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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What's everyone's most annoying thing about swinging, which isn't serious really but just annoys the hell out of you?
I don't mean stuff like not turning up for a meet. That is proper annoying - i mean the trival stuff...
Mine is when you're emailing someone and you're kind of having a conversation. Then they don't reply for ages, or just go altogether until the next day.
I know it isn't important, and they probably have a good reason for going offline, but it really gets to me for some reason lol. |
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Members status message which is weeks / months / even years out of date 
Will fill this in later! 12 months on site, still not filled in, wtf, how are we supposed to know what they want?
Replying to a wink, then nothing, not a sausage
Untidy people, photo’s that show how untidy the place is in the background!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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people jumping on me when i have done nothing wrong , lol xx out of the blue and not saying sorry xxx making up storys about people i hate all that just no need .. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"people jumping on me when i have done nothing wrong , lol xx out of the blue and not saying sorry xxx making up storys about people i hate all that just no need .. x"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As someone who was worked in the written word industry for many years, I find it hard to deal with deliberate lack of grammar and spelling - I do not mean typos - but such as when someone types "wiv" or "lol", etc., etc.
I know I shouldn't let it bother me, but it does. Language is a wonderful thing I hate to see people rubbishing it.
As an extension, I find it amazing when an older person does the above. If the decline of language is due in part to appropriation of technology at a young age, I don't see what reason a 50 year old has. Except, perhaps, ignorance.
Jesus, essay! Sorry! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As someone who was worked in the written word industry for many years, I find it hard to deal with deliberate lack of grammar and spelling - I do not mean typos - but such as when someone types "wiv" or "lol", etc., etc.
I know I shouldn't let it bother me, but it does. Language is a wonderful thing I hate to see people rubbishing it.
As an extension, I find it amazing when an older person does the above. If the decline of language is due in part to appropriation of technology at a young age, I don't see what reason a 50 year old has. Except, perhaps, ignorance.
Jesus, essay! Sorry!"
I concur. It's a huge turn off for me. Maybe I'm a complete snob, but I put it down to the fact that I'm a linguist. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As someone who was worked in the written word industry for many years, I find it hard to deal with deliberate lack of grammar and spelling - I do not mean typos - but such as when someone types "wiv" or "lol", etc., etc.
I know I shouldn't let it bother me, but it does. Language is a wonderful thing I hate to see people rubbishing it.
As an extension, I find it amazing when an older person does the above. If the decline of language is due in part to appropriation of technology at a young age, I don't see what reason a 50 year old has. Except, perhaps, ignorance.
Jesus, essay! Sorry!"
Very true!
People who get *your* and *you're* mixed up.
Or use 'would of' instead of 'would have'.
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By *DD1EMan
over a year ago
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People that either message me or send a wink, you reply.......then nothing  what's all that about then?
Also people with the same pictures/profile you've seen for the past 5 years, people change so why can't their pictures and profile do the same? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The fact that you've posted here indicates that it does!
This is a Swinging Site where people from all walks of life interact- Each to their own - we're all eqaul here!
Whilst I'm a tad pedantic about the area around" Text speak" I'll never pull people up over it.
"As someone who was worked in the written word industry for many years, I find it hard to deal with deliberate lack of grammar and spelling - I do not mean typos - but such as when someone types "wiv" or "lol", etc., etc.
I know I shouldn't let it bother me, but it does. Language is a wonderful thing I hate to see people rubbishing it.
As an extension, I find it amazing when an older person does the above. If the decline of language is due in part to appropriation of technology at a young age, I don't see what reason a 50 year old has. Except, perhaps, ignorance.
Jesus, essay! Sorry!"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is a Swinging Site where people from all walks of life interact- Each to their own - we're all eqaul here!"
Bollocks are we equal. Animals are not born to be equal, it's a forced social construct. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The fact that you've posted here indicates that it does!
This is a Swinging Site where people from all walks of life interact- Each to their own - we're all eqaul here!
Whilst I'm a tad pedantic about the area around" Text speak" I'll never pull people up over it.
As someone who was worked in the written word industry for many years, I find it hard to deal with deliberate lack of grammar and spelling - I do not mean typos - but such as when someone types "wiv" or "lol", etc., etc.
