"What?"
he wants your feet!!!! 
seriously though OP, patience is a virtue, there are some of us who are nice to single guys, you've just got to find them 
be polite, be grascious if someone says thanks but no thanks etc read profiles, dont start messages with 'wanna fuck?' as most dont like that |
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over a year ago
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You have been here 8 months so you should know ..... if its going well or not ?? i am sure there are sexy people out there for you .... you have to think positive and not just sit there think thay will come to you ... mail and get chating to some ,, and not just 1 boring line xxx |
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My advice would be ...
1. Read profiles, dont just skip to the pictures.
2. Only send a message if you are what people are looking for. If a profile says not looking for single guys at the moment, you wont change their mind, you'll just piss them off!!
3. If you are sending a message to a couple, dont just address it to the woman. Remember that the guy will be the gatekeeper into his Mrs pants!!
4. Be polite and dont just write messages saying "fancy a fuck"
Hope this helps |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
dirtybigbadsgirlville |
"honesty what chances has a single guy like me got off getting anywhere on this site.
hope to get yourfeet back thanks paul x"
1. take that silly disclaimer off ya profile.
2. add some more info about yourself minus text speech
3. have some patience
4. Ignore sensualfire- he hasnt had his medication |
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"My advice would be ...
1. Read profiles, dont just skip to the pictures.
2. Only send a message if you are what people are looking for. If a profile says not looking for single guys at the moment, you wont change their mind, you'll just piss them off!!
3. If you are sending a message to a couple, dont just address it to the woman. Remember that the guy will be the gatekeeper into his Mrs pants!!
4. Be polite and dont just write messages saying "fancy a fuck"
Hope this helps"
Pmsl at gatekeeper fun |
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"My advice would be ...
1. Read profiles, dont just skip to the pictures.
2. Only send a message if you are what people are looking for. If a profile says not looking for single guys at the moment, you wont change their mind, you'll just piss them off!!
3. If you are sending a message to a couple, dont just address it to the woman. Remember that the guy will be the gatekeeper into his Mrs pants!!
4. Be polite and dont just write messages saying "fancy a fuck"
Hope this helps
Pmsl at gatekeeper fun "
Hiya babes ... thought I'd visit here from over the road  |
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"My advice would be ...
1. Read profiles, dont just skip to the pictures.
2. Only send a message if you are what people are looking for. If a profile says not looking for single guys at the moment, you wont change their mind, you'll just piss them off!!
3. If you are sending a message to a couple, dont just address it to the woman. Remember that the guy will be the gatekeeper into his Mrs pants!!
4. Be polite and dont just write messages saying "fancy a fuck"
Hope this helps
Pmsl at gatekeeper fun
Hiya babes ... thought I'd visit here from over the road "
*locks gates to keep fun here*
whispers"its a much more active forum,even i cant keep up" |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
I think it is even simpler that than....
would you answer your own profile.... if the answer is no... then you already know what to do....
no point in giving people advice on how to change it... because in the end it is just any generic profile and not your own... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"in other words dont bother is that waht u are trying to say 3 million guys maybe 300 females 30 close to me "
not at all you look ok , and i am sure theres lots who would like you as there friend .. dont give up xx maybe have a wax or shave down there , lol xx ooo thats just me hair puts me off around the bits xx |
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over a year ago
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"need some new pics its is trimmed down there now just need new pics, going to give it afew days then am off out of here thanks all x"
well all sites are same even the pay ones xx and this is free ......
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"in other words dont bother is that waht u are trying to say 3 million guys maybe 300 females 30 close to me "
no at all...... i don't see where anyone has said that... however if you have a defeatist attitude, then you have lost before you even start
people hate it when you say this, but you do get out what you put in and that is where actual "effort" pays off...
also being proactive and actually getting out there...for example
do you go to clubs?
do you go to socials and just meet people?
do you actually just chat in the chatroom as opposed to trying to just chat people up....
all the different bits are just parts of a bigger jigsaw... and it is making this work for you that is the key.... |
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By *hocotreacleWoman
over a year ago
lost in the city of Atlantis |
"What?
he wants your feet!!!!
seriously though OP, patience is a virtue, there are some of us who are nice to single guys, you've just got to find them
be polite, be grascious if someone says thanks but no thanks etc read profiles, dont start messages with 'wanna fuck?' as most dont like that"
Sings...Have a little patienceeeeeeee, something something looooove I loooost
Feeling your frustrationnnnnnnssss
Ahh gotta love Take That...without Robbie.
