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"Not looking for single guy"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What is it with people who post that we are not looking for a single guy, then they go looking at single men profiles. Rather a conflict of interests isn't it?"
Just perving I guess, I like the one's say that then have ten meets with single man  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A lot of people will have that, and also block single men messaging and then search themselves for what they want, saves having to wade through 100's of emails that don't meet what the are looking for |
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"What is it with people who post that we are not looking for a single guy, then they go looking at single men profiles. Rather a conflict of interests isn't it?"
I don't have a problem with that. To me it mean that they will choose the single guys that they wish to meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why not ask them, then you'll have your answer??
You can't message them as they block everyone from your sex"
Apologies my lovely, your post said not looking for single guys, didn't realised you meant blocked. Well in that case, don't stress about it, its their profile, they're running it how it suits them. |
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"What is it with people who post that we are not looking for a single guy, then they go looking at single men profiles. Rather a conflict of interests isn't it?"
No not at all. Just means they are being proactive and will look for the types of guys they want .Saves wading through tonnes of random mails . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find it amusing and at there loss for example I'm shown as a single guy but i have a fellow female hii sex driven individual who wants 3sums ect yet I'm shown single so basically don't judge a book by the cover as you/use have no idea what's hidden but avaliable happy fabbin  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why not ask them, then you'll have your answer??
You can't message them as they block everyone from your sex"
No need to ask them,you got the answers here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find it amusing and at there loss for example I'm shown as a single guy but i have a fellow female hii sex driven individual who wants 3sums ect yet I'm shown single so basically don't judge a book by the cover as you/use have no idea what's hidden but avaliable happy fabbin "
Open a couples profile then, you can have a couples profile and a single man's profile, |
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Guess it depends why they are looking really, we often have a look at peeps posting in forums simply out of curiosity rather than desire; guess we are just a little nosey though Some will also have a look at someone they like and then view the people who have verified that person, this could also lead them to you.
Just various reasons I guess. Have a nice weekend X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What is it with people who post that we are not looking for a single guy, then they go looking at single men profiles. Rather a conflict of interests isn't it?"
it means that they don;t want messages from them.
It's the site's terminology not theirs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find it amusing and at there loss for example I'm shown as a single guy but i have a fellow female hii sex driven individual who wants 3sums ect yet I'm shown single so basically don't judge a book by the cover as you/use have no idea what's hidden but avaliable happy fabbin
Open a couples profile then, you can have a couples profile and a single man's profile,"
Exactly this. Most people would assume the only thing available on a single guys profile, is a single guy, go figure??!  |
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By *irty130Couple
over a year ago
Bristol Area |
I hope you're not one of those guys who messages everyone to say "I saw you looked at me".
You looked at them too! Are people not allowed to browse/perve on other profiles at all? This is why we use stealth mode. |
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By *irty130Couple
over a year ago
Bristol Area |
"Guess it depends why they are looking really, we often have a look at peeps posting in forums simply out of curiosity rather than desire; guess we are just a little nosey though Some will also have a look at someone they like and then view the people who have verified that person, this could also lead them to you.
Just various reasons I guess. Have a nice weekend X "
^^^ THIS.
I bet you've had a ton of people look at your profile today now!
A lot of them in stealth mode too. and a lot of them will be men, it's just that they don't show up at all in L-A-M if you're not looking for them. Don't worry, you won't catch the ghey if they just look. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yea a could do that but i have more than enough apps ect pouring with notifications so another profile isn't happening unless she was to make the account so basically all am saying is yea I agree I see a lot of gals saying no single men ect please and if we was to mail we get blocked anyway ahaa (didn't want to make a couple profile when we are fukk buddies and didn't want to give a false statement if you get Me) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find it amusing and at there loss for example I'm shown as a single guy but i have a fellow female hii sex driven individual who wants 3sums ect yet I'm shown single so basically don't judge a book by the cover as you/use have no idea what's hidden but avaliable happy fabbin " ....I really don't think people are going to hunt through single guy profiles, looking to see foes he have a female friend. ....There are hundreds of cpls profiles out there already, so why should they bother? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When you turn all your filters on to stop messages from single men it will say "not looking for single men" on the profile, it doesn't mean they aren't looking it just means they don't want messages from anyone and will do the messaging themselves. |
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Why are you so concerned about how other people choose to run their profiles?
You've had many cogent responses above, so I'd suggest you just take note and concentrate on how you run your own profile. |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"What is it with people who post that we are not looking for a single guy, then they go looking at single men profiles. Rather a conflict of interests isn't it?"
No...
We prefer to search and find single men that we might be interested in ourselves.
Plus I'm nosey and like reading profiles, so I look at lots of people that we wouldn't be compatible with.
Not that people would generally know unless we can pics or message them as we view in stealth mode.  |
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