I know I shouldn't let it bother me, but it does. Language is a wonderful thing I hate to see people rubbishing it.
As an extension, I find it amazing when an older person does the above. If the decline of language is due in part to appropriation of technology at a young age, I don't see what reason a 50 year old has. Except, perhaps, ignorance.
Jesus, essay! Sorry!"
The idea of the thread was stuff that annoys people when it is quite trivial. So saying it shouldn't annoy you but it does, is a perfect example I think. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"people jumping on me when i have done nothing wrong , lol xx out of the blue and not saying sorry xxx making up storys about people i hate all that just no need .. x"
I agree with you Jo xx
Just roll your eyes at those sort of things  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hate winks I just delete them also hate friends requests from someone I've never spoke to.
Hate guys sending me a message with just an msn address or a email x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hate winks I just delete them also hate friends requests from someone I've never spoke to.
Hate guys sending me a message with just an msn address or a email x"
i want your underwear set lol |
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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago
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Yesss deffinatly ppl who send you freinds invite but you never even spoken to them before, and to top it all we have PLEASE DO NOT SEND FREINDS INVITE WITHOUTSOME KIND OF CONTACT. or something similar, but Noooo noo they still do it. why would we add ppl we have never spoken to at the other side of the UK to perv our private pics?????
I really want to guid them to the top shelf of the newsagents and get their wallets out. lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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people who use the forums to attack and judge others or get personal when they can't debate an issue to the conclusion they wish.
messages that have the desired intention of offending |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Newbie (straight) men mailing me saying can i suck you're cock five mins later user no longer on site "
I know rotten bastards get us all hot then they leave lol xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hate winks I just delete them also hate friends requests from someone I've never spoke to.
Hate guys sending me a message with just an msn address or a email x
i want your underwear set lol"
Ann Summers sale last year x |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"people who use the forums to attack and judge others or get personal when they can't debate an issue to the conclusion they wish.
messages that have the desired intention of offending "
totally agree, that makes my list longer  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"1. People who try to get me to meet behind my partners back.
2. People who are armchairs warriors on here.
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you do have a way with words .. I never see them as warriors , lol xx |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"1. People who try to get me to meet behind my partners back.
2. People who are armchairs warriors on here.
you do have a way with words .. I never see them as warriors , lol xx "
depends what you mean by "them" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"1. People who try to get me to meet behind my partners back.
2. People who are armchairs warriors on here.
you do have a way with words .. I never see them as warriors , lol xx "
Jo get out that armchair you. She's top warrior |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"1. People who try to get me to meet behind my partners back.
2. People who are armchairs warriors on here.
you do have a way with words .. I never see them as warriors , lol xx
Jo get out that armchair you. She's top warrior "
yes i need a armchair this seat make my bum hurt , lol xx it do xx |
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By *ig badMan
over a year ago
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I would say I have three (ok more but I won’t get greedy)
1/ People desperately striving to be something they never will be even with an opp.
2/Immature people who moan about someone else’s profile! I can only presume the moaners lead such a dull and uninteresting life them self to make them do this.
3/Keyboard cretins. All gobby when tapping but smaller nadds than a nat when they actually meet someone in the real world.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would say I have three (ok more but I won’t get greedy)
1/ People desperately striving to be something they never will be even with an opp.
2/Immature people who moan about someone else’s profile! I can only presume the moaners lead such a dull and uninteresting life them self to make them do this.
3/Keyboard cretins. All gobby when tapping but smaller nadds than a nat when they actually meet someone in the real world.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People who get so agitated in the forums they have keep deleting their message, leaving a blank posting!
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I'll get me coat"
Well you made me smile! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The question "have you had many meets then" - makes me feel like someone's personal porn.
And people who tell me to reply, cos it's rude not too - I don't like being told what to do  |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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Like Bertie.......
Nowt now... it used to, but not know.
I find it all amusing, people getting wound up over this and that and this and that..
People/I log on with the intention of having fun.. and I like to log off thinking I have had fun.. not wound up like a tighly coiled spring following spats with others.
xxx
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When one of us accidentally mails ourselves... I'm not blaming the male half of this couple in the slightest
Also when you send a wink/friend invite by accident... we have both done it 
....would prefer if there was a "are you sure you want to send this?" popping up when you hit those buttons. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find it all amusing, people getting wound up over this and that and this and that..
