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One off meets or more...

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

For us ladies to debate...do you prefer to meet a regular guy on here for monthly/weekly fun or NOT to see the same person twice? To be honest I can't decide!

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By *lla_maiWoman over a year ago

staffordshire

I guess it would spose on the amount of fun you had

But overall regular for me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Both have their merits, and there's no reason to decide.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman over a year ago

Lyndhurst

Once or twice.

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By *ed LipstickWoman over a year ago

Fucksville

Oooo definitely regular fbs for me x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have a regular fuck buddy. That works.

I also meet people I'd never see again.

Both are good

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have a regular fuck buddy. That works.

I also meet people I'd never see again.

Both are good "

I'd agree with this!

In an ideal world i'd like a few hot regular local FB 's (far harder to find than you can possibly imagine) and one-offs (or more) with people further afield!

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By *a petite madameWoman over a year ago

London / Essex

I'd say both are good but would like to have a regular fwb

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Much prefer regular meets, it cuts out all the 'what do you like' bit and I like to feel confident in the guy so that we get the most out of the meeting xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Regular where I live in Reading.

One offs at a club.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Is prefer regular but the last two started falling in love..... The last one i fell for a bit too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

neither..regularity is boring,

when single I play single, so my friends and I just meet up when we feel like it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

One offs at Chams.

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By *ancs MinxWoman over a year ago

Burnley

Prefer regular as I feel for me the better you get to know somebody the greater the sex is, with knowing that boundaries can be pushed with people you feel at ease with.

But the occasional one off if the live a long way from you and you feel you would like to meet them is fine, but that is just my opinion

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Regular friends is best, but one offs have their place too x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Regular as the sex just gets better

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have a few hot young guys who I meet regularly, which is great as I'm inc_edibly fussy. But equally I've had fantastic one-off meets too. Since all I'm looking for is NSA both work for me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

you can have both on here. although regular isn't ever as regular as i'd like.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have someone that I see as regularly as our schedules allow..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If the sex on the first meet is good, and it's possible to meet again,we meet again.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Once or twice with meets. Normally just the once.

Cali

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By *llie RoseWoman over a year ago

By the seaside

A bit of both for me. I get bo_ed easily so I like to mix things up.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I always go into a meet expecting it to be a one off and not committing to anything more. If we get on and have a good time then repeat meets are very welcome. (that's when I was a single fem btw)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have someone that I see as regularly as our schedules allow..

Me too best way and gets better each time or more naughty .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Both are good to be honest. ..if there was/is an exceptionally good click between us obviously more than once xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ideal world. A bit of both. Is that greedy??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Doesn't everything start as a one off....sometimes they come back and sometimes not....repeat meets are good and some you just know wont be coming back at all but thats not necessarily a bad thing.x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Defo regular. I have one fwb and I'd like an additional one. Also sometimes one offs but not too often.

With a regular person it just gets better and like someone else said boundaries can be pushed and different things explo_ed without the nerves.

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By *ettyboop61Woman over a year ago

St Neots

Mmmmm regular fwb is good and a cheeky one at a club!.....all good

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By *erdita Von TeaseWoman over a year ago

nottingham

Bit of both ideally

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like to have a stable of studs. I used to have 3 regulars in my stable and that worked very well. More than that, I think I would have struggled to find the time to keep the friendships going. It meant I always had someone I trusted available for a good laugh, flirty attention and some kinky fun. It's a bit sporadic at the moment, and we tend to go to parties more now. I would take an exclusive lover as part of an MMF trio, if they gave me what I wanted, but that is very time consuming for the man, and to date date I have found I need a few men to meet my needs. I will only do one offs in a party situation.

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I prefer regular myself. I want to be tied up etc and I wouldn't let a one off do that because of trust issues

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

All this depends on where I am really. I couldn't say I prefer one over the other but both are very welcome

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Regular for me .... The fun is always on going then

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By *iSTARessWoman over a year ago

London

I've a clutch of regular FWBs. Works for me

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By *ancs MinxWoman over a year ago

Burnley

Even better when you can have a great bomk holiday meets with a regular for a few days......lots to do..no rush and plenty of sex.....roll on

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By *ampWithABrainWoman over a year ago

Glasgow

Both have their merits

New is nice as a novelty and for frisson.

Regular for trust and knowing what works for each of you.

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By *reedy_for_funCouple over a year ago

My House

We're not against meeting the same people over and over if the sex is that good but not weekly or even monthly. When mood takes us all would be better I think. Arranging to meet the same people on a weekly or monthly basis could become quite tedious quite quickly I think.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We're not against meeting the same people over and over if the sex is that good but not weekly or even monthly. When mood takes us all would be better I think. Arranging to meet the same people on a weekly or monthly basis could become quite tedious quite quickly I think. "

definitely regular meets maybe once or twice a week able to push boundaries always does it for me, alas this I have yet to find ....

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By *habsMan over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

"Regular where I live in Reading.

One offs at a club."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

this is how we feel we have a few that we will meet again anytime those 3 are non clingy fun people but some just get all clingy and emotional and want you to themselves now that's a insant turn off and it aint swinging lol its kinda dating for sex lol

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By *edMan over a year ago

cambridgeshire

"Ideal world. A bit of both. Is that greedy?? "

No, because you're worth it;)

(Someone should use that in an ad

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I really don't have the time for regular meets so I tend to just stick with one offs

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