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Anyone else have this problem?
We have encounte_ed a weird couple who bombard us with messages because we didn't meet them as we had another meet yet we never arranged to meet this pushy couple in the first place! And now they are messaging wanting to know who it is we met and basically calling us liers saying there waiting to see a verification on our profile from our said meet!? Wtf!!! They say single guys have a bad rep but couples can be just as bad I have never came across a couple so obsurd! We meet who we are any when we want at a time when we want we ask no ones permission or have to prove anything to anyone! And our meets are most certainly private! jeez some people!  |
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"Yep we would have just blocked them when they expected us to meet them instead of our meet we had organised. "
And the weird thing is they are not even in our area they are like 100 miles away lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never had an experience like this. Usually our interactions with people here are quite normal (or at least weird in p_edictable ways...).
Maybe we're actually the weird ones, then 
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By *edMan
over a year ago
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"Why not just block them?
Thank you 
sometimes you don't need a thread for the answer 
It's not searching for the answer it's just a thread to see if anyone else has come across weird couples"
Am sure there's loads of weird couples.. But as a single guy I've found them not chasing after me
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we tend to get a feel for a couple straight away, we just want to meet couples that all four of us get along and have a giggle and if we want to rip each other's clothes off its a bonus - if anyone starts getting pushy or hassling is or being plain weird we just block them. There are lots of good looking and lovely couples on here that if it seems like hard work on a message then I'm sure it will be if we met up too x |
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"Sounds like they have 'issues'. Well swerved! Fortunately, the vast majority of couples aren't like that."
they certainly have issues that's for sure I know id say 98% of couples on here are not like that! that's the first we have come across. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are lots of weird couples on fab and IRL too, we have had couples be abusive to us in the past when we have politely declined bareback meets though it said explicitly on our profile we don't do bareback (though now we just have safe sex on our interests list as we tried to make our profile less negatives more positives), we had a couple who tried to insist that we meet with them at their home when their kids were in, which is something we won't do and then called us childish and rude because we had said "Sorry we don't play when children are around but we are happy to arrange to meet at ours if you can get a sitter"
We just block them and move on, and i'm sure some people think we are weird for the way we approach people but we at least try to be polite LOL |
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"There are lots of weird couples on fab and IRL too, we have had couples be abusive to us in the past when we have politely declined bareback meets though it said explicitly on our profile we don't do bareback (though now we just have safe sex on our interests list as we tried to make our profile less negatives more positives), we had a couple who tried to insist that we meet with them at their home when their kids were in, which is something we won't do and then called us childish and rude because we had said "Sorry we don't play when children are around but we are happy to arrange to meet at ours if you can get a sitter"
We just block them and move on, and i'm sure some people think we are weird for the way we approach people but we at least try to be polite LOL "
And your quite right |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anyone else have this problem?
We have encounte_ed a weird couple who bombard us with messages because we didn't meet them as we had another meet yet we never arranged to meet this pushy couple in the first place! And now they are messaging wanting to know who it is we met and basically calling us liers saying there waiting to see a verification on our profile from our said meet!? Wtf!!! They say single guys have a bad rep but couples can be just as bad I have never came across a couple so obsurd! We meet who we are any when we want at a time when we want we ask no ones permission or have to prove anything to anyone! And our meets are most certainly private! jeez some people! "
We had this the weekend.
First we get a polite message, no problems we reply.
Straight away they want face pic's and start banging on about when we going to meet.
Then ensued a deluge of messages asking what hotel etc...
We only said hello and would possibly like to meet up for a drink sometime.
Block, delete. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One or two recently- gets tiring!
You try not to have a list of yes/no/do/don't, etc but get hit with it by them if you remotely say you like what you see.
Stopped winking or messaging first a lot of the time as its seen as carte blanch by them |
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"Really want to name and shame them as to warn anyone else that they are mentally unstable but that would be stopping to there level"
and breaking site rules sure they would have a very different story speaking to them, just block and move on |
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"Really want to name and shame them as to warn anyone else that they are mentally unstable but that would be stopping to there level"
That will get you a ban.
