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over a year ago
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The wife has a fantasy of a FFFF 4Sum.
I (hubby) would be allowed to watch and if all in agreement once given permission allowed to join in.
Would be nice to know if this appeals to any of you lovely ladies of Fab.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think if I were to partake in a FFFF 4sum I'd like it to just be the ladies only, then men can watch if they want but if they join in its not the 4sum anymore  which in itself the 4sum sounds very sexy |
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"The wife has a fantasy of a FFFF 4Sum.
I (hubby) would be allowed to watch and if all in agreement once given permission allowed to join in.
Would be nice to know if this appeals to any of you lovely ladies of Fab.
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I think husband is wishful thinking lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The wife has a fantasy of a FFFF 4Sum.
I (hubby) would be allowed to watch and if all in agreement once given permission allowed to join in.
Would be nice to know if this appeals to any of you lovely ladies of Fab.
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Her fantasy sounds great. Yours less so. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Fully appreciate the FFFF sounds great.
Saucy does want me to watch though as we are in this together.
Completely understand this will put 99.99 % of people off. |
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"I don't know what it is about ladies but most hate guys watching them play . I myself don't have problem being watched but some guys hate to b watched too . "
I'll tell you what it is... Probably something to do with not wanting to be part of the floor show for some bloke  |
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"Fully appreciate the FFFF sounds great.
Saucy does want me to watch though as we are in this together.
Completely understand this will put 99.99 % of people off."
Any else with me here and feeling for this poor guy?
There he is, probably wanting a quiet night in watching the footy, yet his lady insists he comes out and watches and participates in a four lady orgy - most on here would say no to her and say you go by yourself but the guy here, clearly for the love of his partner, agrees to do it for her - if only more men on here were as willing to sacrifice themselves for their ladies |
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"I don't know what it is about ladies but most hate guys watching them play . I myself don't have problem being watched but some guys hate to b watched too . "
I would imagine it's because historically female sexuality has not (and is still not) been taken seriously. When men find out one of my partners is a lesbian, they often ask me if they can join in. Well no - because she's a lesbian, she's not into male-bodied individuals.
Lesbianism is too often considered to be a thing that women do for men. It's a thing for mens pleasure. Lesbian porn is always made for men - not women. Women get off with each other in nightclubs to tease men. Threesomes are always assumed to be two women and a man - you're considered weird if you want two men and a woman.
So now many women are sensitive about playing with other women. I generally won't play with other women in public in clubs. I don't like the way that letchy guys think it's a show for them rather than something that I'm getting pleasure from.
Not to mention that if you have women in a all female puppy pile, they may well be not into men at all. Would you expect gay men to let random women watch them playing with each other? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Lucinda loves her FF only meets, not that many females in our area looking for this unfortunately  She would love to go to an all girl orgy.
I'm more than happy for her to have these meets and love hearing about it afterwards.
We have done FF with men watching and touching own partners only in clubs(the other couples preference) which I have enjoyed (what man wouldn't) but understand its all about the girls having fun!
We do have loads of attractive couples in our area with a bisexual female, but very few where the lady will play without a man, that's not a criticism btw - its there choice who they meet, but Such a shame! |
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"Lucinda loves her FF only meets, not that many females in our area looking for this unfortunately She would love to go to an all girl orgy.
I'm more than happy for her to have these meets and love hearing about it afterwards.
We have done FF with men watching and touching own partners only in clubs(the other couples preference) which I have enjoyed (what man wouldn't) but understand its all about the girls having fun!
We do have loads of attractive couples in our area with a bisexual female, but very few where the lady will play without a man, that's not a criticism btw - its there choice who they meet, but Such a shame!"
See it's interesting - because I prefer not to play with couples where the deal is that they go home and tell their partner all of the details of what they've done.
I'm quite private about my sex life, especially when it's with other women, and feel quite objectified if someone says that they'll tell their partner everything afterwards.
Different strokes and all that. |
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"I don't know what it is about ladies but most hate guys watching them play . I myself don't have problem being watched but some guys hate to b watched too .
I would imagine it's because historically female sexuality has not (and is still not) been taken seriously. When men find out one of my partners is a lesbian, they often ask me if they can join in. Well no - because she's a lesbian, she's not into male-bodied individuals.
Lesbianism is too often considered to be a thing that women do for men. It's a thing for mens pleasure. Lesbian porn is always made for men - not women. Women get off with each other in nightclubs to tease men. Threesomes are always assumed to be two women and a man - you're considered weird if you want two men and a woman.
So now many women are sensitive about playing with other women. I generally won't play with other women in public in clubs. I don't like the way that letchy guys think it's a show for them rather than something that I'm getting pleasure from.
Not to mention that if you have women in a all female puppy pile, they may well be not into men at all. Would you expect gay men to let random women watch them playing with each other?"