Anyway, good messages are good, humour is good and of course patience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"need some new pics its is trimmed down there now just need new pics, going to give it afew days then am off out of here thanks all xwell all sites are same even the pay ones xx and this is free ......"
As said before, have patience.
Why not stick around on the forums like some others? Get your name down for a couple of the socials.
Let your fun side show through.... whinging on a swing site isn't going to get the girls rushing to your feed.... er, I mean feet  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't say not bother mate, I'm loving this site to be perfectly honest. You can flirt with people, have a banter about life in general, even talk about serious issues...oh and have plenty of seriously good sex with many like-minded ladies! Don't let the numbers game put you off, so long as you come across well enough and treat people with respect then a multitude of sexual possibilities await....
Personally the problem I have is with time, I don't get enough of it free for my liking anyway as I tend to work 60 odd hours a week, and as you can imagine that can hinder meeting possibilities if not planned or if I just happen to be free when a female friend is who wants to be pleasured...
But I don't come on here whinging about having not enough time (apart from just now, oops!) I just take it as a given and get on with it. Best way to be mate, honestly. |
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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago
near bury st edmunds |
YOu are cute, dont give up, its hard for single guys but the ones that are polight and patient do very well. You have made a start you have a few veris. you just need maybe to go to a club or a social, put yourself about a bit. Its really just the same for couples we also have to put ourselves about as east anglia aint the swinging capital. Can be hard for 4 ppl to all find a attraction. Dont give up fun will come xxxxxx |
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As a single guy ..no chance of any meets ..suggest like me you join up with a female fuck buddy as that is the path to getting meets ..otherwise as a single male ...not an earthly chance of a meet !!! thats my experience over the past 10 months You can send 100;s of messages as a single and you are lucky to get a handful of replies |
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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago
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"As a single guy ..no chance of any meets ..suggest like me you join up with a female fuck buddy as that is the path to getting meets ..otherwise as a single male ...not an earthly chance of a meet !!! thats my experience over the past 10 months You can send 100;s of messages as a single and you are lucky to get a handful of replies "
Thats so not true, we dont do MMF often but the three guys we have played with have done very well from fab swingers. Its all about your aproach and getting maybe to clubs or social. I was personally in the first instance attraced by the messages they send US. for one the messages was not just directed at me. We are a couple and like messages directed to us both even for a MMF. They was not just one liners, really its just sinple little things that will get you noticed, a bit of witt banter in their profile, little stuff like that and patience. OHhhh and not all cock pics on profile some nice body shots can be lovely to look at. Realise not everone can have face pics on public profile but if you can helps too. xxxxx
You dont need a fuck buddy to get meets, that really just narrows you down to meeting couples. Just give it time xxxx |
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"As a single guy ..no chance of any meets ..suggest like me you join up with a female fuck buddy as that is the path to getting meets ..otherwise as a single male ...not an earthly chance of a meet !!! thats my experience over the past 10 months You can send 100;s of messages as a single and you are lucky to get a handful of replies "
There's loads of meets awaiting a single male if I'm honest. If I were in a couple I'd hate shifting through hundreds of messages recieved a day when most of them are cut and paste shit, just to unearth a gem. I'm quite happy to recieve around half a dozen a day thank you very much, as the time taken to reply to all is much less and you can reply more thoughtfully..... |
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"honesty what chances has a single guy like me got off getting anywhere on this site.
hope to get yourfeet back thanks paul x"
It takes time but recommendation has helped me meet more and getting invited to some party's. Also always be polite in messages and take rejection with grace. |
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"As a single guy ..no chance of any meets ..suggest like me you join up with a female fuck buddy as that is the path to getting meets ..otherwise as a single male ...not an earthly chance of a meet !!! thats my experience over the past 10 months You can send 100;s of messages as a single and you are lucky to get a handful of replies "
I think all my in person veris are from meets with single guys - whether solo or the 2 of us.. We're actually only generally looking for single guys, not couples - and I'd rather a 'true' couple than a fb couple if I was meeting a cpl. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Advice to Op..
You have had loads of advice but not seen something important lol
It seems regular forum single males do well with avatars of their rears.. don't know why personally but it does.
As already been mentioned.. remember if approaching a couple talk to the man too... I always laugh when I get a message that comes from a guy that forgets that. As it doesn't then matter how good the profile is, or how nice I think he is... its a no.
Katie. X |
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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago
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well said katie, messages need to be addressed to both if your going to message a couple, Bish hates it that we get messages just soley chatting to me without any thought for him. x |
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