Also it would be very unfair to them as we havn't heard their side of the story ! |
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"There is no there side lol they're just very weird and obsurd! and I'm not posting there name on here I said feel like doing it as to warn others I think they really do have mental health problems"
If course there is always another side!! And usually the truth is somewhere in the middle. Even though you haven't named them publically saying you think they have mental health issues is just plain wrong in my opinion and really doesn't cast you in a positive light. |
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"There is no there side lol they're just very weird and obsurd! and I'm not posting there name on here I said feel like doing it as to warn others I think they really do have mental health problems"
and they might say and think exactly the same about you |
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"There is no there side lol they're just very weird and obsurd! and I'm not posting there name on here I said feel like doing it as to warn others I think they really do have mental health problems"
There's always another side to every thing !!!! |
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"There is no there side lol they're just very weird and obsurd! and I'm not posting there name on here I said feel like doing it as to warn others I think they really do have mental health problems
If course there is always another side!! And usually the truth is somewhere in the middle. Even though you haven't named them publically saying you think they have mental health issues is just plain wrong in my opinion and really doesn't cast you in a positive light."
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By (user no longer on site)
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Sounds like a couple i started talking to. In the end i said look ive never agreeed to meet you. Their reply was plain abusive. Apparently i could of learnt something from them....i did learn to bl9ck much sooner |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have came across a lot of pushy couples who ignore 'straight' on my profile and are desperate for me to play with both of them! Blocking is the only things to do instead of engaging in dialogue. |
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"There is no there side lol they're just very weird and obsurd! and I'm not posting there name on here I said feel like doing it as to warn others I think they really do have mental health problems
If course there is always another side!! And usually the truth is somewhere in the middle. Even though you haven't named them publically saying you think they have mental health issues is just plain wrong in my opinion and really doesn't cast you in a positive light."
No there really isn't another side trust me! They mailed us not the other way around they assumed without even asking us we was going to meet them? Wtf! And then started being all weird wanting to know who we are meeting and to prove it with a verification and when we told them where to go they got all abusive! Not sure how you could say there's two sides! If only you could read what they was putting! Proper proper strange! |
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"There is no there side lol they're just very weird and obsurd! and I'm not posting there name on here I said feel like doing it as to warn others I think they really do have mental health problems
If course there is always another side!! And usually the truth is somewhere in the middle. Even though you haven't named them publically saying you think they have mental health issues is just plain wrong in my opinion and really doesn't cast you in a positive light.
No there really isn't another side trust me! They mailed us not the other way around they assumed without even asking us we was going to meet them? Wtf! And then started being all weird wanting to know who we are meeting and to prove it with a verification and when we told them where to go they got all abusive! Not sure how you could say there's two sides! If only you could read what they was putting! Proper proper strange! "
The point is that nobody but you can read the other side!!
So as I say there are always two sides to any story, all that you have put is heresay and I'm sorry, whilst you may be correct, the other couple may not be aware of this thread to defend themselves if they wished to do so.
So yes there is another side. |
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"There is no there side lol they're just very weird and obsurd! and I'm not posting there name on here I said feel like doing it as to warn others I think they really do have mental health problems
If course there is always another side!! And usually the truth is somewhere in the middle. Even though you haven't named them publically saying you think they have mental health issues is just plain wrong in my opinion and really doesn't cast you in a positive light.
No there really isn't another side trust me! They mailed us not the other way around they assumed without even asking us we was going to meet them? Wtf! And then started being all weird wanting to know who we are meeting and to prove it with a verification and when we told them where to go they got all abusive! Not sure how you could say there's two sides! If only you could read what they was putting! Proper proper strange!
The point is that nobody but you can read the other side!!
So as I say there are always two sides to any story, all that you have put is heresay and I'm sorry, whilst you may be correct, the other couple may not be aware of this thread to defend themselves if they wished to do so.
So yes there is another side."
All very well but this forum is not about attacking the said couple it was started to see if anyone else has encounte_ed weird couples! I know you think there is two sides as fair enough you havnt seen messages just our word but that is not what this forum is about |
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"There is no there side lol they're just very weird and obsurd! and I'm not posting there name on here I said feel like doing it as to warn others I think they really do have mental health problems
If course there is always another side!! And usually the truth is somewhere in the middle. Even though you haven't named them publically saying you think they have mental health issues is just plain wrong in my opinion and really doesn't cast you in a positive light.
No there really isn't another side trust me! They mailed us not the other way around they assumed without even asking us we was going to meet them? Wtf! And then started being all weird wanting to know who we are meeting and to prove it with a verification and when we told them where to go they got all abusive! Not sure how you could say there's two sides! If only you could read what they was putting! Proper proper strange!
The point is that nobody but you can read the other side!!
So as I say there are always two sides to any story, all that you have put is heresay and I'm sorry, whilst you may be correct, the other couple may not be aware of this thread to defend themselves if they wished to do so.
So yes there is another side.