Basically this. As ever, Wasp is able to explain things much better than I. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lucinda loves her FF only meets, not that many females in our area looking for this unfortunately She would love to go to an all girl orgy.
I'm more than happy for her to have these meets and love hearing about it afterwards.
We have done FF with men watching and touching own partners only in clubs(the other couples preference) which I have enjoyed (what man wouldn't) but understand its all about the girls having fun!
We do have loads of attractive couples in our area with a bisexual female, but very few where the lady will play without a man, that's not a criticism btw - its there choice who they meet, but Such a shame!
See it's interesting - because I prefer not to play with couples where the deal is that they go home and tell their partner all of the details of what they've done.
I'm quite private about my sex life, especially when it's with other women, and feel quite objectified if someone says that they'll tell their partner everything afterwards.
Different strokes and all that."
Totally understand your point of view, as a couple we talk and discuss everything we do in life when we are apart and together, swinging is no different  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Certainly opened up an interesting topic of debate with this one.
Wasn't expecting any response , feedback , criticism etc.
Just expected the topic to be overlooked to be honest. |
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"Lucinda loves her FF only meets, not that many females in our area looking for this unfortunately She would love to go to an all girl orgy.
I'm more than happy for her to have these meets and love hearing about it afterwards.
We have done FF with men watching and touching own partners only in clubs(the other couples preference) which I have enjoyed (what man wouldn't) but understand its all about the girls having fun!
We do have loads of attractive couples in our area with a bisexual female, but very few where the lady will play without a man, that's not a criticism btw - its there choice who they meet, but Such a shame!
See it's interesting - because I prefer not to play with couples where the deal is that they go home and tell their partner all of the details of what they've done.
I'm quite private about my sex life, especially when it's with other women, and feel quite objectified if someone says that they'll tell their partner everything afterwards.
Different strokes and all that.
Totally understand your point of view, as a couple we talk and discuss everything we do in life when we are apart and together, swinging is no different "
I'll change that last bit to we discuss everything to 'most' things, as she did 'forget' to tell me she scratched the front of my car last week |
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"Lucinda loves her FF only meets, not that many females in our area looking for this unfortunately She would love to go to an all girl orgy.
I'm more than happy for her to have these meets and love hearing about it afterwards.
We have done FF with men watching and touching own partners only in clubs(the other couples preference) which I have enjoyed (what man wouldn't) but understand its all about the girls having fun!
We do have loads of attractive couples in our area with a bisexual female, but very few where the lady will play without a man, that's not a criticism btw - its there choice who they meet, but Such a shame!
See it's interesting - because I prefer not to play with couples where the deal is that they go home and tell their partner all of the details of what they've done.
I'm quite private about my sex life, especially when it's with other women, and feel quite objectified if someone says that they'll tell their partner everything afterwards.
Different strokes and all that.
Totally understand your point of view, as a couple we talk and discuss everything we do in life when we are apart and together, swinging is no different "
Yeah that's fair enough. Some couples are just like that, it's not my thing but it's obviously yours!
Sometimes couples get shitty when I say no for that reason - but I always point out that I'm consenting to a sexual encounter with one of them - not both. |
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"Lucinda loves her FF only meets, not that many females in our area looking for this unfortunately She would love to go to an all girl orgy.
I'm more than happy for her to have these meets and love hearing about it
We have done FF with men watching and touching own partners only in clubs(the other couples preference) which I have enjoyed (what man wouldn't) but understand its all about the girls having fun!
We do have loads of attractive couples in our area with a bisexual female, but very few where the lady will play without a man, that's not a criticism btw - its there choice who they meet, but Such a shame!
See it's interesting - because I prefer not to play with couples where the deal is that they go home and tell their partner all of the details of what they've done.
I'm quite private about my sex life, especially when it's with other women, and feel quite objectified if someone says that they'll tell their partner everything afterwards.
Different strokes and all that.
Totally understand your point of view, as a couple we talk and discuss everything we do in life when we are apart and together, swinging is no different
Yeah that's fair enough. Some couples are just like that, it's not my thing but it's obviously yours!
Sometimes couples get shitty when I say no for that reason - but I always point out that I'm consenting to a sexual encounter with one of them - not both."
Yeah being open, honest and interested in each other is an integral part of our relationship, in and out of swinging.
But can see your need for privacy, we are pretty private people outside of fab - social media etc. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The 18 all girl party was pretty epic, no flies on the wall though just lots of eager husbands, FBs and randomers miles away hoping for photos.  "
Id of loved to of gone to that one , even more so with you being there  |
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"Lucinda loves her FF only meets, not that many females in our area looking for this unfortunately She would love to go to an all girl orgy.
I'm more than happy for her to have these meets and love hearing about it afterwards. "
I have enjoyed a lovely FF solo meet with Lucinda! I aalso have another single fem that I meet alone on a fairly regular basis (although Mr FF is now actively involved in that threesome now). I would love to set up a FFFF only meeting. Very excited by the thought of it! |
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