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over a year ago
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Hi guys well this is an interesting topic ,, I've been in the swinging scene for about 12 years now but recently people see my verification's and think player !! They dont take time to read because if they did then they would realise most are good freinds. I also run events so im well known.
Im no player just enjoy my life with good freinds and a happy lifestyle . Question is girls and guys .. do you also get tarnished with this brush ?? Ie show verifications and get labeled slag or player .. hmmmmm so wrong i think
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I can never understand this! Most of us got involved in this scene as we have a very liberal attitude towards sex! We have a fair few veris, mainly from parties, I think our veris paint a picture of what we are about and I see no point in hiding them. Share x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Last night in a chat room someone said to me wow... 6 months and youve had how many meets... my response if you actually read them youll see most are social as I worked in a swinger club... so no most people unfortunately see numbers and think omg wtf he or she or even they get around. .. completely clouds their judgement xxx |
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I've been told by more than one person on here that I've had too many meets and have too many veris. Again, quite a few of those meets and veris have been at social parties or are repeat veris from the same person.... not that logic or explaining that gets through to them.
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Happened to me the other night, I got called a player and a slag even though most of mine are from clubs and parties but she wasn't taking anything I said as she just saw the number, plus that number is because I have been on the scene 5 years now |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi guys well this is an interesting topic ,, I've been in the swinging scene for about 12 years now but recently people see my verification's and think player !! They dont take time to read because if they did then they would realise most are good freinds. I also run events so im well known.
Im no player just enjoy my life with good freinds and a happy lifestyle . Question is girls and guys .. do you also get tarnished with this brush ?? Ie show verifications and get labeled slag or player .. hmmmmm so wrong i think
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I think personally that if anyone on this site has a problem with the amount of verifications you have on a swingers site is a frigging idiot |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Here's the thing with veris .
Some judge you , and look upon lots of veris as a sign that you will fuck anything .
Others see it as a good sign that you know what you are doing , and that they will be more likely to have a good meet with you .
So ask yourself which of the above two you would rather meet .
And there's the end of the conundrum .....
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Always thought the whole reason for swinging was to be able to have lots of sex with lots of people ? Why then would anyone worry that you have lots of verifications,unless they have come to a swinging site looking for that one special someone .but hey what do I know .
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I have to be honest here 90 percent of my freinds are swingers but hey we dont fuck every single day .. we do vinalla stuff too like meals out cinema alton towers hell even holidays so please people dont judge me on how many verification's i have judge me on the person i am !!!!!! |
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