All very well but this forum is not about attacking the said couple it was started to see if anyone else has encounte_ed weird couples! I know you think there is two sides as fair enough you havnt seen messages just our word but that is not what this forum is about "
You are the ones who posted this. Once posted the forum can always go off in different directions. You are the people who actually in essence have attacked the other party by casting a view they have mental health problems. That is an attack and there is no getting around that. |
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"The point is that nobody but you can read the other side!!
So as I say there are always two sides to any story, all that you have put is heresay and I'm sorry, whilst you may be correct, the other couple may not be aware of this thread to defend themselves if they wished to do so.
So yes there is another side."
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You are the ones who posted this. Once posted the forum can always go off in different directions. You are the people who actually in essence have attacked the other party by casting a view they have mental health problems. That is an attack and there is no getting around that."
agreed |
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"There is no there side lol they're just very weird and obsurd! and I'm not posting there name on here I said feel like doing it as to warn others I think they really do have mental health problems
If course there is always another side!! And usually the truth is somewhere in the middle. Even though you haven't named them publically saying you think they have mental health issues is just plain wrong in my opinion and really doesn't cast you in a positive light.
No there really isn't another side trust me! They mailed us not the other way around they assumed without even asking us we was going to meet them? Wtf! And then started being all weird wanting to know who we are meeting and to prove it with a verification and when we told them where to go they got all abusive! Not sure how you could say there's two sides! If only you could read what they was putting! Proper proper strange!
The point is that nobody but you can read the other side!!
So as I say there are always two sides to any story, all that you have put is heresay and I'm sorry, whilst you may be correct, the other couple may not be aware of this thread to defend themselves if they wished to do so.
So yes there is another side.
All very well but this forum is not about attacking the said couple it was started to see if anyone else has encounte_ed weird couples! I know you think there is two sides as fair enough you havnt seen messages just our word but that is not what this forum is about
You are the ones who posted this. Once posted the forum can always go off in different directions. You are the people who actually in essence have attacked the other party by casting a view they have mental health problems. That is an attack and there is no getting around that."
If they have got mental health problems you should be more understanding. However I suspect they're just idiots so so being angry! |
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"There is no there side lol they're just very weird and obsurd! and I'm not posting there name on here I said feel like doing it as to warn others I think they really do have mental health problems
If course there is always another side!! And usually the truth is somewhere in the middle. Even though you haven't named them publically saying you think they have mental health issues is just plain wrong in my opinion and really doesn't cast you in a positive light.
No there really isn't another side trust me! They mailed us not the other way around they assumed without even asking us we was going to meet them? Wtf! And then started being all weird wanting to know who we are meeting and to prove it with a verification and when we told them where to go they got all abusive! Not sure how you could say there's two sides! If only you could read what they was putting! Proper proper strange!
The point is that nobody but you can read the other side!!
So as I say there are always two sides to any story, all that you have put is heresay and I'm sorry, whilst you may be correct, the other couple may not be aware of this thread to defend themselves if they wished to do so.
So yes there is another side.
All very well but this forum is not about attacking the said couple it was started to see if anyone else has encounte_ed weird couples! I know you think there is two sides as fair enough you havnt seen messages just our word but that is not what this forum is about
You are the ones who posted this. Once posted the forum can always go off in different directions. You are the people who actually in essence have attacked the other party by casting a view they have mental health problems. That is an attack and there is no getting around that."
No we havnt publicly named them and branded them so everyone knows who we are talking about so we havnt attacked them at all! If you read their messages you can clearly see not all the lights are on upstairs ! We are the ones who was attacked with abuse from them not the other way around but hey everyone's got an opinion I don't grudge that! But this is going off the subject a bit as it was meant to see how many other people have encounte_ed the same problem! We haven't personally attacked anybody! |
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"There is no there side lol they're just very weird and obsurd! and I'm not posting there name on here I said feel like doing it as to warn others I think they really do have mental health problems
If course there is always another side!! And usually the truth is somewhere in the middle. Even though you haven't named them publically saying you think they have mental health issues is just plain wrong in my opinion and really doesn't cast you in a positive light.
No there really isn't another side trust me! They mailed us not the other way around they assumed without even asking us we was going to meet them? Wtf! And then started being all weird wanting to know who we are meeting and to prove it with a verification and when we told them where to go they got all abusive! Not sure how you could say there's two sides! If only you could read what they was putting! Proper proper strange!
The point is that nobody but you can read the other side!!
So as I say there are always two sides to any story, all that you have put is heresay and I'm sorry, whilst you may be correct, the other couple may not be aware of this thread to defend themselves if they wished to do so.
