing" in that she expects the bull to be faithful only to her, and I think this is where most are suggesting that she might have a hard time finding that.
I can't see where she says the bull must be faithful to her, only to him. Or am I missing something?
"New bf will be all mine" - its in the OP, but it seems to have been confirmed later on in the thread. "
Yep, see it now
I must not skin read before I post |
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