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For me, I don't get wound up, they're just the things that make me roll my eyes and delete |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When you are in the middle of a multi man gang bang, loving all the attention - and one of the guys decides he wants to make luuuuurve to you and none of the other guys can touch you while he 'pleasures' you!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When you see the profile of someone utterly gorgeous and you realise they live way to far away, like, I dunno, Norfolk, to even consider meeting you. Naming no names... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When you see the profile of someone utterly gorgeous and you realise they live way to far away, like, I dunno, Norfolk, to even consider meeting you. Naming no names..."
can i have a face xx and you never know xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" read some 1 profile and they demand that they see a pict in 1st mail,
were as they have not got 1 themselves."
They will more than likely have one or two to send privately. We keep ours off our profile as we don't want friends/family to getting a bit of a shock lol!! Sending your face pic will let folk work out quickly if they are going to consider you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When he say i am cumming and it all stop .. and i am left ..... get that from some men xx why i like repeters.
I repeat lots lol"
QUICK!!! Grab him Jo lol!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People who have the title of the profile as "WE DO NOT WANT SINGLE MALES"
Some even have single males on their friends list "
this is true its annoying that |
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all of the above!!! men think girls on here are free prostitutes they think they can look thorugh pics and choose one they fancy and when you decline they call you a timewasting fake!!!!
also have had a few experiences of chatting to people thinking its going well then they just stop contacting you, obviously they have met someone better!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"all of the above!!! men think girls on here are free prostitutes they think they can look thorugh pics and choose one they fancy and when you decline they call you a timewasting fake!!!!"
Not all men! Please don't tar them all with the same brush because of idiots.
There are loads of gentlemen on here. You just have to ignore the bad to find the good.
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"when someone slags you off and tells a lie. and then everyone jumps on bandwagon to slag you off. long time forum posters should know better. specially from a lie in the first place"
sadly dude, it sometimes goes with the territory. some may see 'perceived' popularity and they feel the need to knock people down.
dont let anything bother ya
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"People deleting unopened mail. Ok you read you don't like is not a problem but deleting without reading i just don't get."
Maybe they read it then deleted it straight away. I wasn't aware you could tell if a mail had been deleted without having been read. |
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"People who have the title of the profile as "WE DO NOT WANT SINGLE MALES" yet they come up in a search because they haven't clicked the relevant seeking box......really does me in."
Or people that have "WE DO NOT WANT SINGLE MALES" repeated time and time again in their profile, especially with something patronising along the lines of "and for those that can't read, we'll say it again - WE DO NOT WANT SINGLE MALES".
If someone is not capable of reading then it doesn't matter how many times you write it, does it? Durrr! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People who have the title of the profile as "WE DO NOT WANT SINGLE MALES" yet they come up in a search because they haven't clicked the relevant seeking box......really does me in."
And half their verifications are from single males who are also outside their age range requirements. |
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By *ohjaneCouple
over a year ago
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I get a bit peeved when someone chats for AGES, saying everything to please you and seemingly fitting your bill . . . then when you eventually give in and share a cam session, which is not something I enjoy really . . . they disappear forever - only to turn up a week later with a new profile, new name, new pics, but it is sooo obvious that it is the same guy . . . . Very sad !! ( And you know who you are!)
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Oh yeah.... this one is annoying in a funny way though....