So yes there is another side.
All very well but this forum is not about attacking the said couple it was started to see if anyone else has encounte_ed weird couples! I know you think there is two sides as fair enough you havnt seen messages just our word but that is not what this forum is about
You are the ones who posted this. Once posted the forum can always go off in different directions. You are the people who actually in essence have attacked the other party by casting a view they have mental health problems. That is an attack and there is no getting around that.
If they have got mental health problems you should be more understanding. However I suspect they're just idiots so so being angry!"
Not angry lol found it quite amusing really as its our first odd couple we have encounte_ed |
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Some couples simply think all single guys are desperado...I am definately horny and not desperate,a few couples gave me this....meet now or your loss,I refer_ed them to my verifications coz couples are not my priority tho I will meet with kool nice couples once in a while x |
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"There is no there side lol they're just very weird and obsurd! and I'm not posting there name on here I said feel like doing it as to warn others I think they really do have mental health problems
If course there is always another side!! And usually the truth is somewhere in the middle. Even though you haven't named them publically saying you think they have mental health issues is just plain wrong in my opinion and really doesn't cast you in a positive light.
No there really isn't another side trust me! They mailed us not the other way around they assumed without even asking us we was going to meet them? Wtf! And then started being all weird wanting to know who we are meeting and to prove it with a verification and when we told them where to go they got all abusive! Not sure how you could say there's two sides! If only you could read what they was putting! Proper proper strange!
The point is that nobody but you can read the other side!!
So as I say there are always two sides to any story, all that you have put is heresay and I'm sorry, whilst you may be correct, the other couple may not be aware of this thread to defend themselves if they wished to do so.
So yes there is another side.
All very well but this forum is not about attacking the said couple it was started to see if anyone else has encounte_ed weird couples! I know you think there is two sides as fair enough you havnt seen messages just our word but that is not what this forum is about
You are the ones who posted this. Once posted the forum can always go off in different directions. You are the people who actually in essence have attacked the other party by casting a view they have mental health problems. That is an attack and there is no getting around that.
No we havnt publicly named them and branded them so everyone knows who we are talking about so we havnt attacked them at all! If you read their messages you can clearly see not all the lights are on upstairs ! We are the ones who was attacked with abuse from them not the other way around but hey everyone's got an opinion I don't grudge that! But this is going off the subject a bit as it was meant to see how many other people have encounte_ed the same problem! We haven't personally attacked anybody! "
I will respectfully agree to disagree with you. Imagine if the foot was on the other foot and you read this, and you knew it was about you. Would you like this being publically discussed, I'm sure you wouldn't. |
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"There is no there side lol they're just very weird and obsurd! and I'm not posting there name on here I said feel like doing it as to warn others I think they really do have mental health problems
If course there is always another side!! And usually the truth is somewhere in the middle. Even though you haven't named them publically saying you think they have mental health issues is just plain wrong in my opinion and really doesn't cast you in a positive light.
No there really isn't another side trust me! They mailed us not the other way around they assumed without even asking us we was going to meet them? Wtf! And then started being all weird wanting to know who we are meeting and to prove it with a verification and when we told them where to go they got all abusive! Not sure how you could say there's two sides! If only you could read what they was putting! Proper proper strange!
The point is that nobody but you can read the other side!!
So as I say there are always two sides to any story, all that you have put is heresay and I'm sorry, whilst you may be correct, the other couple may not be aware of this thread to defend themselves if they wished to do so.
So yes there is another side.
All very well but this forum is not about attacking the said couple it was started to see if anyone else has encounte_ed weird couples! I know you think there is two sides as fair enough you havnt seen messages just our word but that is not what this forum is about
You are the ones who posted this. Once posted the forum can always go off in different directions. You are the people who actually in essence have attacked the other party by casting a view they have mental health problems. That is an attack and there is no getting around that.
No we havnt publicly named them and branded them so everyone knows who we are talking about so we havnt attacked them at all! If you read their messages you can clearly see not all the lights are on upstairs ! We are the ones who was attacked with abuse from them not the other way around but hey everyone's got an opinion I don't grudge that! But this is going off the subject a bit as it was meant to see how many other people have encounte_ed the same problem! We haven't personally attacked anybody!
I will respectfully agree to disagree with you. Imagine if the foot was on the other foot and you read this, and you knew it was about you. Would you like this being publically discussed, I'm sure you wouldn't."
Think if I behaved the way they have and messaged the stuff they did I wouldn't expect anything less! |
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