People who send you messages saying how hot you are, how they just know they will want to do x, y, z and how turned on you make them, how they can't wait because how attracted they are to you.... and then you point out they haven't seen a photo yet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People who dont read profiles and then send a message, dont care if they wonder why they didnt get a reply as i guess they do but i dont always read, sometimes i delete without reading, so annoying
Text talk; i'm 50 not 15
Guys who see me online in the early morning ie 6.30am and "want some fun" though the best ive had since ive been on here is the guy on friday morning from London, as if i fancy some fun at that time of the morning, also 3 hrs drive, he didnt reply when i told him. I think most guys look at the picture, think i want some of that and dont read the profile
I have preferences, choices, i am allowed that and i dont appreciate the message i got from some young lad telling me i should get out of my box as if i am not entitled to make my own choice, no matter how mature he came across, no way am i changing my preference for someone younger than my kids
No way am i changing either my decision not to want to meet guys that live the other side of the country, and those that have messaged me just seem desperate especially the idiot that said "dont you come up here then?" and id never even heard of where he lived |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Couples who ask you to meet locally to them, not you, for an initial drink,
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then tell you they think you are just their type and they def want to meet the next week
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then postpone and say def meet soon
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then never reply to any of the polite messages you send them in the next few months
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but retain you on their friends list- maybe so they can have a look at any new pics
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then put a Meet Today notice up, single guys welcome
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then ignore your messages politely asking if you can join them for this fun
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Bad manners, plain and simple.
Yes I have now blocked them.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People who have the title of the profile as "WE DO NOT WANT SINGLE MALES" yet they come up in a search because they haven't clicked the relevant seeking box......really does me in.
Or people that have "WE DO NOT WANT SINGLE MALES" repeated time and time again in their profile, especially with something patronising along the lines of "and for those that can't read, we'll say it again - WE DO NOT WANT SINGLE MALES".
If someone is not capable of reading then it doesn't matter how many times you write it, does it? Durrr! "
I DO WANT SINGLE MALES |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People deleting unopened mail. Ok you read you don't like is not a problem but deleting without reading i just don't get."
I do that to those its obvious havent read my profile, mostly the young lads as ive had several reply back when ive told them im not interested as i prefer my own age group, i get the "i like older women as they know what they want" so the last guy got "I know what this older lady wants and its not your age group" didnt get a reply to that, much easier im afraid to delete without reading. Even those my age group dont always listen when i tell them they are too far away, eventually i stop replying and they get the message |
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"when someone slags you off and tells a lie. and then everyone jumps on bandwagon to slag you off. long time forum posters should know better. specially from a lie in the first place
sadly dude, it sometimes goes with the territory. some may see 'perceived' popularity and they feel the need to knock people down.
dont let anything bother ya
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Hey! Some of us just had money riding on how it would end  |
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"People deleting unopened mail. Ok you read you don't like is not a problem but deleting without reading i just don't get.
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I sometimes look at the profile before I open the message.
I can generally tell by the title and pre_iew if they have read my profile.
How the hell do you know they didn't read it first... unless you sit there staring at your send messages, pressing refresh every 5 seconds. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Here's another pet hate, whilst i dont mind winks, it does annoy me when, yet again they havent read my profile before sending it, so aged 25 from scotland wont get a wink or message back |
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Winks we don't mind.
Friends invite without a message simply gets deleted 
What does p*** me off is, those who think it's acceptable to wink / send invite, without a message yet state on their profile DO NOT SEND WINKS / FRIENDS INVITE WITHOUT MESSAGE |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My pet hate is men who message us and get annoyed when its Chris that answers back. They'll say oh its you, we wanted Feebs. Thats so rude.
This relates to the potential meet type messages, not messages from friends on the forum. Chris doesnt ever post on forums and when its forum related he may read the messages but has no problem with the message being for me.
But if its a potential meet then its so rude because Chris will be present at the meet. We are not going to meet anyone who cant even say hello to him are we? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"when someone slags you off and tells a lie. and then everyone jumps on bandwagon to slag you off. long time forum posters should know better. specially from a lie in the first place"
Never heard of a dignified silence. We said our piece and left it at that we hoped you would too all we have seen is you telling everyone it's lies then saying sorry. Sorry but we had to say our piece we are not liars why would we lie. The evidence is out there.
Cecilia and Reno |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ha, Just spotted yet another couple's profile that starts:
NO SINGLE MALES NO SINGLE MALES NO SINGLE MALES !
and their only verification is from... you guessed it a single male |
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By *artytwoCouple
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
You see someone tasty in a club, your partner seems to like the fella, exchange looks, move in, signs are good, nice chat, touching, feeling, shall we go into the bed/couch area?. Ok, down to business........
Fanny stinks like a polecat....oh shit.
Options:
*pretend you're having a heart attack/stroke.
*carry on regardless.
*decide you're into soft swing after all.
*go for a 'comfort break' and don't come back.
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